These comments bring back entertaining memories of clumsy initial steps in romance as a self proclaimed Don Juan. The bold attempts to conquer the heart of my lady of choice, must have looked like a cartoon in slow motion. Some of my failures in high school were epic! But fortune tends to favour the bold…
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hhh the diction you use is very interesting, sir @Savi2024 and especially for word conquer hhh so happy for you! do you have one, two or some tips to any single ladies/gentlemen about conquering our crush?
I am happy to read that I am still eligible to share tips despite having labeled my own failures in high school as epic. Perhaps three suggestions of things to avoid in primary/middle/high school or life in general:
- Do not act as a Don Juan when your hairstyle is reminiscent of a porcupine (as applied to me).
- When swapping panini stickers (or whatever you collect) in primary school: do not swap 1-1 (or worse) but instead consider to use a heavily discounted rate (1-20 or something more palatable to a chivalrous youngster).
- When heralding your romantic take on life in a card, letter or scroll…perhaps consider the importance of your mesmerizing crush being actually able to read your handwriting.
If a lady is willing to tolerate these (and many more) mistakes as an excusable ‘faux pas’, consider courting her for the rest of your life.
1️⃣ What are do's and what are don'ts for cards, gifts and dates? What would YOU like and what NOT?
Don't expect anything? If things come, then it's great. If it doesn't, maybe that person has other things to do or that it is difficult to plan a day like that. What matters is not Valentine's day but the overall love you receive; so a year and not a day.
Provided that I am in a restaurant that is full to start with? Leave, both the place and the person probably 🙃2️⃣ You are with a date in a restaurant and it is FULL. Your date grabs a microphone and sings a romantic song when everybody looks!! What do you do (listen, laugh, smile, hide, run or something else)?
3️⃣ Do you only write a message for your crush or also for your closest friends?
Only 1 person, and if it was only me, I wouldn't celebrate it because I find it over commercial and, too often, an excuse to show your love a day per year.
4️⃣ What would you do if YOU get a Valentine's Day card from your best friend in school, colleague or your neighbour (the first one that comes in your head)?
One of my best mate is a woman. Receiving a card from her would make me extremely uneasy and force me to cut the ties we have. That would destroy our friendship.
5️⃣ You get a super large teddy bear at school or work (but no idea from who). Do you take it home on your bike or in a bus or walking or car?
I leave it there. The person obviously has a wrong idea.
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All in all, I don't like Valentine's day, even if it probably makes me a spoilsport to say so. It feels like being forced to act lovey dovey on that specific day and do things that I would be happy to do otherwise, on a random day. All the marketting about it is truly repelling me too, and the expectations for it is only an unecessary source of stress when you are with someone for whom that day is important. It's also too anglosaxon for me.
Thank you for replying @Savi2024!! 😊😊 It is super funny that your hair looks like a procupine!! 😛 I looked on google and in dutch you mean egel right?
And @Lianshen i understand what you mean because others also dont really like Valentine's Day. BUTTTT in our school it is super important and embarrassing and funny and romantic and silly everything at the same time!! But now it is over and now the first thing is vacation over a week!! 🙂
I am happy to read that I am still eligible to share tips despite having labeled my own failures in high school as epic. Perhaps three suggestions of things to avoid in primary/middle/high school or life in general:
- Do not act as a Don Juan when your hairstyle is reminiscent of a porcupine (as applied to me).
- When swapping panini stickers (or whatever you collect) in primary school: do not swap 1-1 (or worse) but instead consider to use a heavily discounted rate (1-20 or something more palatable to a chivalrous youngster).
- When heralding your romantic take on life in a card, letter or scroll…perhaps consider the importance of your mesmerizing crush being actually able to read your handwriting.
If a lady is willing to tolerate these (and many more) mistakes as an excusable ‘faux pas’, consider courting her for the rest of your life.
😭😭😭 omg i'm dying of laughter seeing this, you must be one of popular guy in your school hhhh your audacity and efforts deserves a thumbs up 👍🏻✨
I know that some of my friends dont like Valentine's Day or you have a relationship or you prefer maybe a card from another person than me, but i STILL wanted to really give these Valentine's cards to my best friends here and other people that i really like (I hope that i dont miss anybody): @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @Idkbro, @Mulanyyy, @Fleurke, @mayuuram, @psysarah15, @Annika2007, @LandRoverDiscovery2, @-Kiki-, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @HappyvomSee, @Lawrence11, @Sabri_KC, @Lianshen, @NILU1234, @Homokillers-PGaf, @Melifekyybor, @Kotyaka2023, @elizabethtay836, @dameauxviolettes, @Borboletagirl
thankyou yue for always be sweetest, nicest and wisest sister i know, eventhought you are in a situation of disagreement, you are able to convey it diplomatically. hope when you get older you still have that qualities. cause this quality is like a gem that needs to be treasured and treat nicely.
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I know that some of my friends dont like Valentine's Day or you have a relationship or you prefer maybe a card from another person than me, but i STILL wanted to really give these Valentine's cards to my best friends here and other people that i really like (I hope that i dont miss anybody): @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @Roseeeee, @Esma-Nur, @Fleurke, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Annika2007, @LandRoverDiscovery2, @-Kiki-, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @HappyvomSee, @Lawrence11, @Sabri_KC, @Lianshen, @NILU1234, @Homokillers-PGaf, @Melifekyybor, @Kotyaka2023, @allstarcheer, @viochka, @Borboletagirl
Thank you, @Yue_ , you are tremendously courteous as always. Happy Valentine's Day to you, too!
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I know that some of my friends dont like Valentine's Day or you have a relationship or you prefer maybe a card from another person than me, but i STILL wanted to really give these Valentine's cards to my best friends here and other people that i really like (I hope that i dont miss anybody): @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @Roseeeee, @Esma-Nur, @Fleurke, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Annika2007, @LandRoverDiscovery2, @-Kiki-, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @HappyvomSee, @Lawrence11, @Sabri_KC, @Lianshen, @NILU1234, @Homokillers-PGaf, @Melifekyybor, @Kotyaka2023, @allstarcheer, @viochka, @Borboletagirl
Ooh! Thank you very much!!! I'm very pleased! ☺️
Thank you very much everybody for the nice things that you all wrote!!!!! 🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️ I feel super relieved that everybody does not feel maybe weird about it but everybody is super kind. 🙂
The best sweeeeetest girl on ppg @Yue_ thank youuuuuuu ps do you have a secret lover hhhh
It is maybe a little bit embarrassing so i hope that nobody jokes about it. But i gave three cards (BUTTT they were NOTTT to a crush). And i got two back but one was from my BESTTT friend but one i dont know. And i still dont know it. ANd if if is for example from a good friend you can just laugh together and say thank you. But if you dont know from who it is difficult what you have to do. 🙄🙄 But i also talked with a friend from me this evening and she said it was just funny and that you must relax. But i also want to be respectful about it but i have no idea to who. So that is a bit confusing.
I hope that everybody had a nice day today!! I know it is just a day and you should also think all other days are special in the same way. But in our school Valentine's Day is always SUPERRR important and everybody talks about it.
For here i hope everybody has a very nice weekend!!! 🙋♀️🙋♀️🌈🌈🌞🌞❤️❤️
Thank you very much everybody for the nice things that you all wrote!!!!! 🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️ I feel super relieved that everybody does not feel maybe weird about it but everybody is super kind. 🙂
It is maybe a little bit embarrassing so i hope that nobody jokes about it. But i gave three cards (BUTTT they were NOTTT to a crush). And i got two back but one was from my BESTTT friend but one i dont know. And i still dont know it. ANd if if is for example from a good friend you can just laugh together and say thank you. But if you dont know from who it is difficult what you have to do. 🙄🙄 But i also talked with a friend from me this evening and she said it was just funny and that you must relax. But i also want to be respectful about it but i have no idea to who. So that is a bit confusing.
I hope that everybody had a nice day today!! I know it is just a day and you should also think all other days are special in the same way. But in our school Valentine's Day is always SUPERRR important and everybody talks about it.
For here i hope everybody has a very nice weekend!!! 🙋♀️🙋♀️🌈🌈🌞🌞❤️❤️
Thank youuu so much @Yue_ I wish you this too 💗🥰💕🌹
