Today 3 young people were arrested who abused elderly people in a nursing home and also made videos of it. I get angry about that.π‘π π‘π π―π¦ What do you think about that? Would you send your parents there? Would you place a camera in their room? Do you think they deserve a big punishment?forum: @Pennarossa2024, @Yue @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @elizabethtay836, @martutuni, @Roseeeee, @-Kiki-, @Txya, @Lianshen, @LandRoverDiscovery2
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Sadly those things happen very often, sometimes it's just the single worker to do that, other times is the entire structure to allow all of this. Punish all the responsibles would be the best thing to do, of course.
@Simone724 yes it excist everywhere now i find it so hard because lots of oeoole dont have family to look after . My grandparents lived bye my oncle untill they died and im really happy about that . I dont wanne they lived at a home
Today 3 young people were arrested who abused elderly people in a nursing home and also made videos of it. I get angry about that.π‘π π‘π π―π¦ What do you think about that? Would you send your parents there? Would you place a camera in their room? Do you think they deserve a big punishment?forum: @Pennarossa2024, @Yue @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer, @martutuni, @Roseeeee, @-Kiki-, @Txya, @Lianshen, @LandRoverDiscovery2
Nursing homes are the problem. They're places where you send old people to die, of course they're going to be horrible! Instead of sending your parents there, you should take care of them, like they did for you when you were a child. It's just paying them back for all they did for you, yet so many people prefer to send their parents in bland places where they live cramped up with other old people and have almost no services because they are too many. I understand that nursing homes are useful for people who don't have children to take care of them when they can't do it themselves anymore, but people shouldn't sent their parents there when you can clearly do better than the employees there without too much effort. It's cruel to make people go there to die when they will clearly be unhappy in nursing homes. Why would anyone want their family to pass away depressed and with regrets?
About the 3 young people, of course they are horrible beings, but they aren't much worse than most other people in society nowadays. They simply didn't mask their abuse under the excuse that 'it's normal now'.
Nursing homes are the problem. They're places where you send old people to die, of course they're going to be horrible! Instead of sending your parents there, you should take care of them, like they did for you when you were a child. It's just paying them back for all they did for you, yet so many people prefer to send their parents in bland places where they live cramped up with other old people and have almost no services because they are too many. I understand that nursing homes are useful for people who don't have children to take care of them when they can't do it themselves anymore, but people shouldn't sent their parents there when you can clearly do better than the employees there without too much effort. It's cruel to make people go there to die when they will clearly be unhappy in nursing homes. Why would anyone want their family to pass away depressed and with regrets?
About the 3 young people, of course they are horrible beings, but they aren't much worse than most other people in society nowadays. They simply didn't mask their abuse under the excuse that 'it's normal now'.
I don't agree with that. People with dementia for example basically need constant care, or at least someone constantly around them to help with basic practical things or emotional support etc. Working adult children simply cannot provide for the care their parents need. It's cruel not to provide for that. And on top of that; it's not true every person hates a nursing home. At least they have other people their age around them, which is better than letting them die alone in their home e.g.. And not everyone wants their parents in their home, especially when they need a lot of care or they just can't stand seeing their parent loose their capabilities. You can call it selfish, but it's also understandable. It doesn't make someone a bad person just for making that decision.
@-Kiki- someone at a home told me that sometimes they dont give breakfast at the dementia people because they dont know it π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π±π±π±π±π±π±and they family payed everyday 7.5euro for breakfast i cried alot because why people do that with people and yes it was in belgium
@-Kiki- someone at a home told me that sometimes they dont give breakfast at the dementia people because they dont know it π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π‘π±π±π±π±π±π±and they family payed everyday 7.5euro for breakfast i cried alot because why people do that with people and yes it was in belgium
I know that sucks and I'm not trying to say that's okay, but what I mean is; there honestly are people trying their best working in a nursing home and succeed in taking care of the elderly. Everywhere you have rotten apples and it's sad there isn't a strict selection for people in order to work there. The lack of employees preserve having a selection procedure, which should actually be there, as the elderly are very vulnerable and dependent on their caretakers.
I know that sucks and I'm not trying to say that's okay, but what I mean is; there honestly are people trying their best working in a nursing home and succeed in taking care of the elderly. Everywhere you have rotten apples and it's sad there isn't a strict selection for people in order to work there. The lack of employees preserve having a selection procedure, which should actually be there, as the elderly are very vulnerable and dependent on their caretakers.
Its the lack of the nurse who is responsable. They are always in the office instant of looking wath the others doing
Today 3 young people were arrested who abused elderly people in a nursing home and also made videos of it. I get angry about that.π‘π π‘π π―π¦ What do you think about that? Would you send your parents there? Would you place a camera in their room? Do you think they deserve a big punishment?forum: @Pennarossa2024, @Yue @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer, @martutuni, @Roseeeee, @-Kiki-, @Txya, @Lianshen, @LandRoverDiscovery2
These kind of people is why Iβm hugely worried about my grandparents π luckily they live in a town so if anything should happen to them we would know immediately. I just cant believe people feel so free to abuse the elderly or children!
These kind of people is why Iβm hugely worried about my grandparents π luckily they live in a town so if anything should happen to them we would know immediately. I just cant believe people feel so free to abuse the elderly or children!
Yes im scared to but my son already say mama if you comming old you can lived with me π₯°ππ€²
1. OMG WHAT A RESPECTLESS Bi*tCHES!
2. THATS RESPECTLESS!
3. NO WAY I WOULD DO THAT ESPECIALLY AFTER SUCH AN ACCIDENT!
4. No that is litreally privacy abusement
5. YES INDEED THEY DESERVE A BIIG PUNISHMENT
Today 3 young people were arrested who abused elderly people in a nursing home and also made videos of it. I get angry about that.π‘π π‘π π―π¦ What do you think about that? Would you send your parents there? Would you place a camera in their room? Do you think they deserve a big punishment?forum: @Pennarossa2024, @Yue_ @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer, @martutuni, @Roseeeee, @-Kiki-, @Txya, @Lianshen, @LandRoverDiscovery2
Today 3 young people were arrested who abused elderly people in a nursing home and also made videos of it. I get angry about that.π‘π π‘π π―π¦ What do you think about that? Would you send your parents there? Would you place a camera in their room? Do you think they deserve a big punishment?forum: @Pennarossa2024, @Yue @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer, @martutuni, @Roseeeee, @-Kiki-, @Txya, @Lianshen, @LandRoverDiscovery2
Those nursing homes never have been very nice places and it's common knowledge that there always have been mistreatments. I can't stress it enough, but boomers killed their parents and assassinate their children; and nursing homes typically are one of those instruments; which they will pay for too.
Now, things get worse when you completely cut the generational transmission and teachings of respect for others, common decency, some sort of collectivism (without asking for more, just life in society), and bring people from other places without checking their record: who they are, why they come, what did they do... I only expect things to get worse with time, unfortunately.