Please, I need help 🥺

I must say Pennie, that i totally see in what you say here. But no, you cant keep your heart from loving someone, in that case its your heart who decides, not you (for as far as i know)

And yes; its a shame that those beautyfull times have gone away (kinda of a shame i wasnt born in those years)

When I was little, thirteen-year-old girls played with dolls and thirteen-year-old boys played with toy cars. Why do you have such a desire to grow up now? Life is hard, short, and sometimes cruel. Why do you want to shorten childhood and adolescence? Talk about love at thirteen? I never thought of that. Times have changed. For better or worse? Posterity will decide.

I must say Pennie, that i totally see in what you say here. But no, you cant keep your heart from loving someone, in that case its your heart who decides, not you (for as far as i know)

And yes; its a shame that those beautyfull times have gone away (kinda of a shame i wasnt born in those years)

honestly 13 years old is the right age for a first love

tell ya what rose; my mother even told me that its good for 16 year old girls to get there first child ;p😛

whattttttttttttttttt the fuckkkkkkk how? why is it good?

she did give an explanation for it, but i dont remember it anymore. It was unexpected for me too tho.

having your first little love stories when you are 13 is normal. it's silly,but it teaches you a lot about life. when you turn a certain age,you start to feel romantic feelings,which is totally normal. and 13 is a normal age to have your first love. and also to discover your sexuality,to discover if you like boys or girls for example. also i don't think that it's a problem of ''our generation'' since when i talk to my parents about this topic they tell me that their first love was around 13-14 years old.

Yeah, I think so too... anyway, thank you, it's nice to know that someone supports me 😊

I must say Pennie, that i totally see in what you say here. But no, you cant keep your heart from loving someone, in that case its your heart who decides, not you (for as far as i know)

And yes; its a shame that those beautyfull times have gone away (kinda of a shame i wasnt born in those years)

Yeah... but we're still a couple 😇

honestly 13 years old is the right age for a first love

Oh… thanks, that’s really nice to hear 😜 I used to worry about it a lot, but I guess everything’s fine! 😅

she did give an explanation for it, but i dont remember it anymore. It was unexpected for me too tho.

Hmm... so getting married at 15, huh? Interesting 🙄

honestly 13 years old is the right age for a first love

I think what you wrote earlier for @Pennarossa2024 is right but i wanted to ask what you think about the right age like you wrote above. If you didnt have a bf yet when you are 13 do you think it is really late? Sorry if that is a stupid question to ask. I am now 14 and think sometimes abt it to have a relationship and on one hand i think it would be nice to have a relationship but on other hand i am not sure abt some things like if they go super fast with everything and how they maybe are (like not what you expected or hope). So i thought like maybe only if you feel comfortable and not rush it only bc others already have a relationship. But i dont want that everybody thinks that maybe it is not good if you still didnt have a bf yet. Sometimes that makes me a little bit uncertain bc you want to do everything right but i dont always know what is the best to do. That can be really difficult and embarrassing to talk abt with friends bc they do have boyfriends or had relationships or at least most of them.

i said getting a first child at 16 not getting married at 15! By the way; "a couple"? your not married, i suppose?

Yeah, I think so too... anyway, thank you, it's nice to know that someone supports me 😊

Yeah... but we're still a couple 😇

Oh… thanks, that’s really nice to hear 😜 I used to worry about it a lot, but I guess everything’s fine! 😅

Hmm... so getting married at 15, huh? Interesting 🙄

I think what you wrote earlier for @Pennarossa2024 is right but i wanted to ask what you think about the right age like you wrote above. If you didnt have a bf yet when you are 13 do you think it is really late? Sorry if that is a stupid question to ask. I am now 14 and think sometimes abt it to have a relationship and on one hand i think it would be nice to have a relationship but on other hand i am not sure abt some things like if they go super fast with everything and how they maybe are (like not what you expected or hope). So i thought like maybe only if you feel comfortable and not rush it only bc others already have a relationship. But i dont want that everybody thinks that maybe it is not good if you still didnt have a bf yet. Sometimes that makes me a little bit uncertain bc you want to do everything right but i dont always know what is the best to do. That can be really difficult and embarrassing to talk abt with friends bc they do have boyfriends or had relationships or at least most of them.

having a relationship is not something that you HAVE to do,it's something that you can do if you want to and you can live without it,it's not necessary.
i had my first little crush at 12 that lasted like 2 months and we were never together and he never liked me back. i had my first real experiences at 15. if you find a boyfriend at 14,15,16 or 17 years old it's not late at all haha,i have some friends that are those ages and never even held hands with someone. the majority of teenagers at 16 had at least a kiss with someone but if you didn't do it yet it doesn't mean you are late,it's just what teenagers usually do.

and i understand what you say that your friends already had several relationships,my friends too. i didn't have many relationships. you are 14 and it's totally normal that you never had a boyfriend. don't rush yourself because of your friends,find someone only if you truly want to. be careful,because love really hurts and can destroy many parts of you. also,of course be careful of teenage boys,they could make you do things you are not ready to do yet. so take it slow,and when it happens,it will happen. because it's also very nice that you want to experience love and you should do it if you want to. and not every boy is evil of course

I think what you wrote earlier for @Pennarossa2024 is right but i wanted to ask what you think about the right age like you wrote above. If you didnt have a bf yet when you are 13 do you think it is really late? Sorry if that is a stupid question to ask. I am now 14 and think sometimes abt it to have a relationship and on one hand i think it would be nice to have a relationship but on other hand i am not sure abt some things like if they go super fast with everything and how they maybe are (like not what you expected or hope). So i thought like maybe only if you feel comfortable and not rush it only bc others already have a relationship. But i dont want that everybody thinks that maybe it is not good if you still didnt have a bf yet. Sometimes that makes me a little bit uncertain bc you want to do everything right but i dont always know what is the best to do. That can be really difficult and embarrassing to talk abt with friends bc they do have boyfriends or had relationships or at least most of them.

It's better to wait for someone you really like and who really understands you. Don't rush yourself because of friends or people and just wait for the moment where it feels right for you.

I think what you wrote earlier for @Pennarossa2024 is right but i wanted to ask what you think about the right age like you wrote above. If you didnt have a bf yet when you are 13 do you think it is really late? Sorry if that is a stupid question to ask. I am now 14 and think sometimes abt it to have a relationship and on one hand i think it would be nice to have a relationship but on other hand i am not sure abt some things like if they go super fast with everything and how they maybe are (like not what you expected or hope). So i thought like maybe only if you feel comfortable and not rush it only bc others already have a relationship. But i dont want that everybody thinks that maybe it is not good if you still didnt have a bf yet. Sometimes that makes me a little bit uncertain bc you want to do everything right but i dont always know what is the best to do. That can be really difficult and embarrassing to talk abt with friends bc they do have boyfriends or had relationships or at least most of them.

No, of course! If you don't have a boyfriend at 14, it's okay! Maybe you haven't found your man yet 😉

i said getting a first child at 16 not getting married at 15! By the way; "a couple"? your not married, i suppose?

Well, since pregnancy lasts 9 months, you have to either hurry up or get married at 15 🫤 and no, of course! I'm 13, who's married?!

It's better to wait for someone you really like and who really understands you. Don't rush yourself because of friends or people and just wait for the moment where it feels right for you.

Yes! At some point you will realise that you want more with this person. Don't try to fall in love just because you think it's right. Not the right answer. Someone finds their love at 13, and someone at 40 hasn't found anyone yet, and that's normal! 🙂

well, what i see by a couple are a men and a woman married, @Kotyaka2023 thats why i got somehow surprised when you said "couple"

well, what i see by a couple are a men and a woman married, @Kotyaka2023 thats why i got somehow surprised when you said "couple"

Oh... no, no, of course!

And by the way...

and by the way what?

having a relationship is not something that you HAVE to do,it's something that you can do if you want to and you can live without it,it's not necessary.
i had my first little crush at 12 that lasted like 2 months and we were never together and he never liked me back. i had my first real experiences at 15. if you find a boyfriend at 14,15,16 or 17 years old it's not late at all haha,i have some friends that are those ages and never even held hands with someone. the majority of teenagers at 16 had at least a kiss with someone but if you didn't do it yet it doesn't mean you are late,it's just what teenagers usually do.

and i understand what you say that your friends already had several relationships,my friends too. i didn't have many relationships. you are 14 and it's totally normal that you never had a boyfriend. don't rush yourself because of your friends,find someone only if you truly want to. be careful,because love really hurts and can destroy many parts of you. also,of course be careful of teenage boys,they could make you do things you are not ready to do yet. so take it slow,and when it happens,it will happen. because it's also very nice that you want to experience love and you should do it if you want to. and not every boy is evil of course

Thank you very much Rose!! That you said that it means a lot to me bc it is difficult to chat abt that even with friends bc i think sometimes that they would perhaps not understand it or think it is strange to talk about. I feel less stressed about it because what you wrote and also Ao @AgDel and Arsenia @Kotyaka2023!!! I think it should feel comfortable and nice but also that you are ready for a relationship. Last year i did not feel that way yet but now i feel a different about it and i think maybe yes. But only if you meet somebody that you think is REALLY special for you. ❤️❤️

There is a proverb,never enter a convenience store when you are starving,bc the food you choose can only temporarily satisfy your urgent need.You should take time to shop around for some truly delicious food. Perhaps striving to improve yourself and thereby attracting more outstanding people is also a good option.

There is a proverb,never enter a convenience store when you are starving,bc the food you choose can only temporarily satisfy your urgent need.You should take time to shop around for some truly delicious food. Perhaps striving to improve yourself and thereby attracting more outstanding people is also a good option.

Holy shit that's a good one! DAYUMMMM!!!!!! 😳😳

For the OP, have you and your friend met yet? Your question to our group was 3 months ago. If you and your friend are 1.5 hours away, I'd say meet someplace public in the middle, both of your parents can take you to meet.