that's in your thoughts... not in her.. 😃
I know you would not agree on me.. but you only see what's your eyes want to see.. !!
If someone say one and another one.. it does not mean s/he wanted listener to sum of one and one = two. it is the listener's mind that start calculating the sum. There are multi perspectives on one situation, but we choose only what we want, my friend..!
yes ofc thats my thought. I never said its soeone elses thought.
I dont know really what i have to write about this topic. Maybe if you have a relationship but it is online it is also more difficult i think. Bc if you want to do things together that is only possible if you travel super far and that is not possible normally. And if you really live together and marry than maybe one has to move to another country and i would not want to leave my family BUTTTT i would also not ask that of my bf. So that would be really difficult.
But on PPG i know of at least 3 couples and i think there are more so it CAN work. And i think @Etienne also knows about maybe even more couples so he is also a matchmaker!!!!!!!! 😛 😛 Some wrote about it in the interviews so you can read it there if you want that. And i think it is really strong that they can make it work to have an online relationship!!!
But for me i think i prefer maybe from my school or in the same city so you can meet each other more often. I think that is the nicest so you can know each other really well and have time together more.
If you guys can meet each other face-to-face after metting online, you guys can work it out somehow. If not, then more likely you will be in a situation called "more than friendship, less than love".
Actually, in life there are a lot of things that will be different when you do it online vs when you do it offline. For example, online poker vs playing poker in real life; or online chess vs over-the-board-chess.
For love, I think you need to spend time doing activities together. And no, I am not talking about sex (I read the previous posts, so I have to say that, just to be clear from the first place). Rather, I'm talking about creating memories for each other. Where would you guys travel to? What could you do there? etc, stuffs like that. Also, you can understand your partner a lot more when doing things offline than online.
Just talking with your "partner" online, seeking for love that way. Chances of success? I don't say it's zero, but still very low. No matter how interesting your conversations are, besides that, what do you guys have?
interesting what your saying here, i must say.
If you guys can meet each other face-to-face after metting online, you guys can work it out somehow. If not, then more likely you will be in a situation called "more than friendship, less than love".
Actually, in life there are a lot of things that will be different when you do it online vs when you do it offline. For example, online poker vs playing poker in real life; or online chess vs over-the-board-chess.
For love, I think you need to spend time doing activities together. And no, I am not talking about sex (I read the previous posts, so I have to say that, just to be clear from the first place). Rather, I'm talking about creating memories for each other. Where would you guys travel to? What could you do there? etc, stuffs like that. Also, you can understand your partner a lot more when doing things offline than online.
Just talking with your "partner" online, seeking for love that way. Chances of success? I don't say it's zero, but still very low. No matter how interesting your conversations are, besides that, what do you guys have?
Firstly, he set the privacy so that people couldn't see his profile. This is a huge violation of privacy. It's like if I share a screenshot of a private chat on the forum! Come on!
Secondly, there is nothing wrong in that sentence, this is not a dating app but he didn't write anything suspicious.
@Etienne Can you take that picture down? Thanks
Firstly, he set the privacy so that people couldn't see his profile. This is a huge violation of privacy. It's like if I share a screenshot of a private chat on the forum! Come on!
Secondly, there is nothing wrong in that sentence, this is not a dating app but he didn't write anything suspicious.
@Etienne Can you take that picture down? Thanks
your right, so i deleted it myself.
Do you think this is a possible thing to do?
How do you think about it?
It can be a good option for introvert ppl like me, who my dumbass thought my dream man would maybe appear in some supermarket in nowhere town and marry me.
I mean guys, it is still possible, never stop dreaming😍!!
But yeah still glad the Internet is working in my town cuz otherwise I probably wouldn't even have friends❤️
well, thats actually exactly the same way as i am thinking.
It can be a good option for introvert ppl like me, who my dumbass thought my dream man would maybe appear in some supermarket in nowhere town and marry me.
I mean guys, it is still possible, never stop dreaming😍!!
But yeah still glad the Internet is working in my town cuz otherwise I probably wouldn't even have friends❤️
I agree with @Chantal- that if you crave love from the internet, i worry what you crave actually not love, but a loyal company to talk. Especially, LDR, the risk and pain are higher than in the real world. Because commitment feels a more challenging and difficult, especially if you can't reach them. You'll feel a sense of longing, a desire to go beyond the screen to meet them that's painful, especially when you don't know if they're truly for you or if they have someone else behind their back.
But I admit, it's fun to talk to someone (especially if you chat every day), i understand the fun when you can banter and exchange a fun yet cute messages (in romantic way). But that's only the extent of it. Beyond that, you can't hold their hand, hug them, kiss their cheek, stroke their hair, smell the perfume they use and so on which are all things you can only do in the real life.
Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha
I agree with @Chantal- that if you crave love from the internet, i worry what you crave actually not love, but a loyal company to talk. Especially, LDR, the risk and pain are higher than in the real world. Because commitment feels a more challenging and difficult, especially if you can't reach them. You'll feel a sense of longing, a desire to go beyond the screen to meet them that's painful, especially when you don't know if they're truly for you or if they have someone else behind their back.
But I admit, it's fun to talk to someone (especially if you chat every day), i understand the fun when you can banter and exchange a fun yet cute messages (in romantic way). But that's only the extent of it. Beyond that, you can't hold their hand, hug them, kiss their cheek, stroke their hair, smell the perfume they use and so on which are all things you can only do in the real life.
Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha
This just made me feel more single, thank you
Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha
But I also believe it depends on what your heart decides. For the rest I do agree with you.
I don't believe it's possible to fall in love with somebody who has never even been in your company! If a person enters your life after you've met them online, then...that would be different, obviously! I know of a woman who says that she is in love with a guy and she's never done more than talk to him on the phone - oh, dear! Infatuation, maybe - but, love?...naaaah!
I disagree, somehow.
I don't believe it's possible to fall in love with somebody who has never even been in your company! If a person enters your life after you've met them online, then...that would be different, obviously! I know of a woman who says that she is in love with a guy and she's never done more than talk to him on the phone - oh, dear! Infatuation, maybe - but, love?...naaaah!
sure you will 😉
ofcourse, i just explained my personal experience, but if one day you find true love online till you get married, i'd like to hear it! cause it must be interesting
what kind of love are you looking for, @Ilexforest?
