👰‍♀️❤️ The perfect wedding 💍🥰

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️ Sorry that i did not make many forums the last weeks but i was a bit busy bc in two days i go on holiday!! 😛 BUTTT this is a forum i wanted to make for a long time. Bc i chatted with @martutuni about that this is a nice topic for a forum!!! And for another super nice friend on PPG i wanted to make this forum!! 🙂 Ok so i have 10 questions about the perfect wedding!!!

If you are married: please tell what you think!!!!!!!!! And if you are not married but want to get married or not: i hope that you like to read this forum or maybe even answer the questions. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏

❣️ If you are married: can you answer the questions what happened for you or what you wanted?

❣️ If you are not married yet: can you answer the questions what is your dream?

1️⃣ Do you want to get married in the future? Or are you already married perhaps?

2️⃣ Does the guy need to ask the father from the bride for permission to get married (bc that is normal or tradition or people do that often)?

3️⃣ What outfit do you think would be nice for you? And what outfit do you think would be nice for your partner? If you are the bride: do you buy the dress with family and maybe your best friends? And if you are the groom: do you buy the suit alone or with others?

4️⃣ What do you think would be the nicest place for you to get married? Like a special place in your hometown or maybe a destination wedding like on a far island? Would you choose a building or maybe a park or the beach?

5️⃣ Before you get married: would you like a bachelor or bachelorette party? What kind of things would be nice?

6️⃣ Will you give special vows at the wedding?

7️⃣ What romantic song is nice for the first dance as married couple? Is it like super dancy or more romantic and sweet?

8️⃣ How big is your wedding? And is it the ceremony and a party or like several days? And do you give a wedding gift to guests?

9️⃣ Do you have a separate ring bc you are engaged or something else? Or a wedding ring? If you are the guy: do you buy it alone or with smb else?

🔟 What is the nicest place for your honeymoon? And what kind of souvenir would be nice to bring from the honeymoon?

Thank you very much everybody who wants to answer!!!! Even if you dont want to get married: you can say it in 1 but still answer some things that you like or not!! 😛

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1️⃣ Yess! I want to get married. The idea of having my own familly is nice 😊

2️⃣ I hope that the GIRL ill be getting married, doesnt have to ask her parrents permission for it.

3️⃣ We wear what we want; the wending is a big deal, clothing isnt.

4️⃣ Idk, but if my partner agrees with it, somewhere where we dont have public. Just my partner and I.

5️⃣ I hope myself no party.

6️⃣What are "vows"?

7️⃣I dont really know, but i guess ill be going for celtic music "with woman vocals" ore even the very best; Aira da Pedra 🤩😍🥰😊

8️⃣I hope to get married on a quit place, probably in nature, withbonly my partner and i; no public, unless my parrner wants it. We'll be creating a party for it one ore few days after the wedding.

9️⃣If i need a ring for the wedding, ill be probably buying it myself.

🔟I guess with this you mean wedding destination? That would be in France where my familly lives, in Romania my dream country, ore where ever my partner wants.

By the way: this is atleast partly how my parrebts got married, abd i would like the same.

1️⃣ Yess! I want to get married. The idea of having my own familly is nice 😊

2️⃣ I hope that the GIRL ill be getting married, doesnt have to ask her parrents permission for it.

3️⃣ We wear what we want; the wending is a big deal, clothing isnt.

4️⃣ Idk, but if my partner agrees with it, somewhere where we dont have public. Just my partner and I.

5️⃣ I hope myself no party.

6️⃣What are "vows"?

7️⃣I dont really know, but i guess ill be going for celtic music "with woman vocals" ore even the very best; Aira da Pedra 🤩😍🥰😊

8️⃣I hope to get married on a quit place, probably in nature, withbonly my partner and i; no public, unless my parrner wants it. We'll be creating a party for it one ore few days after the wedding.

9️⃣If i need a ring for the wedding, ill be probably buying it myself.

🔟I guess with this you mean wedding destination? That would be in France where my familly lives, in Romania my dream country, ore where ever my partner wants.

By the way: this is atleast partly how my parrebts got married, abd i would like the same.

you don't ask permission to your parents to get married in 2025 anymore...

you don't ask permission to your parents to get married in 2025 anymore...

Not in all societies…

Not in all societies…

It’s fucking weird anyways

rose @Idkbro normal people like you and me dont have to ask parrents permission to get married (yes, i agree; asking parrents to get married is silly) but i believe there are still people who have to ask there parrents permission for it. And i also believe that there are still parrents who decide for there son/daughter to whom he/she gets married.

1️⃣ Do you want to get married in the future? Or are you already married perhaps?

Yes, I would like that, but I'm a bit scared of the big celebration. I don't think it's necessary, and even if it's family, there's wayyy too many people watching you. But at the same time I looove puffy dresses, so if I get married it would probably be a private wedding with only close family.

2️⃣ Does the guy need to ask the father from the bride for permission to get married (bc that is normal or tradition or people do that often)?

No, it's not necessary, but of course it's better if the father approves. Although it's APPROVAL and not permission, because it's possible to get married even if the father doesn't like it.

3️⃣ What outfit do you think would be nice for you? And what outfit do you think would be nice for your partner? If you are the bride: do you buy the dress with family and maybe your best friends? And if you are the groom: do you buy the suit alone or with others?

I would probably go buy the dress with my mother and sister, but I don't know about friends. I think picking the wedding dress is kind of personal, so I'd rather there isn't a bajillion people telling me what to wear. The people I bring with me can make suggestions and point out flaws in what I pick, but in the end, it's going to be my decision. For my partner, it'll be up to him. He can show up in a chicken costume if he wants, it's his choice. I think both traditional wedding outfits and original outfits are great, so it doesn't matter much to me.

And I would like a puffy dress that doesn't drag on the ground, so it doesn't get dirty. I don't know about the colour yet, but I don't really care if it's white or not, as long as it's a pale shade(for example light blue, pastel coloured, light beige...).

4️⃣ What do you think would be the nicest place for you to get married? Like a special place in your hometown or maybe a destination wedding like on a far island? Would you choose a building or maybe a park or the beach?

There is a garden near my current home(Jardin Botanique Roger-Van den Hende), it's very pretty in early summer/late spring. It would also save a lot of money in flowers, since there are some everywhere. But I'm still very far from getting married, so I'll see when I get there. Maybe I'll live in another city by then, I don't know.

5️⃣ Before you get married: would you like a bachelor or bachelorette party? What kind of things would be nice?

I don't think getting married is such a big deal. In my opinion, the wedding ceremony is more for the guests, so they know it's official now. I don't think having two parties for the guests is necessary at all, although maybe it would be nice to spend time with friends and use the bachelorette party as an excuse(it wouldn't be anything big though, just a hang out with friends)

6️⃣ Will you give special vows at the wedding?

I'll see when I get there. I don't know what the future will bring, so maybe I will find that there is something super important to say that isn't included already, but usually I avoid speaking in public as much as I can.

7️⃣ What romantic song is nice for the first dance as married couple? Is it like super dancy or more romantic and sweet?

I don't know. Probably something with no lyrics and no instrumentals, that either sounds cheerful or calm. I don't have an exact song in mind, but maybe my partner will have an idea.

8️⃣ How big is your wedding? And is it the ceremony and a party or like several days? And do you give a wedding gift to guests?

It'll be one day(maybe just a few hours, including the party and the ceremony...) and as small as possible, with only close family and MAYBE some close friends. I don't know if there will be gifts for the guests, I think it'll depends on how poor I am when I get there.

9️⃣ Do you have a separate ring bc you are engaged or something else? Or a wedding ring? If you are the guy: do you buy it alone or with smb else?

I think it's kind of stupid that you have to buy two rings, one for the engagement and one for the actual wedding. Just propose with something meaningful(like for example a dragon-shaped ring because I love dragons, or a nerdy ring that comes from a show I enjoy...) and I'll wear it all the time, including at the wedding! I don't care if it was five dollars or a thousand, as long as I like it, I don't think anything else really matters. I don't like wearing jewelry anyway, and if it's too expensive I would be scared to carry it around and lose it, so I would just end up not wearing it, and it would be such a waste...

That doesn't mean I would be happy with an ugly piece of junk, though. It still has to be pretty and I'll be disappointed(maybe even angry?) if it looks like it came from the dollar store.

🔟 What is the nicest place for your honeymoon? And what kind of souvenir would be nice to bring from the honeymoon?

Probably a place away from civilization. Not completely deserted, of course, I mean that I don't want to go in a big city. Maybe near a beach, or in a forest? I don't know.

rose @Idkbro normal people like you and me dont have to ask parrents permission to get married (yes, i agree; asking parrents to get married is silly) but i believe there are still people who have to ask there parrents permission for it. And i also believe that there are still parrents who decide for there son/daughter to whom he/she gets married.

yes,i know,but it's still very weird to me

Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 and Rose @Idkbro with permission i mean that the dad from the bride gives it to the husband so not to yourself. So for example if Mare wants to marry Rose (it is just example but it is also fun!!!!! 😛) than i mean does Mare need to ask it first from Rose's dad? In my country that is not a rule BUTTT it is more like tradition at least on a tv show i like to watch but it also happens really. So i think it is more like funny tradition in my country but of course in other countries it can be more serious too. But i am not suggesting that Rose and Mare marry!!! 😛 😛

Yes, I would like that, but I'm a bit scared of the big celebration. I don't think it's necessary, and even if it's family, there's wayyy too many people watching you. But at the same time I looove puffy dresses, so if I get married it would probably be a private wedding with only close family.

No, it's not necessary, but of course it's better if the father approves. Although it's APPROVAL and not permission, because it's possible to get married even if the father doesn't like it.

I would probably go buy the dress with my mother and sister, but I don't know about friends. I think picking the wedding dress is kind of personal, so I'd rather there isn't a bajillion people telling me what to wear. The people I bring with me can make suggestions and point out flaws in what I pick, but in the end, it's going to be my decision. For my partner, it'll be up to him. He can show up in a chicken costume if he wants, it's his choice. I think both traditional wedding outfits and original outfits are great, so it doesn't matter much to me.

And I would like a puffy dress that doesn't drag on the ground, so it doesn't get dirty. I don't know about the colour yet, but I don't really care if it's white or not, as long as it's a pale shade(for example light blue, pastel coloured, light beige...).

There is a garden near my current home(Jardin Botanique Roger-Van den Hende), it's very pretty in early summer/late spring. It would also save a lot of money in flowers, since there are some everywhere. But I'm still very far from getting married, so I'll see when I get there. Maybe I'll live in another city by then, I don't know.

I don't think getting married is such a big deal. In my opinion, the wedding ceremony is more for the guests, so they know it's official now. I don't think having two parties for the guests is necessary at all, although maybe it would be nice to spend time with friends and use the bachelorette party as an excuse(it wouldn't be anything big though, just a hang out with friends)

I'll see when I get there. I don't know what the future will bring, so maybe I will find that there is something super important to say that isn't included already, but usually I avoid speaking in public as much as I can.

I don't know. Probably something with no lyrics and no instrumentals, that either sounds cheerful or calm. I don't have an exact song in mind, but maybe my partner will have an idea.

It'll be one day(maybe just a few hours, including the party and the ceremony...) and as small as possible, with only close family and MAYBE some close friends. I don't know if there will be gifts for the guests, I think it'll depends on how poor I am when I get there.

I think it's kind of stupid that you have to buy two rings, one for the engagement and one for the actual wedding. Just propose with something meaningful(like for example a dragon-shaped ring because I love dragons, or a nerdy ring that comes from a show I enjoy...) and I'll wear it all the time, including at the wedding! I don't care if it was five dollars or a thousand, as long as I like it, I don't think anything else really matters. I don't like wearing jewelry anyway, and if it's too expensive I would be scared to carry it around and lose it, so I would just end up not wearing it, and it would be such a waste...

That doesn't mean I would be happy with an ugly piece of junk, though. It still has to be pretty and I'll be disappointed(maybe even angry?) if it looks like it came from the dollar store.

Probably a place away from civilization. Not completely deserted, of course, I mean that I don't want to go in a big city. Maybe near a beach, or in a forest? I don't know.

I think the garden what you described for the wedding location is very beautiful. I still have to answer the questions but i would prefer a small garden or park but not public that it is like you become a circus and strangers look and laugh. But if it is for example a private garden or park and you are with a small group instead of a SUPER BIG wedding with more than 200 people i would prefer the smaller wedding in a modest place for the wedding location. So i agree with you 1000000% about that!!! 🌳🌸🌼🌻🌳

no! i dont want to ask first her father! i think that if i have to do that; 1 ore its not gonna workout 2 ore it is gonna work out, but we'll get married secretly, without anybody knowing about it.

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️ Sorry that i did not make many forums the last weeks but i was a bit busy bc in two days i go on holiday!! 😛 BUTTT this is a forum i wanted to make for a long time. Bc i chatted with @martutuni about that this is a nice topic for a forum!!! And for another super nice friend on PPG i wanted to make this forum!! 🙂 Ok so i have 10 questions about the perfect wedding!!!

If you are married: please tell what you think!!!!!!!!! And if you are not married but want to get married or not: i hope that you like to read this forum or maybe even answer the questions. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏

❣️ If you are married: can you answer the questions what happened for you or what you wanted?

❣️ If you are not married yet: can you answer the questions what is your dream?

well i just saw your whole questions in this forum, and it's super cute! talking about wedding day, it reminds me of my old obsession to become a bride, but now it's no longer an obsession, more into our dream. since me and my bf have same principle, that we date to marry.

1️⃣ Do you want to get married in the future? Or are you already married perhaps?

not yet, but honestly we planned to get married someday ( max ) when i reach 30. why 30? cause in our opinion, 30 is the ideal ages when everything is starting/closer to become more stable, like financially stable, mentally stable, more honed mindset, wiser than before, most stable & mature.

so we are not a couple who choose to get married just because we couldn't hold our lust any longer or because bad decision/accident, but we will get married because we truly knows what our plan, what's our reason, goals, needs, everything. Everytime we are on date, we often deeptalk about our plan, our relationship future, we match, try and try to become the self that we need for each other in the relationship, for what we worth for.

maybe it takes longer or slow burning but at least we walk with certainty, caution, consideration, clarity and honesty. cause to build it is not as easy as we ask our partner to buy us an ice cream..

2️⃣ Does the guy need to ask the father from the bride for permission to get married (bc that is normal or tradition or people do that often)?

In my relationship, both of our parents have been very supportive and have been waiting for when it will come (the wedding), So actually it all depends on the child, whether they have mutual consent or not. they also trusting everything to us, including decision about the proposal, the wedding date, the reception, everything.

Cause both of our parents more value to the process, they watch us from the way we treat each other, love each other, so when (someday) my bf finally decided to propose me, it's no longer permission that our parent give, instead will ask

3️⃣ What outfit do you think would be nice for you? And what outfit do you think would be nice for your partner? If you are the bride: do you buy the dress with family and maybe your best friends? And if you are the groom: do you buy the suit alone or with others?

well, i'll ask my mom and sisters to accompany me while buying the dress, since i would like to surprise my bf haha but honestly, this is kinda my dream wedding gown & suit for him:

for the suit, ofcourse without the cape, and the colour i would like to adjust it into more cool tone and calmer color one.

4️⃣ What do you think would be the nicest place for you to get married? Like a special place in your hometown or maybe a destination wedding like on a far island? Would you choose a building or maybe a park or the beach?

at first, i think it would be best if we get married on the night beach under the stars. But, after seeing some ideas on pinterest or google, i think it's too casual, but then i found this:

well it may not really on beach, but the decorations on the hall is night beach (under the stars sky) theme, which is soooo aesthetic!

5️⃣ Before you get married: would you like a bachelor or bachelorette party? What kind of things would be nice?

nope, i prefer after party one. the after party will full of fun game, yummy foods and dessert, and also my cocktail recommendation (i knew the recipes of cocktail that would fit everyone taste), and ofcourse the afterparty only for my closest friends.

6️⃣ Will you give special vows at the wedding?

vow like on altar? I don't think so. but in my wedding, it would have speech by me, my bf, my family and friends about everything that related to the relationship & wedding days.

7️⃣ What romantic song is nice for the first dance as married couple? Is it like super dancy or more romantic and sweet?

i honestly expect for a classical song, and in the dance he disney-lift-me, since in real life he can lift me up. well i want super romantic wedding!

8️⃣ How big is your wedding? And is it the ceremony and a party or like several days? And do you give a wedding gift to guests?

hmmmm i don't think it'll be super big like for up to 1000 people. but ofcourse the reception at the hall and the after party at the villa.

9️⃣ Do you have a separate ring bc you are engaged or something else? Or a wedding ring? If you are the guy: do you buy it alone or with smb else?

separate ring? like maybe different ring? ofcourse. in my relationship i may never demand my bf to buy me designer bag, clothes or any expensive stuffs/foods, but i only demand for ring, like promise ring, engagement ring & wedding ring. cause these days people getting crazier, they really love to steal someone else's partner out of their insecurity. cause they believe if they succeed in stealing, it would validate them that they are more beautiful/handsome and more powerful that the actual partner, which is super narcissistic.

🔟 What is the nicest place for your honeymoon? And what kind of souvenir would be nice to bring from the honeymoon?

hmmmmmm honestly, i wish i could have honeymoon at the resort near bioluminescent beach, and then visit the beach & play on night cause it's so beautiful.

and thankyou @Yue_ for this forum, i had so much fun in answering the question!

I really ❤️❤️ your answers a LOTTTT @mayuuram!!!! 😊😊 It is a super coincidence that i made this forum!! 😛 I will also answer the questions this evening but your answers made that i want to think again abt some questions what i prefer now!!!!!!! 🙂

haha really? why and what is it?

haha really? why and what is it?

The most abt the beach wedding bc i thought it would not be a good idea if you wear a white dress and everything gets super messy also with guests and it can storm or you can have a lot of ppl on the beach who are strangers and they think your wedding is like a circus maybe. BUTTTT it can also be privately and i also like a LOTTTT what you said abt a wedding in the night under stars. Bc i always thought like what is normal here that you have a wedding during the day and after that photos and normally a dinner and a party in the evening. That really happens bc i have been now at several weddings already. But i like also that in your idea it is different and you can change what is normal and what you always thought about it!!!!

So these are my answers:

1️⃣ Do you want to get married in the future? Or are you already married perhaps?

For me yes i would like that BUTTT you dont know it of course if your partner also wants to marry you. So if he thinks that is ok than absolutely yes. And i hope that it happens when my parents are alive. It is not possible that my grandmom in China can come bc she is already very sick now and weak. But i hope that it maybe happens before my parents are very old. But now my dad is still strong and he can eat the WHOLE dinner alone. 😛 😛

2️⃣ Does the guy need to ask the father from the bride for permission to get married (bc that is normal or tradition or people do that often)?

I think my dad will make a bit joke of it!!!! So if he wants to marry me that he asks my dad and he will act like he is super strict and doubts it. But that it is more a joke to tease him!!!!!!! 🤭🤭😋

3️⃣ What outfit do you think would be nice for you? And what outfit do you think would be nice for your partner? If you are the bride: do you buy the dress with family and maybe your best friends? And if you are the groom: do you buy the suit alone or with others?

For me i like modestly so not a big Belle like dress in white or super ballroom but instead more modestly that you dont look like two sizes bigger!!!! And for me in white. Also red is my favourite colour and colour of luck but i prefer in white. And he can choose himself. And i would like to buy and try everything with my mom and my best friends and also my aunt.

4️⃣ What do you think would be the nicest place for you to get married? Like a special place in your hometown or maybe a destination wedding like on a far island? Would you choose a building or maybe a park or the beach?

Like i wrote above i first thought that the beach is not a good idea bc of other visitors of the beach and things can get messy or it is super windy. But maybe it can be more private and small and that smt can be done about the sand like you put something on it before you place chairs and other things. So it could still be a good idea. But it can also be a small park which is not too much space. I dont think it is a good idea to go for a SUPER big building or a huge park but a small area. That is for me important and only with family and best friends. So i prefer it is not bigger than maybe 60 persons instead of 200 people or maybe even more.

5️⃣ Before you get married: would you like a bachelor or bachelorette party? What kind of things would be nice?

If he wants a party that is the choice of him and his friends. I do not want to say anything abt that. But for myself what my friends choose. And if they do that i hope maybe something small and nice that you can really talk together and they can SCARRREEE me but not for example that they embarrass you i hope. So perhaps a high tea with nice stories or that you can do smt similar but not too big.

6️⃣ Will you give special vows at the wedding?

It is part i fear the most bc EVERYBODY looks at you and listens and you can really embarrass it if you say things wrongly or nobody can hear you. But it is important bc i can make promises to him and i think it is VERY important and everybody who hears it can know if you keep your promises.

7️⃣ What romantic song is nice for the first dance as married couple? Is it like super dancy or more romantic and sweet?

This is the only question i really want to keep it a secret. Bc it is a very personal choice and it is first dance. But of course he also needs to think it is a nice idea!!!!!!!!! What i would prefer is not a super showy dance but more romantically and close if he also thinks that is nice.

8️⃣ How big is your wedding? And is it the ceremony and a party or like several days? And do you give a wedding gift to guests?

What @mayuuram said is really nice so i am now not really sure. But in any case it should not be very big. But perhaps an evening wedding and super small and romantical is also really nice under stars. But in that case really small so maybe 50 persons. I have to think more abt that but the idea is really nice i think!!!!!!!!! And i already know what kind of wedding gift would be super personal and nice i think!!!!!! But that is also a secret!!!!!!!

9️⃣ Do you have a separate ring bc you are engaged or something else? Or a wedding ring? If you are the guy: do you buy it alone or with smb else?

I think that he should make choices about the rings. I hope that it is small and modest so not super shiny or much. And it does NOTTTT have to be expensive at all. Just what he thinks is small and nice.

🔟 What is the nicest place for your honeymoon? And what kind of souvenir would be nice to bring from the honeymoon?

I think a place that is super romantic and where there are not a lot of people. Maybe in Asia bc in that way the wedding is also a little bit Asia and in that case maybe a super special island or a nice place. But the most important is maybe how you are together and that is more important than the place. And the souvenir i think maybe something that you can only get on the honeymoon in that place. So for example what people in that place do for couples to be in love and that is a nice souvenir!!!! 😊😊❤️❤️❤️

awww cute!

anw about beach, actually each beach has different type, like not every beach has strong waves, there are medium level or even slow waves. i seen lot of local artist that married at the beach, but the decorations still didn't match my preference. or maybe i haven't found it yet? idk let's see!

and yes, for @Yue_ i wonder how cute you'll be in the wedding dress, please invite me in future if you wanna get married! hhh

awww cute!

anw about beach, actually each beach has different type, like not every beach has strong waves, there are medium level or even slow waves. i seen lot of local artist that married at the beach, but the decorations still didn't match my preference. or maybe i haven't found it yet? idk let's see!

and yes, for @Yue_ i wonder how cute you'll be in the wedding dress, please invite me in future if you wanna get married! hhh

YESSSSS!!!!!!! But you also must invite us all from the forum when you are married!!! 🙂 I really think that what you said abt the beach but also in the evening that it is a very nice idea!!! I thought abt that more and it is nice bc if you have a SMALL group than in the evening it is more romantical. BUTTTT if the group is super large than i would not want to marry in the evening bc that makes it completely different i think. But i prefer a small group anyway like for example 50 or 60 people. In that case it can be really special bc everybody normally marries during the day in my country.

yep someday! i have plan to make such a fun after-party, because during the after party we won't be mixing with my & his family/relatives, so it'll be full of youthful & fun

In my opinion, the perfect wedding is the one never taking place in my life.

so, basically, it's single life.. or what?