πŸ₯° The LOVE forum ❀️

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I know a guy called @alexios2604 who got married to his girlfriend at the age of 18. Hes from Limassol, Cyprus.

I think if you really love someone, age doesn't really matter, even if 18 is very young. But it also depends on the person and their personality.


i actually dont want my wife to be older then me.

I think if you really love someone, age doesn't really matter, even if 18 is very young. But it also depends on the person and their personality.

Thanks everybody for the comments!!! I really like reading all the responses bc you get to know a lot abt everybody also about this topic!! Can i also tag @-Kiki- bc i am really curious what you think. Sorry for tagging but i hope maybe you also like to answer the questions if you have time!! 😊😊


For me these are the answers:


1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?


I dont think really falling in love but that you LIKE a person and that it CANNN be love than yes. And if it is in normal life and i like a person than i can be really really shy and maybe also red like a tomato if that person looks directly to me.


2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?


I look the most to eyes. But i dont like to look clearly at eyes if they look at you directly. But if for example there are more people that is what i always look the first. Bc sometimes but not always you can tell if it is a friendly person or super bossy or different. I think you can tell already a little bit from eyes but that is also from other things. But that is what i look the first almost always.


3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?


I did not yet go on a REAL date. And if it is normal to bring a gift i dont know what yet but i dont think it is normal in my country. But i am curious really what @-Kiki- says abt it because she is also from my country. But i think it is not necessary unless maybe it is a birthday. BUTTTT if you go for example to the city centre than i can buy a bubble tea if we drink smt together or if you go to the cinema perhaps you can buy stuff together maybe.


4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?


I dont know. Maybe what he does.


5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?


Yes. And i DONT think that my parents mind it a lot BUTTTT they think it is very important for example how that person is and how he behaves and things like that. That is really important and not race. So it can for example be an Asian person but also for example white. I dont think that it matters for them a lot. We did not speak about that seriously yet bc that would be really uncomfortable. More like jokes the way sometimes we speak.


6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?


Yes. My family is Buddhist but my dad not REALLY and sometimes he thinks very differently. And that is not a problem. And also other religions. My dad is very practical and he says if he religion makes you a nicer person than it is good. But that is not only for your partner but every person. And my mom is more like my grandmom and my aunt and we believe in Buddhism but nobody can know surely what is right and wrong so you should always respect everything. Bc we can be wrong ourselves too. That is what we believe and that you are always open.


7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?


I dont know. I think if I have for example now a bf i think not BUTTTT they dont want that if for example it does not go well at school because you have a relationship. BUTTT now everything goes well and there is not a problem at all in school so i think they dont mind as long as it is like that. But they do think that school is always more important than a relationship. And i dont think that it changes but we did not talk about it more bc that would be really weird to talk about with them.


8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?


I think i fall in love with a guy and not same gender. BUTTT i have one friend and she told me that she likes girls ANDDD she was really nervous how i react. And i said that for me it is not a problem of course bc SHE decides it and it is HER life. So the only thing that is important is what she likes and everybody must respect it. So of course nothing changes. And i think almost all my friends said the same so i think that is nice. And i dont know about age or the personality. Bc i think if you have a relationship with a guy he is almost always older than you. So that is normal. And they are never exactly the same as you so there is always difference and i think it is good that you are not exactly the same. And you give space that everybody can also be how they are and of course also spend time together but you dont have to be the same for that.


9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?


If i really have a nice relationship and that you live together than i would like to get married. But of course only if he likes that too. And i think it is very important for my parents too.


πŸ”Ÿ What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?


I made the questions so i did not yet forget anything. BUTTTTT i would like to ask ONE new question and maybe people like to answer it:


➑️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love and in Dutch: Lang leve de liefde?


For me the answer to that question is: I dont know. Because i think love is very important and i would like to have a relationship in the future. BUTTT i prefer normally and that there are not cameras from tv and that EVERYBODY can see it. But if that does not work than maybe. But NOTTTT shows like Temptation Island or Love Island. But maybe All you need is love or Lang leve de liefde. And i dont think Married at first sight bc it is too much to marry a person that you dont even know. I would not do that. And of course not a dating show that shows you naked. In my country there was Adam zoekt Eva and it showed two people and they meet naked on an island and they are together a full day. But you also see it on tv and i would NOTTTT do that. And also on Dutch TV is Boer zoekt vrouw and it is about farmers and they get letters from persons who maybe could live with them on the farm and get a relationship. And normally it is in The Netherlands BUTTT it can also be in their country if they are Dutch and they live in another country. So Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 that is maybe a nice show for you to watch too!!! πŸ™‚


➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)


I dont know yet. But maybe if he talks bad to others or if you KNOW that he is a bully. Bc he can be the same to you too and i dont like that from a person. And maybe if he does not REALLY like you but that he only wants to be romantic or if he does not really care about you at all.


➑️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)


I dont know if it is important. For example i have now 10 Euros i think and of course i have also saved money but later if you REALLY have a job it can be VERY different. So if it is now important i think nobody likes me if it is important. And for the education maybe it is more important how you think about a lot of stuff. So for example if you have same interests that is important. I will give one example. If we go on vacation i like always to visit at least one time a museum. And if you have a relationship and you go on vacation together i still want that it is ok if i can do that. And it helps that you both like it or that it is still ok that i can do that. But that is more about how you both are.


➑️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2)


I think if somebody does that and that person is ready than nothing is wrong. But for me it would be too early. Bc i would first like to study at university and maybe also work after studies 1 or more years. But if you really love somebody it can be earlier BUTTT than i want that before you get pregnant. And i think i would like to get married before getting pregnant. I dont mean to be romantical bc that can be before marriage i think. BUTTT i want to get married first before you really have a baby. But that also depends on your partner.


I hope others want to answer my new question that i said above about tv shows and love. I will also put it above in the questions list!! πŸ™‚ If anybody else also wants me to add a question i can do that of course. 😊😊❀️


➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)

In my opinion, anything can be a red flag. It depends on the context. But usually, if a person has to change themselves to make you happy, wether it's to please you or because they are ashamed of how they are, that's not a good sign.

➑️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)

No, I think both of those don't really matter. Of course it's better to have a smart partner with money, but I think relationships can work even without that. Money and knowledge are both human inventions, and it's up to you wether you want to comply to the rules or not.

➑️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @Ursul_Romanesc)

If I find the right person, of course. I think marriage is something you do when you're mature enough and are sure your relationship will work out. So I think the age at which you get married(if you do) depends on the individual. Some will be ready at 16, others at 30.

➑️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love (Lang leve de liefde in Dutch) or Farmer searches wife (Boer zoekt vrouw)?

I don't think so. I hate pictures, so a whole SHOW??? I'll never be desperate enough.

Bearbeitet von Miss_Penpal .

I think for marriage i'll be ready at 18

Thank you very much @Miss_Penpal!!! πŸ™‚ And Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 do you know the tv show Farmer searches wife in Dutch? So a farmer who is Dutch who lives in The Netherlands or another country gets letters from women and he can pick from the letters who live with him. And some really get a relationship. We can give your name to the tv show if you like it!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

No, idk that tv show, sounds strange πŸ€”

➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating?

Smoking, being too childish or being egocentric


➑️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship?

My heart wants to say no, but from experience I know that it does collide a lot if there is a large gap between the two of you. Education shows in communication and how you interact with eachother, financials does collide a bit because I kept feeling guilty or kept feeling the need to bring gift all the time


➑️ Would you get married at the age of 18?

Some people I guess, not me


➑️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love (Lang leve de liefde in Dutch) or Farmer searches wife (Boer zoekt vrouw)?

Absolutely not, I am desperate, but not THAT desperate. I wouldn’t want to embarrass myself on national television, because that kind of stuff stays with you for a LONG time

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

Since love is the deepest pit one might fall into, and even the fools don't fall into the same pit twice, I don't fall in love quite often.

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

I'm aged enough to know that beauty is nothing but short living tyranny, I better mind the way how she expresses herself.

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

My precense in the dating is quite of a gift to her, as well as her precense is the gift to me. That's the most valuable exchange of the gifts.

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

No. Haste makes waste.

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

That's quite probable. I'd have loved even more options than we have.

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

Since I have no religon, I'd not mind such a thing unless she organizes a crusade or a jihad on me at home.

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

Neither my private life is a court, nor my parents are judicial bodies in my life.

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

Having some frames makes your life secure. I have some code of ethics.

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

Marriage is the crown for a healthy relationship, but yet, even without a crown, love is something noble.

➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating?

Infidelity. That's the A-bomb for the relationship.

Haha Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 i know it sounds super strange BUTTTT it is very popular. You can check on YouTube and look at Boer zoekt vrouw. Here is an example of the series that the Dutch farmers live in OTHER countries than The Netherlands like you. πŸ™‚


And @TomiL i understand all your answers but with the dating shows i just dont know. Bc i understand it is super embarrassing BUTTTT if you dont have a partner and in that way you CAN find love than maybe yes. But i prefer normally and not on tv. 😊😊


I am very happy that you took the time to answer the questions @diogenes_cask and i really love reading what you wrote like always!!! Thank you very much!! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

Hello everybody!! 🌈✨ Welcome to the ❀️-forum!! 😊😊 I have made 10 questions about love BUTTTT you can ask or write anything that you want. But i am also VERYYY curious about your answers!!


Questions:


1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

πŸ”Ÿ What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)

➑️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)

➑️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @Ursul_Romanesc)

➑️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love (Lang leve de liefde in Dutch) or Farmer searches wife (Boer zoekt vrouw)?


ANYBODY who wants to answer the questions is super welcome!!! And i am very thankful for it!!! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Š But i tag some friends so they know about this new forum. I hope some maybe also want to answer the questions! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°


@psysarah15, @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Lianshen, @Sabri_KC, @PinkiePie, @Esma-Nur, @Wildflower-Farm, @Yu-Chiang, @NewTravelerInTown, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Ursul_Romanesc, @martutuni, @Txya, @BartL, @steve-san, @Oxiu, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @alewashere, @lucasar92


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ANDDDD if you like forums about love we made also these and maybe you like them too!!!


✨ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/9798-true-love-is (this one has really funny quotes about love πŸ˜› )

🌸 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10354-what-is-important-in-love (this forum @psysarah15 and i made)

❀️ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10594-what-makes-you-fall-in-love-with-someone (@Simone724 made this forum!!)

🌈 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10385-valentine-s-day-forum (this is about valentine's day πŸ™‚ )

🌞 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/8318-what-s-your-taste-in-women-men (@Goldenrod12 made this forum)


there are more i think but i have to look up in the forum list!!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

1) Personally, I think I fall in love too many times. I don't know why, but I can't help it. It just comes. Mostly, about 3 months after a breakup I start to develop feelings for another person. I'm not proud of that, and I wish I could change it.

When I'm in love, you can tell simply by the way I'd look at that specific person. Everyone can see it. It may be the easiest way but I thinks that's the best way to know when talking about me.

2) I would check if my date looks healthy. Many things can be seen, although they are not directly said. You can see if someone eats healthy, does sports, maybe if he/she smokes, and so on. I would love to date someone who's healthy and who is not ashamed to be the way he/she naturally is. Therefore, I don't like loads of makeup or whatever. I'm not an enemy of make up, but if I feel like dating another person I actually date, it feels strange and it would seem weird to me.

3) Sometimes, I did, sometimes I did not. That sounds like I would already've had thousands of relationships, but yes. I had three and to one of them I did. But I did because I knew this person, I think you can't tell a certain rule, when to do, or when to do not. I'm just dating people I've been friends with for a long time, I think dating apps or something else would only play a role when I'm grown up maybe. But when you know people for a long time, I think it's a good idea to bring something. But only if something comes to mind. Like something funny that reminds you of them.

4) I would not do that. Maybe hugging at the end but I wouldn't kiss my date on the first date. That's way to personal and intimate, there should be more romantic connenction.

5) Absolutely, I don't know why this should make a difference.


6) Absolutely, again.


7) My parents and my friends are welcomed to tell me their thoughts. But the actual descision is only mine.


8) Yes, I think so. So, I', hetero. By now. I've never felt some bonding to a boy the way I did to girls. But maybe it will come. I don't know. But definetely it's possible, yes. It's also possible to feel attracted to older or younger people, but in my case I guess I would try to let got because it definetely would not feel right for me.


9) By now, I can't tell. When grown up, absolutely. But right now, I'm not dating to marry. I'm fifteen. But of course I hope my relationship would last as long as possible.


10)

->Red Flag: Smoking, not being respectful

->Education & Finance: I would support my partner in whatever belonging, as long as I know he/she would do the same for me.

->Married at the Age of 18: No. It doesn't matter how deep your love is or how well you know each other, I just think at 18 there's too much that could change at sudden

->Dating in TV: I wouldn't do that as well. I just thing dating should be something private. I mean once you start in public, you can't go back. I wouldn't enjoy that.


Nice questions by the way, had fun answering this πŸ™‚

Wowww i am very happy that you took time to write @Colin_Der_Backfisch!!! That is very nice to read bc it is good to talk about this topic. And i was afraid guys would think it is just a dumb forum that i wrote but it is nice that you and also for example @diogenes_cask, @TomiL and @LandRoverDiscovery2 took time to answer the questions. 😊 πŸ™πŸ™ So everybody can also understand what you think bc sometimes that is also a bit difficult!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜› Sorry that was a joke but also the truth! πŸ˜ƒ


Oww and @Colin_Der_Backfisch wrote a very nice forum about love stories that anybody can share!!! You can find it here: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/11063-your-lovestorys and i hope some people can maybe write in that forum and i would also really like to read it!!!!!!!!

love is not dumb πŸ™‚

love is not dumb πŸ™‚

Thank you very much Mare!!! You and Diogenes, Tomi and Colin are super brave to answer all the questions!! πŸ™‚

Hello everybody!! 🌈✨ Welcome to the ❀️-forum!! 😊😊 I have made 10 questions about love BUTTTT you can ask or write anything that you want. But i am also VERYYY curious about your answers!!


Questions:


1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

πŸ”Ÿ What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

➑️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)

➑️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)

➑️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @Ursul_Romanesc)

➑️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love (Lang leve de liefde in Dutch) or Farmer searches wife (Boer zoekt vrouw)?


ANYBODY who wants to answer the questions is super welcome!!! And i am very thankful for it!!! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜Š But i tag some friends so they know about this new forum. I hope some maybe also want to answer the questions! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°


@psysarah15, @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Lianshen, @Sabri_KC, @PinkiePie, @Esma-Nur, @Wildflower-Farm, @Yu-Chiang, @NewTravelerInTown, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Ursul_Romanesc, @martutuni, @Txya, @BartL, @steve-san, @Oxiu, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @alewashere, @lucasar92


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ANDDDD if you like forums about love we made also these and maybe you like them too!!!


✨ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/9798-true-love-is (this one has really funny quotes about love πŸ˜› )

🌸 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10354-what-is-important-in-love (this forum @psysarah15 and i made)

❀️ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10594-what-makes-you-fall-in-love-with-someone (@Simone724 made this forum!!)

🌈 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10385-valentine-s-day-forum (this is about valentine's day πŸ™‚ )

🌞 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/8318-what-s-your-taste-in-women-men (@Goldenrod12 made this forum)


there are more i think but i have to look up in the forum list!!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

I guess I'll answer for fun, but honestly my love life is nonexistent... I have never even held hands, much less anything else. I think its best not to rush anyway, and hopefully I'll find someone not too far from now, but i still have time I think lollll


1. I don't think I've ever been in love. Maybe a crush, but I doubt anybody knows I've had a crush on them, I don't think it shows

2. I've never been on a date, but I imagine the first I'd notice would be 2 things; how fast you get a convo going, if its just awkward I feel like it might not be right (just my opinion obviously), secondly looks, because yeah they do matter. How am I supposed to be in a relationship if I'm not attracted?? Ofc doesn't mean he has to be a model, fit all beauty standards whatsoever, but if he ain't attractive to me its not gonna work. Its the same other way around too.

3. No Idea.

4. Again, I don't know, maybe if the vibes fit??? I'd imagine that I'd have met the person before so just bc its a first DATE doesn't mean its the first time we MEET. Depends on the other person honestly, I would not be the one to suggest or go in for a kiss first EVER, sounds scary tbh

5. Of course.

6. Yeah, but it might become an issue in the long run because of rules etc, considering I'm not religous at all

7. Decide? NEVER. Approve? Preferably yes, but if not its still my choice.

8. Same gender? Maybe. Much older or younger? Nope. Very different personality? Really depends on HOW they're different.

9. No, infact I don't see the point, no marriage for me. If I love someone and they love me thats enough.

10. Idk


Extras;

-Can't come up w any right now, ofc there's a lot tho.

-For me not really. As long as its not TOO far off, like if they're in A LOT of debt, maybe from casinos or something it means they're irresponsible in my eyes. Or if they're like SUPER rich, and not use the money for good causes (like helping people in need, animal or nature charities etc) or are famous bc of that. Both would be a turnoff for me.

-No, as I said, preferably never at all.

-No, I don't want to force love nor get on TV. I feel like you have to just let it happen, not force it, so for me I wouldn't even do a dating show. If its meant to be it'll happen anyway. Ofc I don't judge people who do this, its JUST for me (also cuz I'm scared of fakes, and chatting w people in a romantic manner feel weird to me)


Feel like those are long answers SORRYYY I love talking/writing too much (+I'm bored)

I guess I'll answer for fun, but honestly my love life is nonexistent... I have never even held hands, much less anything else. I think its best not to rush anyway, and hopefully I'll find someone not too far from now, but i still have time I think lollll


1. I don't think I've ever been in love. Maybe a crush, but I doubt anybody knows I've had a crush on them, I don't think it shows

2. I've never been on a date, but I imagine the first I'd notice would be 2 things; how fast you get a convo going, if its just awkward I feel like it might not be right (just my opinion obviously), secondly looks, because yeah they do matter. How am I supposed to be in a relationship if I'm not attracted?? Ofc doesn't mean he has to be a model, fit all beauty standards whatsoever, but if he ain't attractive to me its not gonna work. Its the same other way around too.

3. No Idea.

4. Again, I don't know, maybe if the vibes fit??? I'd imagine that I'd have met the person before so just bc its a first DATE doesn't mean its the first time we MEET. Depends on the other person honestly, I would not be the one to suggest or go in for a kiss first EVER, sounds scary tbh

5. Of course.

6. Yeah, but it might become an issue in the long run because of rules etc, considering I'm not religous at all

7. Decide? NEVER. Approve? Preferably yes, but if not its still my choice.

8. Same gender? Maybe. Much older or younger? Nope. Very different personality? Really depends on HOW they're different.

9. No, infact I don't see the point, no marriage for me. If I love someone and they love me thats enough.

10. Idk


Extras;

-Can't come up w any right now, ofc there's a lot tho.

-For me not really. As long as its not TOO far off, like if they're in A LOT of debt, maybe from casinos or something it means they're irresponsible in my eyes. Or if they're like SUPER rich, and not use the money for good causes (like helping people in need, animal or nature charities etc) or are famous bc of that. Both would be a turnoff for me.

-No, as I said, preferably never at all.

-No, I don't want to force love nor get on TV. I feel like you have to just let it happen, not force it, so for me I wouldn't even do a dating show. If its meant to be it'll happen anyway. Ofc I don't judge people who do this, its JUST for me (also cuz I'm scared of fakes, and chatting w people in a romantic manner feel weird to me)


Feel like those are long answers SORRYYY I love talking/writing too much (+I'm bored)

Love to hear that from a total different perspective, thank you!

I guess I'll answer for fun, but honestly my love life is nonexistent... I have never even held hands, much less anything else. I think its best not to rush anyway, and hopefully I'll find someone not too far from now, but i still have time I think lollll


1. I don't think I've ever been in love. Maybe a crush, but I doubt anybody knows I've had a crush on them, I don't think it shows

2. I've never been on a date, but I imagine the first I'd notice would be 2 things; how fast you get a convo going, if its just awkward I feel like it might not be right (just my opinion obviously), secondly looks, because yeah they do matter. How am I supposed to be in a relationship if I'm not attracted?? Ofc doesn't mean he has to be a model, fit all beauty standards whatsoever, but if he ain't attractive to me its not gonna work. Its the same other way around too.

3. No Idea.

4. Again, I don't know, maybe if the vibes fit??? I'd imagine that I'd have met the person before so just bc its a first DATE doesn't mean its the first time we MEET. Depends on the other person honestly, I would not be the one to suggest or go in for a kiss first EVER, sounds scary tbh

5. Of course.

6. Yeah, but it might become an issue in the long run because of rules etc, considering I'm not religous at all

7. Decide? NEVER. Approve? Preferably yes, but if not its still my choice.

8. Same gender? Maybe. Much older or younger? Nope. Very different personality? Really depends on HOW they're different.

9. No, infact I don't see the point, no marriage for me. If I love someone and they love me thats enough.

10. Idk


Extras;

-Can't come up w any right now, ofc there's a lot tho.

-For me not really. As long as its not TOO far off, like if they're in A LOT of debt, maybe from casinos or something it means they're irresponsible in my eyes. Or if they're like SUPER rich, and not use the money for good causes (like helping people in need, animal or nature charities etc) or are famous bc of that. Both would be a turnoff for me.

-No, as I said, preferably never at all.

-No, I don't want to force love nor get on TV. I feel like you have to just let it happen, not force it, so for me I wouldn't even do a dating show. If its meant to be it'll happen anyway. Ofc I don't judge people who do this, its JUST for me (also cuz I'm scared of fakes, and chatting w people in a romantic manner feel weird to me)


Feel like those are long answers SORRYYY I love talking/writing too much (+I'm bored)

Thanksss Anniii!!!! πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— I am super thankful that you wrote long answers bc that makes it much nicer to know what you think!!! ANDDDD i think when there is a person that gets a date with you than you can say to that person we think they are VERY LUCKYYY bc you are one of the nicest persons i know on PPG and you are always super kind!!! And i also always write super long answers but yours are nicer to read!! So i hope that you do that as often as you want!! πŸ™‚

Thanksss Anniii!!!! πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— I am super thankful that you wrote long answers bc that makes it much nicer to know what you think!!! ANDDDD i think when there is a person that gets a date with you than you can say to that person we think they are VERY LUCKYYY bc you are one of the nicest persons i know on PPG and you are always super kind!!! And i also always write super long answers but yours are nicer to read!! So i hope that you do that as often as you want!! πŸ™‚

Oh thank you so much! I always feel like I write too much so this is nice to hear haha πŸ™‚