✨Adult Life✨

Welcome to the journey of adult life, where freedom meets responsibility and every day offers a new adventure! It’s a phase where you can finally create your own path, pursue passions unapologetically, build meaningful connections, and celebrate the joy of independence—all while discovering the beauty of navigating life on your own terms.

I have question for u guys!

1. For adults, what are some fun, exciting, thrilling things that you have experienced?

Is there something (activities, another fun, place, etc) you would like to explore & experience?

and what is your favorite fun moment amongs all?

2. For teenager, What do you think adult life is like?

soon im gonna findout; next oct 23 im 18 🙂

Thank you very much for what you wrote @mayuuram!! You have a very nice way when you write in English and i think it is always very beautiful how you write everything!! But you also say a lot of things and i like it a lot BUTTT i also feel sometimes stupid a bit because some things i have not even thought about it AT ALL yet. But that is also why i like your forums a lot and i hope that many persons will write more in it and answer your questions too. 😊😊🥰🥰🥰

It is very nice that you say that we also have struggles and not only if you have a LOTTT of responsibilities because you are an adult. A lot of older people often think that is not the case and everything is easy when you are not an adult. But i dont think that is true and not only for me but also for a lot of my friends in school and maybe everybody. But you dont always see it. 🙄🙄 But it is important to talk about it with a BEST friend because you can trust that person. And they will not tell everybody else. 😇 Do you always say things to your boyfriend @mayuuram or to a best friend?

I am super curious what others think about the above questions of @mayuuram! 🌸🌸✨✨

please never think that way again, yue.. cause.. in fact there will always be someone who is better than us, prettier than us, smarter than us, successful than us, but don't let that make you insecure, because it'll never end but it could hurt yourself with or without you realize.

like i always see my professor lecturer as someone amazing, and i always feel small in front of them, but when i think again, it only hurt me. while in fact ya ofcourse they are better than us, cause they are also older than us. And i endup never see people as my standard anymore, but my previous self. am i now getting better or not?

maybe the language is (specifically for the strength of others) rather than looking at the outside (what people show), but I look more at the process they went through until they finally became a cool, independent, strong and self-confident person like that.

and yes, me, my bf, my bestie, we always help each other, supporting each other, say nice things to each other whenever one of us need support, solution, insight, help, suggestion, opinion etc.

soon im gonna findout; next oct 23 im 18 🙂

greattt, you can review your journey here !

please never think that way again, yue.. cause.. in fact there will always be someone who is better than us, prettier than us, smarter than us, successful than us, but don't let that make you insecure, because it'll never end but it could hurt yourself with or without you realize.

like i always see my professor lecturer as someone amazing, and i always feel small in front of them, but when i think again, it only hurt me. while in fact ya ofcourse they are better than us, cause they are also older than us. And i endup never see people as my standard anymore, but my previous self. am i now getting better or not?

maybe the language is (specifically for the strength of others) rather than looking at the outside (what people show), but I look more at the process they went through until they finally became a cool, independent, strong and self-confident person like that.

and yes, me, my bf, my bestie, we always help each other, supporting each other, say nice things to each other whenever one of us need support, solution, insight, help, suggestion, opinion etc.

Thank you very much @mayuuram!! 🙏🙏 I know that you are right but sometimes you cant help thinking like that too! But i will try to do what you said and that you look at what you can do now and before. That is more important than what others do so you dont feel unsure about yourself. 😊😊🥰🥰

soon im gonna findout; next oct 23 im 18 🙂

yesss you must tell us everything about it Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2!! 🤗❤️🤗

Thank you very much @mayuuram!! 🙏🙏 I know that you are right but sometimes you cant help thinking like that too! But i will try to do what you said and that you look at what you can do now and before. That is more important than what others do so you dont feel unsure about yourself. 😊😊🥰🥰

yesss you must tell us everything about it Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2!! 🤗❤️🤗

yeppp it's okk, enjoy the process!

Being an adult or a child makes little difference: I like to live

be the person I like and dedicate time to my desires, especially creative ones (even knowing for me is a creative process)

I think that identifying adulthood with responsibilities is a teaching tool that leaves its mark even when it is no longer necessary.

I am convinced that you have to grow up to be what you want, and when you are like that, problems can be overcome as a normal part of life

my mantras about fifteen years ago were "problems don't exist" and "living is easy"

it is healthy for young people to always get involved, be active, and do things that stimulate them, not spoil them