🥰 The LOVE forum ❤️

Hello everybody!! 🌈✨ Welcome to the ❤️-forum!! 😊😊 I have made 10 questions about love BUTTTT you can ask or write anything that you want. But i am also VERYYY curious about your answers!!

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

➡️ What do you consider a red flag in dating? (Question of @Miss_Penpal)

➡️ Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship? (Question of @buffyfan90)

➡️ Would you get married at the age of 18? (Question of Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2)

➡️ If you DONT have a relationship ANDDD it is like that for a long time: would you be in a tv show to find love? And if yes what kind? For example Married at First Sight, All you Need is Love, Temptation Island, Love Island or a dating show such as in my country Long live the love (Lang leve de liefde in Dutch) or Farmer searches wife (Boer zoekt vrouw)?

ANYBODY who wants to answer the questions is super welcome!!! And i am very thankful for it!!! 🙏🙏😊😊 But i tag some friends so they know about this new forum. I hope some maybe also want to answer the questions! 🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰

@psysarah15, @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Lianshen, @Sabri_KC, @PinkiePie, @Mulanyyy, @Wildflower-Farm, @Yu-Chiang, @Traveler_John, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @LandRoverDiscovery2, @martutuni, @Txya, @BartL, @steve-san, @Oxiu, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @alewashere, @lucasar92

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ANDDDD if you like forums about love we made also these and maybe you like them too!!!

✨ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/9798-true-love-is (this one has really funny quotes about love 😛 )

🌸 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10354-what-is-important-in-love (this forum @psysarah15 and i made)

❤️ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10594-what-makes-you-fall-in-love-with-someone (@Simone724 made this forum!!)

🌈 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10385-valentine-s-day-forum (this is about valentine's day 🙂 )

🌞 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/8318-what-s-your-taste-in-women-men (@Goldenrod12 made this forum)

there are more i think but i have to look up in the forum list!!!! 😛 😛

1) I don't fall in love often. I think the last time was over a year ago. And usually I try to hide it, so I hope people can't notice it.

2) I look for a good hygiene. I don't really care about what people look like, but I truly care about hygiene (of course I get that it's different for everyone).

3) Not really. I'll bring a gift only it it was their birthday or something like that.

4) Since I don't really like physical touch, I usually don't hug or kiss them first.

5) Yes. As a pansexual, I don't care about people appearance.

6) If this person respects other religion, yes, of course.

7) Since I'm fourteen, I've never talked to my parents about this.

8) Yes. As a pan, I don't care about people's gender or age, and even if their personality is very different of mine, I think we could get along.

9) Not really. Actually, I've never really thought about this. But I guess that even if marriage is a nice event, if two persons deeply love each other, then a piece of paper and a ring won't change it.

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

Yes, but even if I had a chance with the person, I wouldn't take it, so I don't think it counts as love. Also my 'love' doesn't usually last very long. You can tell I like you if I avoid you(but I also do that when I'm mad at people so I guess you can't really tell...)

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

I don't know. I avoid looking at people so much that sometimes I don't even know what a person looks like until after a few meetings with that person. And even once I'm comfortable to look at a person, I still avoid it.

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

I don't know, I've never been on a date. I think it depends on the context.

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

No, I hate being touched. Maybe after the 69264238945748th date.

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

Of course. I don't care about people's appearances that much.

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

If it's an atheist then yes, but any other religion I think it's not a good idea. If we end up getting married and having children, one of the two will have to give up on their religion and I don't think that's nice.

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

Approve yes, decide no. I'm sure they will be judgemental of my partner at first, but they only want me to be happy and I think that's very sweet. In any case, I will search for their approval before taking any big decisions.

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

The same gender no, but the rest yes, I think. I don't believe age matters much, my only limit is that my partner has to be younger than my parents(meaning up to thirty/thirty-five, which I think is pretty reasonable, even if it's against the law as of now...). I'm more strict when it comes to younger people though, I start feeling like a pedophile when a guy is only three years younger...

As for personalities, I believe that it's important to not be too similar to your partner, because if you think the same things, there's nothing to talk about. And in stressful situations, you're both equally stressed, so it's more difficult to calm each other down.

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

Yes, but I don't think the big ceremony is necessary. To me, a marriage is an agreement to stick together, not a huge party where you go sign a paper. That's just a way to let your friends and family know it's serious, but in my opinion an e-mail is just as effective(and much less stressful).

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

What do you consider a red flag in dating?

hello yue! nice forum

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

no, i rarely fall for someone. but if i do, i don't show or confess directly. unless i really like the person. like i confess immediately to my bf that he's cute haha

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

more into his smile, his voice and his aura, his talent, his personality and manners (he really a great communicator which i love it). and To be honest, the thing that made me fall harder with my current boyfriend was because when we first met, he looked very bright, like this

yeah yeah so cute, so bright, so fluffy

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

i only bring it when we are in our anniversary or birthday or any special occasion

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

weeeeeeeelllllllll yea, and he's the one who more often kiss me on cheek and head. he kiss me like he kissing a baby lmao

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

ofcourse, as long as he has sweet smile, bright aura, and great personality yet manners

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

yes, but only for a puppy love. i don't think i'll continue till wedding day. cause i won't be the reason of he betrays his religion.

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

both of my and his parent already approve to our relationship, so actually just waiting for when that day comes

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

same gender? no, i'm a straight. older? yes. younger? idk, even if yes, it feels strange, cause i feel like i'm dating my brother.
and different personality? obviously. me and my bf has very different personality, i'm lot calmer (but not an introvert, more into he has lot energy than me so i choose to be a calm one when i'm beside him) while he's like a golden retriever

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

yes. cause i only date to marry

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

you already nailed it, @Yue_ great job! ✨

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her? Yes, I have a weakness for catching feelings. I don’t hide my feelings so I’m pretty much direct about my feelings so they know.

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair? My first initial attraction is skin tone 😂 I’m a sucker for men with color not white.

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date? No

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person? I will give the person a hug if I’m comfortable.

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race? Yes, I don’t judge on race, culture, or religion.

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion? Yes, but don’t push your religion on me or expect me to convert.

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody? No

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality? No to gender, age I prefer older but don’t think I could do younger it would depend on maturity level.

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship? No, sometimes you can live happy without marriage.

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody? Do you think educational background and financials being on the same level important factor in relationship?

may i answer your question miss @Miss_Penpal @buffyfan90? cause i think it's interesting

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her? I becomming red when i like somebody no i dont fall in love easely

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair? Eyes they are the soul of the people

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date? Sometimes

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?noooo way

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?yeps

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?no

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?no

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?yes

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

may i answer your question miss @Miss_Penpal @buffyfan90? cause i think it's interesting

Yes, please do l would love to hear others opinion.

Personally, I think the two factors you mentioned are important, because the economy and education are factors that shape a person's personality and way of thinking. Even though in the modern world, caste is no longer as obvious as it was in the kingdom era, it actually still exists without the naked eye.

and I apologize, during my time with people, most people with education and economy below the minimum wage or who have not gone to college, tend to show an authoritarian attitude. and when I spoke to a psychologist, the psychologist validated that, I'm sorry, people with economic conditions or education that did not finish or even only went as far as high school, tend to be problematic. Because by not feeling that college is important, it indicates a sign that someone does not want to develop. considering that college itself has so many majors according to each person's interests.

and because of the lack of desire to develop, directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, it will eventually make someone become brain rot. which ultimately influences the pattern of the mind, attitude, and character. remembering that a person's character does not just appear, but is also formed through family, environment, playground, school, country, etc.

(cause i believe, study may hone your critical thinking, your ability, your mental, your emotional regulation, help you to understand people, and broader perspectives. and most of the time spent in a relationship is communicating, interacting, discussing this and that etc.. and the perpetrators of patriarchy & fatherlessness are mostly from the lower economic class and with education below high school, this is according to a psychologist when I interviewed her for my thesis)

So yes, Imo it's so important and i prefer to be with someone who is my equal, or higher, so that I have the motivation to improve myself.

disclaimer: i only selective when choosing a partner, so, in terms of friendship I can be friends with anyone

may i answer your question miss @Miss_Penpal @buffyfan90? cause i think it's interesting

Of course!

thankyou @Miss_Penpal 😃

imo, It is said to be a red flag if:

1. he only thinks about himself (the world seems to be centered on him, on his problems, on his trauma and everything about him.),

2. he isn't trying to understand why you like a b c d and instead forcing you to throw away the things you like. like example, you love makeup, or you think skincare is important. and His attitude seems to show that you are just wasting money, and in the end you feel guilty spending on makeup & skincare.

3. when he forget to ask your consent in doing anything, like sharing task, roles, burden of responsibility, or in crucial matters, such as the decision to have children, parenting style, etc. he also does not try to appreciate the existence of equality.

4. when he does not respect or consider important boundaries with the opposite sex especially if he is not clear about what is permissible and what is not allowed, in fact not being clear can lead to affair.

5. when he hides your identity, i mean, no face no case is cool, but it doesn't mean his family or friends don't know you. no face no case is only done because he doesn't want to publicize (face reveal) it on social media, but still shows hints that you already have a partner. either showing your back, hands, feet, or a photo with face covered.

and what about you @Miss_Penpal @Yue_ @Fleurke @buffyfan90 @AgDel What do you consider a red flag in dating?

I consider behaviors a red flag! Everyone is going to have flaws at some point. But, if you treat your mom like trash, you are going to have no respect for women. If he has no job, lives with mom, lives off government assistance big red flag. If he spends more time on how he looks going out, then he does with you 🚩 if he does not take no for an answer red flag. Anyone with a narcissistic personality disorder 🚩

1️⃣ Yes, too often I think. I find a lot of people very attractive and it really gets to me. Also if someone is kind to me in the slightest way I find that very attractive. But I usually don’t act on it because I feel too insecure and then I feel bad

2️⃣ I don’t know, nothing in particular. It’s usually what catches my eye I find attractive, because everyone has something I think

3️⃣ Depends, could be nice I think if you find something fitting for the person🙂

4️⃣ Hug yes and I have kissed on a first date because we had known eachother for a long time online and it just felt right🙂

5️⃣ Yes, of course. I think I prefer that, because I like diversity.

6️⃣ Yes of course, though I am a bit worried about having different customs and such.

7️⃣ No, I mean they can give advice, but in the end it is me I think

8️⃣ I have been with a guy and I do find some man very attractive, but I don’t know if it’s for me. I have been attracted to older/ younger people too. I have been in a relationship with someone with a completely different personality, but because of that I broke up.

9️⃣ I don’t know, certainly not religious marriage.

🔟 This will be an interesting forum I think. You have asked all of the right questions @Yue_ though I would like to know your answers too😉

thankyou @Miss_Penpal 😃

imo, It is said to be a red flag if:

1. he only thinks about himself (the world seems to be centered on him, on his problems, on his trauma and everything about him.),

2. he isn't trying to understand why you like a b c d and instead forcing you to throw away the things you like. like example, you love makeup, or you think skincare is important. and His attitude seems to show that you are just wasting money, and in the end you feel guilty spending on makeup & skincare.

3. when he forget to ask your consent in doing anything, like sharing task, roles, burden of responsibility, or in crucial matters, such as the decision to have children, parenting style, etc. he also does not try to appreciate the existence of equality.

4. when he does not respect or consider important boundaries with the opposite sex especially if he is not clear about what is permissible and what is not allowed, in fact not being clear can lead to affair.

5. when he hides your identity, i mean, no face no case is cool, but it doesn't mean his family or friends don't know you. no face no case is only done because he doesn't want to publicize (face reveal) it on social media, but still shows hints that you already have a partner. either showing your back, hands, feet, or a photo with face covered.

and what about you @Miss_Penpal @Yue_ @Fleurke @buffyfan90 @AgDel What do you consider a red flag in dating?

When he looks constanly at his phone,when he dont look in your eyes but look everywhere around,when he is late,if he is not clean( hair done ,parfum ,nice clothes) if he just talk about himself ,if he dont work,

thankyou @Miss_Penpal 😃

imo, It is said to be a red flag if:

1. he only thinks about himself (the world seems to be centered on him, on his problems, on his trauma and everything about him.),

2. he isn't trying to understand why you like a b c d and instead forcing you to throw away the things you like. like example, you love makeup, or you think skincare is important. and His attitude seems to show that you are just wasting money, and in the end you feel guilty spending on makeup & skincare.

3. when he forget to ask your consent in doing anything, like sharing task, roles, burden of responsibility, or in crucial matters, such as the decision to have children, parenting style, etc. he also does not try to appreciate the existence of equality.

4. when he does not respect or consider important boundaries with the opposite sex especially if he is not clear about what is permissible and what is not allowed, in fact not being clear can lead to affair.

5. when he hides your identity, i mean, no face no case is cool, but it doesn't mean his family or friends don't know you. no face no case is only done because he doesn't want to publicize (face reveal) it on social media, but still shows hints that you already have a partner. either showing your back, hands, feet, or a photo with face covered.

and what about you @Miss_Penpal @Yue_ @Fleurke @buffyfan90 @AgDel What do you consider a red flag in dating?

If someone is angry when you succeed about something and they don't, or if they're very close minded and don't accept it when you have a different opinion.

Hello everybody!! 🌈✨ Welcome to the ❤️-forum!! 😊😊 I have made 10 questions about love BUTTTT you can ask or write anything that you want. But i am also VERYYY curious about your answers!!

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you fall in love often? And how can a person tell that you like him or her?

2️⃣ What is the first you look from the person if you have a date? For example eyes or face or hair?

3️⃣ Do you bring a gift if you have a date?

4️⃣ Do you kiss already on a first date or hug that person?

5️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody from a different race? So for example between white and asian and black or different race?

6️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has a different religion?

7️⃣ Do your parents decide or approve if you want to marry or live together with somebody?

8️⃣ Can you fall in love with somebody who has same gender as you or who is much older or younger or has a VERY different personality?

9️⃣ Is marriage important for you if you have a relationship?

🔟 What question did i forget to ask and would you like to ask everybody?

ANYBODY who wants to answer the questions is super welcome!!! And i am very thankful for it!!! 🙏🙏😊😊 But i tag some friends so they know about this new forum. I hope some maybe also want to answer the questions! 🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰

@psysarah15, @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Lianshen, @Sabri_KC, @PinkiePie, @Esma-Nur, @Wildflower-Farm, @Yu-Chiang, @NewTravelerInTown, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Ursul_Romanesc, @martutuni, @Txya, @BartL, @steve-san, @Oxiu, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @alewashere, @lucasar92

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1 not often, and no.

2 idk.

3 maybe.

4 no, i dont think so, but maybe at the end.

5 i dont think so, but maybe.

6 yes, i guess.

7 no, thats my own deccision.

8 ypunger, yes, for the rest, no.

9 yes, i think so.

10 i would like to ask: would you get married at the age of 18?

Wowww i had read what @AgDel wrote yesterday but when i woke up this morning i saw a LOTTTT of replies and i read everything!!! 😊😊 Thank you very much everybody who replied!!! 🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏 And @TomiL, @Paolo17jun and @LandRoverDiscovery2 you are very brave bc i saw first replies were ALL from females and you are now also replying for guys so that is really cool!! 💪😎😎

I put the questions of @Miss_Penpal, @buffyfan90 and @LandRoverDiscovery2 above in the question lists in the first post so everybody can answer them too!! 🙂 I will also anser everything but my mom said that we go in 30 minutes to Rotterdam for family and i did not expect that. So i will answer all the questions when i am home again today!!!

But i looked yesterday for other love forums and some really nice ones are these and i hope that maybe some like to read them:

✨ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/9798-true-love-is (this one has really funny quotes about love 😛 )

🌸 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10354-what-is-important-in-love (this forum @psysarah15 and i made)

❤️ https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10594-what-makes-you-fall-in-love-with-someone (@Simone724 made this forum!!)

🌈 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/10385-valentine-s-day-forum (this is about valentine's day 🙂 )

🌞 https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/8318-what-s-your-taste-in-women-men (@Goldenrod12 made this forum)

I also put them in the first post of this forum and maybe there are more love forums but i have to look them up later when i am back!!!! Really super big thank you for everybody who answered the questions and who maybe still will answer them!!! 🤗🤗🤗🌈🥰🌈🌹🌹🌹

I know a guy called @alexios2604 who got married to his girlfriend at the age of 18. Hes from Limassol, Cyprus.