Mare @LandRoverDiscovery2 i think if there is a forum and we together give tips everybody who wants it to Arsenia @Kotyaka2023 it can only be good. Because everybody tries to help her and she can choose what she wants from it. And Arsenia if you have questions about it you can ask anybody of course!!! And people only write here bc they want the BEST for you and not to harm you. So if you want to know stuff you can always ask anybody. ✨🌸🌼❤️
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Is lesbianism considered a sin?
If so, how to live if you're a lesbian but a Christian? Drop everything and live alone or with a guy like all normal people?
Thank you in advance
I answer you as a Catholic Christian. Christianity is the religion of love. The message of Jesus is a message of love. Maybe thirteen years are too few to decide the path you will have to take. Maybe you will change path. Maybe you will stay on the path of today. The important thing is to move forward without haste. If you meet a woman, if you fall in love with her, you can always remain a Christian. No one has the right to judge you. In the Gospel it says: do not judge and you will not be judged. The important thing is to love and help those who suffer. This is the most important thing in Christianity. You can be a Christian even if you are homosexual. This is my opinion and I will not add other comments👍
Thank you! But I try to behave like a HUMAN, not because theoretically I can go to hell! I want to do good to people…
I... I just still don't know what to do ☹️ well, if someone had told me, for example: "no, it's just such a stage" or "yes, you're a lesbian", everything would be much easier 🙂
I answer you as a Catholic Christian. Christianity is the religion of love. The message of Jesus is a message of love. Maybe thirteen years are too few to decide the path you will have to take. Maybe you will change path. Maybe you will stay on the path of today. The important thing is to move forward without haste. If you meet a woman, if you fall in love with her, you can always remain a Christian. No one has the right to judge you. In the Gospel it says: do not judge and you will not be judged. The important thing is to love and help those who suffer. This is the most important thing in Christianity. You can be a Christian even if you are homosexual. This is my opinion and I will not add other comments👍
That is super nice what you wrote Lorenzo @Pennarossa2024!!!! I dont know enough of Christianity only things normally from school but what you write is very beautiful. 🤗🤗🥰
Thank you! But I try to behave like a HUMAN, not because theoretically I can go to hell! I want to do good to people…
I... I just still don't know what to do ☹️ well, if someone had told me, for example: "no, it's just such a stage" or "yes, you're a lesbian", everything would be much easier 🙂
Maybe Arsenia it is nice to take time and not super rush stuff. And you can talk with anybody in this forum you made who you think wrote what you believe or like. And maybe read this forum: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/11111-the-nobody-excluded-forum I made it with Stasyyy @PinkiePie. You dont have to write in it but of course you can if you want. But also you can read what others wrote and if there is stuff you think is nice you can also talk with that person. 😊😊
That is super nice what you wrote Lorenzo @Pennarossa2024!!!! I dont know enough of Christianity only things normally from school but what you write is very beautiful. 🤗🤗🥰
Maybe Arsenia it is nice to take time and not super rush stuff. And you can talk with anybody in this forum you made who you think wrote what you believe or like. And maybe read this forum: https://penpal-gate.net/forum/12-everyday-life-and-customs/11111-the-nobody-excluded-forum I made it with Stasyyy @PinkiePie. You dont have to write in it but of course you can if you want. But also you can read what others wrote and if there is stuff you think is nice you can also talk with that person. 😊😊
Okay, thank you!!!
Thank you! But I try to behave like a HUMAN, not because theoretically I can go to hell! I want to do good to people…
I... I just still don't know what to do ☹️ well, if someone had told me, for example: "no, it's just such a stage" or "yes, you're a lesbian", everything would be much easier 🙂
Don't be in a hurry to grow up and understand everything right away. Sometimes a hundred years aren't enough to understand the meaning of life
Don't be in a hurry to grow up and understand everything right away. Sometimes a hundred years aren't enough to understand the meaning of life
Okay. Then should I continue to love her? Well, I can't stop 😅
I thought I was in love with one girl, but it was more of a passion. Now I know for sure that I want *reciprocity* - not like with her
I thought I was in love with one girl, but it was more of a passion. Now I know for sure that I want *reciprocity* - not like with her
I think you should only have a relationship if you both love each other. So i think that you are right. If you dont want it BOTH than it is not really a good relationship. But if she does not want love, maybe she wants friendship. And at least you have that which is also important and nice. 😊❤️
I think you should only have a relationship if you both love each other. So i think that you are right. If you dont want it BOTH than it is not really a good relationship. But if she does not want love, maybe she wants friendship. And at least you have that which is also important and nice. 😊❤️
I don't know 🤷🏻♀️ she's bessing herself... well, not to put it mildly
Every religion may regulate laws regarding sexual orientation, but sexual orientation does not arise because of religion, so I think it's better for you to try talking to a psychologist to make sure about your situation. asking lay people is like blinds leading the blind, because as far as i know about orientation, it still connected to a person's psychological condition.
it doesn't mean that psychologists would judge you, but I'm sure you're curious about what makes a person's orientation A B C, that's why i recommend you to try it.
Every religion may regulate laws regarding sexual orientation, but sexual orientation does not arise because of religion, so I think it's better for you to try talking to a psychologist to make sure about your situation. asking lay people is like blinds leading the blind, because as far as i know about orientation, it still connected to a person's psychological condition.
it doesn't mean that psychologists would judge you, but I'm sure you're curious about what makes a person's orientation A B C, that's why i recommend you to try it.
very good advice👍
Please write here only if you are a Christian!
Is lesbianism considered a sin?
If so, how to live if you're a lesbian but a Christian? Drop everything and live alone or with a guy like all normal people?
Thank you in advance
Hi, in my opinion you can be whoever you want. Being a lesbian doesn't prevent you from being a Christian. Faith is about your relationship with god, not your sexual orientation. Christianity is rooted in love, grace and acceptance. Everyone is welcome.
Stay with Jesus
"But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." What does this have to do with being gay? Are you in charge of deciding how this passage must be interpreted? People who know the Bible by memory scare the s**t out of me 😂
Stay with Jesus
its strongly depanding on your seroundings, i know chrisitans that are bi/lesbian, and also who are polyamour.
It is a part of live and let live.
But here in the netherlands we are losely (except some areas) believers, so we accept much.
If you have a area with strict rules like in the east of europe/rusia, you have a hard time im affraid.
But on your age, it can be that you desire is more from curiosity/way to distinct yourself.
Not thats something wrong, but becouse you wrote you was itnerested in boys, it can be a phase, or you are like me , enjoy both sides.