Thanks everybody for the comments!!! I really like reading all the responses bc you get to know a lot abt everybody also about this topic!! Can i also tag @-Kiki- bc i am really curious what you think. Sorry for tagging but i hope maybe you also like to answer the questions if you have time!! 😊😊
For me these are the answers:
1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?
I dont think really falling in love but that you LIKE a person and that it CANNN be love than yes. And if it is in normal life and i like a person than i can be really really shy and maybe also red like a tomato if that person looks directly to me.
2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?
I look the most to eyes. But i dont like to look clearly at eyes if they look at you directly. But if for example there are more people that is what i always look the first. Bc sometimes but not always you can tell if it is a friendly person or super bossy or different. I think you can tell already a little bit from eyes but that is also from other things. But that is what i look the first almost always.
3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?
I did not yet go on a REAL date. And if it is normal to bring a gift i dont know what yet but i dont think it is normal in my country. But i am curious really what @-Kiki- says abt it because she is also from my country. But i think it is not necessary unless maybe it is a birthday. BUTTTT if you go for example to the city centre than i can buy a bubble tea if we drink smt together or if you go to the cinema perhaps you can buy stuff together maybe.
4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?
I dont know. Maybe what he does.
5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?
Yes. And i DONT think that my parents mind it a lot BUTTTT they think it is very important for example how that person is and how he behaves and things like that. That is really important and not race. So it can for example be an Asian person but also for example white. I dont think that it matters for them a lot. We did not speak about that seriously yet bc that would be really uncomfortable. More like jokes the way sometimes we speak.
6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?
Yes. My family is Buddhist but my dad not REALLY and sometimes he thinks very differently. And that is not a problem. And also other religions. My dad is very practical and he says if he religion makes you a nicer person than it is good. But that is not only for your partner but every person. And my mom is more like my grandmom and my aunt and we believe in Buddhism but nobody can know surely what is right and wrong so you should always respect everything. Bc we can be wrong ourselves too. That is what we believe and that you are always open.
7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?
I dont know. I think if I have for example now a bf i think not BUTTTT they dont want that if for example it does not go well at school because you have a relationship. BUTTT now everything goes well and there is not a problem at all in school so i think they dont mind as long as it is like that. But they do think that school is always more important than a relationship. And i dont think that it changes but we did not talk about it more bc that would be really weird to talk about with them.
8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?
I think i fall in love with a guy and not same gender. BUTTT i have one friend and she told me that she likes girls ANDDD she was really nervous how i react. And i said that for me it is not a problem of course bc SHE decides it and it is HER life. So the only thing that is important is what she likes and everybody must respect it. So of course nothing changes. And i think almost all my friends said the same so i think that is nice. And i dont know about age or the personality. Bc i think if you have a relationship with a guy he is almost always older than you. So that is normal. And they are never exactly the same as you so there is always difference and i think it is good that you are not exactly the same. And you give space that everybody can also be how they are and of course also spend time together but you dont have to be the same for that.
9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?
If i really have a nice relationship and that you live together than i would like to get married. But of course only if he likes that too. And i think it is very important for my parents too.
🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?
I made the questions so i did not yet forget anything. BUTTTTT i would like to ask ONE new question and maybe people like to answer it:
➡️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love and in Dutch: Lang leve de liefde?
For me the answer to that question is: I dont know. Because i think love is very important and i would like to have a relationship in the future. BUTTT i prefer normally and that there are not cameras from tv and that EVERYBODY can see it. But if that does not work than maybe. But NOTTTT shows like Temptation Island or Love Island. But maybe All you need is love or Lang leve de liefde. And i dont think Married at first sight bc it is too much to marry a person that you dont even know. I would not do that. And of course not a dating show that shows you naked. In my country there was Adam zoekt Eva and it showed two people and they meet naked on an island and they are together a full day. But you also see it on tv and i would NOTTTT do that. And also on Dutch TV is Boer zoekt vrouw and it is about farmers and they get letters from persons who maybe could live with them on the farm and get a relationship. And normally it is in The Netherlands BUTTT it can also be in their country if they are Dutch and they live in another country. So Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 that is maybe a nice show for you to watch too!!! 🙂
➡️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)
I dont know yet. But maybe if he talks bad to others or if you KNOW that he is a bully. Bc he can be the same to you too and i dont like that from a person. And maybe if he does not REALLY like you but that he only wants to be romantic or if he does not really care about you at all.
➡️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)
I dont know if it is important. For example i have now 10 Euros i think and of course i have also saved money but later if you REALLY have a job it can be VERY different. So if it is now important i think nobody likes me if it is important. And for the education maybe it is more important how you think about a lot of stuff. So for example if you have same interests that is important. I will give one example. If we go on vacation i like always to visit at least one time a museum. And if you have a relationship and you go on vacation together i still want that it is ok if i can do that. And it helps that you both like it or that it is still ok that i can do that. But that is more about how you both are.
➡️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2)
I think if somebody does that and that person is ready than nothing is wrong. But for me it would be too early. Bc i would first like to study at university and maybe also work after studies 1 or more years. But if you really love somebody it can be earlier BUTTT than i want that before you get pregnant. And i think i would like to get married before getting pregnant. I dont mean to be romantical bc that can be before marriage i think. BUTTT i want to get married first before you really have a baby. But that also depends on your partner.
I hope others want to answer my new question that i said above about tv shows and love. I will also put it above in the questions list!! 🙂 If anybody else also wants me to add a question i can do that of course. 😊😊❤️