Looking for love online

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Firstly, he set the privacy so that people couldn't see his profile. This is a huge violation of privacy. It's like if I share a screenshot of a private chat on the forum! Come on!

Secondly, there is nothing wrong in that sentence, this is not a dating app but he didn't write anything suspicious.

@Etienne Can you take that picture down? Thanks

your right, so i deleted it myself.

I think it's impossible enough to find love absolutely anywhere, these decades - let alone, find it online.

Do you think this is a possible thing to do?

How do you think about it?

It can be a good option for introvert ppl like me, who my dumbass thought my dream man would maybe appear in some supermarket in nowhere town and marry me.


I mean guys, it is still possible, never stop dreaming😍!!


But yeah still glad the Internet is working in my town cuz otherwise I probably wouldn't even have friends❤️


well, thats actually exactly the same way as i am thinking.

It can be a good option for introvert ppl like me, who my dumbass thought my dream man would maybe appear in some supermarket in nowhere town and marry me.


I mean guys, it is still possible, never stop dreaming😍!!


But yeah still glad the Internet is working in my town cuz otherwise I probably wouldn't even have friends❤️

I agree with @Chantal- that if you crave love from the internet, i worry what you crave actually not love, but a loyal company to talk. Especially, LDR, the risk and pain are higher than in the real world. Because commitment feels a more challenging and difficult, especially if you can't reach them. You'll feel a sense of longing, a desire to go beyond the screen to meet them that's painful, especially when you don't know if they're truly for you or if they have someone else behind their back.

But I admit, it's fun to talk to someone (especially if you chat every day), i understand the fun when you can banter and exchange a fun yet cute messages (in romantic way). But that's only the extent of it. Beyond that, you can't hold their hand, hug them, kiss their cheek, stroke their hair, smell the perfume they use and so on which are all things you can only do in the real life.

Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha

I agree with @Chantal- that if you crave love from the internet, i worry what you crave actually not love, but a loyal company to talk. Especially, LDR, the risk and pain are higher than in the real world. Because commitment feels a more challenging and difficult, especially if you can't reach them. You'll feel a sense of longing, a desire to go beyond the screen to meet them that's painful, especially when you don't know if they're truly for you or if they have someone else behind their back.

But I admit, it's fun to talk to someone (especially if you chat every day), i understand the fun when you can banter and exchange a fun yet cute messages (in romantic way). But that's only the extent of it. Beyond that, you can't hold their hand, hug them, kiss their cheek, stroke their hair, smell the perfume they use and so on which are all things you can only do in the real life.

Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha

This just made me feel more single, thank you

oh whyy

Trust me, it's more fun and feel so real to have a relationship in real life, it's addictive! haha

But I also believe it depends on what your heart decides. For the rest I do agree with you.

ofcourse, i just explained my personal experience, but if one day you find true love online till you get married, i'd like to hear it! cause it must be interesting

I don't believe it's possible to fall in love with somebody who has never even been in your company! If a person enters your life after you've met them online, then...that would be different, obviously! I know of a woman who says that she is in love with a guy and she's never done more than talk to him on the phone - oh, dear! Infatuation, maybe - but, love?...naaaah!

I disagree, somehow.

I don't believe it's possible to fall in love with somebody who has never even been in your company! If a person enters your life after you've met them online, then...that would be different, obviously! I know of a woman who says that she is in love with a guy and she's never done more than talk to him on the phone - oh, dear! Infatuation, maybe - but, love?...naaaah!

sure you will 😉

ofcourse, i just explained my personal experience, but if one day you find true love online till you get married, i'd like to hear it! cause it must be interesting

what kind of love are you looking for, @Ilexforest?

For me it can go in a way meeting someone online and than falling in love offline. Just online wont work.

I don't know, it seems unlikely to me. I'd like to, too, but I'm not going to be lucky. This world is empty

Do you think this is a possible thing to do?

How do you think about it?

Well, I think it’s possible. My aunt met my uncle in a web. Now they are happily married with two sons, one has 6 years an the other one 2.

I honestly don't know but i think it may start a spark bye regular writing or chatting together.

I would also like to find love, a lifelong love, but it's unlikely to happen online.

I think it's possible, of course!!! But only if you can meet, otherwise it will only hurt