Am I the only one who suffers from depression?

I'm suffering right now. I had it in the past but now is stronger. I had 2 best friends and we were always together but then things started to change with one of them. 2 days ago we had a really strong fight and she doesn't want to see me anymore, to her some things i did are very bad but to a normal person they aren't. The funny fact? Since she's more beautiful and sociable, she now has still lots of friends, plus these few people i talked with. And i, i am alone. I don't know who to call to go out or to chat with. I feel like sh*t

I'm suffering right now. I had it in the past but now is stronger. I had 2 best friends and we were always together but then things started to change with one of them. 2 days ago we had a really strong fight and she doesn't want to see me anymore, to her some things i did are very bad but to a normal person they aren't. The funny fact? Since she's more beautiful and sociable, she now has still lots of friends, plus these few people i talked with. And i, i am alone. I don't know who to call to go out or to chat with. I feel like sh*t

i had same situation like you in past
best solution what i will suggest you to keep busy your body and mind with any kind of activity like sports etc....
and keep busy yourself to smile and find new friends .i am sure in one week you will be happy

Please tell me how you survived from depression. Some people have committed suicide because of depression.

I'm suffering right now. I had it in the past but now is stronger. I had 2 best friends and we were always together but then things started to change with one of them. 2 days ago we had a really strong fight and she doesn't want to see me anymore, to her some things i did are very bad but to a normal person they aren't. The funny fact? Since she's more beautiful and sociable, she now has still lots of friends, plus these few people i talked with. And i, i am alone. I don't know who to call to go out or to chat with. I feel like sh*t

Feel free to contact me if you want to chat and talk. You aren't alone!

My answer to Alberto97: Are you absolutely sure ?

My answer to Alberto97: Are you absolutely sure ?

About what?

My answer to Alberto97 : Are you absolutely sure that i'm not only one who suffers from depression? No one listens to me and the whole world hates me.

I had a friend who had depression. Before that diagnosis came out, we were best friends. A lot of my classmates disliked him, because he was "scary", but I always protected him. Even though, it had the feeling we won't ever leave each other, it was all fake, an illusion. After he revealed his diagnosis, he changed and he didn't like me. I tried my best to get things back, but he went to an another school with new friends (I've seen it). I was heartbroken, but I know things can't stay as it is. We need to move on.

My message to you, @Sannu95 and other people with depression: I know depression can't go over, but we need to move on. Know that suicide isn't an option. If you feel alone or bad, try to seek out to other people. Sometimes you can expect help from the people you don't expect you would get from them. Maybe your old friends doesn't suit you anymore, but look on the other side, there will always be new friends to make. And sometimes telling your story will lighten your heart up. Just like I did, because that's the first time I've said this to anyone, just want to let you feel better.

I suffered from depression for a couple years, I still have it but nearly as bad. I experienced thoughts of suicide and self ham. I know that it is scary to have friends with this illness but one of the hardest things about depression is the feelings of being alone. Let them know that you are there for them, that you care. Don't push them to tell you everything and 'be happy'. Their feelings is not something they can control, but try your best to do things with them even if that means sitting in front of the tv together. Just make an effort to be there, that's the most important thing.

Hang in there

I had a friend who had depression. Before that diagnosis came out, we were best friends. A lot of my classmates disliked him, because he was "scary", but I always protected him. Even though, it had the feeling we won't ever leave each other, it was all fake, an illusion. After he revealed his diagnosis, he changed and he didn't like me. I tried my best to get things back, but he went to an another school with new friends (I've seen it). I was heartbroken, but I know things can't stay as it is. We need to move on.

My message to you, @Sannu95 and other people with depression: I know depression can't go over, but we need to move on. Know that suicide isn't an option. If you feel alone or bad, try to seek out to other people. Sometimes you can expect help from the people you don't expect you would get from them. Maybe your old friends doesn't suit you anymore, but look on the other side, there will always be new friends to make. And sometimes telling your story will lighten your heart up. Just like I did, because that's the first time I've said this to anyone, just want to let you feel better.

Thanks 4 the information

Whenever someone starts to have "bad" thoughts, he/she should do a BIG change in his/her life...

+ Just remember that everything is temporary in life. Sooner or later, things will change. Wether it's a disease, an emotion, a problem, nothing and nobody lasts forever. And meanwhile, we just have to accept our issues and cope with them, because a better day will definitely come 🙂

Your not the only one who suffers from depression. I, myself have it as well. Committing suicide is NEVER the answer. It's the cheater's handbook of thinking that if you did such a thing, people wouldn't miss you.. but this is a false statement. There are people out there that DO care. You may not know any of us here, but I'm sure we are all here to support one another just like a joined bridge. So keep your chin up, and do the things that make you happy. Like The Corner 201 said "Going for a simple walk" He is right, it does do wonders. 🙂

The old way ends and a new way begins.

I know it's hard, but try to look at the bright side of life: listen happy music or watch funny movies like Mamma Mia. The best thing is just to go outside on adventures, preferably with friends!

Hi, if you want you can message to me..I hope I can help you

Hi, if you want you can message to me..I hope I can help you

Thanks

I think the first step to "survive" depression, how you named it, is to admit that you suffer from it.
The second step for me was to find somebody to talk about it. I suffer from depression because I got a chronic disease in my last year of school and because of to often missing classes I couldn't graduate/get my Abitur. Besides that all of my friends left me behind (they moved for studying) and broke off the contact with me. Only my best friend is still in contact with me. So I had nobody to talk to besides my mother but maybe you know it yourself but its not the same to talk about something with your parents.
I'm glad I found a really good psychotherapist who suffers from a similar disease and who understands me. In addition I found a really good friend when I went to rehab. She also suffers from something similar.
Now I don't want to say you can only talk to people with similar sorrows as you. I just want to say talking is really helpful when you have somebody who understands or listens to you. At least for me it's always helpful.
Whenever I feel really bad, maybe laying in bed and can't fall asleep because my head is full of bad thoughts I can just call or message someone and tell them my worries. Even if I don't get an immediate reply it helps me to get it out of my head a little.
In the end everyone has to find his own thing that the thinks helps and feels good about it.
Also taking a walk to clear the head or listening to my favorite music helps greatly.

And I think depression isn't curable. You can have a really good phase even over several years but you can relapse anytime.
But that doesn't mean it's bad. In my opinion we appreciate the live more in those moments where we are truly happy because we know it can change in the next second.

Haagan dazs if its mild sleep if its medium video games + haagan dazs + crying if it's bad, I used to get suicidal but I talked to my family you would be surprised at how much it helps. Remember depression is a form of pain, find what causes it and look for ways to avoid that.