Questions for girls and boys

Hello everybody, i dont know if @Yue_ allready made such a forum, but ive been wondering about this allready for a while.Im gonna make a question list for girls, girls can also make a question list for boys, you make it as long and short as you want, and you only answer the questions you/feel comfortable with.

My list:

1 what do girls like about boys?

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

3 what do you think is good about boys?

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

Thank you for answering these questions if you feel okay with it <3

I tag these people, if you want more, feel free to tag them 🙂 :@Yue_ @Idkbro @Fleurke @Lienelovespasta @frozenpizza001 @TomiL @Emmiiii_17_11 @Miss_Penpal @psysarah15 @Kotyaka2023 @Its_regi @Chantal- @Ilexforest

For me, all those questions depend on the boy. I can't really say one thing cause yk everybody is different...

yes! ofcourse everybody is different, the wolr wouldnt be nice if everyone was the same, thank you very much for answering @Lienelovespasta 🙂😃<3

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1 what do girls like about boys?

Honestly, in my case, any positive quality is appreciated. Every guy and every girl is not the same, so we all have different personalities and different tastes. A lot of people will have a lot of different answers for this question, for example "It's nice to have someone reliable around," or "It's refreshing to have a good listener in your life," etc.

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

I don't think it's a good thing to make someone change themselves for your own selfish wishes. If a person wants to help another change for the best, that's great, but I don't think forcing such a decision on someone will end very well for both parties.

It also depends on the person; not everyone has the same flaws to work on.

3 what do you think is good about boys?

I guess that in general, boy friendship seems so much more genuine than girl 'friendships'. They look close and happy to just hang out, and I'm kind of jealous to be honest. Why can't I be one of the boys😢(By that, I don't mean I want to change my gender, just that I would like to have a guy friendship, if that makes any sense?)

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

Once again, it depends on the person. But probably the huge difference in how our minds work. I understand more or less what's going on in people's heads, and I can somewhat manage it, but it's still kind of annoying to have to explain things differently than you would normally for it to make sense for another person.

Hey! So nice that you made this forum! I'll give my answers 🙂 1. It actually depends on the boy himself, because everyone has another mind of thinking etc. 2. I would like to change the attitude of some boys. Boys here in belgium, and my age, are boys who try to be cooler than they are. So yeah, that's the thing I would like to change 😋 3. I have some male friends in real life, so they are pretty nice and fun. Butttt I think this is also depending on wich boy it actually is. 4. Their attitude, like I said 🤗 In our class, we are actually kinda 'boys' and 'girls' apart. But I just want to be friends with everyone :b Sooo I hope u had ur answers! 💞

yes thank you @frozenpizza001 and @Miss_Penpal for your ansers.

@Miss_Penpal your answer n° 2 is an answer i havent really thought about, thenk you for mentioning it 🙂

@frozenpizza001 yes, its quit irritating if guys try to be 'cool' (funny in normal words) while they actually arent. I totally understand it 🙂

Well, it all depends on the specific people. And that's it.

Hello everybody, i dont know if @Yue_ allready made such a forum, but ive been wondering about this allready for a while.Im gonna make a question list for girls, girls can also make a question list for boys, you make it as long and short as you want, and you only answer the questions you/feel comfortable with.

My list:

1 what do girls like about boys?

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

3 what do you think is good about boys?

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

Thank you for answering these questions if you feel okay with it <3

I tag these people, if you want more, feel free to tag them 🙂 :@Yue_ @Idkbro @Fleurke @Lienelovespasta @frozenpizza001 @TomiL @Emmiiii_17_11 @Miss_Penpal @psysarah15 @Kotyaka2023 @Its_regi @Chantal- @Ilexforest

Hii mare @LandRoverDiscovery2!! 😊😊 I dont think we have a forum exactly like yours bc this one that you maybe mean is also very different: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/11085-the-mega-forum-girls-and-guys-asking-questions ANDDD even if there is a forum perhaps earlier it does not matter bc ANYYY fun or nice new forum is good!!! 🙂 So i would like to answer the questions of course!!!

ANDDD maybe it is nice Mare if the same questions are answered by guys BUTTTT that time abt girls. So just change the words and you have the same questions and maybe that is nice to see if the answers are really the same ORRRR very different!!!! 🤷‍♀️🙄🙄

Here are my answers for your list of questions:

1 what do girls like about boys?

I like it if guys dont brag or act like SUPERR loud and trying to be always louder than others. I prefer if a guy is calm and also lets you speak and that you can also give opinions. And that he does NOTTT make it feel for you that you are stupid bc he does not agree with your opinion or thinks for example that things that you like are dumb or boring.

So if a guy is calm and nice to you that is what i like. And i prefer if a guy is himself and makes you feel calm and safe too. Also it is nice if you can maybe talk abt things that you both like ORRR what the other likes and you also show interest abt it for each other. I did not yet have a relationship but i think that it is still allowed to answer the question bc i feel like i wrote above.

My friends sometimes say i will marry a nerdy guy bc i dont like super loud guys but you of course dont know yet who you marry at all. So i think it is just a joke!!! Sorry for my answer being super long!! 😛

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

I dont think that guys or ANYBODYY should change. Bc than you are somebody else who you maybe dont want to be. But it is how somebody already is that you like or not.

3 what do you think is good about boys?

That they can make you feel loved and safe and nice in a way others can maybe not. But it must be real and not that for example they are like that and a month later they just dump you for a new gf. I prefer less relationships in the future but that they are real.

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

I think guys are VERY different if they are alone or for example hanging with their friends in a group because in that case they can act much more trying to be strong and cool and wanting that everybody thinks they are one of the toughest and that they have most swag and are like SUPER confident even if they are not. So they act often super strange and weird than if they are alone. Normally i dont like groups of guys if they act that way and are super loud and trying being more than the others in the group all the time and BRAGGGING a LOTTTT. I dont like that.

well @Yue_ , your explanation was very precisely, thank you :

I don't think boys and girls are that different but I'll try to answer anyway (taking for granted that we are talking about good boys 😌)!

1 what do girls like about boys?

I thinks the sense of protection, the way they are open to listen and be less judgemental and less in competition (it often happens between two girls/women).

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

Nothing, honestly! If you are a decent human being, there's nothing to change!

3 what do you think is good about boys?

When they're open minded, especially towards women and don't treat us like properties.

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

If they're violent both verbally and physically, if they're abusive, if they complain about everything, but it's a generalisation. I believe in equity!

thank you @Chantal- 🙂

i had to laugh by the answer "when theyre open minded, especially towards women and dont treat us like properties" whats the exact meaning of "properties" bc i guess you dont mean houses 😛

The amount of men that say "My wife can't wear that, my wife can't do that, my wife is not allowed to..." Oh, please! Exactly like properties! I have high expectations on your generation 😏

1 what do girls like about boys? I love eyes, deep and long conversations, honesty, and a masculine man (by that I mean a person who feels safe, you know he's protecting you, someone you can be yourself with).

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?nothing but if he wears white socks with sandals then I would say that

3 what do you think is good about boys?Honest boys will be boys and hunters. I don't believe they are made to be faithful.

4 what do you dislike the most about them?lies, cheating, abuse

white socks with sandals, hahaha XD

1 what do girls like about boys? I love eyes, deep and long conversations, honesty, and a masculine man (by that I mean a person who feels safe, you know he's protecting you, someone you can be yourself with).

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?nothing but if he wears white socks with sandals then I would say that

3 what do you think is good about boys?Honest boys will be boys and hunters. I don't believe they are made to be faithful.

4 what do you dislike the most about them?lies, cheating, abuse

white socks with sandals, hahaha XD

i hate them 🤪🤪🤪💣

Hi Mare! glad too see you still making forum! let me answer your question.

1 what do girls like about boys?

some of girls like their looks, some of personality, some of their cute behavior. But personally, i like a man who is cute (physically, behavior, humor) i like the way their cute behavior is just to make me chuckles and blushing, while actually they are mature inside (from the way he thinks, mentally stable and as sapiosexual i really like if they are smart).

i like the way my bf banter some cute flirting using low and slow voice

2 what you would like them to change about them selfs?

hmmmm some of them still patriarchy, i wish they more consider and see girls/women is equal with them. I have met several men who, without their knowledge, often underestimate & degrade women, and that makes me speechless..

3 what do you think is good about boys?

Most of my friends are men, what I think is good about them is that they have broad insight into many things, we often discuss and argue about many topic hahaha

but that's the things I love, because that way, they really listen to me, and are honest with me whether what I say is true or not. at least they are not the type to talk about other people behind my backs.

4 what do you dislike the most about them?

when I see a man act so patriarchal, dictator, act so narcissistic while actually what they do is so off.

Thank you @mayuuram a very good explanation 🤗

Now, what are things you consider "cute" bc a lot of people usevthe word for books ore people (often afults) in real life, but i dont.