In such moments, I simply recall Epictetus' quote: βDonβt seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually willβthen your life will flow well. "
I like what u wrote because it makes me think of what my grandmom sometimes said when she did not yet have dementia bc when u were for example scared of smt then she just said what is wrong with that. And i did not understand it and she said if u are scared and u try to change it then u feel more stressed and it is ok. But that is still very difficult!!!
What i think also helps is for example if u are stressed abt something then u can think of maybe a time when u were less stressed and u try to remember how that feels. Because in that way u can try to feel in the same way again. π
And btw i really like your new profile photo @diogenes_cask from your vacation and the adventure on that mountain!!!! ππ