Hello how many kids do you have? And for the younger ones how many children do you want ? And is it necessary to married when you want children or not? I look forward to your answers
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for me, give a birth and raising children is a such big responsibility and need a very strong commitment. cause the bigger the mature your kid will be, the more tricky, complicated, yet difficult for you to deal. especially when Your path and your child's path are different. There needs to be wisdom and openness from both parties. you are not only preparing in financial, but also you need to prepare other aspects like mental, personality, mindset, and study about parenting. especially now the world is increasingly open to all choices. cause i don't wanna be parent who causes my kid some issue or trauma. and i don't wanna have more than 2 children.
Incidentally, my thesis is themed around family, there are so many children who experience various kinds of issues and problems resulting from parents deciding to have children, but they don't really take good care of their children, or you could say their parents are impatient or too hasty without considering many aspects to welcome their children.
but, i also believe that every marriage life will be full of blessing & happiness with or without kids. cause when you decide to tie-the-knot with your partner, both of you believe it's a happy ending and believe that no matter how bad the storm is, it'll shall pass.
for me, give a birth and raising children is a such big responsibility and need a very strong commitment. cause the bigger the mature your kid will be, the more tricky, complicated, yet difficult for you to deal. especially when Your path and your child's path are different. There needs to be wisdom and openness from both parties. you are not only preparing in financial, but also you need to prepare other aspects like mental, personality, mindset, and study about parenting. especially now the world is increasingly open to all choices. cause i don't wanna be parent who causes my kid some issue or trauma. and i don't wanna have more than 2 children.Thanks for sharing your thoughts it was really interresant to read your opinion about this forumIncidentally, my thesis is themed around family, there are so many children who experience various kinds of issues and problems resulting from parents deciding to have children, but they don't really take good care of their children, or you could say their parents are impatient or too hasty without considering many aspects to welcome their children.
but, i also believe that every marriage life will be full of blessing & happiness with or without kids. cause when you decide to tie-the-knot with your partner, both of you believe it's a happy ending and believe that no matter how bad the storm is, it'll shall pass.
I don't want to have children. I never felt the desire and I honestly don't like kids a lot. Here some kids are just so annoying. I don't think you should be married in order to be able to have kids. Also, having kids is a huge responsibilty, raising them would probably mean having to give up your own freedom, it costs a lot of money and you're tied to them forever and have to take a lot of care for them.
I would like to have 2 kids when maybe i am 25 or older. But first i want to go to university and have a job. And you need to find a relationship that is nice and you dont know if you will get that of course. Now i babysit at two families and that is very nice to do. So I know what you have to do to take care of them and i like doing that. But with your own kids that is maybe even more special.
And I want not just 1 but 2 kids so they are together and not alone. And I dont mind if they are boys or girls.
Hello how many kids do you have? And for the younger ones how many children do you want ? And is it necessary to married when you want children or not? I look forward to your answersI think getting married is essential if you want to have children with someone. And making sure that person will stick with you no matter what is important too, because I know a lot of people with divorced parents and believe it or not, I noticed it makes a difference on the morals and the personality.
Once I've found my partner I'd like to have at least two kids, to replace me and my him when we'll be gone. And I don't want too many children because I know they can be very annoying at times, but as long as it stays under five I won't complain too much.
I don’t know if i want to have kids or not. Some months ago I’d immediately say “omg yes” but there are some things that i found too gross and disgusting,like changing the diaper and other things. I have 2 younger brothers so i know what it’s like to have a baby and you are kinda trappedChanging diapers is not a problem. The first problem is having the resources to support a child, make him grow up, make him study. Second problem: having time to take care of a child and to work
Changing diapers is not a problem. The first problem is having the resources to support a child, make him grow up, make him study. Second problem: having time to take care of a child and to work
But all of that i think is not a problem if you ❤️ your child i think!! And except for what you say like money to support a child because that depends if you have a nice job in the future. But all the rest would be not a problem at all. Because I believe if you have a baby you think the baby is more important than yourself!! That is what all parents think right so it would be nice to do all those things!! 🥰🥰 I REALLY want to be a mom one day if i can but if everything is ready so like when you are 25 or older is a good time i think now.
