❤️ How do u rate ur life? 😇

Hello everybody!! 😊😇 We had in school today a talk and i think it was super interesting and it is why i wanted to discuss this now also on the forum. BUTTT only those who want it. 🙏🙏

So it is abt how do u rate your life and i mean the quality of things bc that was also said today. And u can rate in the way u like for example a number from 1-10 or that u describe it with a word or thumbs up or down or an emojii for example. ⬆️⬇️🆘🆒❤️☹️🥳😀🔟✅❌

So what are ur ratings for:

1️⃣ Your family?

2️⃣ Your friends irl?

3️⃣ Your friends online?

4️⃣ Your health?

5️⃣ Your home?

6️⃣ Your school or work?

7️⃣ Your hobbies?

8️⃣ Your ❤️ life?

9️⃣ Your outfits?

🔟 Your holidays? (added below by @Angelsn_thesky360) 😊

1️⃣1️⃣ Your music taste? (added by @AN3TT3) 🤗

1️⃣2️⃣ Your mentality? (added by @ludwigwo) 😎

➡️ Smt else that should be in this list?

➡️ And what do u think would be the nicest for ur life to be better?

I tag ppl below like always bc that way my friends know abt this forum. But i hope that ANYBODY who likes to post an answer does that bc it is always nice to read. ANDDD ppl can add things to the list above too if u want that. 😊🥰🥰 Thank you very much!!!!! 🙏⭐🙏

@mayuuram, @Fleurke, @NIS4, @Miss_Penpal, @Angelsn_thesky360, @AN3TT3, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @PinkiePie, @Torakka, @Vixie, @Lianshen, @_Aizhan_, @Nishu, @chiikawaattack, @Jabmax, @shirazikira, @Vibxen, @Agnes128, @martutuni, @Douglasgao, @Hannah-, @Marco_ita89, @rambob, @addfreak, @Bunny2010, @AbigailSciuto, @Azryffel, @ElijahB, @ludwigwo, @H_E_A_R_T, @Lir_Elhan, @xiao_redbear, @Etienne, @Simone724, @faber_88, @Piwipete, @Parsaa, @diogenes_cask, @Idkbro, @psysarah15, @AgDel, @Jullian, @Savi2024, @Pennarossa2024, @Annika2007, @JanyiahMoon27, @Karumen, @Emma_-. @Yannick_Islander, @Viovio_Sheronsky1205, @vtt3613, @Kotyaka2023, @Waterpol8girlll, @pope

PS: Of course i know it is super difficult to just rate stuff, but it is still nice i think to talk abt things too. So maybe that is possible now i hope. 🙂

my family 7/10

friends irl, I don't have any so uh... 0/10

friends online 10/10

my physical health ummmm idk I think 5/10 mental health is also 5/10 how great right

uh... my home......eh I mean I have a roof over my head so I guess 7/10

school 0/10

hobbies 2/10

my love life? uh.......well I'm just gonna put 8/10

my outfits? 10/10 in my opinion

my holidays 10/10

my music taste obviously 10/10

my mentality 7/10

and uh yea

my family 7/10

friends irl, I don't have any so uh... 0/10

friends online 10/10

my physical health ummmm idk I think 6/10 mental health is 5/10

uh... my home......eh I mean I have a roof over my head so I guess 7/10

school 0/10

hobbies 2/10

my love life? uh.......well I'm just gonna put 8/10

my outfits? 10/10 in my opinion

my holidays 10/10

my music taste obviously 10/10

my mentality 7/10

and uh yea

Sophiaaaa @Angelic_Princessss welcome on the forum!!!!!!!! 😊😊🥰 Like Maorii Lin u have to explain ❤️ life bc u didnt tell me yet!!!! 😛 😛 And im surprised by friends irl bc u are super nice and chill. So i think if u are like here irl then u have soon a LOTTTT!!! 🙂 I hope u write often on the forum bc that would be really nice!!!! 😃

And @Lianshen im not sure if i understand it but abt your ❤️ life it is between VERY high or below zero?? I hope now it is VERY high!! 🙂

It depends... It's switching between both. When it goes well, it goes very very well, but when it does, it's usually really bad.

6.5/10 for me my health is normally good. I do have some things im really concerned abt too often and i know that is not necessary. But for me i keep having the concerns even if other persons tell it is not needed. And also mentally i would give higher score if i feel more confident too. So i think 6.5 is fair as score.

Hopefully that will be improved in the future. It's ok to be concerned a little with your own health, but if you are "sure" it's not bad, try to let it go over time, it will be ok!
As for your confidence, you will build it over time, seeing that you are doing great. From what I see, you are doing great here at least

I'm surprised teenagers still enjoy Yiruma thhese days; I thought it would be just a niche trend when I was teen myself !

It depends... It's switching between both. When it goes well, it goes very very well, but when it does, it's usually really bad.

Hopefully that will be improved in the future. It's ok to be concerned a little with your own health, but if you are "sure" it's not bad, try to let it go over time, it will be ok!
As for your confidence, you will build it over time, seeing that you are doing great. From what I see, you are doing great here at least

I'm surprised teenagers still enjoy Yiruma thhese days; I thought it would be just a niche trend when I was teen myself !

Merci beaucoup @Lianshen!!! 😊😊 For me it is a difficult topic bc i talked with others also abt it and i still have it in my head even if others say that is not necessary. For me the biggest problems of health is that im always concerned abt weight but ppl say im still a bit underweight but in my head i really struggle for it that it is better to weigh a little bit more. And ppl also give different advices abt it. So now im trying to weigh just a little bit more but still i doubt it a lot often bc it feels like ur getting like a fat panda even if it is just in ur head. I also had difficulty with if u are highly sensitive but my school mentor also has that and she helps a lot bc we talk often. And confidence is difficult bc if u write on the forum here for example that is easy now. Sometimes it can also be super cringe if i type too fast when posting things and i look back and i think omggg! But irl if for example u give presentation to a LOTTTT of ppl they all look at u and that makes me super uncomfortable. Also if some say for example speak louder and then u feel super stressed. But if u talk longer then sometimes that goes away or at least the most after some minutes. 🙄😬

Oww i forgot abt yiruma: when i had piano classes my teacher likes him a LOTTT!! And we also listen to it and play like how sounds on playlist. BUTTTT im not so good i can play like him of course!!!! Do u also play piano @Lianshen?? 🙂

Merci beaucoup @Lianshen!!! 😊😊 For me it is a difficult topic bc i talked with others also abt it and i still have it in my head even if others say that is not necessary. For me the biggest problems of health is that im always concerned abt weight but ppl say im still a bit underweight but in my head i really struggle for it that it is better to weigh a little bit more. And ppl also give different advices abt it. So now im trying to weigh just a little bit more but still i doubt it a lot often bc it feels like ur getting like a fat panda even if it is just in ur head. I also had difficulty with if u are highly sensitive but my school mentor also has that and she helps a lot bc we talk often. And confidence is difficult bc if u write on the forum here for example that is easy now. Sometimes it can also be super cringe if i type too fast when posting things and i look back and i think omggg! But irl if for example u give presentation to a LOTTTT of ppl they all look at u and that makes me super uncomfortable. Also if some say for example speak louder and then u feel super stressed. But if u talk longer then sometimes that goes away or at least the most after some minutes. 🙄😬

Oww i forgot abt yiruma: when i had piano classes my teacher likes him a LOTTT!! And we also listen to it and play like how sounds on playlist. BUTTTT im not so good i can play like him of course!!!! Do u also play piano @Lianshen?? 🙂

If it's about weight, since you are ethnically Han (?), you probably have slightly different ideal weight from that of Europeans for example. What is important is that you eat properly and when you are hungry, and that should suffice to be healthy. I used to be underweight as well, but I always ate to my heart's content and it was just my metabolism; if you are the same, then try to trust yourself about it.
Now, if you really have to get some weight and are afraid to look like a fatty panda, maybe doing sport might help, because muscle is heavier than fat, so it takes less volume for the same weight (and often looks better shaped).

I'm sure you have heard about that though and it was just a reminder. The most important, as I said, is that you eat properly when you are hungry 🙂

Concerning sensitivity, I'm convinced that you are doing your best and that it will get easier over time

For confidence; Everybody is cringe. If you are really scared of presentations, there are 2 things to try to remember a bit : 1) most people don't care about other presentations (and will talk, play, look at their phone...); 2) they are probably stressing about their own presentation as much if not more.
What I did when I had to do them was to willingly find something almost unrelated, dumb, or unexpected to insert in the powerpoint and my mind would be occupied with my "joke to myself" enough to ignore many other things. Of course, I worked on it and knew what I'd say in the first and last minutes (because like you noted very well, the peak of stress is within the first minute), and globally had idea of how I'd build my story along the middle, but the idea of having a comfort "stupid thhing" in the middle of my powerpoint was helping me to both be more confident with it and ironically to draw attention on my content.
Talking in front of people is hard though: if you don't do it often, it's always a bit stressful, so don't worry about it as it means almost nothing on your true abilities !

Else, no , alas I don't play any instrument

Maoriii Linnn @chiikawaattack!!! u have to explain answer 8 being max score for ❤️ life!!!! 😛 😛 Sorryyyy im just teasing abt it but also curious of course!!!!!! 😃 I like almost all ur scores are super high!!! ⬆️🆙⬆️

yes it is because rn I am single haha

I hate being in a relationship cuz i hate being controlled/dependent on someone

yes it is because rn I am single haha

I hate being in a relationship cuz i hate being controlled/dependent on someone

Sameee girlllll!! But I like someone now so it's really badddd 😭😭😭🥀🥀

Sameee girlllll!! But I like someone now so it's really badddd 😭😭😭🥀🥀

Oh my my! now that's some kind of news!!!😉😜

If it's about weight, since you are ethnically Han (?), you probably have slightly different ideal weight from that of Europeans for example. What is important is that you eat properly and when you are hungry, and that should suffice to be healthy. I used to be underweight as well, but I always ate to my heart's content and it was just my metabolism; if you are the same, then try to trust yourself about it.
Now, if you really have to get some weight and are afraid to look like a fatty panda, maybe doing sport might help, because muscle is heavier than fat, so it takes less volume for the same weight (and often looks better shaped).

I'm sure you have heard about that though and it was just a reminder. The most important, as I said, is that you eat properly when you are hungry 🙂

Concerning sensitivity, I'm convinced that you are doing your best and that it will get easier over time

For confidence; Everybody is cringe. If you are really scared of presentations, there are 2 things to try to remember a bit : 1) most people don't care about other presentations (and will talk, play, look at their phone...); 2) they are probably stressing about their own presentation as much if not more.
What I did when I had to do them was to willingly find something almost unrelated, dumb, or unexpected to insert in the powerpoint and my mind would be occupied with my "joke to myself" enough to ignore many other things. Of course, I worked on it and knew what I'd say in the first and last minutes (because like you noted very well, the peak of stress is within the first minute), and globally had idea of how I'd build my story along the middle, but the idea of having a comfort "stupid thhing" in the middle of my powerpoint was helping me to both be more confident with it and ironically to draw attention on my content.
Talking in front of people is hard though: if you don't do it often, it's always a bit stressful, so don't worry about it as it means almost nothing on your true abilities !

Else, no , alas I don't play any instrument

Thnxxx very much @Lianshen!!! 🙏🙏😊😊 I need to get 1,5-2 kg more and then it is good enough. So basically it is important not only that u eat enough but also that u eat enough for energy and you will also get a LOTTT less tired. But i tried to get out more carbohydrate food but for example now in the morning with yoghurt i must not only add more fruits but also cerials for example. But im doing that now already some time. And i bike every day to school and i do ballet as sports. I got advise for swimming but i think it is also expensive like for example tennis. But maybe swimming is good bc u get stronger without injuries if u do that often. And we have a swimming pool which is not super far from our house so maybe if my parents think it is not too much for it then yes.

And u are right abt the presentations bc if you are ok in the beginning then later it is less difficult. 🙄😬 Now i try normally that you for example write smt on the white board or if u are allowed to have powerpoint that they look at that. Bc that way they dont look at u and that makes it less difficult so i think that is a really good tip if anybody can use that!!! 😛 😛

Do u want to learn a music instrument and in that case maybe piano @Lianshen??? 🙂

yes it is because rn I am single haha

I hate being in a relationship cuz i hate being controlled/dependent on someone

Can i ask Maori Lin did u have a relationship and was it like that a lot?? 😬😬

Sameee girlllll!! But I like someone now so it's really badddd 😭😭😭🥀🥀

@Bunny2010 is right u must tell Nidhiiii @Nishu!!!!! 🥰🥰❤️❤️

Oh my my! now that's some kind of news!!!😉😜

It is 🥀🥀 But all I've ever gotten from her is 10 heartbreaks 🐣

@Bunny2010 is right u must tell Nidhiiii @Nishu!!!!! 🥰🥰❤️❤️

She's gonna kill me if I publicly wrote that I love her. 🥹✨

It is 🥀🥀 But all I've ever gotten from her is 10 heartbreaks 🐣

She's gonna kill me if I publicly wrote that I love her. 🥹✨

I hope maybe later she will give 10 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ BUTTT dont allow that YOUR heart breaks bc of it 💔

I hope maybe later she will give 10 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ BUTTT dont allow that YOUR heart breaks bc of it 💔

She doesn't care, girllll 🥀🥀
But who cares??? I'm still gonna cling to her with all my mightt!! hehehehehehehehehe

She doesn't care, girllll 🥀🥀
But who cares??? I'm still gonna cling to her with all my mightt!! hehehehehehehehehe

We support u Nidhhii so if u need us just let us know and we can help u!!!!! 😊😊😊😊

This forum has turned into a love and proposing site!!😜😜🤣

This forum has turned into a love and proposing site!!😜😜🤣

YESS

We support u Nidhhii so if u need us just let us know and we can help u!!!!! 😊😊😊😊

Okaeeee thank youuuu 😋✨

This forum has turned into a love and proposing site!!😜😜🤣

Yesss, girllll 😝✌🏻✨

YESS

Hehehehehehehehehe 😈

Hello everybody!! 😊😇 We had in school today a talk and i think it was super interesting and it is why i wanted to discuss this now also on the forum. BUTTT only those who want it. 🙏🙏

So it is abt how do u rate your life and i mean the quality of things bc that was also said today. And u can rate in the way u like for example a number from 1-10 or that u describe it with a word or thumbs up or down or an emojii for example. ⬆️⬇️🆘🆒❤️☹️🥳😀🔟✅❌

So what are ur ratings for:

1️⃣ Your family?

2️⃣ Your friends irl?

3️⃣ Your friends online?

4️⃣ Your health?

5️⃣ Your home?

6️⃣ Your school or work?

7️⃣ Your hobbies?

8️⃣ Your ❤️ life?

9️⃣ Your outfits?

🔟 Your holidays? (added below by @Angelsn_thesky360) 😊

1️⃣1️⃣ Your music taste? (added by @AN3TT3) 🤗

1️⃣2️⃣ Your mentality? (added by @ludwigwo) 😎

➡️ Smt else that should be in this list?

➡️ And what do u think would be the nicest for ur life to be better?

I tag ppl below like always bc that way my friends know abt this forum. But i hope that ANYBODY who likes to post an answer does that bc it is always nice to read. ANDDD ppl can add things to the list above too if u want that. 😊🥰🥰 Thank you very much!!!!! 🙏⭐🙏

@mayuuram, @Fleurke, @NIS4, @Miss_Penpal, @Angelsn_thesky360, @AN3TT3, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @PinkiePie, @Torakka, @Vixie, @Lianshen, @_Aizhan_, @Nishu, @chiikawaattack, @Jabmax, @shirazikira, @Vibxen, @Agnes128, @martutuni, @Douglasgao, @Hannah-, @Marco_ita89, @rambob, @addfreak, @Bunny2010, @Whatsername_, @Azryffel, @ElijahB, @ludwigwo, @H_E_A_R_T, @Lir_Elhan, @xiao_redbear, @Etienne, @Simone724, @faber_88, @Piwipete, @Parsaa, @diogenes_cask, @Idkbro, @psysarah15, @AgDel, @Jullian, @Savi2024, @Pennarossa2024, @Annika2007, @JanyiahMoon27, @Karumen, @Emma_-. @Yannick_Islander, @Viovio_Sheronsky1205, @vtt3613, @Kotyaka2023, @Waterpol8girlll, @pope

PS: Of course i know it is super difficult to just rate stuff, but it is still nice i think to talk abt things too. So maybe that is possible now i hope. 🙂

1: 9/10

2: 7/10

3:They're all good, but I've also had a few really bad experiences. 6/10

4:5/10

5: 9/10

6: 9/10

7:8/10

8:😅

9:8/10

10:8/10

11:10/10

12: 8/10

Thnxxx very much @Lianshen!!! 🙏🙏😊😊 I need to get 1,5-2 kg more and then it is good enough. So basically it is important not only that u eat enough but also that u eat enough for energy and you will also get a LOTTT less tired. But i tried to get out more carbohydrate food but for example now in the morning with yoghurt i must not only add more fruits but also cerials for example. But im doing that now already some time. And i bike every day to school and i do ballet as sports. I got advise for swimming but i think it is also expensive like for example tennis. But maybe swimming is good bc u get stronger without injuries if u do that often. And we have a swimming pool which is not super far from our house so maybe if my parents think it is not too much for it then yes.

And u are right abt the presentations bc if you are ok in the beginning then later it is less difficult. 🙄😬 Now i try normally that you for example write smt on the white board or if u are allowed to have powerpoint that they look at that. Bc that way they dont look at u and that makes it less difficult so i think that is a really good tip if anybody can use that!!! 😛 😛

Do u want to learn a music instrument and in that case maybe piano @Lianshen??? 🙂

Then you are doing amazing at taking care of yourself 🙂

Yes, writing somethhing on the board or having a presentation helps a lot. For me, moving, building a story with it and showing what I present with a stick helps me to distract my mind, but ultimately, we all have our own tricks and you seem to do well

If I get the energy and opportunity later, maybe I would learn to play an instrument, but I'm terrible withh melodies and can forget anything within seconds, even the music that are supposed to get stuck in your head, ahhah