🙄❤️ Love Reset 🤷‍♀️😬

Hellooo everybody! 🙋‍♀️ I saw on a website that today is love reset day. And i read the explanation here: https://nationaltoday.com/love-reset-day/ but it is also super confusing. So i think they mean it is a day that if you are not in love or if you are in love but your relationship does not go really well that you reset it?? Like yourself or maybe the relationship?

And can i ask three questions bc i think they maybe are also important for love reset day:

1️⃣ Do you think a Love Reset Day is good or not?

2️⃣ What do you think is the most important for a relationship that you dont need a reset day?

3️⃣ Do you think ppl are more happy now or in the past of relationships?

Thank you very much for anybody who likes to answer or write abt this below!!! 🙏🙏😊🥰

These are tags of some ppl who we hope that want to answer the questions but we hope others will answer too bc it will be nice and funny to read we think!!! THANKSSSS very much!!!! 🙏🌈🌞⭐

@Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Fleurke, @Idkbro, @Miss_Penpal, @diogenes_cask, @AgDel, @psysarah15, @Sabri_KC, @Colin_Der_Backfisch, @PinkiePie, @Torakka, @Vixie, @Lianshen, @_Aizhan_, @Nishu, @chiikawaattack, @Karumen, @Kittenwhiskes, @shirazikira, @Vixie, @lori4na, @Waterpol8girlll, @Douglasgao, @Hannah-, @Marco_ita89, @rambob, @H_E_A_R_T, @Lir_Elhan, @Piwipete, @Parsaa, @Jullian, @Savi2024, @Wildflower-Farm, @Call_me_mattia, @Pennarossa2024, @Diamond22, @Annika2007, @martutuni, @frozenpizza001, @PeterPositiv, @CharlesX, @Yannick_Islander, @BambooBlue, @Viovio_Sheronsky1205, @vtt3613, @JanyiahMoon27, @Kotyaka2023

The article is a bit ambiguous; it doesn't really explain the meaning of "Reset," and in my opinion, it does that on purpose. There are moments when I agree with its statements, like when it says to love yourself so that you can build yourself up and that love will eventually arrive, and that if you're not happy with yourself, any relationship is going to be harder.

But for the rest, it feels like the writer is just trying to find excuses and avoid any responsibility for past and current experiences. For example: "If you're anxious or jealous, pause the relationship." That doesn't make any sense. The problem is exactly that, if you don't communicate with your partner, how can you fix problems?

I've learned this by reflecting on my past mistakes, what went wrong, why it happened, and how I can avoid it from happening again and certainly not by just hanging out with friends, writing myself love letters, or throwing myself into my career.

1️⃣ Do you think a Love Reset Day is good or not? Its good to take xare of your self love so if you work on yourself you will not need an love reset day

2️⃣ What do you think is the most important for a relationship that you dont need a reset day? Conversations ,people dont talk anymore

3️⃣ Do you think ppl are more happy now or in the past of relationships?i think its the same but nowdays when they are not happy in a relationship they look for it on the internet ☹️

hey @Yue_ very interesting forum againn✨✨✨

1. I think the theory of a love reset day is pretty cool, like hanging out with friends and treating yourself good, but in my opinion you should work on urself and your relationships everytime and improve things, not just one day

2. i think talking about everything or maybe quality time together prevents misunderstandings and stuff, so like @Fleurke said, communication is very important

3. I think problems exist in every relationship, just different. In the past it was handled different i think, so maybe thats why it seems like they were happier, or maybe they were, idk🥲

The article is a bit ambiguous; it doesn't really explain the meaning of "Reset," and in my opinion, it does that on purpose. There are moments when I agree with its statements, like when it says to love yourself so that you can build yourself up and that love will eventually arrive, and that if you're not happy with yourself, any relationship is going to be harder.

But for the rest, it feels like the writer is just trying to find excuses and avoid any responsibility for past and current experiences. For example: "If you're anxious or jealous, pause the relationship." That doesn't make any sense. The problem is exactly that, if you don't communicate with your partner, how can you fix problems?

I've learned this by reflecting on my past mistakes, what went wrong, why it happened, and how I can avoid it from happening again and certainly not by just hanging out with friends, writing myself love letters, or throwing myself into my career.

It is really nice to read what you write bc you also say that it is super confusing!!! And some things you dont agree right what they said. Thanksss that you took time to write everything!!! I want to think bit more also before i can answer like @Fleurke and @lori4na but my head feels now bit like 😵‍💫😵‍💫 bc of other stuff but i will also try to answer tomorrow the 3 questions!!! Thanks very much also Fleurke and Loriii for answering!!!!! 🙏🙏❤️

Thank you for tagging me! It's an interesting concept. For me, try to love urself and ur friends first, and then maybe consider having a relationship. Therefore I actually love the idea of having a love-reset day that reminds people to put their own feelings in the first place. Even the perfect relationships need to be reset now and then. Actually, not to be a pessimistic aromantic, I believe people should ask themselves "What do I get from this relationship", "Do I really need a relationship now?/Is it in any way good for me right now?" or "Why do I love my partner? Is it just hormone?", "Do I love my partner or do I just love dating someone". Love-reset day sounds like a perfect opportunity to think about these questions. By the way, the fact that love-reset day is one day after valentine's day is kinda funny. Feel like a perfect excuse to say "we should break up" after receiving a shitty valentine's day gift lol.