I added the questions of everybody in the list above!!! 😛 So thankssss @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @JanyiahMoon27, @Miss_Penpal, @PinkiePie and @LandRoverDiscovery2 for also adding questions and these are my answers:
1️⃣ When do you think a friend is not a normal friend but a TRUE and BEST friend?
For me i think if you can say ANYTHING and they wont hurt you or judge you all the time. And that you can be together and talk a lot and try to have a nice time together and not have secrets or talking gossips abt each other behind the back. And also that you can always call them or meet up or message when there is smt wrong and you help each other without that you want something in return.
2️⃣ Do you have many true and best friends and how many do you think that you need to be the most happy?
I have two bigger friends group. One is at school and one from ballet. BUTTTT from the group at my school most are from my class but not all. And i have several TRUE AND BEST FRIENDS but from them one the most. And i think i talk with her EVERY day but we are not the same at all and ppl make jokes like we are duo penotti bc she is really bigger and stronger and i am like a dwarf she says and like a pencil. And she has a really big mouth and says ANYTHING without dying like every time if others hear her but i only say things normally with my best friends if they are personal but she does not care at all. But we still are i think best friends bc we do everything for each other and talk a LOTTT every day abt also really stupid things but also nice things or like things that are super personal or difficult or funny and just anything. 🙂
And i dont know how many but for me this is nice and i am happy abt the friends groups and best friends so i think this is nice.
3️⃣ Do you think you can be friends like that with smb from online or that you write letters with but who live super far away?
Yes i think that you can be friends also with ppl online BUTTT only if you dont judge each other all the time and that you can say things that are important for you and the other person does not make jokes abt it or thinks it is just stupid and really dumb.
4️⃣ Can you tell ANYTHING that you want to your best friend?
Yes without a doubt. And she too of course and i will NOT judge or gossip or say to others what she says to me.
5️⃣ Did a best friend ever help you in a way that nobody did for you?
Yes several times. And not only that nobody did but i think of some times that also nobody else could do that.
6️⃣ What kind of friends do you look for on PPG? And did you get friends like that or not yet?
I am happy with friends i have now on PPG!!! And some are not really active a lot but i have contact with them for example with e-mail. But some i think are really good friends and i feel super good abt it and it helps me. Also for example here on the forum i say now everything but not in real life if others really hear you bc that is different. But i say more now also with friends from school for example or in the class what i say here EVEN if it is not the same completely.
7️⃣ If your best friend asked for help how far do you go to help that person?
I try what is needed so i can help her of course. And i think that is also the same for her.
8️⃣ Do you know the birthday of your best friend without that you have to look it up?
Yes. But also of some friends who are maybe not BESTTTT friends but still friends.
9️⃣ Did you ever fall in love or that you have a crush with one of your best friends?
No.
🔟 Which question did i forget to ask but would you like that others answer too?
I have one new question and i wrote it below.
➡️ New question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch: What are things to experience that make you feel accepted in a friendship?
If friends dont judge you. For example if they would say things that i say are just stupid and dumb or if they would say i am too skinny and joke abt it or judging it badly than that would not make you feel accepted. But my friends are completely oppposite and very nice and they support me always and i try to do the same. And also talking abt anything and feeling comfortable abt it and feeling safe or caring for small things but they are important for the other.
➡️ New question from @JanyiahMoon27: Are there times when you feel like your bestie for a short time is more of a best friend than the bestie of a long time? how do you fix this? 😭
I dont really now bc my best friend i know her since the first class in high school and that has not changed. It would be really weird but it is possible of course. But i also think if that happens that you get even a better friend than still the other friend is still one of your BEST friends bc nothing changes abt that. Only that you get an EXTRA friend and she is maybe even better as friend but that is EXTRA and not in place of your other friend.
➡️ New question from @Miss_Penpal: What's the most important thing you MUST do for a friend? For example giving tips, encouragements, support, displays of affection, etc. (when needed of course, not constantly)
I think that you support each other. And i dont mean like super general but really meaning it. So for example if somebody is super unsure or insecure that you talk abt it bc that is important for that person. And you can try to help each other out. And also talking about anything from weird and funny to also super personal or what is important. And what you talk abt depends what you feel both comfortable about. Bc you must respect that i think.
➡️ New question from @PinkiePie: What will you do if your best friend will say that they don't want to be friends with you anymore?
That would be super hurting i think. But it really depends what happened. Bc maybe if it is an argument you can talk abt it because if you are really best friends than it can be just a stupid mistake or misunderstanding. And that cant destroy the relationship. Or at least you can both try to make it work. But if she really does not want that than there is nothing that you can do. BUTTTT you must be like water i think. That is also what my mom says and also my aunt. So you must accept it and be soft and gentle for the situation. And water changes to a place where it is welcome and it is there. So you must be soft and not try to fight it like fire. But there is ALWAYS a place for water and if you are soft than everybody also needs water and there is a place for you. I heard it like 82731020 times already bc others from my family say my nature element is water bc of character. And sometimes it is good but sometimes it is also weak or bad. But you must be like your nature. And sometimes that is how it is best to act and if you are hurt normally it is best not fighting it but to be soft and give it a place and that you move to where you have a good place and you are liked and are welcome.
➡️ New question from @LandRoverDiscovery2: Could you give a list of people you think are your PPG besties?
Most of the ppl i tag but some i tag bc they asked it or bc i think they maybe like that topic if i make new forums. But i think now 12 ppl are besties but i dont want to mention names bc i am afraid i maybe forget to mention 1 or 2 and than it is not right to do that.
ANDDDDDD i also have a new question:
✨ Do you think that you can be BEST friends if the other person is a different gender and do you think that you can be BEST or really good friends with smb who is a LOTTTT older or younger than you? 🙄🙄
