Looking for love online

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Do you think this is a possible thing to do?

How do you think about it?

Love might be a strong word because I think it requires time spent together, being physical with the other person (just holding hands, looking at eachother in the eyes, kissing...), talking, doing daily activities... Maybe a crush, a flirt, a strong bond even... But not love. If you plan to see the other person it can become love afterwards but I think that you need to meet, just to see if the things you know and the things you pictured match.

A lot can be misinterpreted and misunderstood online so meeting is always a good idea!


by love i did not meqn sex yk?

Love might be a strong word because I think it requires time spent together, being physical with the other person (just holding hands, looking at eachother in the eyes, kissing...), talking, doing daily activities... Maybe a crush, a flirt, a strong bond even... But not love. If you plan to see the other person it can become love afterwards but I think that you need to meet, just to see if the things you know and the things you pictured match.

A lot can be misinterpreted and misunderstood online so meeting is always a good idea!

I never mentioned sex once.

I never mentioned sex once.

sorry; the way you were talking it sounded like you ment sex. By love i actually ment a romantic relationship, wich lately can turn into more then just a relationship.

You cant have love for real in the net. Its like you fell in love with the author of a book you read

yes, might be true @TierM38, might be true.

https://penpal-gate.net/kurisu_

this profile is why i started the topic. Read his first text.

I give you the advice: Dont get lost in it. You will be unlucky afterwards!


Thanks! I will take the advice. But can't promise myslef anything 😛

I give you the advice: Dont get lost in it. You will be unlucky afterwards!

I have not seen the text on his profile, probably deleted....

My story: last august, an attempt was made to scam me online via Instagram, later Telegram through so called 'Dating fraud'. Fortunately I only have lost a giftcard of 102,50 euro but I could have been caught for a lot of more money. I'll spare you further details. I still can get emotional about it. Filed a report with the police, my bank had already informed me about fraudulent activities, and called victim support here in the Netherlands.

So I've become much more cautious about online romance these days.
Even I have deleted my accounts on Telegram and Instagram.

aangepast door Sander77nl .

You cant have love for real in the net. Its like you fell in love with the author of a book you read

You have interactions with a book?


Even in real life, finding love is something like playing hide and seek with shadows in a pitch black playground, and finding love online, is letting some thick fog into that playground. Possible? Yes, after all, "we are an impossibility in an impossible universe".

Long distance relationships work if the two people meet shortly after.Otherwise not. The relationships i had were all in real life. It’s okay to meet someone online and start a long distance relationship and then meet them as soon as possible. I’ve done that.Otherwise its nonsense

@LandRoverDiscovery2 privacy setting are enabled so I can't see anything, either

@Sander77nl OMG I'm sorry it happened to you!

@TierM38 how can I not agree with you? Don't get lost in it. Seems easy, Schatzi 😜


by love i did not meqn sex yk?

Where did she mention sex? Holding hands,kissing,hugging isn’t necessarily sex. It’s physical contact that you NEED in a relationship.

Where did she mention sex? Holding hands,kissing,hugging isn’t necessarily sex. It’s physical contact that you NEED in a relationship.

I agree with you. Physical part is also love! That's why I said meeting is important!

Where did she mention sex? Holding hands,kissing,hugging isn’t necessarily sex. It’s physical contact that you NEED in a relationship.

I said the way she was talking it sounded like she was talking about sex.

I said the way she was talking it sounded like she was talking about sex.

that's in your thoughts... not in her.. 😃

I know you would not agree on me.. but you only see what's your eyes want to see.. !!

If someone say one and another one.. it does not mean s/he wanted listener to sum of one and one = two. it is the listener's mind that start calculating the sum. There are multi perspectives on one situation, but we choose only what we want, my friend..!

aangepast door shirazikira .