Can you tell me some more about it?
hiii @-Kiki-!! yes of course not a problem. so the person who told me MOST stories was my grandmom. but now not anymore for other reasons but she told me things about the Buddha when there is a nice lesson what you must know or do.
i already mentioned two examples on the forum but they are very important to me. if you like i can give you more examples of course. that is not a problem!! π
so for example my grandmom said that with everything that you learn or know that you must NOTTT be arrogant that you dont want to listen even if somebody can prove that you are wrong. so you must ALWAYS accept that somebody can prove you differently about certain things. EVEN with religion. so if you are a Buddhist and you believe in all stories for example about the Buddha himself. You can be wrong. And even the Buddha would say that of himself. my grandmom said this is a lesson NOTTTT only for religion but about everything. so if you accept that you can be wrong about stuff than you listen better and more to others. and instead of being arrogrant that you know it better without even listening you can be more open and soft and accept that you can learn.
another example is if smb is angry at you or attacks you. of course you can be super angry and attack back. and sometimes you do and that is ok. but the buddha was attacked by demons with arrows and instead of fighting back he just turned the arrows into flowers. that way he was not hurt and needed no protection anymore and flowers are things you like so he was happy about it. this lesson is difficult to do in normal life but it shows that if you are soft and gentle instead of attacking back that sometimes it can be a better way!! so many people think being soft is WEAKKK and that people will just abuse it but i think that is wrong. if you are softer and gentle it can also be STRONGGGG in some cases but it just depends what happened if it will work. ππππ