Yesterday i posted the last part of the interview of @Lianshen and i think one thing is also nice for this forum and i thought about it a lot. This is from the interview (i only kept what i wanted to post here too so if you want to read everything you can do that here):
11: In this forum you wrote what is the most important for you in life and you said: peacefulness, health and relationships & time. What do you do for peacefulness and health if for example you are super busy and stressed?
Yes ! I think peacefulness is the most important for me. Relationship and health are usually things that have been noted to be reliable sources of happiness to people according to studies in psychology, which I agree with.
The rest of your question is very difficult to answer… First, I don’t get stressed very easily (which makes some people around me jealous). For the rest, I believe it depends on the angle you take to see life. On my part, I take almost nothing seriously, so it makes it easier. I don’t think that I should abide to people’s will and direct my life according to their expectations ; nor that killing myself at a task at the expense of something more valuable to me is a good idea.
Of course, sometimes, you have to comply and get yourself to work for instance. If you are lucky enough, then you are working in a field that doesn’t make a « super busy » time unpleasant, but learning to accept it can also be nice.
That being said, for peacefulness, I included having time for yourself for example, having a nice environment, safety, restful/peaceful place to stay at (not saturated with stimuli), not having to worry too much about tomorrow etc. I guess peacefulness will depends on people, but to me, it’s mostly that. If I can add some pets to a dog, some wildlife and a few details, then I guess I’d be satisfied with that.
I hope that it is ok that i can share this part in this forum too because maybe others like to read it and that it can help. 😊😇
