💁‍♀️🤵‍♂️The MEGA forum: girls and guys asking questions 👧🏻👨‍🦰

i hope soon i will have 1000 photos; i like uploading photos. Sorry but where do you get the expression im a wolf?

everybody says there are wolfs in the forests around us, but weve never seen one, and our sheeps also havent been eaten by any wolf.

i dont want to be girlish; im a men, i stay a men.

Stasyyy @PinkiePie and I would win if we challenge you in a super power battle i think!!! 💪 😛😛

Hello everybody!!!! I have a new question for all the GUYS!!! So if you are a guy can you maybe answer this question from Marti @martutuni (i also put it in the list above with the questions):

➡️ Do you like to receive gifts? What do you think its the best gift a girl could give you? I mean not something concrete, but what type of gift?

And @alewashere i hope you maybe also answer the question!!! 🙂 And any other guys who read this forum we have in the first post a list of questions for you!!! And if you are a girl: we also have a list of questions for you!!

Also i want to apologize that i did not include also different genders. So if you are a different gender you can answer all the questions that YOU like and everybody is very thankful!!!! 🙏🙏

Hello everybody!!!! I have a new question for all the GUYS!!! So if you are a guy can you maybe answer this question from Marti @martutuni (i also put it in the list above with the questions):

➡️ Do you like to receive gifts? What do you think its the best gift a girl could give you? I mean not something concrete, but what type of gift?

And @alewashere i hope you maybe also answer the question!!! 🙂 And any other guys who read this forum we have in the first post a list of questions for you!!! And if you are a girl: we also have a list of questions for you!!

Also i want to apologize that i did not include also different genders. So if you are a different gender you can answer all the questions that YOU like and everybody is very thankful!!!! 🙏🙏

Yess, I love to receive gifts. but only good ones. I mean, who does not. To me, a good gift is something that makes you smile or laugh. Something you feel good about. That doesn't need to be something specific, it's whatever you may need in a certain situation. For example I think a hug could be a gift too, if you need it. Or want it. But of course there are many other things you can share with someone. All types of presents. There's nothing specific that makes me smile but I like those little things. Those are the ones I like to remember the most. Things you mentioned just some weeks ago, that did not seem important to you, you just said it in passing but the person gifting you remembers it and shows that. I like that.

Hello everybody!!!! I have a new question for all the GUYS!!! So if you are a guy can you maybe answer this question from Marti @martutuni (i also put it in the list above with the questions):

➡️ Do you like to receive gifts? What do you think its the best gift a girl could give you? I mean not something concrete, but what type of gift?

And @alewashere i hope you maybe also answer the question!!! 🙂 And any other guys who read this forum we have in the first post a list of questions for you!!! And if you are a girl: we also have a list of questions for you!!

Also i want to apologize that i did not include also different genders. So if you are a different gender you can answer all the questions that YOU like and everybody is very thankful!!!! 🙏🙏

I really dont no what to answer on this, sorry.

Yess, I love to receive gifts. but only good ones. I mean, who does not. To me, a good gift is something that makes you smile or laugh. Something you feel good about. That doesn't need to be something specific, it's whatever you may need in a certain situation. For example I think a hug could be a gift too, if you need it. Or want it. But of course there are many other things you can share with someone. All types of presents. There's nothing specific that makes me smile but I like those little things. Those are the ones I like to remember the most. Things you mentioned just some weeks ago, that did not seem important to you, you just said it in passing but the person gifting you remembers it and shows that. I like that.

I really like your answer @Colin_Der_Backfisch!! Because in that way you show that you really care and listen to the person. ORRR that you look what the other person really needs. And about hugging: yesterday was hug holiday!!!!!! But i wrote about it in this forum but you have to scroll down to the last post!! 😛 😛

And can i comment about this question from @Boa_RC and i know it is from the wrong list and not my list but i want to say and ask smt:

➡️ Do you, even secretly, enjoy reading or watching romance books/movies? Or is it just a girl thing?

I really like korean series with romance and also comedy on netflix and viki. Not romance books, but series yes. My mom watches with me BUTTT MY DAD thinks they are super boring. So maybe that is an answer for @Boa_RC but my dad is NOTTT a member here. But i also have a question for everybody: if you like romance on tv: do you prefer movies/series ORRRRR real life tv like dating shows and things like MAFS or First Dates? 🤭🫣😛

I really like your answer @Colin_Germany!! Because in that way you show that you really care and listen to the person. ORRR that you look what the other person really needs. And about hugging: yesterday was hug holiday!!!!!! But i wrote about it in this forum but you have to scroll down to the last post!! 😛 😛

And can i comment about this question from @Boa_RC and i know it is from the wrong list and not my list but i want to say and ask smt:

➡️ Do you, even secretly, enjoy reading or watching romance books/movies? Or is it just a girl thing?

I really like korean series with romance and also comedy on netflix and viki. Not romance books, but series yes. My mom watches with me BUTTT MY DAD thinks they are super boring. So maybe that is an answer for @Boa_RC but my dad is NOTTT a member here. But i also have a question for everybody: if you like romance on tv: do you prefer movies/series ORRRRR real life tv like dating shows and things like MAFS or First Dates? 🤭🫣😛

I don't like those dating shows tbh. Most of them are scripted and fake, and even though some are real, I don't think those topics belong to tv. So I guess I'd prefer movies/series 🙂

I don't like those dating shows tbh. Most of them are scripted and fake, and even though some are real, I don't think those topics belong to tv. So I guess I'd prefer movies/series 🙂

I like MAFS and First Dates but not for example Temptation Island or Ex on the beach. But if we watch First Dates my mom keeps making comments and if my aunt is also in our house it is sometimes really funny bc they both keep talking and making comments which are really funny. 🙂

I like MAFS and First Dates but not for example Temptation Island or Ex on the beach. But if we watch First Dates my mom keeps making comments and if my aunt is also in our house it is sometimes really funny bc they both keep talking and making comments which are really funny. 🙂

sounds lovely!

@mayuuram and all others are you happy with the answers that everybody gave? And would you like specific persons that must still answer the questions? 🙂

If people like this than i can make forums like this more often and ask questions from my friends and others who would like to help!

Yes, @Yue_, I'm very happy with those questions and I like that forum very much 😃 !

@mayuuram and all others are you happy with the answers that everybody gave? And would you like specific persons that must still answer the questions? 🙂

If people like this than i can make forums like this more often and ask questions from my friends and others who would like to help!

Yes, @Yue_, I'm very happy with those questions and I like that forum very much 😃 !

Thanksss Aaooo @AgDel!! 🤗🤗🥰🥰 I also like that we made the forum really together with a LOTTT of people. Let's think of a new topic and i can ask around for questions. 😃

@mayuuram and all others are you happy with the answers that everybody gave? And would you like specific persons that must still answer the questions? 🙂

If people like this than i can make forums like this more often and ask questions from my friends and others who would like to help!

so far i'm quite happy, but answered by specific person i don't think i have, because it's just random haha

so far i'm quite happy, but answered by specific person i don't think i have, because it's just random haha

Thanksss @mayuuram!! We need a nice topic for a new MEGA forum!! 😛 I also asked Ao @AgDel but i think it is a nice way to get LOTTT of questions from different persons and make a forum of it. 😃

ofcourse!

So, I think I might not quite be the target group of this (never had a girlfriend, maybe in another stage of life than most people who wrote questions), but whatever.

1️⃣ What are those tiny little things about a girl that makes you like them (not necessarily romantic love)? (from [@Miss_Penpal](https://penpal-gate.net/miss_penpal))

Just a spontaneous list:

her giggle, smile, being excited and passionate about something,

2️⃣ Do you have a type of girl that you like as your partner in the future? And if so, what is it? (from anonymous) What kind of feature should she have? (from [@Fleurke](https://penpal-gate.net/fleurke))

Idk if that’s realistic, but I‘m kinda looking for a girl with similar interests.

Physical appearance: I like cute girls (I know, not a well defined descriptor, but for me it is the word to describe it)

3️⃣ Is the style of clothes that your girlfriend wears important? And what kind of style do you like for a girl? (from Rose [@Idkbro](https://penpal-gate.net/idkbro))

On its own, clothing is not important to me, but the way we dress is also a form of expression. I‘m drawn to girls that have similar interests to me and clothing can be a good first indicator.

4️⃣ What do you think about a girl who's confident or talks a lot? (from [@AgDel](https://penpal-gate.net/agdel)) And what do you think of girls who are very shy in real life? (from [@Yue_](https://penpal-gate.net/yue_))

I‘m introverted myself, so when a extroverted person starts a conversation (regardless of context (guy/girl, platonic/romantic)) it is easier for me. But on the other hand I can relate to shy girls.

5️⃣ Do you have a personal objection with girls using certain slang/expression, that is often considered to be used only by boys? (from Marlene [@Melifekyybor](https://penpal-gate.net/melifekyybor))?

No. Also, gender is a construct of society.

6️⃣ What do guys gossip about girls if nobody else can hear it? (from [@Yue_](https://penpal-gate.net/yue_))

Currently I don’t gossip differently about girls than about boys. A typical thing for teenage boys (including myself) to do when talking about girls is to compare physical attractiveness.

7️⃣ Why are guys so afraid to look like gay? (from Stasy [@PinkiePie](https://penpal-gate.net/pinkiepie))

I‘m not.

I don’t care how my style appears to others (especially strangers)

8️⃣ What is your guilty pleasure - something you like but wouldn't readily admit to? (from [@frozenpizza001](https://penpal-gate.net/frozenpizza001))

Reading fanfiction.

9️⃣ Do you, even secretly, enjoy reading or watching romance books/movies? Or is it just a girl thing? (from [@Boa_RC](https://penpal-gate.net/boa_rc))

I don’t read stories for the romance, but if it is well written I enjoy romantic plots. And I totally get the appeal of well written romance.

🔟 If you were a girl for a day what would be the first thing you would do? (from anonymous)

Try to see how much my mind changed. It’s generally interesting to think about how our gender/assigned gender shape our thinking. How much it shapes our upbringing and how that influences our personalities.

1️⃣1️⃣ How do you actually feel about a woman's initiative (for example, if a girl is the first to write or ask for a date) (from Arsenia [@Kotyaka2023](https://penpal-gate.net/kotyaka2023))

(referring to writing first/something similar) Less social risk for me, because I already have something to go off, so that’s appreciated.

1️⃣2️⃣ In this era of equality, I often hear that (some) men believe that they 'must' lead and consider women as companions. What kind of companion do you expect? And why do you need a companion? What does 'leading' means to you in a relationship? Is leadership about control, responsibility, or mutual guidance? Do you think companionship should be rooted in hierarchy or equality? Why? What if it turns out your partner is more capable than you? Do you still love her or do you feel small & challenged? (from [@mayuuram](https://penpal-gate.net/mayuuram))

That’s a lot of questions in a Trenchcoat.

I want an equal relationship. Each partner „leads“ on those issues/tasks they are better at. But of course communication is key to make sure everyone‘s needs are met.

„What if it turns out your partner is more capable than you?“ never been in that situation, but I‘d like to think I‘d not be bothered by this. Generally I‘m ok with people being better at stuff than me, it only bothers me if others are better at things I thought I was good at.

➡️ New question: If you meet a girl for the first time, what do you normally notice first (for example character or how she looks or something different)? (from [@-Kiki-](https://penpal-gate.net/-kiki-))

How she looks. And I try to discern as much as possible from this. Our look is a form of self-presentation. We can use certain styles to show affiliation with a certain group. Another example is merch, a possibility to show that we like a certain thing (e.g a band). But I feel like girls are more expressive about their look. And obviously looks are just an indicator of a person’s personality and nit comprehensive.

➡️ New question: What do you think about piercings? Do you think about it like being girlish or do you they that's cool? (from Savithi [@NILU1234](https://penpal-gate.net/nilu1234))

I don’t see the appeal in piercings, but whatever it is just a piece of metal.

Might update in the future

Also, many answers are hypothetical and might not survive contact with reality.

Thank you very much @PeterPositiv!! I really liked reading your answers and what you think of the questions. I hope the questions were not too heavy for everybody who answered the forum!!! Bc they are of course super personal. But i think it is a fun way to get to know each other better about super important things. So we will soon have ANOTHER mega forum!!! 🙄😝🤪

I hope that you answer the forums whenever you want @PeterPositiv!! And it is always very nice to read what you think. 🙂

Hello everybody!!! 🙋‍♀️✨🌸 Today i have a BIGGG forum that a lot of my friends helped to make!!! I have 12 questions from guys to girls ANDDDD 12 questions from girls to guys!!!!

A lot of people helped so i hope that people are super brave to give answers to YOUR question list. So if you are a girl you must answer the first list and if you are a guy you must answer the second list!! And everybody who gave a question thank you very much!!! 🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️ And everybody who answers the questions: you are super brave!!! 💪😎😎

If you are in a rush answer the questions you like. But i hope you answer ALL questions from your list!! 😃 It is fun to do and also to read the answers!!! 🙂

📸️ 📸️ 📸️

12 questions from guys to girls

1️⃣ Why do you girls wear makeup? (from @Sabri_KC)

2️⃣ Why do some girls tend to hate each other for no specific reason? (from @Sabri_KC)

3️⃣ What's something girls go through very often that guys have no idea about? (from @BartL)

4️⃣ What is your most distinctive feature that sets you apart from other females? (from @diogenes_cask)

5️⃣ What are girls keeping even from their best friends? (from @Colin_Der_Backfisch)

6️⃣ What’s something you would never say out loud but secretly think all the time? (from @Jullian)

7️⃣ What are the best and the worst things about being a woman, for you? (from @Simone724)

8️⃣ What do girls look for in a boy? Is most of it appearance? (from @TomiL)

9️⃣ If you would get married would you want you husband to be from another country? (from Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2)

🔟 What are the features that make you jealous of men, mostly? (from @Simone724)

1️⃣1️⃣ Which do you like better: "things" (ie: being interesting in how things work) or "people (ie: interacting with other people)? (from @Etienne)

1️⃣2️⃣ Has the way in which you view your parents evolved in the course of time? Are their certain traits or norms that you wish to emulate in the event that you would become a parent yourself? (from @Savi2024)

➡️ New question: Why do girls like having looooong hair? (from Vedang @TheLOVERofMachines)

12 questions from girls to guys

1️⃣ What are those tiny little things about a girl that makes you like them (not necessarily romantic love)? (from @Miss_Penpal)

2️⃣ Do you have a type of girl that you like as your partner in the future? And if so, what is it? (from anonymous) What kind of feature should she have? (from @Fleurke)

3️⃣ Is the style of clothes that your girlfriend wears important? And what kind of style do you like for a girl? (from Rose @Idkbro)

4️⃣ What do you think about a girl who's confident or talks a lot? (from @AgDel) And what do you think of girls who are very shy in real life? (from @Yue_)

5️⃣ Do you have a personal objection with girls using certain slang/expression, that is often considered to be used only by boys? (from Marlene @Melifekyybor)?

6️⃣ What do guys gossip about girls if nobody else can hear it? (from @Yue_)

7️⃣ Why are guys so afraid to look like gay? (from Stasy @PinkiePie)

8️⃣ What is your guilty pleasure - something you like but wouldn't readily admit to? (from @frozenpizza001)

9️⃣ Do you, even secretly, enjoy reading or watching romance books/movies? Or is it just a girl thing? (from @Boa_RC)

🔟 If you were a girl for a day what would be the first thing you would do? (from anonymous)

1️⃣1️⃣ How do you actually feel about a woman's initiative (for example, if a girl is the first to write or ask for a date) (from Arsenia @Kotyaka2023)

1️⃣2️⃣ In this era of equality, I often hear that (some) men believe that they 'must' lead and consider women as companions. What kind of companion do you expect? And why do you need a companion? What does 'leading' means to you in a relationship? Is leadership about control, responsibility, or mutual guidance? Do you think companionship should be rooted in hierarchy or equality? Why? What if it turns out your partner is more capable than you? Do you still love her or do you feel small & challenged? (from @mayuuram)

➡️ New question: If you meet a girl for the first time, what do you normally notice first (for example character or how she looks or something different)? (from @-Kiki-)

➡️ New question: What do you think about piercings? Do you think about it like being girlish or do you they that's cool? (from Savithi @NILU1234)

➡️ New question: Do you like to receive gifts? What do you think its the best gift a girl could give you? I mean not something concrete, but what type of gift? (from @martutuni)

I still expect questions from other friends but i will update the list above when i get them!!! And if anybody also has a question for the lists, just let me know or post below!!! Thank you very much for everybody who made an effort for the questions or who takes time to answer the list!!!! I am very happy if people appreciate what everybody did for this forum. 🏆🥇🌈🌞🌸

1. I don't

2. Idk man 😭

3. Body dysmorphia?

4. I'm happy always

5. Weird hobbies maybe?

6. I can't say that😭😭

7. I can wear bras, I can wear Bikini, I can wear high heels, I can wear dresses, I can wear skirt...

8. Well looks matter too, but Personality also, as long he is nice👍🏻👍🏻

9. Yes💀 I actually don't want an Austrian husband😭

10. Big mooscles💪

11. I like people more they are relatable atleast

12. I wanna be a better mother than my mother😭 I love her very much, but she is forgets me very often

13. Cuz it make me feel 🌟girly🌞