What makes you fall in love with someone?

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📸️ 📸️ beautiful (email hidden) i don't fall in love easily. i fall in love with someone who communicates and is funny. i fall in love with a beautiful voice and with someone's character. because beauty alone fades it is what is inside that counts. what are you with a beautiful person who is ugly inside. i teach my children that someone who is real love comes through mutual respect and trust and communication and humor and supporting and helping each other. and real love you feel when it flows through your veins, when your heart pounds in your body when you hear or see that person. when you can talk and laugh together for hours without getting tired of each other.

i disagree with those photos, for me pretty is mostly the face, hole personalitity


How that person looks,his voice and how he acts

I never thought about the voice if it is important. But maybe also because it says for example how he is as a person right. 🙄🙄


And @Idkbro can I ask what @Simone724 asked: how do you know if you are in love or you feel affectionate or like a crush? It may be super confusing too and maybe it depends or are you always sure what you feel?

I never thought about the voice if it is important. But maybe also because it says for example how he is as a person right. 🙄🙄


And @Roseeeee can I ask what @Simone724 asked: how do you know if you are in love or you feel affectionate or like a crush? It may be super confusing too and maybe it depends or are you always sure what you feel?

Only on what you feel!


I totally agree with @diogenes_cask

It is a great privilige to experience unconditional love and there is a lot of hard work and confrontation with yourself before achieving "it".

Love is the moment in which one is able to slay his/her ego for ever. That's a hard battle, and you're the battlefield. If you are able to run the risk of falling into ruin, then it's love. If not, anything else but love. What makes me fall in love with someone? I have never wanted to know the answer of this question, such an enigma is the wings for love. Only then you'd not fall but ascend.

i disagree with those photos, for me pretty is mostly the face, hole personalitity

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For me there's nothing specific that makes me fall in love because love isn't about actions or traits!! i can love someone for no reason at all i just do ❤️. i don't believe love needs an explanation because even if i meet 2 people with the same amazing qualities, my heart might choose one over the other without any logical reason💘

As for distinguishing between really love and just affection, honestly i've never been in love before, so i don’t really know what it feels like 🤷‍♀️💭

I have been asked this question once or twice by women I fell for. I always answered the same: "I don't know", because I have no idea why and, like @diogenes_cask, I don't really get interested in the answer. I also agree that it only made me ascend, sometimes to my greatest despair though, as the Sun burned my wings 🙂

What's sure though is that I always deny it first and have to get pushed to admit both to myself and someone that I developed such feelings. Like @Oxiu said too, it often comes with transformation, the person I see becomes incredibly more beautiful (and more and more with time) than what I would think without being inlove.

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Your answers @psysarah15 and @Lianshen are super beautiful and true i think!! But still i think about it too like also what @Simone724 asked because maybe you already have been in love and you thought it was only that you just liked somebody. But maybe it is impossible to know until you really have relationships too.