The girl looks so familiar to me. I probably have seen her somewhere in my lifes...
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Seven Month Today....
_______________________________________________________________FRIENDS and LOVE______
That’s true — I’ve found very few pen pals here. That’s entirely
down to me. However, the exchanges I have with these people
are so mutually rewarding and intense that I simply wouldn’t
have the time for many more friends.
Through my posts, I give several people the chance to discover
different perspectives or find inspiration. I know that my posts
are read not only by members, but also by outsiders travelling
the internet....
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Through my posts, I give several people the chance to discover
different perspectives or find inspiration....
Perspectives, inspiration, determination, hope, joy, breath, Oxygen...
Your statements are more like a revitalizing CPR...
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I am an introverted person very picky regarding choosing a friend. I prefer being silent and alone (waiting for a meaningful conversation in which I can talk and listen for hours) to chatting about superficial topics.
So I have always said that one should have a few Real preacious friends instead of many "just friends".
Well, the definition of "just friends" vary for different people. Recently I understood even "not close, not carying, not honest" just friends can help you on "your way" in this life.
Compensation for what is lost is not possible, but maybe these lessons (new to some of us) can be of good use someday on the remaining days...
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When I was going to school, I was rarely FRIENDS with my same-aged-classmates. I didn’t have anything in common with them. However, my friends were students/ children from upper or lower grades at school. I either had more mature stuff to discuss about with the former, or more childish behavior that matched with the latter. I remember the older ones wanted me to write something for their school magazine (based on our literature teacher’s recommendation), and the younger ones looked for me when one of them was sad and need to get calm. But my classmates preferred not to be “friends” with me, because they didn’t like my childish “attitude”.
It is said that children are honest, sinless and pure. Jesus said if you want to enter heaven, you should become like children.
There are some people who_ mostly unintentionally_ have preserved their "childish" soul and mind. Also, we have seen how “normal” people scheme against others or undermine them in order to get ahead themselves.
“Children-Like” people are kind to others and even when they fight, they do it like a child, not based on a plan to "destroy their enemies". They get angry or happy soon and they forget it after a short time. Of course, they are not stupid and know the rules of “survival” in This World. But they cannot “survive” in nowadays’ societies, simply because they do not follow the “unfair” rules. They are condemned to be “defeated, abandoned, mocked or betrayed” by others all of the time.
It seems it is the cost they should pay to enter heaven...
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Like many concepts, words and actions, the concept of friend gets also totally different in the realm of transcendence. Loneliness is sometimes a must on the path, no matter how much it crashes you...
"Travel light and walk alone, for the path to true freedom is narrow."
- Hafez