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How did the exam go @chiikawaattack? And do you have anything nice this week @Kotyaka2023?
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How did the exam go @morgen_stern_011? And do you have anything nice this week @Kotyaka2023?
Well... huh. I don't know... π₯² I met a guy with whom we are still friends... but only for now π€ well, by the way, also on the Internet π
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Maybe it is nice to talk about what you do if other people gossip about you or if you dont know what they say but it is probably about you. What do you do about it? And also: did you have have friends wanting to gossip with you about others but you feel not comfortable about it at all.
Sorry if it is not a good topic to talk about.
Yes, I had a friend Who uszd to gossip a lot, and I wasn't confortable with it. I always tried not to take part in this, but after a time I just stopped hanging with that friend because I don't enjoy to be mean to others.
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Maybe it is nice to talk about what you do if other people gossip about you or if you dont know what they say but it is probably about you. What do you do about it? And also: did you have have friends wanting to gossip with you about others but you feel not comfortable about it at all.
Sorry if it is not a good topic to talk about.
I donβt know what to say about it. Itβs so annoying. You just need to ignore everything and move on
I understand what @Aooo said but sometimes it is also difficult i think. For example if a really good friend talks about others and it is not so harmful but it changes to really gossip. I cant gossip along but i also cant say super angry about it to her or walk away. I normally just keep silent and they know from it that i feel not comfortable and maybe talk with others instead of me about it. I know that is maybe weaker but i dont feel right to do different than that.
And i know some persons can gossip about me but if they do that i just pretend i dont know anything and hear antyhing and maybe it stops.
I understand what @AgDel said but sometimes it is also difficult i think. For example if a really good friend talks about others and it is not so harmful but it changes to really gossip. I cant gossip along but i also cant say super angry about it to her or walk away. I normally just keep silent and they know from it that i feel not comfortable and maybe talk with others instead of me about it. I know that is maybe weaker but i dont feel right to do different than that.
And i know some persons can gossip about me but if they do that i just pretend i dont know anything and hear antyhing and maybe it stops.
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I have one question and i hope that maybe somebody can tell what they think but IGNORE it if the question is stupid. I will understand that.
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
I am REALLYY curious about this! But right now i am NOTTT having a date (if anybody thinks that)!!!! I am just curious about what you think and if this has happened to you too. Thank you very much if you tell what you think about it. πππ
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
If it's not explicitly a date, it probably isn't. I think it's normal to want to spend time with your friends. But if it's someone I don't know or don't know well, wether it's a date or not doesn't matter because I won't go. If it's someone I don't know, it's either for a date or it's a dare from their friends, and I don't want to waste my time with either.
I have one question and i hope that maybe somebody can tell what they think but IGNORE it if the question is stupid. I will understand that.
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
I am REALLYY curious about this! But right now i am NOTTT having a date (if anybody thinks that)!!!! I am just curious about what you think and if this has happened to you too. Thank you very much if you tell what you think about it. πππ
I depends on the guy... Sometimes, it's really just friendship and it's normal to ask someone if you can spend time with them if you like being with them. But sometimes, there's something behind it, like he wants to "set the stage" (I'm sorry if I didn't use this expression correctly). I think if it happened to me, I would be curious and go.
Sorry, Yue, but actually I don't have a real answer π€·ββοΈπ