Hello @Yue_ i just saw this forum and it's interesting as always, let me answer each questions you asked🙂
1️⃣ Are you a sensitive person? Are you more emotional or less emotional than other people? What makes you think so?
I'm quite sensitive, but i know to whom i must chill and lowering my sensitivity/emotion
2️⃣ Can you control your emotions well? How? Or do people know how you feel by looking at your face?
Depends on situation and to whom i face, but in front of my parent, family, friends, i can control it so well, but in front of grumpy lecturer i don't know hahahaha
3️⃣ Are you sometimes overwhelmed or numbed by emotions and feelings?
Sometimes, but most, not.
4️⃣ Can you understand why feelings could cause someone to commit a crime?
as far as i know, because humans, both women and men truly have self-esteem and feelings that they always protect. and when someone feels their heart & pride is hurt, whether through demands, insults, rejected, being belittled, etc; it'll make their self-worth become lower and lower (Source:
📚 Rosenberg, M. (1965). "Society and the Adolescent Self-Image" — a foundational study in understanding self-esteem as crucial to mental well-being.
📚 Baumeister, R. F., et al. (2003). "Does High Self-Esteem Cause Better Performance, Interpersonal Success, Happiness, or Health?" — found that self-esteem is linked to coping abilities and emotional regulation.)
and when someone already feels inferior, to think clearly, think of solutions or a way out in a wise way will feel more difficult. And because of the lack of self-confidence, they will think more about shortcuts that (in their opinion) are easier for them to do. that is why some people whose feelings are hurt have the potential to do things that harm others, whether on a small or large scale.
(source: 📚 Beck, A. T. (1976). "Cognitive Therapy and the Emotional Disorders" — explains how negative self-thoughts cloud rational thinking.
📚 Lazarus, R. S., & Folkman, S. (1984). "Stress, Appraisal, and Coping" — shows how emotional stress can impair decision-making and lead to maladaptive coping strategies.
📚 Bandura, A. (1973). "Aggression: A Social Learning Analysis" — shows how aggressive behavior can be a learned shortcut to control a painful environment or regain lost power.
📚 Gilligan, J. (1996). "Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic" — a psychiatrist's study of violent offenders reveals that shame, humiliation, and wounded pride are often at the root of violence, not mere anger.)
That's why i always says that we, as humans are not only born as individuals but also social beings. Doing good is not only a form of altruism, but also for the common good and for the future and a generation with minimal trauma or heart broken. because everyone has different mental condition & strength. That's why, for me personally, as much as possible I try to softer my speech, attitude, and try to be polite. not because I'm afraid, or feel intimidated, but I'm more towards trying to protect the feelings of the person I'm talking to. because human thoughts and feelings are unpredictable, as long as we do good at least we also protect ourselves from unwanted things.
5️⃣ Are you generally a positive person or a negative person?
I'm more into neutral. it depends
6️⃣ Do you find it easy to explain your feelings to another person? If not, why is it difficult?
yes, even when we are in conflict. but if i sense that person has very high pride or even too closed-minded, i choose to leave and let them sink in their assumption. cause i know, they only wanna heard what they wanna hear.
7️⃣ What makes you feel very good or sad?
+when people believe that I can lead a team (which yes, most of my time i spent leading the team)
-when people questions or think my opinion/statement irrelevant, even though they haven't google it yet.
8️⃣ Can you read another person's emotions? Can you easily tell how other people are feeling? How useful is this ability?
yes. sometimes it's useful, sometimes it making me sad, cause i can sense their real intention.
9️⃣ Which is more powerful between feelings of love and feelings of hate?
In the short term, hate can feel more powerful because of its intensity and ability to provoke extreme action. But in the long term, love is more powerful because it sustains life, heals wounds, and builds meaningful legacy.
🔟 Are women more emotional than men? Or is that just a stereotype?
No, it just a stereotype. in reality, both women nor men have feeling & can be emotional. but the different lies to what trigger them. Neuroscience shows that both genders feel emotions equally intensely, but may express or process them differently. And also, studies suggest women often value relational harmony, while men often tie their identity to achievement or status. This isn’t because of some emotional “weakness,” but due to social expectations and role conditioning.
