🙄🙏 Deep questions forum ✨😇

Thankssss everybody for replying!!! I was just trying to make @Nannica feel welcome but i think everybody should choose if they want to answer or not so it is not a problem of course at all!!! 🙂 For me i like on the forum to chat with everybody bc if it would ONLY be teenagers or ONLYYY adults i think the forum would be super dead. Now it is really nice i think bc we have a very nice group together and most are kind and nice so it is not a problem i think. 😊😊

I will also answer the questions bc i did not do that yet! But i want to make one more forum before we go away before dinner. 😃 I am sorry i cant make more forums before we go!!!! 😬😬

These are my answers of the questions!! 🙂

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you think that dreams tell smt about your REAL life or that maybe they say something about the future?

Yes i think that they can say things about now. So like if you feel VERRYYY stressed or nervous than i think in your dream you can be that too. But not for example that you are in exact the same what you are nervous abt but that it can be differently like you feel somebody chase you or smt like that and you feel the same anxiously or nervous. But you can also dream super weird that for example people who dont know each other at all speak together or things that cant happen. And i dont think that dreams can tell the future or at least not for me bc often i dream very weird and that cant happen in exactly the same way.

2️⃣ Is there something that you believed but later you changed your mind about it?

That everybody will judge you if you are not skinny and thin enough. But people can also judge you if you are not big enough and that you are underweight.

3️⃣ Can you also have TRUE love without that you are hurt?

I think if you really ❤️❤️ each other than you will not hurt each other. But it can happen accidentally and you can make it good again and correct it.

4️⃣ What do you believe that happens if you die? And if you believe that you go to heaven how does that look like? For example you meet others who also died?

From my religion the way my grandmom said it and also my mom and aunt it is like reincarnation. But i also think maybe it is a bit differently bc i dont remember ANYTHINGGG from a life before now. So how can you know that? But maybe more like if you die than your body becomes part of something new like the mini parts and it can become a person or the ground or anything that is alive or not. And if there is a heaven and i am wrong i hope that i can also be in it. But a lot of religions believe in heaven but i dont know what they think how it really looks like. But it sounds better than other things.

5️⃣ Do you think the opinions of others about you are important?

Yes. Almost abt everything. I know that is wrong but i just feel that way.

6️⃣ What is the best decision that you ever made in your life?

My school i think bc you could choose from several but here i have most of my friends and there are NOTTT a lot of problems like in some of the other schools where things happen a lot. So that is maybe the best choice.

7️⃣ Did you ever feel depressed or super anxious? And if yes: what do you do to get out of it?

Not often depressed but anxious yes or nervous. And i like breathing when you are alone so not disturbed. And you can breath with your belly and for example you can put a cushion or your hands on your belly. That helps a lot the most of the time.

8️⃣ Which person do you miss the most who left you or who died or who you have no longer contact with?

I miss the most my grandmom but she is still alive but she is in Nanjing in China so very far ANDDD she is not very good with her health now and she has dementia. So still she is not dead but i miss how it was before that.

9️⃣ What life lesson have you found out in the hard way?

Things with racism that happened but i only told one person here and now also one friend from me from school. And also smt else but i prefer keep it for me alone.

🔟 DId anything unexpected and nice happen to you in the last month? It can be something big or small.

That i can go on vacation with my friend from school and her parents. So after today in late afternoon i will be on holiday and write again on the forum when i am back!!! 🙂

1️⃣ Do you think that dreams tell smt about your REAL life or that maybe they say something about the future?

Dreams are a mechanism of the brain to bring order into memories etc. that accumulated over the day. They are based on things that concern you or care about. Sometimes I dream about things that I don’t think a lot about when awake, but are still on my mind (or rather subconscious)

2️⃣ Is there something that you believed but later you changed your mind about it?

There are a few political measures that I had an instinctual negative response to, but I had my mind changed by good arguments.

3️⃣ Can you also have TRUE love without that you are hurt?

Hmm

That opens a few new question.

Like, how do you define true love? Is there true love?

Love doesn’t inherently contain hurt, except that, if two people love each other one usually dies before the other, causing the survivor hurt. Realistically speaking, people in any kind of relationship eventually cause each other annoyance, anger or pain, even when not meaning to do so.

On another note, trying to find true love usually also means rejections, thereby hurt.

4️⃣ What do you believe that happens if you die? And if you believe that you go to heaven how does that look like? For example you meet others who also died?

Nonexistence

It is impossible for the human mind to comprehend, but I haven’t existed for at least billions of years before my birth and will after my death.

5️⃣ Do you think the opinions of others about you are important?

In the case of employers, superiors and people you have to work with: their opinion of you matters, because you are somewhat dependent on them. As long as you are not dependent on someone, their opinion has no consequences. In the end you can always escape dependencies, but you may end up without a job (for example). So in the end it is a cost-gain calculation.

Trying to change/ hide your „true-self“ for someone is generally not worth it. On the other hand, listening to constructive criticism can help to improve your relationships with others. Again, there is a fine line here.

6️⃣ What is the best decision that you ever made in your life?

7️⃣ Did you ever feel depressed or super anxious? And if yes: what do you do to get out of it?

I‘m constantly stressed and anxious. In my experience having a good counterbalance to work etc. helps a lot (hobbies, doing fun activities )

8️⃣ Which person do you miss the most who left you or who died or who you have no longer contact with?

A friend from childhood. We just went our separate ways. I don’t really miss him, but I like to think back to some fond memories. For some reason I sometimes dream about him.

9️⃣ What life lesson have you found out in the hard way?

🔟 DId anything unexpected and nice happen to you in the last month? It can be something big or small.

Haven’t answered all of them, might update in the future

Thankssss everybody for replying!!! I was just trying to make @Nannica feel welcome...

And I 100% appreciate that. And I also got that. This is really sweet of you. Like some other people wrote, usually teenager find it rather weird, if older people try to talk with them, which is very normal. I just didn't want to jump into teenagers talk so to say.

I have worked with kids and I think that younger people also deserve a spot just for themself. These were just questions, so it might be fine, but when i decided not to participate, please see it as a sincerly sign to respect your „teenage space“.

Still I really love, that you try to make this forum a bit more lively. And your questions were quite deep.

So, please don't misunderstand my intentions as rejection. It was not meant like that.

And I 100% appreciate that. And I also got that. This is really sweet of you. Like some other people wrote, usually teenager find it rather weird, if older people try to talk with them, which is very normal. I just didn't want to jump into teenagers talk so to say.

I have worked with kids and I think that younger people also deserve a spot just for themself. These were just questions, so it might be fine, but when i decided not to participate, please see it as a sincerly sign to respect your „teenage space“.

Still I really love, that you try to make this forum a bit more lively. And your questions were quite deep.

So, please don't misunderstand my intentions as rejection. It was not meant like that.

Thank you very much!! And i understand what you say. 🙂 So it is not a problem at all. On the forum it is almost always nice and i think everybody is super friendly a lot. So i think you can do what you like and maybe some things you think are nice to read and some things maybe super boring!! But i think you are a very kind person how you write so i hope that you also see forums that you like!!

Some time ago i made a super big overview when i had a lot of time and it is here: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/13-anything-and-everything/10584-new-members-forum BUTTTT i did not update it the last months. So there are a lot of forums from the last months that i did not mention but i will do that later. But perhaps you like it to find things that are nice!!

I hope that you have a nice day!!! 🌈🌞🌈

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️ One of the last forums i make before we go on holiday is smt i wanted to do already for some time!!! BUTTT i wanted to think abt the questions that are nice for this forum. 🙂 Before the summer one time Rose @Idkbro said we also need forums that you can talk abt super serious stuff too!! And i think that is right. So i made this forum with questions. I hope that maybe some people like to read and maybe also to give their answers. Thank you very much!!!!! 🙏🙏🥰🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ Do you think that dreams tell smt about your REAL life or that maybe they say something about the future?

2️⃣ Is there something that you believed but later you changed your mind about it?

3️⃣ Can you also have TRUE love without that you are hurt?

4️⃣ What do you believe that happens if you die? And if you believe that you go to heaven how does that look like? For example you meet others who also died?

5️⃣ Do you think the opinions of others about you are important?

6️⃣ What is the best decision that you ever made in your life?

7️⃣ Did you ever feel depressed or super anxious? And if yes: what do you do to get out of it?

8️⃣ Which person do you miss the most who left you or who died or who you have no longer contact with?

9️⃣ What life lesson have you found out in the hard way?

🔟 DId anything unexpected and nice happen to you in the last month? It can be something big or small.

I asked the first question also in the interview of @AgDel and i am actually curious what everybody thinks!!! Some questions are from online that i liked and some i made myself!!!! 😛 😛 I hope that some who read this forum will like the questions.

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➡️ I tag these people because I think that they may like this forum or at least want to know about it. BUTTT I hope that EVERYBODY feels super WELCOME to write comments or ask questions in the way you like!! Also if you are a NEW member!!! I am very thankful for that always!!! 😊🤗❤️❤️

1- yes but no. I believe its about our past. And our future is also written by our past. Our past is what we believe. The believe actually makes future. So dream is and isnt the future. Its just whats in your mind and you dont know it is there. And it plays a big role in your life.

2- yes, as a 4 years old i believed god is a devil who wants all of us to die😂

3- i dont understand- but yes😅 love is treating, even with pain.

4- its very bad to think that your world will end and its just a black page or idk you are going to be dirt. I believe in 2 things, one is what i have heard growing up, one is what makes me feel good. First one is that you die, you go to a place like reception, we call it “barzakh” and when the world ends, good ones in heaven bad ones in hell. The one which makes me feel good, is when you die, you start a new life. But it could be in past, not only future. Actually, you live in the place of every person in history and future. You are everyone. Like im parsa and this whole universe is me, just in different body and different life and different time. And at the end, when ending all the lives, you become one of the many many gods. Both are too fictional- but im sure there is a world after this, whether as a soul or as another body.

5- yes, of course. But until i dont bother myself because of those. If someone thinks i always talj loudly, it matters. They matter to me, and for their happiness, and my better being, i try to speak better.

6- touching a basketball…

7- yes, trying to beat my body, then the environment, and then the time. Yes, you are bigger than all those. I believe you arent your body. Even in this world, you are bigger than your body, time, and environment. Like you CAN for real make change in world without moving yourself. At first, i try to feel my different body parts so i can get out of it, then the same with two other factors

8- prefer not to answer

9- progress is in hard work. And pain while doing hard work is nothing more than your imagination. Pain is just how far you can go in your mind, break it. Do harder. You can do it.

10- idk??? Tehran basketball competition started🥳 won the first 2 games till now.

THANK YOU FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL FORUM @Yue_

1️⃣ Do you think that dreams tell smt about your REAL life or that maybe they say something about the future?

Dreams are like keys to unoccupied chambers within the colossal castle of our consciousness. In a state of sleep, those chambers are not guarded by our rationality. We can find bare naked truth in many chambers.

2️⃣ Is there something that you believed but later you changed your mind about it?

Not really. To believe in something is not an act adopted by me. I either "know" or "don't know" something. To believe in something is some minefield laying between these two lands of mind.

3️⃣ Can you also have TRUE love without that you are hurt?

Love and pain are inseparable. "Together they come, and when one sits alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.”

4️⃣ What do you believe that happens if you die? And if you believe that you go to heaven how does that look like? For example you meet others who also died?

As in Epicurian discipline: "Death is nothing to us. When we exist, death is not; and when death exists, we are not. All sensation and consciousness ends with death and therefore in death there is neither pleasure nor pain." Then I thus contribute on: Why to bother with something which is nothing to us instead of life which is everything to us.

5️⃣ Do you think the opinions of others about you are important?

Opinions are like invisible robes binding us at each others, and they are harmless as long as they turn into shackles.

6️⃣ What is the best decision that you ever made in your life?

It didn't take place yet, I can accurately answer this question in the very moment of death.

7️⃣ Did you ever feel depressed or super anxious? And if yes: what do you do to get out of it?

No since I welcome fortune and misfortune same way.

8️⃣ Which person do you miss the most who left you or who died or who you have no longer contact with?

There is a genious quote from Kahlil Gibran: “When you part from your friend, you grieve not; For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.”

9️⃣ What life lesson have you found out in the hard way?

That my presence is even smaller than "nothing" in front of the mightiness of life.

🔟 DId anything unexpected and nice happen to you in the last month? It can be something big or small.

It was raining yesterday. It was unexpectedly nice enough after four months lack of rain. I enjoyed to watch the lightning show of the thunderstorm.

1️⃣ Do you think that dreams tell smt about your REAL life or that maybe they say something about the future?

Somehow, dreams are shaped by our emotions and experiences. Even if they are the fantasiest possible ones, I believe they tell us something about us. Sometimes it's only "you did that today, let's train in sleep", sometimes it might be more "let's dig in your deepest self" kind of dreams.
I don't think they can be used for foreseeing, but as they can affect our performances, memory, mood, physiology... They can definitely tell something about our future in some sense, in my opinion.

2️⃣ Is there something that you believed but later you changed your mind about it?

Too many things I guess? I make many assumptions; inferences, and I happen to be sometimes wrong!

3️⃣ Can you also have TRUE love without that you are hurt?

If you don't get hurt, then it doesn't really matter, does it? Or you have reached some kind of perfection.

4️⃣ What do you believe that happens if you die? And if you believe that you go to heaven how does that look like? For example you meet others who also died?

My body decay, but I live in people's mind for a while. I guess most of important people have tried to reach that immortality by accomplishing something that would put their name in history. Can you say some artists or rulers are truly dead if we still revere them today?

5️⃣ Do you think the opinions of others about you are important?

In theory, no. In practice, it's more difficult and they always influences and shape us... Questioning ourselves why we do something or think this way sometimes help to discriminate a true wish/desire from an outside influence. I don't know if this make sense to answer the question though.

6️⃣ What is the best decision that you ever made in your life?

I do not know. Maybe will I find an answer in front of the death's door like diogenes.

7️⃣ Did you ever feel depressed or super anxious? And if yes: what do you do to get out of it?

skip (ᵕ—ᴗ—)

8️⃣ Which person do you miss the most who left you or who died or who you have no longer contact with?

skip skip (ᵕ—ᴗ—)

9️⃣ What life lesson have you found out in the hard way?

Running away from failure is a failure by default.

🔟 DId anything unexpected and nice happen to you in the last month? It can be something big or small.

I used a gremlin cat as a pillow and he was ok with it.

Miss_Penpal:

"Welcome to Level 2" is one of the funniest things about being dead that I have ever heard. Thank you for that!

1. No. Your actions can tell something but not dreams (fun fact I dreamed to be a pegasus)

2. All kinds of conspiracy theories. It turns out that if you sit down and search for information, all these conspiracies are easy to unravel

3. I hope yes, but I think no

4. Black screen. Nothing. I will not be able to see or think at all. I don't know how to describe it.

5. Only if they think how magnificent I am

6. I dont think I had that one

7. Yes I was in depression. I tried to pass away hah. I don't really remember how I got out.

8. My gay bff. Turned out that he was not gay and fell in love with me. But he has cool music taste and jokes. Gleb return to me I'll forgive everything 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

9. Don't be friends with male even if you think they're gay

10. I found out that all my group ships me with THAT one giiirl. Like maybe they noticed something)))