stop normalizing being mean for no reason.

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING COLD AND BEING MEAN.
In this generation being mean and bullying is very normalized. Being mean to people for no reason at all isn’t normal. You are uneducated and a total weirdo if you do it. Bullying is one of the worst things and it made many people take their lives. It ruined my life and I don’t have peace anymore since then. I have severe depression because of it. You are a horrible person if you bullied someone. Bullying should be illegal. Mean people are often seen as “cool” when they should be seen as weirdos.
Being cold isn’t wrong. Of course sweet people are always gonna be more liked in society ,but there is absolutely nothing offensive and wrong in being cold. I know a lot of people that are cold but they are very good people with a kind and true heart.For example,i am not the sweetest person ever. I can be super sweet (too much) in a relationship or in a very good friendship,but otherwise i am really not. I am kind to random people and I don’t do mean things. But i am not the kind of person that emotionally helps strangers cause I don’t have a lot of trust but as i said, i never do mean things to people even if of course i did my mistakes like everyone,they were never that kind.

what do you think about this topic? Did you ever bully or made fun of someone? Did you have situations when people were mean at you for no reason?

I remember, in gymnasium (school between primary and high school) I was'nt bully, but I was taking part in kind of ostracism. There were one girl, she was kind of weird, but our class was making fun of her or just... Treating her like weirdo. There were two girls friending with her, so at least... And I was going to high school with her, and I was glad she had friends, and she was'nt "bullied" or treated like previously anymore. But I think... In high school people were more matured, so it was easier for some people that were more different than others.

I don't know if it counts as bullying, but group of five or six older guys was... i don't know why, but these scumbags had little obsession about me. We were usually going back in the same bus, and every time I was clicking the "stop" button in the bus, the bust stop for demand, they were saying things like "we told You to not pressing it", they were also hiding my backpack sometimes, in school.

I was'nt coward generally, but... They were older, there was 5 or 6 of them, it was too much for me to somehow stand against them.

But still, it was nothing when compare it to many situations I hear about.

It is horrible. I can't stand when someone tries to trample on someone's dignity. Especially, when it's school, or somewhere, where You are stuck and have no space for avoiding it or changing environment.

I remember, in gymnasium (school between primary and high school) I was'nt bully, but I was taking part in kind of ostracism. There were one girl, she was kind of weird, but our class was making fun of her or just... Treating her like weirdo. There were two girls friending with her, so at least... And I was going to high school with her, and I was glad she had friends, and she was'nt "bullied" or treated like previously anymore. But I think... In high school people were more matured, so it was easier for some people that were more different than others.

I don't know if it counts as bullying, but group of five or six older guys was... i don't know why, but these scumbags had little obsession about me. We were usually going back in the same bus, and every time I was clicking the "stop" button in the bus, the bust stop for demand, they were saying things like "we told You to not pressing it", they were also hiding my backpack sometimes, in school.

I was'nt coward generally, but... They were older, there was 5 or 6 of them, it was too much for me to somehow stand against them.

But still, it was nothing when compare it to many situations I hear about.

It is horrible. I can't stand when someone tries to trample on someone's dignity. Especially, when it's school, or somewhere, where You are stuck and have no space for avoiding it or changing environment.

Also,often someone isn’t “weird” (there are real weird people but it’s a superficial and unnecessary word most of the times and used too much,so it lost its real meaning) and there are a lot of deep reasons about the person that you are calling like this. For example people could say that i am weird cause i come to school late,but it’s because i have serious health problems and i am doing some exams to solve the problem. And there are reasons also for other people. There is no need to make someone lose their dignity just to laugh 3 seconds. And we should reflect before saying something about someone,especially when we want to express a judgement about a total stranger. People are mostly heartless and selfish.

we allways make fun of someone..... but never when he/she is nearby. My father once in france in a retreat home made himself clear to a woman who worked there, that he didnt believe anything about covid, and that he didnt want a mask.

we allways make fun of someone..... but never when he/she is nearby. My father once in france in a retreat home made himself clear to a woman who worked there, that he didnt believe anything about covid, and that he didnt want a mask.

It’s not like he offended her or anything. I make fun of people in this way sometimes too. My point was another

It’s not like he offended her or anything. I make fun of people in this way sometimes too. My point was another

oh, sorry.....

Okay I should say nothing in this thread... 🤔

Okay I should say nothing in this thread... 🤔

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so, your allways being bullying to people?😉

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so, your allways being bullying to people?😉

He doesn’t bully,he likes to make people think he is shit cause he enjoys it. He enjoys being the one that everyone disagrees with,the one that everyone thinks is annoying and evil etc

I have experiences in it but other than you think

i think im gonna unfollow this topic; its driving me mazy, and soon ore later im gonna give sarcastic and optimistic answers (thats where im good at)

goodbye everyone

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And the problem is where?

And the problem is where?

wdym the problem is where? i just said!

now i'll not anymore read the messages, cuz im unfollowing right now!

I think that bullies are WEAK even if they think that you are weak if they bully you. But what i hate the most is that what @Oxiu and @Roseeeee said about that they destroy your dignity. I know a lot about being bullied and that what Roseee and Oxiu said but always in a racist way but that is bullying too.

In school i think that there should be more time for this to talk about. Because i think that bullies DONTTT understand how much it can really hurt others and that it does NOTTT get out of your head. They maybe think it is just small or teasing but they dont understand what it really does.

And @Fleurke your news about Macedonia: 🥰🥰🥰🥰

yep, mean and cold people are people I don't like/way too lazy to respond to. And personally, I only want to receive positive impacts (cause i first came without bringing any bad vibes) even if someone had to be in a position of disagreeing or wants to complain, my rule is easy, the person who say it first need to convey without any harsh words.

Because, people who say harsh words or mean are actually people who lacks of self-control.

and personally, i always hold back, be patient and think twice about saying or do something that could potentially hurt someone's feelings.

Before the mean and cold people came to my life, my life already fine and happy. So when I meet someone who casually or even never thinks twice, usually i tell them once or twice privately to warn them, but if they didn't understand and still doing it, i usually just cut off.

in the end, self-respect way more important than giving respond to those people. i don't mind if my sensitivity make my circle smaller, cause, quality over quantity💚

and it's proven, when I prioritize quality, my life is much happier and less drama.

yep, mean and cold people are people I don't like/way too lazy to respond to. And personally, I only want to receive positive impacts (cause i first came without bringing any bad vibes) even if someone had to be in a position of disagreeing or wants to complain, my rule is easy, the person who say it first need to convey without any harsh words.

Because, people who say harsh words or mean are actually people who lacks of self-control.

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and personally, i always hold back, be patient and think twice about saying or do something that could potentially hurt someone's feelings.

Before the mean and cold people came to my life, my life already fine and happy. So when I meet someone who casually or even never thinks twice, usually i tell them once or twice privately to warn them, but if they didn't understand and still doing it, i usually just cut off.

in the end, self-respect way more important than giving respond to those people. i don't mind if my sensitivity make my circle smaller, cause, quality over quantity💚

and it's proven, when I prioritize quality, my life is much happier and less drama.

I couldt say it better @mayuuram 🥰💪🙏👌

What’s wrong with you? May i know ?