This is a super nice forum @mayuuram and i am curious what you think about the questions above. And do you think it is what you expected or not at all? And what is the nicest moment you think?
personally, Child me used to think adult life as something boring and having a lot responsibility in the same time. Well, I wouldn't defends it, because children themselves are still innocent individuals, and their thoughts are not as complex as adults, for their age (compared to adults) their activities still cute. only need to sleep, eat, play, study & go to school. but as we grow older, our thinking becomes more complex and critical, we become better able to see the world, and slowly we get more rights and responsibilities.
some kids tends to see adult life as boring, and at least for me i was a child, i really didn't like to see people wear plain clothes and pastel colors because they look boring. I see adult life as colorless (Actually there is a scientific explanation, the reason is because the eyes of small children are still sharp and clear)
Well it could be yes, no and maybe.
actually, there are so many fun things/moments that often some adult do, such as entertainments, tourist attractions, cafe, bar, club, restaurants, amusement parks, instagrammable spots that are actually really exciting to explore. Moreover, as adults, the more rights we get. and some adults are happy with the statement that they can be trusted to shoulder responsibility, to take care, to provide, etc. (especially for special activities, we say as receiving a salary/payment, wow, it feels so much fun & great to be an adult 😜)
(and at least in my institute circle, there are lot of adult that still can have fun (even lecturer does the same) but when u talk to them, their thinking is so cool. truly the definition of don't judge the book by it's cover))
at least for me as individual, and also adult, until right now, I am still very happy with my life as an adult now. This is different from what I previously thought about adult life. and happiest is, I still can be myself without caring about standards or stigmas or people's assumptions about this and that which actually very subjectives & bias.
and vice versa, some adults feel that the life of a child/teenager is very fun and colorful, their activities are only eating, sleeping, bathing, studying, going to school, playing, etc. and many adults play with children because they remind them of their childhood. while actually, kid to teenager also have struggles in doing their homework, struggles in understanding certain subject's material, struggles in making friends, also have the responsibility to possibly do the chores.
I'm not here to belittle anyone. Because everything in this world is only the matters of perspective and depends on each individual of how they face and reacting about their life. And I deliberately created this forum to discuss with each other, telling stories about the views, opinions and stories of each respondent. cause everyone matters! 🌝👌🏻✨