What makes you fall in love with someone?

I think I never know. I mean, there was someone I felt like... I love them, but I would'nt like to be with them for the rest of my life. But mostly, when I lm in love, I think that "this is it". No, wait. Last time I screwed it up, because I was in love, but with someone I was thinking we don't fit and we are too different. Now I suffer and regret that 🥲

very beautiful Mulanyyy @Mulanyyy!!! 🥰🥰

and @Oxiu i really want to ask: can you maybe still talk with her and tell it??? i really hope that!

I am curious bc it was one time that my mom and i heard it on tv (im not sure but was netflix or viki) and somebody said you CANT be in love with a person if you dont know that person. So if you like only the looks than you can only have a CRUSH and if you also like the person how he or she is as a person than you can be in LOVE. Do you think that is true?

And Mare i think if you say for her beauty you mean both looks and how she is? 🙂

I am curious bc it was one time that my mom and i heard it on tv (im not sure but was netflix or viki) and somebody said you CANT be in love with a person if you dont know that person. So if you like only the looks than you can only have a CRUSH and if you also like the person how he or she is as a person than you can be in LOVE. Do you think that is true?

And Mare i think if you say for her beauty you mean both looks and how she is? 🙂

Well, sometimes we fall in love with the person WE THINK she is, because it's not like we get to know someone, and we know everything about that person. But... I think it's completely normal when it comes to fall in love. Another thing is loving that person with the time, forever, etc.

I would like to tell one thing also: if You contact with someone, like, often, because it's your friend for example. And You may not consider this person as attractive. But if You like that person, know her more and more, her charm catches You, You can change the perceiving that person without your will, and suddenly You think that person looks attractive. So You never know, and the physical look isn't always the deciding factor at first.

@Yue_ well, I'm planning try to contact with her... In month or two. But I must finish/fix few things first. But it is stressful, waiting for that moment.

well, i havent ogt that actually; her beauty is the very fisrst thing attractiive to me.

Yeah, that's something You can know in first place, because You see it.

I was only writing with my first girlfriend for two years. I saw only what she showed me, I knew only what she told me.

But it took some time to get to know her.

Love is the moment in which one is able to slay his/her ego for ever. That's a hard battle, and you're the battlefield. If you are able to run the risk of falling into ruin, then it's love. If not, anything else but love. What makes me fall in love with someone? I have never wanted to know the answer of this question, such an enigma is the wings for love. Only then you'd not fall but ascend.

Love is the moment in which one is able to slay his/her ego for ever. That's a hard battle, and you're the battlefield. If you are able to run the risk of falling into ruin, then it's love. If not, anything else but love. What makes me fall in love with someone? I have never wanted to know the answer of this question, such an enigma is the wings for love. Only then you'd not fall but ascend.

When you post in quotes forum you often quote other people of beautiful things they said. BUTTTT i think we can now all quote YOU because you write like in a poem very beautifully and i think we can start posting diogenes_cask quotes!!!! And this about ❤️❤️ is super beautiful!!! 🏆🏆

When you post in quotes forum you often quote other people of beautiful things they said. BUTTTT i think we can now all quote YOU because you write like in a poem very beautifully and i think we can start posting diogenes_cask quotes!!!! And this about ❤️❤️ is super beautiful!!! 🏆🏆

Thanks a lot, Yue. I sincerely appreciate your words. Nevertheless, I think I am way too far from being quoted. Time to time, I can speak some grandiloquence but it's just the ripe fruit of literature. 🙂

beautiful forum.@Simone724 i don't fall in love easily. i fall in love with someone who communicates and is funny. i fall in love with a beautiful voice and with someone's character. because beauty alone fades it is what is inside that counts. what are you with a beautiful person who is ugly inside. i teach my children that someone who is real love comes through mutual respect and trust and communication and humor and supporting and helping each other. and real love you feel when it flows through your veins, when your heart pounds in your body when you hear or see that person. when you can talk and laugh together for hours without getting tired of each other.

Thanks a lot, Yue. I sincerely appreciate your words. Nevertheless, I think I am way too far from being quoted. Time to time, I can speak some grandiloquence but it's just the ripe fruit of literature. 🙂

It is the first time and maybe only ever i disagree with you!! 😛 i think a lot of things you say are nice for quoting and it is beautiful!! 🙂

And i think what @Fleurke said is very true that the inside is the most important. I think for me maybe too how a person is that is the most important. And that you can feel safe too even when he is angry or upset with you. For me that you feel safe and secure and after that other things like that he respects you and makes you feel calm. 🙄🙄

I am super curious what others think about the question of @Simone724 like @Idkbro, @Txya, @-Kiki-, @H_E_A_R_T, @Pennarossa2024, @Etienne, @Lianshen, @Sabri_KC and @psysarah15 think (and of course all other of my friends but i would tag a LOTTT of people)!! 😛 😛 🥰🥰

It is so nice you are on the forum again @Simone724!!! 😊😊 And if i am honest of the question that you asked: i have no idea. Sorry if that is not a very good answer!!!! 😛

But i am very curious what other people will write as an answer. So I hope many people will post what they think below. ⬇️⬇️ If we can get nice answers i can put it in this forum in the love part. ❤️🥰🥰

How that person looks,his voice and how he acts

How that person looks,his voice and how he acts

I never thought about the voice if it is important. But maybe also because it says for example how he is as a person right. 🙄🙄

And @Idkbro can I ask what @Simone724 asked: how do you know if you are in love or you feel affectionate or like a crush? It may be super confusing too and maybe it depends or are you always sure what you feel?

I never thought about the voice if it is important. But maybe also because it says for example how he is as a person right. 🙄🙄

And @Roseeeee can I ask what @Simone724 asked: how do you know if you are in love or you feel affectionate or like a crush? It may be super confusing too and maybe it depends or are you always sure what you feel?

Only on what you feel!

I totally agree with @diogenes_cask

It is a great privilige to experience unconditional love and there is a lot of hard work and confrontation with yourself before achieving "it".

Love is the moment in which one is able to slay his/her ego for ever. That's a hard battle, and you're the battlefield. If you are able to run the risk of falling into ruin, then it's love. If not, anything else but love. What makes me fall in love with someone? I have never wanted to know the answer of this question, such an enigma is the wings for love. Only then you'd not fall but ascend.

i disagree with those photos, for me pretty is mostly the face, hole personalitity

Ok

For me there's nothing specific that makes me fall in love because love isn't about actions or traits!! i can love someone for no reason at all i just do ❤️. i don't believe love needs an explanation because even if i meet 2 people with the same amazing qualities, my heart might choose one over the other without any logical reason💘

As for distinguishing between really love and just affection, honestly i've never been in love before, so i don’t really know what it feels like 🤷‍♀️💭

I have been asked this question once or twice by women I fell for. I always answered the same: "I don't know", because I have no idea why and, like @diogenes_cask, I don't really get interested in the answer. I also agree that it only made me ascend, sometimes to my greatest despair though, as the Sun burned my wings 🙂

What's sure though is that I always deny it first and have to get pushed to admit both to myself and someone that I developed such feelings. Like @Oxiu said too, it often comes with transformation, the person I see becomes incredibly more beautiful (and more and more with time) than what I would think without being inlove.

Your answers @psysarah15 and @Lianshen are super beautiful and true i think!! But still i think about it too like also what @Simone724 asked because maybe you already have been in love and you thought it was only that you just liked somebody. But maybe it is impossible to know until you really have relationships too.