๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿฅ€ A challenge that goes too far ๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ข

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Hello everybody! ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ This forum is made by @Fleurke and @Yue_ and it is about something that got out of hand completely.


Some challenges in schools and also after school are popular but also super dangerous.


1: Bullying challenges


Fleurke found this IG reel online: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DEsBp_sRjuW/?igsh=Z3FlZTI0NTU5dzhs (difficult to watch so only do if you really want that ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ) and it is about a girl Lisa who was put in a locker so she would not be bullied any longer and she would belong to their group. Or that is what they said to her. In real it was a prank to bully her and they made a video when they put her in the locker.


They forgot her and she stayed the WHOLE night and she got first unconscious and after that in a coma because there was not enough oxygen. Now they think that she will need help for the rest of her life because not enough oxygen came in her legs.


2: Choking challenges


Last week in The Netherlands a guy of 16 from a school in Nieuwegein died because he did the choking challenge. In that challenge you choke yourself or someone does that to you so you feel a rush before you are passing out. But it got too far and he died because of it. And he is not the first to die of it and even if you dont die you can get VERY BIG damages in your brain.


They are now trying to get choking challenge videos away from social media, but it will probably still be popular.



Many of the bullying pranks and challenges are because of pressuring you or that you want to be in a group that is popular or to stop bullying. But it really goes too far.


Maybe this forum can help people to think about it more if you are challenged too or pranked. DONT do it what they say and maybe if it happens with a friend of you it can really go out of hand.


Can we ask two questions:


โžก๏ธ Is there a lot of bulling in your school or country? Does it go too far?

โžก๏ธ Are there victims in your country of dangerous challenges?


Thank you very much for what you can say about this and thanks to everybody who reads this forum. Hopefully it helps a little bit. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™



PS: We only tag people who gave permission (if you want to be on the list too for future forums, you can message us ๐Ÿฅฐ ) ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™: @Pennarossa2024, @Fleurke, @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer โฌ…๏ธ โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—


PS2: For this forum we wanted to tag everybody who is not an adult but that is not allowed and it can also be traumatising so we dont do that.

Edited by Yue_ .

1. Yes in my school is bullying... I am one of the victims... and yes it goes too far... one time in the 6th grad a teacher asked me if I felt lonely cuz no one was with me and I was always alone and avoided talking to others. And she asked me: Esmanur, you are always alone in the brakes. Don't u feel lonely and don't u want to play or be witht he others? And I was so scared that I have just said: No ma'am I am good alone and I have friends in other classes (which was then time a lie, I had friends from other classes later but not then).

2. Yes here are many victims of racicm or bullying etc. bcz of religion and their looks! There are too many examples...

1- when i went to school there was, and i'm pretty sure nothing has changed very much since then... bullies are very commons in the schools, and here it's the same, sadly

2- yes, sometimes i hear of people get injuried (or even die) because of dangerous challenges

Thank you very much Mulanyyy @Esma-Nur and @Simone724!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ I think that bullying is even normal i think almost everywhere now. But i have NO idea what can REALLY work against it. Because in my country people often say the parents have to do more, but sometimes they dont and sometimes it doesnt help anyway. ๐Ÿ™


But with the first story about the girl that was put in a locker for the whole night and got into a coma i never heard things like that. But a lot of times the bullying is also violent or that they humiliate you.


And with the choking challenge even if they remove it from social media i think that it will still be popular or there will be other challenges so you can show that you are super tough and strong. But it is actually stupid and very dangerous i think. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Thank you very much Mulanyyy @Esma-Nur and @Simone724!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ I think that bullying is even normal i think almost everywhere now. But i have NO idea what can REALLY work against it. Because in my country people often say the parents have to do more, but sometimes they dont and sometimes it doesnt help anyway. ๐Ÿ™


But with the first story about the girl that was put in a locker for the whole night and got into a coma i never heard things like that. But a lot of times the bullying is also violent or that they humiliate you.


And with the choking challenge even if they remove it from social media i think that it will still be popular or there will be other challenges so you can show that you are super tough and strong. But it is actually stupid and very dangerous i think. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Thank you @Esma-Nur thank you @Simone724 i was also bullied in school and they beat me often because of my freckles

They beat you because of freckles?? ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ That is really stupid and im really sorry that it happened. And of course im sorry also for @Esma-Nur and @Simone724. Is there even a person on PPG who was NOT bullied?? Maybe not. ๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿ˜ถ If that is true it is really bad. I know what it is like to be bullied in racist way. But im afraid now that everybody here is bullied in a way. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Hey @Yue_ that almost happend to a friend from my class they almost locked him into a locker and then the teacher came and they said the boy just was stuck while looking for smthg. And smthg similar happened to me: int he girls toilet they locked it and came to me with a big spider... then i had a panic attack and they let th spider in the room and jut looked the doo end went away....

Hey @Yue_ that almost happend to a friend from my class they almost locked him into a locker and then the teacher came and they said the boy just was stuck while looking for smthg. And smthg similar happened to me: int he girls toilet they locked it and came to me with a big spider... then i had a panic attack and they let th spider in the room and jut looked the doo end went away....

I'm coming to your school right now โœˆ๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฃ

@Esma-Nur that is really bad!! ๐Ÿ™ Did that happen long ago or more recent? I hope that they are no longer bullying you but it is really horrible. In my school you would be in my group and that would maybe be better because you would not be alone. But in my country the biggest problem is for example after school or of you are alone on a bike or walking somewhere. But in a group you are more safe and if you have friends in school you can stay together.

In fact, bullying will continue to exist in every school, office or anywhere and does not see whether it comes from the upper or lower class, from public or private schools, and it doesn't matter whether they are children or adults. In my country, the worst thing is that the victims lose their lives because of this bullying. Even for celebrity kid, there are those who become bullies. and sure enough, in every generation there will always be bullying.

But one thing I know, every child is pure like a white canvas, every attitude, thought, character of a child depends on how parents or those around them set an example, educate & discipline them. like, we cannot educate with violence, nor can we be too gentle until mistakes are accepted, that's why being a parent is not easy (It doesn't matter whether the child is already an adult or not, as long as the parents don't correct their mistakes, they won't feel wrong.)

and some of the bullies, bullying also occurs in their homes. some of them are used to seeing it in their homes, they don't realize that the act is actually not good.

and in my country, bullying is much worse for male, because well... my country is a patriarchal country, so the male tend to show their strength to each other but in a wrong way. yes, they do physical bullying (such as taking other people's rights, other people's money, making the victim a servant, etc.)

and for the female, it is more like psychological bullying (their intentions is to show who the queen, that's why some of female show their fangs to each other through their beauty. and it's stupid if anyone thinks they want attention from the male, nooo.rather it is more shown to fellow females.

that's why mostly female, at least once in his life must have involved in psychological fights especially because of love, not because of the male, but because they feel defeated by the woman chosen by the man)

yes, both male & female who did bullying, it happen to show & validate their dominance, their power, & their existence. That's why in every bullying case, the focus is always on the parents and the environment.

It's sad I know, but as long as there is no cooperation from many parties, this culture will continue to occur and will be difficult to overcome.

It was long ago and I managed to kill that spider but had a panic attack inside the toilet i ... broke a part of one toilet luckily some other girls from other grades wanted to go into the toilet and asked the teachers to open the door

Thank you very much @mayuuram. In Europe also between girls they can really also get physical agressive and violent. In my case the most bullying is racism so they call things to you when you are alone on a bike or outside school. In school there are sometimes fights or other things like shouting or bullying but the worst is almost always outside school because you cant go to the director of the school. And often you dont even know them.


If you are bullied it also depends what happens so it is not always the same what you should do against it. But if people only call things to you the best is to ignore it and if they dont stop you then you can just go away. But if people are physical and agressive it is not easy what is the best to do.


Can I ask a question to @Etienne: i dont think that at PPG there is really bullying now. Was this different in the past of PPG that you really had to protect victims? For example that people threat each other in the same country? It is good that people can report if things happen easily so those people can be banned.


PS: @Esma-Nur what you said i am really sorry that that happened. For them it is maybe a prank but if you have a panic attack it can be really a trauma too.

Thank you very much @mayuuram. In Europe also between girls they can really also get physical agressive and violent. In my case the most bullying is racism so they call things to you when you are alone on a bike or outside school. In school there are sometimes fights or other things like shouting or bullying but the worst is almost always outside school because you cant go to the director of the school. And often you dont even know them.


If you are bullied it also depends what happens so it is not always the same what you should do against it. But if people only call things to you the best is to ignore it and if they dont stop you then you can just go away. But if people are physical and agressive it is not easy what is the best to do.


Can I ask a question to @Etienne: i dont think that at PPG there is really bullying now. Was this different in the past of PPG that you really had to protect victims? For example that people threat each other in the same country? It is good that people can report if things happen easily so those people can be banned.


PS: @Esma-Nur what you said i am really sorry that that happened. For them it is maybe a prank but if you have a panic attack it can be really a trauma too.

yepp you right, that's why wherever I go, I always put on a fierce face (thanks God i blessed with rbf haha) and learn martial arts, even though I'm not the bully or the one got bullied, but it's to avoid getting involved in situations like that.

PS: @Esma-Nur what you said i am really sorry that that happened. For them it is maybe a prank but if you have a panic attack it can be really a trauma too.

The good thing is I didn't really had a trauma i just hate PURELY hate the people in my class and some even from my grade... and after that happend I had started getting sleep paralysis....

yepp you right, that's why wherever I go, I always put on a fierce face and learn martial arts, even though I'm not the bully or the one got bullied, but it's to avoid getting involved in situations like that.

You do martial arts? Woww. I know Stitchyyy @allstarcheer can do martial arts too. But if i look with a fierce face i think it looks like an apple is angry maybe. So i prefer when i can to bike with another person. Only sometimes it is not possible for example if you do sports after school but normally to and from school i bike with a friend who lives here close and it is not only safer it is nicer too because you can talk in the meantime.

The good thing is I didn't really had a trauma i just hate PURELY hate the people in my class and some even from my grade... and after that happend I had started getting sleep paralysis....

I dont hate people quickly but if others really bully in that way i do hate them.

Sleep paralysis means that you cant sleep? Or that you have nightmares? ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

yes, but im still a blue belt in taekwondo + i also learn boxing. but I'm on a vacuum because I'm busy.

it's ok yue, you don't have to follow my way cause what more matters is as long as you don't show your weak side to everyone (except close friends), things like bullying won't happen.

That is really cool that you are super dangerous!! ๐Ÿ˜› In my country it can still be dangerous because they can wait for you or stop you with a group and they know they are stronger anyway. But in a lot of other times it may help you to defend yourself too.

What also helps if you are walking alone is to call on your phone or pretend it. Because people will not come to you super fast if you are on the phone so you are not REALLY alone. So that may also be a good tip.

yes, never trust anybody especially when u walk alone, never act like a lost sheep, but act like you bring gun inside your bag ๐Ÿคฃ