🥰🌈 The nobody excluded forum 🌞❤️

1) Sometimes my friends just look at people and say that "they're surely gay because of how they act", and is those moments, as a Pan, I truly feel excluded, even if I'm not directly the target, but because I'm still a part of the community.

2) When I told one of my best friends that I also could love girls, she really reacted in a good way and I didn't expect it.

3) Nothing comes in mind right now.

4) I think I've probably did, like everyone I guess.

5) Loving people is not a big deal. If you love someone, you don't really have the choice, and it's not other people's business, so you don't deserve to be hated.

6) I think you can laugh about everything, but not with everyone. For example you can make jokes about sexism or homophobia, but not with me or I will feel hurt. It's very important to know who you're talking with before saying things like that.

Yeah, I don't understand, how people know someone's orientation by behavior, that's stupid

@Piwipete I can relate to you so insanely much! I grew up in Freiburg, and I hate the people there. In cities were there are not many ecological people They are welcoming and such, but Freiburg just summoned it's own regional-patriot community, that is so closed and so far from reality. I can really relate to what you said. Freiburg is only inclusive for People that grew up there and vote Green or SPD. No other opinions tolerated there.

@Piwipete and @GermanPotato-Nikalia i think that now one thing that often happens is not right. If for example groups who say people must be inclusive than you do one thing wrong or they think that you think differently they cancel that person VERY fast. I think that is what you both mean of that place in Germany? And also what @GermanPotato-Nikalia said abt some of LG groups that they cancel or think bad about if you are maybe straight or bisexual? Because they want people to be inclusive and i think that is right. But they must ALSO be inclusive.

I think that if people really believe that you must be inclusive than you must always be in the same way that people are welcome and not only when you want it. 🙄🙄 So if you want people to be inclusive you must also be it yourself. 🌸🌈✨

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)? YES

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂 I don't want to be surrounded by people who exclude others.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome? people should communicate more with each other instead of judging based on appearance, race, residence, country, religion or work

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?never in my life

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet? noppes because the people who really know me know who im really are 🤗because they communicate with me

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not? Noppes because i believe and what you do to others comes back to you . and the good in you reflects in others

Thank you very much @Fleurke!!! 😊🥰 I completely forgot to say that but i already read your answers!! 🙂 If i read the answer 6 can i ask a question: do you believe in karma bc i think that is the same right? That is not just for reincarnation but also in the same life there is karma if you believe in that. 😇😇

I'm Jewish, an atheist, and bisexual, so I'm an outcast literally everywhere.

1. Of course. Jews are basically a people that no one likes. I have pronounced Jewish features, so I was often bullied. Bisexuals are not accepted by either homophobic society or LGBT. With homophobes, it's clear, but with LGBT. For some reason, it's believed that bisexual girls are lying and will eventually end up with guys. It's a shame, some girls and guys, directly rejected me because of the "inaccurate" orientation.

2. I can't remember anything like that.

3. Don't focus on the peculiarities of a person. Some people go overboard with tolerance, some joke. IT ONLY MAKES IT WORSE.

4. I don't often unite some people, so I don't remember such cases either

5. Jews do not steal. They are good at trickery. But this does not mean that everyone wants to deceive you and make you give them the money yourself. We are the same as everyone else. The only thing that I naturally noticed in all the members of our and neighboring communities is that we have an inflated self-esteem. Me too. Well, we're just the smartest) If anything, it was a joke.

6. I hate jokes about Jews. Genocide is not funny and never will be. Everyone says why are you mad, he was just joking. Well, no. - I just caught fire with the idea that I immediately put it into practice. - Caught fire like your grandmother? (Idiom in belorusian and russian: Caught fire with an idea-was very excited). F#ck off. And the same goes for orientation. Maybe I'm just being dramatic, but who knows?

7. A question from me. Do you really think that bi girls are never actually bi? Either they're straight or they're lesbian?

Nah, I have a Jewish friend, and he is one of the best people I know,

The Jews are hated for no good reason. There is nothing wrong in being an unorthodox gender.

WellI agree, people often take things further than required.

I come from the Himalayan regions of India, but I reside in south India, so I am very frequently discriminated on the basis of my state, skin color and language, it makes me feel sad that nobody in my school is from my state (one family friend's daughter is an exception) and people are really insensitive to our culture, but I take it in and ignore it ...

People often bully others for the fun of it and for no other reason, I find this seriously annoying, and I stand up for the victims of these acts, I know a friend who is from north-east India, they resemble the Chinese-stereotypical Asian looks, and thus they are discriminated against which is not appropriate at all.

Thank you very much @Fleurke!!! 😊🥰 I completely forgot to say that but i already read your answers!! 🙂 If i read the answer 6 can i ask a question: do you believe in karma bc i think that is the same right? That is not just for reincarnation but also in the same life there is karma if you believe in that. 😇😇

Yes but i will send you this in private because its in arabic 😅

Thank you very much @TheLOVERofMachines for your reply. It is nice you give support to others and I am afraid that what you said about the discrimination it happens everywhere. I am surprised if there is even ONE country where there is not any discrimination.

And Stasy @PinkiePie i forgot to answer the questions myself!!! Sorry!!! 😬😬🙄 These are my answers:

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

Yes when people make comments about that I look Chinese and they use it for jokes or to make racist comments. BUTTT when I am in China i sometimes ALSO get excluded bc they think i am not really fully like them too. So sometimes I feel not Dutch ANDDD not Chinese. I think that is what @Sabri_KC means with his forum in the past about you have two backgrounds but i have to search it.

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

Yes one time i went to a ballet workshop in a weekend and i was the only Asian and all were a LOTTTTT older than me. So i felt not really comfortable because of both reasons but they were super nice and friendly and they included me too from the beginning.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

I think if somebody is alone and you see that this person is not comfortable, maybe you can help and show that the person is also welcome. Not with a whole group bc that can be intimidating too, but maybe you can start talking alone with that person and be kind and friendly.

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

Yes i made the mega forum with questions from guys for girls ANDDD from girls for guys. But i forgot that maybe some people would like to answer and they are non-binary or that they feel not comfortable in another way. I want to apologize for that again bc that is not what i meant and i think everybody is welcome to answer the questions how they like it. And i think i dont know enough about OTHER religions yet and also about different genders or LGBTQI+ and i think it is important if everybody knows more about each other and make the effort.

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

I think that most people who say comments about you being a different race like Asian or from Surinam or Turkish or other races, than they think more about how their friends think about it than the person who is from the different race. For example with jokes they think about if their friends will laugh about the joke and they think that it is only a joke. And that you should be able to deal with that always bc it is only a joke. But sometimes that is difficult but they dont think about how your feelings are and if you feel comfortable to say anything about it.

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

I think small jokes that are not mean and not to make you look foolish are ok if they are meant friendly. Like for example one of my friends is Dutch and she is super tall. So i can joke that she must not bump her head and that is ok. And same if she call me a penguin bc i am a lot shorter. I dont mind it. But i also get jokes from people i dont know like for example that i eat everything (which is NOTTTT true) only because I am Asian or other jokes that they talk weird with accent or about how i look or that you do anything because I am Asian. I dont say anything about it bc i dont want to make them angry but that does not mean that it does not hurt or make you feel insecure.

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

I looked for a flag that somebody had on the profile (I am not saying the name bc i dont know if the person wants that). And now i know what it means. And i searched online and i found this:

I knew the rainbow flag and i knew the Black lives matter flag. But i wanted to ask which other flag should there be? For example there is not a flag if you are straight or a flag for maybe different things. ANDDDDD @Sabri_KC is the flagmaker of PPG so he can make ANY flag. 😊😊

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

No, I've never felt that way. When it occurs for some reason, I always take it like "No, they didn't condemn me to be excluded, I just condemned them to stay as they are!"

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

As an individual, I'm not a subject to any kind of herd mentality. Thus, favorable receptions or unfavorable receptions have no importance with me.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

Being a human is an enough quallity to be welcomed, if someone demands for even slightly more than this fact, better slowly walk away from there.

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

No. That's not my style. I'm always grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

Well, in this life, preconceptions are the most dreadful shackles set around one's mind. Better set your mind free of them, my words are not the hammer to crack them down.

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

No, never. If you stand like a sturdy wall or a phalanx against such jokes, then they bounce off you and hits back the owner.

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

No, I've never felt that way. When it occurs for some reason, I always take it like "No, they didn't condemn me to be excluded, I just condemned them to stay as they are!"

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

As an individual, I'm not a subject to any kind of herd mentality. Thus, favorable receptions or unfavorable receptions have no importance with me.

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

Being a human is an enough quallity to be welcomed, if someone demands for even slightly more than this fact, better slowly walk away from there.

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

No. That's not my style. I'm always grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

Well, in this life, preconceptions are the most dreadful shackles set around one's mind. Better set your mind free of them, my words are not the hammer to crack them down.

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

No, never. If you stand like a sturdy wall or a phalanx against such jokes, then they bounce off you and hits back the owner.

You write very beautiful like always @diogenes_cask. And i dont only mean like how you said it but also what you write. Today somebody else on PPG also said super kindly about how you can deal if others have maybe wrong or bad opinions about you. And i understand why you write in 6 how you can deal with that. But to do like that is not so easy. I understand why you say that you must stand like the sturdy wall. But sometimes i feel i stand like a mouse. But it is good to try to do what you said. So thank you very much for writing it here!! 🙏🙏❤️

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️💁‍♀️ This forum is made by Stasyyy @PinkiePie and @Yue_ and we think it is very important to talk about inclusivity. We hope that others like to talk about this topic too and ask everybody who wants to participate in it to do it very open and respectfully. 😊😊 People and opinions can be super different. But everybody should be equal that they feel welcome and safe. 🙏

In this forum you can write anything you want that you like to share about the topic. Maybe you would like to explain something that other people should know and is important for you. Or maybe you want to share experiences or something else. ✨💡

Here are several questions but only answer what you like. Or you can also write just a comment or anything else. Thank you very much!! ❤️🧡💜💚💙

1️⃣ Did you ever feel excluded (for example bc of nationality, race, religion, gender, disability, LGBTIQ+ or just bc of closed friends groups)?

2️⃣ Did the opposite happen: that you were included but you did NOTTT expect it? 🙂

3️⃣ Do you think that people should be aware of certain things that you think can help to feel people more welcome?

4️⃣ Did you ever made a mistake and did not include somebody when you could?

5️⃣ Is there something that you want to kindly explain about for example your race or nationality or gender or anything else that you think people may not know yet?

6️⃣ What do you think about silly jokes about nationality, orientation and other things? Does that make you feel hurt and insecure or not?

➡️ ANDDD: Is there a question that you want to ask others?

We know that with this topic opinions can be super strong and we would like to ask everybody to be gentle and kind and respectful. So please dont attack personal opinions even if you think they are wrong. Let's just ask and listen and maybe one time about this topic be soft and kind. That is all we ask. Thank you very much!! 🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰

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1. I felt excluded my whole life for having an unusual name for a girl living in Austria😭And some people say I'm arrogant (I'm not!)

2. Never

3. Talk to them. Some People just stare at me.

4. No, if they did shit with me I make sure we both get a Trachtprügel

5. Im 50% German, 25% Greek and 10% Japanese, the rest is Tirol💫

6. No, when someone makes joke I don't care

1. I felt excluded my whole life for having an unusual name for a girl living in Austria😭And some people say I'm arrogant (I'm not!)

2. Never

3. Talk to them. Some People just stare at me.

4. No, if they did shit with me I make sure we both get a Trachtprügel

5. Im 50% German, 25% Greek and 10% Japanese, the rest is Tirol💫

6. No, when someone makes joke I don't care

I know what you mean abt the name bc in my country some also made jokes about my name because in The Netherlands it is not usual too and then some made jokes about it. But now not really anymore at least not in my class so that is much better. ANDDD i wanted to say that you are here super welcome and INCLUDED! So i hope you will keep writing a lot on the forum bc that is really nice to read!!! 😊😊

5. Im 50% German, 25% Greek and 10% Japanese, the rest is Tirol💫

How does this work?

How does this work?

My dad is like half greek and half german, and my mom like half tirol half italy, but I don't know exactly

My dad is like half greek and half german, and my mom like half tirol half italy, but I don't know exactly

But then, how do you come by 10% Japanese?
And what is tirol?

But then, how do you come by 10% Japanese?
And what is tirol?

Oh yes my mum has some japanese genes, tho.

Tirol is my country 😭i live in vienna but i from tirol

Oh yes my mum has some japanese genes, tho.

Tirol is my country 😭i live in vienna but i from tirol

Tirol, nice name 🤔

Tirol, nice name 🤔

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