No their are men who are really romantic my neighbours husband is really romantic
I understand that and i think it is true, but i mean more about several guys in our school bc they often only care about that other people think they are cool. At least that is what several of my friends say. But maybe when they are older than it is different.
I understand that and i think it is true, but i mean more about several guys in our school bc they often only care about that other people think they are cool. At least that is what several of my friends say. But maybe when they are older than it is different.
Yes but they are minor . Maybe be cause of that
Do you think that normally guys are more romantic or girls? ππ
I don't think most girls are romantic at all. Reason for that is that it's mostly the girl who chooses the boy, and hence the boy who developped romantic trait to seduce the damsels, because they like romantic things. So far, I have very rarely seen a woman offering flowers or making so many efforts π
I don't think most girls are romantic at all. Reason for that is that it's mostly the girl who chooses the boy, and hence the boy who developped romantic trait to seduce the damsels, because they like romantic things. So far, I have very rarely seen a woman offering flowers or making so many efforts π
But normally a guy asks the girl he likes on a date right? I think i would not do that bc i am too afraid he would say no and jokes about you. And you can also be romantic without giving gifts like for example wanting to be together, holding hands or sitting together maybe under stars or in a park. In school i think guys often dont care about it but maybe a lot more when they are older. That is a LOTTT nicer i think. Because being romantic is NOTTT like being weak but i think sometimes guys think that at school (at least in my class).
But normally a guy asks the girl he likes on a date right? I think i would not do that bc i am too afraid he would say no and jokes about you. And you can also be romantic without giving gifts like for example wanting to be together, holding hands or sitting together maybe under stars or in a park. In school i think guys often dont care about it but maybe a lot more when they are older. That is a LOTTT nicer i think. Because being romantic is NOTTT like being weak but i think sometimes guys think that at school (at least in my class).
In traditional roles, yes. It's just my opinion, but I see romantism just like peacocks who display their feathers and dance in front of females; even though it's probably a little bit more complex! However, just like you are afraid that someone says no and makes joke because you asked out, it seems that people are more and more afraid of talking to the other sex since a few years.
I don't know if men become more romantic by growing older. I suppose not everyone grow a romantic fiber, and that it comes with how your relationship with girls go. I couldn't say much though π
I think women are more romantic when it comes to candle light and physical connection as in massages and stuff to make a nice ambiance and men more with asking a woman to dinner or buying roses for her; so buying things and gestures like holding the door open or getting a chair in the restaurant.
Thank you very much @Lianshen and @-Kiki-!! ππ₯°ππ When @Lianshen wrote about the peacocks showing feathers and dancing i can now imagine the guys on PPG dancing for their girlfriends or girls that they like such as @Lianshen, @Etienne, @Simone724, @Pennarossa2024, @Sabri_KC, @Paolo176, @Piwipete and @albertone!!! So we sit on a chair and the guys have to do a hiphop dance or other dance to impress!!! π π (That is a joke!!!!! π )
And @-Kiki- i think you are right because in a relationship i think that girls want to hold hands MUCHHH more than guys bc sometimes guys are maybe even embarrassed or at least in my school bc they think maybe it is not cool enough. ππ But i hope that later they change and become more normal!! π
True love is loving yourself
That is also difficult bc i think EVERYBODY is also insecure. And sometimes you can think that you are not good enough or that people think others are better. And if you think that it is also difficult to love yourself bc you see the things that are wrong about yourself or not good enough. I dont have that often because you should also be happy who you are or it is not respectful to your parents. But sometimes i have those feelings too but not very often. But i think that almost everybody has that sometimes. ππ
If friendship is wanting to walk the same road of life with someone for as long as you can (occasionally diverging and meeting up again) perhaps true love is wanting to do more than that with someone and find places/times in your life to linger, to go off the beaten path with them, and to help each other during the more challenging parts of the traversal--if that is not too frivolous and romantic for me to say. I have not fallen in love yet, so please take my opinion with a grain of salt. It is simply what I've seen from some people and members of my family.
I think loving themself is the base for loving other people! First you must be lucky with yourself, then you have the calm to love other people!
I think you are right @Piwipete but if you are for example insecure and having anxieties i think that you can still love other persons too like for example your parents and family and maybe later your bf too. But it is important that you feel comfortable as much as you can EVEN when that is super difficult sometimes.
True love is the madness with divine permit since that's the one and only thing which can justify all of your irrational acts.
It is true that sometimes people are SUPER different if they are in a relationship even like how they talk and other things!!! Have you done weird things when you loved somebody? π
If friendship is wanting to walk the same road of life with someone for as long as you can (occasionally diverging and meeting up again) perhaps true love is wanting to do more than that with someone and find places/times in your life to linger, to go off the beaten path with them, and to help each other during the more challenging parts of the traversal--if that is not too frivolous and romantic for me to say. I have not fallen in love yet, so please take my opinion with a grain of salt. It is simply what I've seen from some people and members of my family.
It is very beautiful what you described. I think i understand everything what you wrote!! π It is that you also really support each other!!! π₯°π₯°
And I have new quotes:
π©ββ€οΈβπ¨ TRUE love is talking a long time what to watch on netflix but falling asleep together after 1 minute!!
π©ββ€οΈβπ¨ TRUE love is making a painting of each other even if you both cant paint properly AT ALL!!! π
π©ββ€οΈβπ¨ TRUE love is swapping outfits for a WHOLE day (also if you go out for school or work or something else)!! π
True love for me.... Is showing up for each other always. When it is easy, when it is hard. When you can help when you can't.
Being present for another person even if that is all you have to offer just your presence. There is no greater act of true love than that.
Showing up again and again every day, to face the world together, to do the work of building a life together, just showing up.
