I think that you are right @-Kiki-, but i think that the person who made the quote was telling a joke about some people who say too much weird things because i think it is right that you should be able to speak but sometimes people speak TOO much and others cant speak. But i dont know if he meant it as a joke or was serious. 🙂That's true as well. If you don't have anything contributing to say you should remain silent. I think he was serious but meant it in a way you state. He's a famous writer and humorist so it could be a joke as well I don't know.
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That's true as well. If you don't have anything contributing to say you should remain silent. I think he was serious but meant it in a way you state. He's a famous writer and humorist so it could be a joke as well I don't know.
Did you read a lot from Mark Twain @-Kiki-? ✨✨
love is built by honest communication, commitment, genuine efforts, cooperative, and it's all takes time.
so if you get this best treatment in the first place you should be careful, cause it's either he/she hasn't moved on from his/her ex and see u as a shadow, or she/he's just love bombing you or she/he lose the bet and need to win your heart and after win it, the bet is done.
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love is built by honest communication, commitment, genuine efforts, cooperative, and it's all takes time.
so if you get this best treatment in the first place you should be careful, cause it's either he/she hasn't moved on from his/her ex and see u as a shadow, or she/he's just love bombing you or she/he lose the bet and need to win your heart and after win it, the bet is done.
Or they just feel a genuine connection with you and know you leave if you don't get the treatment you deserve.
Or they just feel a genuine connection with you and know you leave if you don't get the treatment you deserve.
well tbh i really want to believe that, but sadly, life is not a fairytale. even magic takes time. like, how can you know and sure you love someone when you barely know him/her? i bet it's more into self interest.. cause first year is a year you both get to know more deeper, get a lot conflict (the result of the collision of two heads trying to unite), cause there is no perfect person, they have flaws that hid during the process. that's why love is built.
and about the best treatment that you get in the first place, im referring to love bombing, and love bombing itself frequently involves an awesome and fast feel of affection. and yes i wouldn't disagree it feels great, but it won't last forever (only for months-a year). once they get bored of you, they will leave you easily.
Love bombing is marked by overwhelming affection intended to control, while genuine interest grows naturally by time, with consistent actions and mutual respect. mutual respect referring to consent, like you need to know their love language first, without assumption. and after you know, you try to show it and vice versa. try to read it, it's a very nice article that has been approved by psychology.
well tbh i really want to believe that, but sadly, life is not a fairytale. even magic takes time. like, how can you know and sure you love someone when you barely know him/her? i bet it's more into self interest.. cause first year is a year you both get to know more deeper, get a lot conflict (the result of the collision of two heads trying to unite), cause there is no perfect person, they have flaws that hid during the process. that's why love is built.
and about the best treatment that you get in the first place, im referring to love bombing, and love bombing itself frequently involves an awesome and fast feel of affection. and yes i wouldn't disagree it feels great, but it won't last forever (only for months-a year). once they get bored of you, they will leave you easily.
Love bombing is marked by overwhelming affection intended to control, while genuine interest grows naturally by time, with consistent actions and mutual respect. mutual respect referring to consent, like you need to know their love language first, without assumption. and after you know, you try to show it and vice versa. try to read it, it's a very nice article that has been approved by psychology.
I get your point regarding to love bombing. I'll read the article later, so I'll just state what I think before hand. I think you're right, tho I'm not referring to such a big amount of love and affection in a really short time period. I mean a genuine connection at first and giving each other a feeling of being able to be yourself without judgement. I don't mean loverboys or anything who overwhelm you with attention in order to gain control over you and then dump you like shit.
Love does take time and has a lot of setbacks and conflicts along the way. That's also a part of finding out whether you're really fit for each other romantically.
I also feel like love needs a lot of mutual respect and also genuine efforts from both sides. And it being consistent defenitely is a must in order to establish a deep connection, whether it's in a romantic relationship or in a platonic one.
I get your point regarding to love bombing. I'll read the article later, so I'll just state what I think before hand. I think you're right, tho I'm not referring to such a big amount of love and affection in a really short time period. I mean a genuine connection at first and giving each other a feeling of being able to be yourself without judgement. I don't mean loverboys or anything who overwhelm you with attention in order to gain control over you and then dump you like shit.
Love does take time and has a lot of setbacks and conflicts along the way. That's also a part of finding out whether you're really fit for each other romantically.
I also feel like love needs a lot of mutual respect and also genuine efforts from both sides. And it being consistent defenitely is a must in order to establish a deep connection, whether it's in a romantic relationship or in a platonic one.
yeppp i totally agree with this. we already have the same kind of mindset & pov about it then, kiki, which is nice 😊
I was reading for nice quotes online and I found these quotes and maybe others like them too:
"Life is short. Smile while you still have teeth!" 😁
🙄 "Life has no remote...you have to change it yourself." 🙄
"The only rule is don't be boring and dress cute wherever you go...life is to short to blend in." 👗👜🎀
Evil belongs to fools, to those who have not yet understood that we will not live forever. Alda Merini
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