for me, give a birth and raising children is a such big responsibility and need a very strong commitment. cause the bigger the mature your kid will be, the more tricky, complicated, yet difficult for you to deal. especially when Your path and your child's path are different. There needs to be wisdom and openness from both parties. you are not only preparing in financial, but also you need to prepare other aspects like mental, personality, mindset, and study about parenting. especially now the world is increasingly open to all choices. cause i don't wanna be parent who causes my kid some issue or trauma. and i don't wanna have more than 2 children.
Incidentally, my thesis is themed around family, there are so many children who experience various kinds of issues and problems resulting from parents deciding to have children, but they don't really take good care of their children, or you could say their parents are impatient or too hasty without considering many aspects to welcome their children.
but, i also believe that every marriage life will be full of blessing & happiness with or without kids. cause when you decide to tie-the-knot with your partner, both of you believe it's a happy ending and believe that no matter how bad the storm is, it'll shall pass.