🥰🌈 The nobody excluded forum 🌞❤️

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️💁‍♀️ This forum is made by Stasyyy @PinkiePie and @Yue_ and we think it is very important to talk about inclusivity. We hope that others like to talk about this topic too and ask everybody who wants to participate in it to do it very open and respectfully. 😊😊 People and opinions can be super different. But everybody should be equal that they feel welcome and safe. 🙏

In this forum you can write anything you want that you like to share about the topic. Maybe you would like to explain something that other people should know and is important for you. Or maybe you want to share experiences or something else. ✨💡

Here are several questions but only answer what you like. Or you can also write just a comment or anything else. Thank you very much!! ❤️🧡💜💚💙

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

We know that with this topic opinions can be super strong and we would like to ask everybody to be gentle and kind and respectful. So please dont attack personal opinions even if you think they are wrong. Let's just ask and listen and maybe one time about this topic be soft and kind. That is all we ask. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰

@Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @GermanPotato-Nikalia, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Wildflower-Farm, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @buffyfan90, @Jullian, @PinkiePie, @frozenpizza001, @Traveler_John, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Txya, @Ursul_Romanesc, @BartL, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @Esma-Nur, @martutuni, @alewashere, @Lianshen ➡️ We tag these people because we think that they may like this forum or at least to know about it. BUTTT we hope that EVERYBODY feels super WELCOME to write comments or ask questions in the way you like!! We are very thankful for that!!! ❤️🏆🥇⭐🌸🌼🌻🌞

I'm Jewish, an atheist, and bisexual, so I'm an outcast literally everywhere.

1. Of course. Jews are basically a people that no one likes. I have pronounced Jewish features, so I was often bullied. Bisexuals are not accepted by either homophobic society or LGBT. With homophobes, it's clear, but with LGBT. For some reason, it's believed that bisexual girls are lying and will eventually end up with guys. It's a shame, some girls and guys, directly rejected me because of the "inaccurate" orientation.

2. I can't remember anything like that.

3. Don't focus on the peculiarities of a person. Some people go overboard with tolerance, some joke. IT ONLY MAKES IT WORSE.

4. I don't often unite some people, so I don't remember such cases either

5. Jews do not steal. They are good at trickery. But this does not mean that everyone wants to deceive you and make you give them the money yourself. We are the same as everyone else. The only thing that I naturally noticed in all the members of our and neighboring communities is that we have an inflated self-esteem. Me too. Well, we're just the smartest) If anything, it was a joke.

6. I hate jokes about Jews. Genocide is not funny and never will be. Everyone says why are you mad, he was just joking. Well, no. - I just caught fire with the idea that I immediately put it into practice. - Caught fire like your grandmother? (Idiom in belorusian and russian: Caught fire with an idea-was very excited). F#ck off. And the same goes for orientation. Maybe I'm just being dramatic, but who knows?

7. A question from me. Do you really think that bi girls are never actually bi? Either they're straight or they're lesbian?

I think it is super brave what you write Stasyyy @PinkiePie!!! Because it is not easy but i am happy that you did it bc it is also important for other people that they are not alone if this happens to them too ANDDD it is also an important message to people who think jokes are not so harmful that it is better that they should not do it if it is hurtful for others.

In my case at least every week it happens several times that people say something or make jokes because i look Chinese. I first didnt want to tell it more specific but in that way people dont know what they say and why it hurts. For example they say to me:

- Go back to your own country.

- Hi chino girl.

- Do you want a springroll?

- And also very racist names but i will not tell them here.

Most of the times people say it when i dont know them for example when you are on your bike and they come past you on a fatbike or they are hanging somewhere and shout it to me. I just pretend i dont hear it. One time it really got out of the hand and they stopped me but i don't want to talk about that time on the forum. But what i want to say now is that it hurts EVENNN when you pretend that you dont hear them.

Sometimes people say that if those are jokes than you must be harder and stronger. But i think if people know that the joke hurts, why do they make the joke? Maybe i am now weak and that is what they think about it. But if i know that what you say hurts somebody, it is better not to say it. Even if it is a joke in your head.

I think that is also what Stasyyy means if people say stuff about her being Jewish for example. They think it is harmless but I believe it is not. I hope that maybe if people know about it, we can convince that they maybe can make jokes about funny things that dont really hurt people. It may look innocent, but it can feel like somebody hits you with a brick. Sometimes it feels like that.

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

--- Not here, but many times on other social media platforms regarding nationality and race. Most of the people avoid communication with the Indian people, I don't know why!

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

--- Here, I thought I would deactivate the account in 2-3 days, but I got good responses from the users here, and I am stayed.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

--- Yes.

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

--- I did not yet, because I always think about others, if someone is there and s/he must be included in talk. Everybody should be proactive on this.

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

--- Many time I face that brown people are not trustable! I still don't know why and how? All people on the earth are same. They should not be divided with the race.

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

It hurts when anybody jokes about nationality and race. But I don't feel insecure, because I know how to handle that. I always avoid such people in my life. if they are not going to include me, I will not force myself to be included there. But when they need my help. I will be always there to help them.. because helping them is the best revenge..!!

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

I often feel excluded, but not because of the topics mentioned.

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

Of course, since I always expect the worst from others. I prefer to think negatively than to be disappointed.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

I think people should consider other's feelings before making a politically incorrect joke or somewhat racist comment. But I also think it would be better if Karens didn't consider everything as racist or rude, because that makes standards rise so much and then just saying that someone is black in a physical description(NOT as an insult) makes you look like the scum of the earth. I don't think that's fair, especially since putting such a specific barrier is almost racist in itself. Everyone should be treated normally, not like a piece of extra-fragile glass just because they are from a certain place or have certain physical attributes.

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

Definitely yes, but it's not really my fault, I stay away from groups of people when I can, so how am I supposed to include others when I'm not even included myself? I try my best to be welcoming to everyone, but I certainly won't approach people I don't know for the fun of it. Come see me and I'll make an effort, though.

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

Not really. I don't like to talk about things too vague, but if someone asked me a more specific question I would be happy to answer it.

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

I don't care what strangers say about me, the only opinions that matter to me are the ones of the people I care about. And I don't like people who are rude to others, so I don't know how I would feel if someone I cared about said something about that. I can't imagine it, and I don't really want to try.

I believe it's important to make sure the people you say it to won't be offended by it. So I think people who hurt other's feelings about something out of their control, on purpose, are horrible human beings. But if you say it to your friend, who knows it's a joke and won't take it personally, it's fine. But that's just my opinion, and I'm being very careful to never say something that has a slight chance of hurting the other's feelings. The only possibly offending thing I might say to my close friends and family is that they're dumb, and coming from me it means 'you're funny'.

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

What do you consider racist? I know there are a lot of things that can be considered that, but some people are more strict than others and I think it can be interesting and important to know what the most common boundaries are.

What do you consider racist? I know there are a lot of things that can be considered that, but some people are more strict than others and I think it can be interesting and important to know what the most common boundaries are.

All phrases and actions that highlight the race of one or more people, especially in a negative sense

@PinkiePie I think LGBTQAI* is not discriminating against bisexual girls, but LG is. I think most Trans and non-binarys will just accept you if you respect them I think, but lesbians and gays have more often the view of 'you are fully with us or against us'. Lesbians and gays are often more about fighting patriarchism, and think you will end up with a boy cause patriarchism will dominate you anyways. I suggest to you that you point out that they are discriminating, LGs are usually sensible if you point that out. Otherwise, you can search for communities for Trans/non-binarys (they will probably accept you even though you are 'just' bi) or you search for a FLINTA* community (people who are discriminated by patriarchism). If you search for inclusive people, you might find them there.

@Miss_Penpal I think comments/ jokes are racist as soon as you try to harm/ invalidate someone or someone is harmed. If no one is harmed by a joke, and some think it's funny, it is a joke. But as soon as someone feels bad because of it, it isn't funny anymore.

First i want to say that @shirazikira i am very happy that you write often in forums bc it makes it much nicer!!! And you write very honest abt what you think like for example now. So you are super welcome in ANY forum of course!!! But you already know that now!! 😛 😛

@Miss_Penpal thank you very much. Every time when I make a forum that is about serious topic like now with Stasy but also fun topics you always write and make an effort for it. That is really nice and also special because few people do that (and of course i understand why)!!! And one thing that you wrote i really thought about it. Because it is true that we should not be like what you said: a piece of extra-fragile glass. That is what i try but also bc i dont want to make people who call me things angry. Because in that case the problems get bigger. So i pretend i dont hear them and just continue biking or walking. But here i wanted to ask a question and i really struggle for an answer: when should you be able to deal with it even if you dont like it. And when should you not accept it? Now i accept everything bc i dont want problems. And i dont want that people think i am only overreacting with what i think. But when do other people think it is too much?

@GermanPotato-Nikalia i am very happy that you found the forum!! You also know a little bit why Stasyy and i made it. 🙂 But can i ask what do you mean with patriarchism and discrimination? Bc i thought patriarchism is like the opposite of feminism? Or do you think that is wrong? I never heard of FLINTA before so that is interesting what you wrote and i will look up more abt it later.

The last words of this post from me i want to spend for Stasy @PinkiePie. I really dont understand why people have difficulties that you are bisexual. It is YOUR choice and not THEIR choice so what is the problem for them??? The only thing that i can think of is that perhaps somebody has a crush on you because you are very pretty. And if they are disappointed that they cant get a relationship they can say mean stuff to hurt you because they dont get what they want. But in that case they still dont get what they want no matter if you are bisexual or anything else. So still in that case it does not matter for them i think! But if they are jealous or they dont like that you would say no, it does not mean that they can say anything they want. 🙄🙄

@Miss_Penpal thank you very much. Every time when I make a forum that is about serious topic like now with Stasy but also fun topics you always write and make an effort for it. That is really nice and also special because few people do that (and of course i understand why)!!! And one thing that you wrote i really thought about it. Because it is true that we should not be like what you said: a piece of extra-fragile glass. That is what i try but also bc i dont want to make people who call me things angry. Because in that case the problems get bigger. So i pretend i dont hear them and just continue biking or walking. But here i wanted to ask a question and i really struggle for an answer: when should you be able to deal with it even if you dont like it. And when should you not accept it? Now i accept everything bc i dont want problems. And i dont want that people think i am only overreacting with what i think. But when do other people think it is too much?

The moment you feel hurt, you should speak up about it. The only thing that changes is who you tell about your experience, depending on who insulted you. There are two kinds of people; the ignorants and the bullies. If someone is just ignorant, I think it's important for you to warn them of your boundaries, because everyone has different limits and they might have a bigger comfort zone, so they didn't even know they were hurting you. When you tell them about it, they will probably try to understand and maybe even apologize.

If it's a bully, that you don't even know and that said mean things on purpose just to hurt you, you should still talk about it, but not to them. Usually, this kind of people make it a goal to hurt your feelings. If you speak up about it, they'll think their mission is accomplished and say even more mean things to get extra points in the twisted game they're playing. They might even get physical, and I'm sure you don't want that. You can tell a person you trust or someone you know will help you feel better instead, because the goal here isn't to talk trash about who insulted you, but to feel validated and understood.

There is no overreacting as long as you're coping in a healthy way. Starting fights and saying mean things back isn't a good idea, but talking about it to someone else is completely fine. You don't have to accept anything, just to pretend to, when the person is being rude on purpose. Because they are wrong for pretty much everything and you shouldn't even doubt that.

Thanks @Yue_, I always like to be part of forums where I can provide my views. Actually, I am an introvert person, but I feel better expressing through words by writing, rather than speaking.

The moment you feel hurt, you should speak up about it. The only thing that changes is who you tell about your experience, depending on who insulted you. There are two kinds of people; the ignorants and the bullies. If someone is just ignorant, I think it's important for you to warn them of your boundaries, because everyone has different limits and they might have a bigger comfort zone, so they didn't even know they were hurting you. When you tell them about it, they will probably try to understand and maybe even apologize.

If it's a bully, that you don't even know and that said mean things on purpose just to hurt you, you should still talk about it, but not to them. Usually, this kind of people make it a goal to hurt your feelings. If you speak up about it, they'll think their mission is accomplished and say even more mean things to get extra points in the twisted game they're playing. They might even get physical, and I'm sure you don't want that. You can tell a person you trust or someone you know will help you feel better instead, because the goal here isn't to talk trash about who insulted you, but to feel validated and understood.

There is no overreacting as long as you're coping in a healthy way. Starting fights and saying mean things back isn't a good idea, but talking about it to someone else is completely fine. You don't have to accept anything, just to pretend to, when the person is being rude on purpose. Because they are wrong for pretty much everything and you shouldn't even doubt that.

What you wrote @Miss_Penpal is REALLY helpful. Everything you said is super clear and it makes sense how you said there is a difference between two kinds of people who say it accidentally or who really want to bully and also the difference how you must try to treat it!!! I could never so it so clear like you did. And i think i understand what you say and i agree with everything but i dont want to trouble too often friends to stay stuff. But i understand what you mean. 🙂

And i think this forum is interesting bc you can be excluded not only because of for example gender or race or religion or things like that. But also for example if you have the newest clothes or gadgets or anything what people think is important for them and their friends. And if you dont fit than you can be excluded. So for everybody who has that: in this forum we can talk about it and everybody is welcome. We dont make any differences in this forum that exclude people. At least that is not what we mean to happen. 😊😊

@Yue_ thanks for the question! Patriarchism is that system where man have power over women. In my experience especially Lesbians are likely to don't acknowledge other women who are attracted to men, cause they think that these women give men control over themselves, and therefore hold up the patriarchism. This is a big reason why lesbians and gays are more likely to not accept bi women.

As I said, people who are discriminated by patriarchism are called FLINTA, but only in Germany. There is no translation as far as I know.

Frauen-Women

Lesben-Lesbians

Intergeschlechtliche-Intersex

Non-binary

Transgender

Agender

First i want to say that @shirazikira i am very happy that you write often in forums bc it makes it much nicer!!! And you write very honest abt what you think like for example now. So you are super welcome in ANY forum of course!!! But you already know that now!! 😛 😛

@Miss_Penpal thank you very much. Every time when I make a forum that is about serious topic like now with Stasy but also fun topics you always write and make an effort for it. That is really nice and also special because few people do that (and of course i understand why)!!! And one thing that you wrote i really thought about it. Because it is true that we should not be like what you said: a piece of extra-fragile glass. That is what i try but also bc i dont want to make people who call me things angry. Because in that case the problems get bigger. So i pretend i dont hear them and just continue biking or walking. But here i wanted to ask a question and i really struggle for an answer: when should you be able to deal with it even if you dont like it. And when should you not accept it? Now i accept everything bc i dont want problems. And i dont want that people think i am only overreacting with what i think. But when do other people think it is too much?

@GermanPotato-Nikalia i am very happy that you found the forum!! You also know a little bit why Stasyy and i made it. 🙂 But can i ask what do you mean with patriarchism and discrimination? Bc i thought patriarchism is like the opposite of feminism? Or do you think that is wrong? I never heard of FLINTA before so that is interesting what you wrote and i will look up more abt it later.

The last words of this post from me i want to spend for Stasy @PinkiePie. I really dont understand why people have difficulties that you are bisexual. It is YOUR choice and not THEIR choice so what is the problem for them??? The only thing that i can think of is that perhaps somebody has a crush on you because you are very pretty. And if they are disappointed that they cant get a relationship they can say mean stuff to hurt you because they dont get what they want. But in that case they still dont get what they want no matter if you are bisexual or anything else. So still in that case it does not matter for them i think! But if they are jealous or they dont like that you would say no, it does not mean that they can say anything they want. 🙄🙄

Thank uuuu😘

For me the point one is important; Yes, I was from 2003 til 2005 in even this "oh, we love-everybody-arround-here"-Freiburg in Breisgau/ Germany and for me these two years have been heel! This city, what proclaims to be so tolerant, so nice, so leftwing, so open, is only a place of left ignorance and anti-liberal intolerance! How often I was discrimenated, because: "Oh, YOU are niot from Freiburg!"....Even about my German pronunaciation these Freiburg i..diots have made jokes...for me the "most green, miost city,,,most pretty(??????) German city" is a sh...thole...and I will never return to a people, who is such ignroant, arrogant and I have never meet most intolerant people, then in the place, where even these people are proclaming to be open mined! For me Freiburg im Breisgau is only Freakburgh in Scheißgau! I will never come back!

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️💁‍♀️ This forum is made by Stasyyy @PinkiePie and @Yue_ and we think it is very important to talk about inclusivity. We hope that others like to talk about this topic too and ask everybody who wants to participate in it to do it very open and respectfully. 😊😊 People and opinions can be super different. But everybody should be equal that they feel welcome and safe. 🙏

In this forum you can write anything you want that you like to share about the topic. Maybe you would like to explain something that other people should know and is important for you. Or maybe you want to share experiences or something else. ✨💡

Here are several questions but only answer what you like. Or you can also write just a comment or anything else. Thank you very much!! ❤️🧡💜💚💙

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

We know that with this topic opinions can be super strong and we would like to ask everybody to be gentle and kind and respectful. So please dont attack personal opinions even if you think they are wrong. Let's just ask and listen and maybe one time about this topic be soft and kind. That is all we ask. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰

@Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @GermanPotato-Nikalia, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Wildflower-Farm, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Germany, @buffyfan90, @Jullian, @PinkiePie, @frozenpizza001, @NewTravelerInTown, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Txya, @Ursul_Romanesc, @BartL, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @Esma-Nur, @martutuni, @alewashere, @Lianshen ➡️ We tag these people because we think that they may like this forum or at least to know about it. BUTTT we hope that EVERYBODY feels super WELCOME to write comments or ask questions in the way you like!! We are very thankful for that!!! ❤️🏆🥇⭐🌸🌼🌻🌞

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1) in school everyone discriminated me cause i’m not swedish and here if ur from another country they automatically think that you are retarded

2) yes!

3) don’t be mean for no reason. Don’t judge,don’t laugh and if you have to be mean just sybau. you deserve nothing in life if you bully people

4) honestly never.

5) sweden,i’m not an idiot just because i’m not swedish. My italian teacher told me that she got discriminated too in schools by the other teachers that thought less of her just because she isn’t swedish.

6) sometimes they are funny,sometimes they aren’t

I think the beauty of humans is that we are all so diverse. I think learing from diversity is the most beautiful thing there is

This is an interesting thread to which I would like to offer a small contribution. I have already reached my 20 year anniversary as a lawyer in the field of international finance. It may come as a surprising revelation for some, but diversity remains strongly rooted as a topic of priority in my sector. We have a strong female representation in leadership roles (both global and at domestic offices). This is not based on a policy of affirmative action, but driven by capabilities and commercial motives.

We have also repeatedly seen diversity as a beneficial way to foster a welcoming atmosphere in offices. In our world daily life is often akin to living in a pressure cooker. It is a welcome change to find an all embracing culture within your direct and broader teams. Diversity based on e.g. race, religion, gender, sexual orientation or anything else may also eliminate any other silent concerns that people may have on whether they are excluded from the office herd - e.g. based on social status, parental background or any personal traits which may be perceived as vulnerable. A committed workforce is easier to generate when they actually feel comfortable and welcome.

Regularly I get the impression that diversity is regarded as a source of unequal treatment (i.e. diversity over quality or similar mantras). In our firm diversity naturally arises as a phenomenon even in places where commercial drivers are dominant.

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️💁‍♀️ This forum is made by Stasyyy @PinkiePie and @Yue_ and we think it is very important to talk about inclusivity. We hope that others like to talk about this topic too and ask everybody who wants to participate in it to do it very open and respectfully. 😊😊 People and opinions can be super different. But everybody should be equal that they feel welcome and safe. 🙏

In this forum you can write anything you want that you like to share about the topic. Maybe you would like to explain something that other people should know and is important for you. Or maybe you want to share experiences or something else. ✨💡

Here are several questions but only answer what you like. Or you can also write just a comment or anything else. Thank you very much!! ❤️🧡💜💚💙

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

We know that with this topic opinions can be super strong and we would like to ask everybody to be gentle and kind and respectful. So please dont attack personal opinions even if you think they are wrong. Let's just ask and listen and maybe one time about this topic be soft and kind. That is all we ask. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰

@Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @GermanPotato-Nikalia, @Parsaa, @Miss_Penpal, @Annika2007, @Piwipete, @Billa, @TomiL, @H_E_A_R_T, @diogenes_cask, @Wildflower-Farm, @AgDel, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Germany, @buffyfan90, @Jullian, @PinkiePie, @frozenpizza001, @NewTravelerInTown, @NILU1234, @Ilexforest, @Txya, @Ursul_Romanesc, @BartL, @Paolo17jun, @Savi2024, @Esma-Nur, @martutuni, @alewashere, @Lianshen ➡️ We tag these people because we think that they may like this forum or at least to know about it. BUTTT we hope that EVERYBODY feels super WELCOME to write comments or ask questions in the way you like!! We are very thankful for that!!! ❤️🏆🥇⭐🌸🌼🌻🌞

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1) Sometimes my friends just look at people and say that "they're surely gay because of how they act", and is those moments, as a Pan, I truly feel excluded, even if I'm not directly the target, but because I'm still a part of the community.

2) When I told one of my best friends that I also could love girls, she really reacted in a good way and I didn't expect it.

3) Nothing comes in mind right now.

4) I think I've probably did, like everyone I guess.

5) Loving people is not a big deal. If you love someone, you don't really have the choice, and it's not other people's business, so you don't deserve to be hated.

6) I think you can laugh about everything, but not with everyone. For example you can make jokes about sexism or homophobia, but not with me or I will feel hurt. It's very important to know who you're talking with before saying things like that.