✨Adult Life✨

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Welcome to the journey of adult life, where freedom meets responsibility and every day offers a new adventure! It’s a phase where you can finally create your own path, pursue passions unapologetically, build meaningful connections, and celebrate the joy of independence—all while discovering the beauty of navigating life on your own terms.

I have question for u guys!

1. For adults, what are some fun, exciting, thrilling things that you have experienced?

Is there something (activities, another fun, place, etc) you would like to explore & experience?

and what is your favorite fun moment amongs all?

2. For teenager, What do you think adult life is like?

I think we should leave the adult train and take the huga bus

what do you mean?

Welcome to the journey of adult life, where freedom meets responsibility and every day offers a new adventure! It’s a phase where you can finally create your own path, pursue passions unapologetically, build meaningful connections, and celebrate the joy of independence—all while discovering the beauty of navigating life on your own terms.

I have question for u guys!

1. For adults, what are some fun, exciting, thrilling things that you have experienced?

Is there something (activities, another fun, place, etc) you would like to explore & experience?

and what is your favorite fun moment amongs all?

2. For teenager, What do you think adult life is like?

As a teenager I think adult life is objectively harder in some specific aspects but also a teenager's life isn't all about partying and hanging out. So I think an adult's life has more new problems and a bit less proportioned, instead of a teenager's life so I expect some new problems and also new experiences

Welcome to the journey of adult life, where freedom meets responsibility and every day offers a new adventure! It’s a phase where you can finally create your own path, pursue passions unapologetically, build meaningful connections, and celebrate the joy of independence—all while discovering the beauty of navigating life on your own terms.

I have question for u guys!

1. For adults, what are some fun, exciting, thrilling things that you have experienced?

Is there something (activities, another fun, place, etc) you would like to explore & experience?

and what is your favorite fun moment amongs all?

2. For teenager, What do you think adult life is like?

Thank you for making this forum @mayuuram!! You always post nice topics and questions and i dont always know the answer yet immediately. 🙄🙄

But i think i agree with @Lawrence11 and about what he wrote. And i think if you are an adult you have a LOTTTT of responsibilities. So you have to work and pay rent or the mortgage and taxes. And it is the MOST important that you take care if you have children and also of your parents if they get older. That is super important in my culture. And if you are married you take care of your husband as much as you can and to do really your best and always give your heart and feelings. And i think that you dont have a lot of free time so you have to do everything super quick and work a lot because my parents also do that.

I didt see that forum thanks for saying to me @Yue_ can a repond in the evening @mayuuram

@mayuuram as a teenager (I'm 16) I think adult life is exiting but at the same time makes me a little nervous. Im scared that one day I'm not gonna pay rent on time and get kicked out of my apartmant.

hello beautiful forum. exciting things for me were the 3 births of my children. flying with a helicopter and a hot air balloon too. I also experience fun things with my children, we visit a lot, for example museums. Bubble Planet. paris.the sea etc. what I really want to do is jump out of a plane and go to Brazil with my kids.

Herman Hesse tells that "Youth ends when egotism does; maturity begins when one lives for others." I think that's the best sentence defining the insignificant line between youth and maturity. Either youth or mature, May you live every day of your life.

Herman Hesse tells that "Youth ends when egotism does; maturity begins when one lives for others." I think that's the best sentence defining the insignificant line between youth and maturity. Either youth or mature, May you live every day of your life.

hiii @diogenes_cask!! 🙂 i think that the person Herman Hesse was also a bit wrong. because we also help others a lot for example @Esma-Nur did a lot in her house the last week next to school and i also help with cooking almost every day so it is fresh and also with other things in the house. and a lot of my friends and me too are babysitting. and school is for a job later so you also help others with that. so i think it is wrong if Herman Hesse meant that you are egoistically when you are young. but maybe i did not understand the quote completely! 🙄🙄🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️


and @mayuuram what do you think of what everybody replied? i hope that we did answer the question in the way you meant it! 😛 and i will make a youth forum a little bit like this forum so we can ask almost the same question but about the youth of everybody. 🙂 😃

Hi @Yue_ Helping others and living for others, are totally different things. If you are responsible for others or others depend on you, you simply stop concerning on your own problems, needs, dreams, wishes and so on. That's what he means by "egotism." 🙂

thankyou guys for your respond, Whatever is in this forum is judge free, so you can express whatever thoughts you have about adult life (I'm here just to provide a forum space to exchange opinions, to sharing, to tell, etc)

like do you see adult life as something full of responsibility, or do you find it more frightening or more stressful? or maybe you see adult life as something with more chances, more opportunities, the wider the exploration of the world, the more you can learn, the more varied the people you meet.

Happy or sad is our life will be, it all depends on how we see things in our lives. It's all depends on what we choose. That's why, to enjoy life and be happier, we must not only accept, but also see every pro and con of every choice available with wisdom and responsibility.

and is that responsibility heavy? and does failure, mistakes mean that the world seems to be against us? and is adult life is exactly like what people has told to us?

again, it's all depends on the perspective you use and how you handle it 😉

Hi @Yue_ Helping others and living for others, are totally different things. If you are responsible for others or others depend on you, you simply stop concerning on your own problems, needs, dreams, wishes and so on. That's what he means by "egotism." 🙂

Thank you very much @diogenes_cask!! i thought that he meant that we are egoistically but it has a different meaning like you explained!! 🙂 sorry for misunderstanding the meaning but now i think he is right! 😛


And also thank you very much @mayuuram!! i always like to read what you think about some things so that is also why i asked! 😛 this is a really nice forum @mayuuram!! 🏆🥇

Welcome to the journey of adult life, where freedom meets responsibility and every day offers a new adventure! It’s a phase where you can finally create your own path, pursue passions unapologetically, build meaningful connections, and celebrate the joy of independence—all while discovering the beauty of navigating life on your own terms.

I have question for u guys!

1. For adults, what are some fun, exciting, thrilling things that you have experienced?

Is there something (activities, another fun, place, etc) you would like to explore & experience?

and what is your favorite fun moment amongs all?

2. For teenager, What do you think adult life is like?

I think, when we become adults, we become more rigid and lose track of creating more friends. I have 2 things in mind - that i wish to do before i kick the bucket - teach as many kids as possible (those who really have some financial needs) and on fun aspect - i want to explore every cuisine there is on this planet.

oh what makes you think it's more rigid?

and what cuisine you wanna explore? is it asian? mexican? french? 🤩

thankyou guys for your respond, Whatever is in this forum is judge free, so you can express whatever thoughts you have about adult life (I'm here just to provide a forum space to exchange opinions, to sharing, to tell, etc)

like do you see adult life as something full of responsibility, or do you find it more frightening or more stressful? or maybe you see adult life as something with more chances, more opportunities, the wider the exploration of the world, the more you can learn, the more varied the people you meet.

Happy or sad is our life will be, it all depends on how we see things in our lives. It's all depends on what we choose. That's why, to enjoy life and be happier, we must not only accept, but also see every pro and con of every choice available with wisdom and responsibility.

and is that responsibility heavy? and does failure, mistakes mean that the world seems to be against us? and is adult life is exactly like what people has told to us?

again, it's all depends on the perspective you use and how you handle it 😉

This is a super nice forum @mayuuram and i am curious what you think about the questions above. And do you think it is what you expected or not at all? And what is the nicest moment you think?

This is a super nice forum @mayuuram and i am curious what you think about the questions above. And do you think it is what you expected or not at all? And what is the nicest moment you think?

personally, Child me used to think adult life as something boring and having a lot responsibility in the same time. Well, I wouldn't defends it, because children themselves are still innocent individuals, and their thoughts are not as complex as adults, for their age (compared to adults) their activities still cute. only need to sleep, eat, play, study & go to school. but as we grow older, our thinking becomes more complex and critical, we become better able to see the world, and slowly we get more rights and responsibilities.

some kids tends to see adult life as boring, and at least for me i was a child, i really didn't like to see people wear plain clothes and pastel colors because they look boring. I see adult life as colorless (Actually there is a scientific explanation, the reason is because the eyes of small children are still sharp and clear)

Well it could be yes, no and maybe.

actually, there are so many fun things/moments that often some adult do, such as entertainments, tourist attractions, cafe, bar, club, restaurants, amusement parks, instagrammable spots that are actually really exciting to explore. Moreover, as adults, the more rights we get. and some adults are happy with the statement that they can be trusted to shoulder responsibility, to take care, to provide, etc. (especially for special activities, we say as receiving a salary/payment, wow, it feels so much fun & great to be an adult 😜)

(and at least in my institute circle, there are lot of adult that still can have fun (even lecturer does the same) but when u talk to them, their thinking is so cool. truly the definition of don't judge the book by it's cover))

at least for me as individual, and also adult, until right now, I am still very happy with my life as an adult now. This is different from what I previously thought about adult life. and happiest is, I still can be myself without caring about standards or stigmas or people's assumptions about this and that which actually very subjectives & bias.

and vice versa, some adults feel that the life of a child/teenager is very fun and colorful, their activities are only eating, sleeping, bathing, studying, going to school, playing, etc. and many adults play with children because they remind them of their childhood. while actually, kid to teenager also have struggles in doing their homework, struggles in understanding certain subject's material, struggles in making friends, also have the responsibility to possibly do the chores.

I'm not here to belittle anyone. Because everything in this world is only the matters of perspective and depends on each individual of how they face and reacting about their life. And I deliberately created this forum to discuss with each other, telling stories about the views, opinions and stories of each respondent. cause everyone matters! 🌝👌🏻✨

Edited by mayuuram .

Thank you very much for what you wrote @mayuuram!! You have a very nice way when you write in English and i think it is always very beautiful how you write everything!! But you also say a lot of things and i like it a lot BUTTT i also feel sometimes stupid a bit because some things i have not even thought about it AT ALL yet. But that is also why i like your forums a lot and i hope that many persons will write more in it and answer your questions too. 😊😊🥰🥰🥰

It is very nice that you say that we also have struggles and not only if you have a LOTTT of responsibilities because you are an adult. A lot of older people often think that is not the case and everything is easy when you are not an adult. But i dont think that is true and not only for me but also for a lot of my friends in school and maybe everybody. But you dont always see it. 🙄🙄 But it is important to talk about it with a BEST friend because you can trust that person. And they will not tell everybody else. 😇 Do you always say things to your boyfriend @mayuuram or to a best friend?

I am super curious what others think about the above questions of @mayuuram! 🌸🌸✨✨