🪞 A new mirror 🪞

Hellooo everybody who reads this forum!! 😊😇 Some time ago i made this forum: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10266-the-mirror and i expected only like 2 replies maybe but a lot of ppl posted in the forum and it was very nice to read everything!! 🌈🌞🌈

Im now making a new mirror forum and i hope maybe some ppl who read it want to answer the questions or some of them. Some questions i made myself and some i read online and really like. 🙂 Thank you very much anybody who reads this forum or posts in it!! 🙏🥰

Questions

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

These are tags of some ppl who I hope that want to answer the questions but I hope others will answer too bc it will be nice and funny to read we think!!! THANKSSSS very much!!!! 🙏🥰🥰

@Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Miss_Penpal, @diogenes_cask, @psysarah15, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @PinkiePie, @Torakka, @Vixie, @Lianshen, @_Aizhan_, @Nishu, @chiikawaattack, @Karumen, @Kittenwhiskes, @shirazikira, @lori4na, @Douglasgao, @Hannah-, @Marco_ita89, @rambob, @H_E_A_R_T, @Lir_Elhan, @JanyiahMoon27, @Kotyaka2023, @norevg06, @Pope, @AgDel, @addfreak, @Piwipete, @Parsaa, @Jullian, @Savi2024, @Wildflower-Farm, @Call_me_mattia, @Pennarossa2024, @Diamond22, @Annika2007, @martutuni, @frozenpizza001, @PeterPositiv, @CharlesX, @Yannick_Islander, @BambooBlue, @Viovio_Sheronsky1205, @vtt3613

1. Ohhhoooooooo~~ 😝. Most of the time i look at the mirror and go like 👁️🫦👁️. But then when i click photos I don't know how they come out uglyyyy 😭😭

2. I look in the mirror whenever I pass by one. And I look into mirror before going out for a long time from every angle so I know my fit looks good!!!!

3. I like everything I see in the mirror. And no I'm not unsure about anything 🐣.

4. I can't say anything about that since I've never tried that soooo 🥀

5. I don't knowwwwwwww!!! Maybe mental illness?

6. 70-80%, maybe more sometimes too.

7. Overthinking. It is a small thing but it changed me a LOTTTT!!! 😭

8. No one's gonna love you the way you want to be loved until you've got money😭. Earn moneyyyy!!!!!

9. If i could live again, I'd choose my life again and yeaahhh few things I'll do differently!! 💖✨

Hellooo everybody who reads this forum!! 😊😇 Some time ago i made this forum: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10266-the-mirror and i expected only like 2 replies maybe but a lot of ppl posted in the forum and it was very nice to read everything!! 🌈🌞🌈

Im now making a new mirror forum and i hope maybe some ppl who read it want to answer the questions or some of them. Some questions i made myself and some i read online and really like. 🙂 Thank you very much anybody who reads this forum or posts in it!! 🙏🥰

Questions

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

These are tags of some ppl who I hope that want to answer the questions but I hope others will answer too bc it will be nice and funny to read we think!!! THANKSSSS very much!!!! 🙏🥰🥰

@Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Miss_Penpal, @diogenes_cask, @psysarah15, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @PinkiePie, @Torakka, @Vixie, @Lianshen, @_Aizhan_, @Nishu, @chiikawaattack, @Karumen, @Kittenwhiskes, @shirazikira, @lori4na, @Douglasgao, @Hannah-, @Marco_ita89, @rambob, @H_E_A_R_T, @Lir_Elhan, @JanyiahMoon27, @Kotyaka2023, @norevg06, @Pope, @AgDel, @addfreak, @Piwipete, @Parsaa, @Jullian, @Savi2024, @Wildflower-Farm, @Call_me_mattia, @Pennarossa2024, @Diamond22, @Annika2007, @martutuni, @frozenpizza001, @PeterPositiv, @CharlesX, @Yannick_Islander, @BambooBlue, @Viovio_Sheronsky1205, @vtt3613

1. idk

2. Yeah i love thw mirror

3. Idl i like everything

4. wdym i am literally perfect lol

5. Airplanes

6. All day

7. my eating disorder lol

8. idk maybe don’t be too hard on yourself and dgaf about other’s opinions

9. no my life is perfect

10.no

Hello All,

Questions

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

Hairy, I should shave my beard again hahaha

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

I watch the mirror before I go outside (hair fixed, is somthing on my face etc.).

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

I like to play with my eyes, while I am watching the mirror. I feel comfy with my appearance 🙂

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

I didn't try that, maybe next time

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

I guess politics

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

Every single second I feel true myself

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

I attended a course on accident prevention as part of my school curriculum. Since then, I've been more attentive in traffic.

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

Don't give up

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

I wouldn't change anything. When I change something earlier, the future will change too

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

I have not a question but I wish u all a nice day!

Thanksss everybody who answered the questions already above!!! 🙏🥰🥰 I also still had to answer so these are my answers:

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

Unsure

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

Now just a few times during the day like if you go to the bathroom just very quickly look. But longer in morning and in the evening.

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

Maybe my hair colour and how it falls. Unsure abt some things but MOST my braces. I hate them and also dont like their looks.

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

I dont really do that often bc it feels weird but someone suggested it. But when I do that it feels very strange so for me it does not really help.

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

Sometimes when i am with groups in school we mostly talk what they choose. But with really close friends in small group it is more equal now but in beginning also they decided the most abt what to talk but now we can talk abt anything.

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

In the weekend the most or during the day if you are the most with friends or family and you can feel like yourself and not that ppl judge you a lot all the time.

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

For me when my mentor in school she asked a question abt if im also a high sensitive person and i was like huhh wdym but she explained and we talked abt that a lot. I dont really talk a lot with others abt that topic bc i dont think most ppl understand it or they maybe think it is that you exaggerate stuff. But with her i can talk abt it or she just brings it up and that is really nice and helps a lot.

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

Racism and bullying in some ways. Smb said if others say really bad things abt you or try to get response: pretend that they are like arrows that shot at the buddha and they become flowers. It is very important story in my religion an what my grandmom and some others in my family are too.

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

I would choose my life bc if not i would not have the same parents or others who are really important for me.

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

No bc i made the list already but i am curious if maybe others have questions and if yes i will of course answer those quesitons too. 😛 😛

It looks interesting, I'll try ...let's see.

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

At this moment in my life only one word come to my lips looking at me in the mirror: trepidation

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

I don't look too often in the mirror, mostly while getting ready for work. I spend the necessary amount of time to have my unifom tidy and for me being well gromed

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

I like my beard. Body parts assymetry, I think everyone chrushing the gym can relate with this little obsession.

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

Not in front of the mirror, but I often try to give myself courage by repeating to myself that I am strong, especially at work before facing a tough day or some personal challenge. Sometimes you might see me doing rather embarrassing dances, like the Maori haka, to give myself strength and intimidate my opponents. 😆

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

About my infinite amount of futile hobbies.

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

It depends on whether I am working that day or not. When I’m at work, I can’t be 100% myself, I have to smooth out my rough sides and do what needs to be done. It's not always pleasant, but necessary. .

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

I realised one day that the world is big and life is immense.

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

Don’t mess with time in your life. There is a time for everything, and it’s very important to get that right, otherwise, life will be much harder than it should be.

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

I don’t think I would want to live the same life again, reliving the same experiences. Of course, I could change some things, but at this point it would be better to start completely anew with a different life, in another body, in another place.

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?
No, it was fun thanks @Yue_

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it? STRONG

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror? EVERYTIME IF I GO OUTSIDE I LOOK IN THE MIRROR TO BRUSH MY HEAR

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt? MY EYES 🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that? YES I BELIEVE IN IT ,SO I ALWAYS SAY ALSO A LITTLE PRAYER

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?THE REAL ME

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self? ALWAYS I DONT LIKE FAKE

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT? LIARS

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others? TRUST NOBODY ,AND LOOK AT MY INTERVIEUW TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ME

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently? I WILL BORN AS THE SAME PERSON BUT CHOOSE OTHER PARENTS AND NEVER MARRIED AGAIN

Thank you very much @Fleurke for answering!!! I think you are a super strong woman!!! 💪💪😊🥰

And @faber_88 do you really do those dances that are super funny!! 😛 Maybe you can show it if there is like a GIANT PPG reunion!!! 😛 And what you wrote abt question 8 is really beautiful!!! 🙂

@Yue_ Yes, if we do a reunion I will teach you my dance. 😆

@Yue_ Yes, if we do a reunion I will teach you my dance. 😆

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1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

Hurry up!

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

My standing in front of the mirror is a bit longer each week when I trim my beard.

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

I am usually unsure which hat fits better.

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

I definitely don't believe it.

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

My rides on my bike.

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

What a difficult question! I can't answer it.

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

Reading a biography of Lawrence of Arabia when I was seven; listening to "The Miraculous Mandarin" when I was twenty.

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

Don't heed life's lessons.

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

I'd change just one thing: kissing the first girl I was in love with. I didn't do that back then, and I regret it.

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

This is a pleasant yet challenging game. So, no, I have no more questions.

@Yue_ Yes, if we do a reunion I will teach you my dance. 😆

Francesscooo i found ur dance already online!!!!! U can see it here: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/sf2AnaK1GXs 😛 😛

1️⃣ If you look in the mirror and you can use only ONE word to describe what you feel or what you see: what word is it?

Hurry up!

2️⃣ Do you look often in the mirror during the day? And when you get ready at home: is it short or long that you stand in front of the mirror?

My standing in front of the mirror is a bit longer each week when I trim my beard.

3️⃣ Is there smt you really like when you look at yourself in the mirror? Do you also have things you are unsure abt?

I am usually unsure which hat fits better.

4️⃣ Do you believe in saying positive things to yourself in the mirror to give yourself confidence and to feel good or do you not really believe in that?

I definitely don't believe it.

5️⃣ What’s something you could talk about for hours but never get to since no one ever asks?

My rides on my bike.

6️⃣ What percentage of the day do you feel like your true self?

What a difficult question! I can't answer it.

7️⃣ What small thing happened in your life that changed you a LOTTT?

Reading a biography of Lawrence of Arabia when I was seven; listening to "The Miraculous Mandarin" when I was twenty.

8️⃣ What life lesson did you learn the hard way? And what life lesson do you want to tell others?

Don't heed life's lessons.

9️⃣ If you could live again would you choose your life or to be born in another person? And if you choose yourself: would you do things differently?

I'd change just one thing: kissing the first girl I was in love with. I didn't do that back then, and I regret it.

🔟 Do you maybe have a question for the list?

This is a pleasant yet challenging game. So, no, I have no more questions.

Tnxxxx very much for also answering the questions @prob3!!! But can i maybe ask why it changed so much after u read Lawrence of Arabia or listening to that song?? And why was it bc what u wrote in 9? Bc i guess that maybe it was too scary and u dont feel comfortable AT ALL or was different that u didnt do that? I think i feel like X-ray photo bc u dont know if they think it is nice at all and they can also gossip things to their friends so i would feel also same so u are not alone at all if u felt that way bc it is NOTTTT very comfortable anyway. 😬😬😵‍💫😵‍💫

@Dracula

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Francesscooo i found ur dance already online!!!!! U can see it here: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/sf2AnaK1GXs 😛 😛

Tnxxxx very much for also answering the questions @prob3!!! But can i maybe ask why it changed so much after u read Lawrence of Arabia or listening to that song?? And why was it bc what u wrote in 9? Bc i guess that maybe it was too scary and u dont feel comfortable AT ALL or was different that u didnt do that? I think i feel like X-ray photo bc u dont know if they think it is nice at all and they can also gossip things to their friends so i would feel also same so u are not alone at all if u felt that way bc it is NOTTTT very comfortable anyway. 😬😬😵‍💫😵‍💫

Ahaha no my dance is not that cute. 😛

Tnxxxx very much for also answering the questions @prob3!!! But can i maybe ask why it changed so much after u read Lawrence of Arabia or listening to that song?? And why was it bc what u wrote in 9? Bc i guess that maybe it was too scary and u dont feel comfortable AT ALL or was different that u didnt do that? I think i feel like X-ray photo bc u dont know if they think it is nice at all and they can also gossip things to their friends so i would feel also same so u are not alone at all if u felt that way bc it is NOTTTT very comfortable anyway. 😬😬😵‍💫😵‍💫

The biography of Lawrence of Arabia was the first adult book I read. From then on, I became a book lover.

The Miraculous Mandarin was the first modern classical composition I listened to. From that moment, I grew fond of modern classical music.

I am sure that girl used to like me. I didn't kiss her because I was too young and clumsy. I believe she didn't kiss me for the same reason.

The biography of Lawrence of Arabia was the first adult book I read. From then on, I became a book lover.

The Miraculous Mandarin was the first modern classical composition I listened to. From that moment, I grew fond of modern classical music.

I am sure that girl used to like me. I didn't kiss her because I was too young and clumsy. I believe she didn't kiss me for the same reason.

It is very nice what u wrote abt reading it and listening to that. 🙂 But with the kiss maybe is also bc u are afraid how they think abt it. Also i think sometimes for guys it is NOTTT abt that they love you or care for u but smt they just kiss u or try like more things and they can tell friends that they kissed u or other things and they act cool abt it without that they really care for u at all. BUTTT i dont think that is what u mean at all but that is for example sometimes in my school what they say and they brag a lot. And that way i feel also super unsure bc u dont know what they mean and if they are serious or not at all if u give first kiss. Idk if u understand what i mean bc it can be super different from ur country and that time.

Btw are u still in contact with her bc u can tell it to her how u feel now abt it maybe.

It is very nice what u wrote abt reading it and listening to that. 🙂 But with the kiss maybe is also bc u are afraid how they think abt it. Also i think sometimes for guys it is NOTTT abt that they love you or care for u but smt they just kiss u or try like more things and they can tell friends that they kissed u or other things and they act cool abt it without that they really care for u at all. BUTTT i dont think that is what u mean at all but that is for example sometimes in my school what they say and they brag a lot. And that way i feel also super unsure bc u dont know what they mean and if they are serious or not at all if u give first kiss. Idk if u understand what i mean bc it can be super different from ur country and that time.

Btw are u still in contact with her bc u can tell it to her how u feel now abt it maybe.

I understand what you're saying. Insecurity is a common problem at a certain age, but it passes - you'll see. I hope you find a boyfriend as sweet as you are.

My experience was different. I met that girl during summer many years ago while on holiday by the seaside. I've never seen her again. I've loved my wife all my life, but I still remember that girl fondly. Her name was Susan. I hope she is happy.