🦉🐢 Interview with @Fleurke 🌻🌼

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I think she has planned to gift me Puzzles.. 😃 😃

awww, honestly, as a friend, a niece, a person, if i care about someone, and if i love that person, i never ask that person for an extravagant gifts or something fancy, their existence are more than enough. Deep down honestly I've always wondered why some people demand gifts from others on their wedding day, as if the party were a form of transaction and gifts or money were the means of transaction.

Personally, I see a wedding as a moment for sharing gratitude and joy for the success in finally getting married, so I think it's more intimate when only those close to me and whom I truly love attend. They don't need to bring anything, just themselves. This allows us to interact and chat in celebration. A pray totally enough as long as it's something that came from heart. it doesn't means gift are non-valuable but more of, i don't like to make people carry the burden with such expectations. And thankyou for considerating me as always @Fleurke hope our friendship still last till we meet in real life! 😇✨

I think she has planned to gift me Puzzles.. 😃 😃

We play puzzles 😆

@Pennarossa2024 @shirazikira hahahahahaha

PART IV

16: If you have an ideal day for yourself alone and you want to treat yourself nice: what would be the ideal day for you?

The ideal me-time day: I do that sometimes and it’s not even expensive. I drop the kids off at school, take the train to the coast, buy a sandwich, and take the ferry across to a very large and long beach where I enjoy the beach, the sea water, the sea air, and collect shells. That is real me-time. I am always on time to pick the kids up from school. The second me-time is taking the kids to school and taking the train to Brussels. OMG yeah, I love Brussels! The tourists, the food, the shops, the old buildings, the different neighborhoods, e.g., Matonge, Rue de Brabant, Chaussée d'Grand, Grand Place, the Palace, the Sonian Forest, the Anatomy. I can't get enough of it. Sometimes I just sit on the Grand Place and chat with tourists. The third me-time is regularly getting massages, cupping, or floating treatments. That is, then, real self-care.

17: What is the most special thing that you have at home from when u were a child? And is your home now a lot like how your home was when you were with your parents? Which room do you like the most of your house and why? If you got an extra room in your house: what would you use it for?

I have a ship that you had to assemble yourself, a model kit; that is an heirloom from my grandparents, as well as an old bonbonniere and small vase from my grandmother's grandmother.

My house doesn't look at all like the house where I lived as a child; we lived in a bigger place than where I live now, but I am happy in my house. I like all the rooms, but my favorite is the living room. It is a place with lots of daylight, a place where I relax, do crafts with the kids, read a book, listen to music, entertain friends, and play board games with my kids.

18: Do you worry a lot? And if yes what do you worry about and what do you do to stop getting too worried? And are your children the same way or super zen or different?

Of course I worry a lot. First of all, I always think of my children and hope to live a long time until I know they are fully settled. I worry about what is happening in the world right now, how much hate there is, how people no longer communicate, how external beauty is becoming so important instead of inner beauty, how people judge and condemn so quickly, lies are believed and truths are seen as lies, there is no empathy anymore. I think about that a lot. I don't stop thinking, but I do go to the sea a lot, do refloat, cupping, etc. to de-stress. Everyone who really knows me knows that I am a walking Duracell bunny, hahaha.

19: Which part of the week and which part of the weekend do you always look forward to the MOST and WHY? And is there something that you will do this year that you have never done before?

I like all days of the week and weekends, only when the youngest was a bit naughty on the weekend do I look forward to Monday morning (school day) haha. I love the weekdays because you have different conversations at work than at home, and I love the weekends to spend time with my children, more time in my kitchen, bigger breakfasts, fun outings.

I definitely want to jump out of a plane this year, though with a parachute 🙂

20: If there is one dream of yourself that could come true now immediately!!! Which dream would you want to come true?

Ooo, a dream that would come true instantly: my children and I living in a valley with a babbling brook, a beautiful farm with animals, and seeing my kids happy in life.

Bonus question: Can I update the interview and can people ask more questions later? 🙂 Thank you very much for the interview!!!! 🙏🙏😊🥰

Of course people can ask me questions, but there are few here who talk, apart from the regulars I've been talking to for almost two years. Thanks, Yue, you always come up with beautiful, well-thought-out questions..

Thank you very much @Fleurke for this interview!!! 🤗🥰🥰 And i will update later with new questions but i want to do that with all interviews!! 😛 😛 ANDD if anybody wants to ask a question or post a nice comment you can do that below!! ⬇️⬇️ Thank you very much!!⭐🌈🌞

@Yue_ thank you We will not publish the broken vase.lol

Ciaooo @Fleurke, beautiful interview! For the football ticket, surely it would not be for a match of Italy! 😂

i have a question for you, auntie:
If, your kids see this interview, what do you want to show the world about them? Is there one or two message you would like to convey, to show about them?

i have a question for you, auntie:
If, your kids see this interview, what do you want to show the world about them? Is there one or two message you would like to convey, to show about them?

Thanks @Simone724 and @mayuuram I want to show them that they inherited their strength from me and that I enjoy seeing them enjoy life. I want to show them that at their age (7, 15, and 20), I didn't have the life like them. They always have a warm, loving place to come home to where they can be themselves without stress. I want to show them that I love them unconditionally

awwww 🥹🫠