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Arseniaaa @Kotyaka2023 i promised to answer the questions!!!! So here are my answers:


๐ŸŒธHow do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?


Do you mean romantically or different? If it is really like date or romantic i think for me only if you really โค๏ธ that person or have like super crush. So for me it is not that i would date for an experiment if you mean that but more that you have super big feelings for that person.


๐ŸŒธIs it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?


I know some in my class and friends group who did that but i think that EVEN if now maybe it is more normal i would not do first but that the guy does that. Bc if he says no i would DIEEEE bc it is super embarrassing and i dont know what to do if that happens bc it is SUPER AWKWARDDD!!!!!!!!! So i think a guy would ask the date or gives the kiss first.


๐ŸŒธwhat to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”


For me that would not happen bc he would not ask to date if he already has another gf. BUTTTT if you find out that he is dating YOU and ALSO another gf that he has than i would not date him bc he is NOTTT serious bc he is dating two persons at the same time. And it also means that he has not big feelings for you or he would not do that.



I am curious if maybe others also answer and i hope also you Arseania bc it is interesting to read them!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Arseniaaa @Kotyaka2023 i promised to answer the questions!!!! So here are my answers:


๐ŸŒธHow do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?


Do you mean romantically or different? If it is really like date or romantic i think for me only if you really โค๏ธ that person or have like super crush. So for me it is not that i would date for an experiment if you mean that but more that you have super big feelings for that person.


๐ŸŒธIs it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?


I know some in my class and friends group who did that but i think that EVEN if now maybe it is more normal i would not do first but that the guy does that. Bc if he says no i would DIEEEE bc it is super embarrassing and i dont know what to do if that happens bc it is SUPER AWKWARDDD!!!!!!!!! So i think a guy would ask the date or gives the kiss first.


๐ŸŒธwhat to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”


For me that would not happen bc he would not ask to date if he already has another gf. BUTTTT if you find out that he is dating YOU and ALSO another gf that he has than i would not date him bc he is NOTTT serious bc he is dating two persons at the same time. And it also means that he has not big feelings for you or he would not do that.



I am curious if maybe others also answer and i hope also you Arseania bc it is interesting to read them!!!! ๐Ÿ™‚


Oh, okay! Yes, it's super embarrassing, yes... but in the last question it's not about the fact that he was dating two at the same time, but he refused you because he already has a girlfriend.......


I'll answer too, of course! โ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธ but a little later ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ


Oh, okay! Yes, it's super embarrassing, yes... but in the last question it's not about the fact that he was dating two at the same time, but he refused you because he already has a girlfriend.......


I'll answer too, of course! โ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธโ˜บ๏ธ but a little later ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ


Oww ok i understand what you mean now!!! BUTTT i would not have that problem bc if you dont ask it first you dont get refused i think. Bc i would not ask a guy that first. ANDDD if he has a gf i would not be interested bc if he is not faithful than he is also like that with you. And it is not fair for his gf too so i would not even think abt that at all and he would not ask it anyway. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„


Oww ok i understand what you mean now!!! BUTTT i would not have that problem bc if you dont ask it first you dont get refused i think. Bc i would not ask a guy that first. ANDDD if he has a gf i would not be interested bc if he is not faithful than he is also like that with you. And it is not fair for his gf too so i would not even think abt that at all and he would not ask it anyway. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„


Ahhh. I'm probably having trouble with the translation because that's not what I meant....


Ahhh. I'm probably having trouble with the translation because that's not what I meant....

Oh okk sorry!! ๐Ÿ˜› But i will just wait what others write abt the questions bc are nice topics to chat abt!!!! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Oh okk sorry!! ๐Ÿ˜› But i will just wait what others write abt the questions bc are nice topics to chat abt!!!! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š


Super! Yes. Here are my answers ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ


๐ŸŒธHow do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?

Well... that's fine. But it shouldn't be the inconvenience or pain of the person you're dating ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿงถ๐Ÿ“–


๐ŸŒธIs it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?

In principle, I think it's all right! ๐Ÿ’– but if the guy refuses, it will be super embarrassing... well, it's easier for me with girls (personally) and I would be more willing to date a girl ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿป


๐ŸŒธwhat to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

Well... I think it will be very awkward ๐Ÿ™ˆ



Also, who wants can offer ANY topics for communication, we can support, help or just talk โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

โ€ผ๏ธAnd once again, just in case, please โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธ hate, โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธdiscuss this with a person in private messages if he does not want to and โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธ take the information outside the forum. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’– I'm trying to create a trusting atmosphere, and the above actions can destroy it ๐Ÿ˜žโ€ผ๏ธ


Super! Yes. Here are my answers ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ

Well... that's fine. But it shouldn't be the inconvenience or pain of the person you're dating ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿงถ๐Ÿ“–


๐ŸŒธIs it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?

In principle, I think it's all right! ๐Ÿ’– but if the guy refuses, it will be super embarrassing... well, it's easier for me with girls (personally) and I would be more willing to date a girl ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿป


๐ŸŒธwhat to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

Well... I think it will be very awkward ๐Ÿ™ˆ



Also, who wants can offer ANY topics for communication, we can support, help or just talk โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

โ€ผ๏ธAnd once again, just in case, please โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธ hate, โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธdiscuss this with a person in private messages if he does not want to and โ—๏ธDO NOTโ—๏ธ take the information outside the forum. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’– I'm trying to create a trusting atmosphere, and the above actions can destroy it ๐Ÿ˜žโ€ผ๏ธ

It is nice that you also wrote your answers Arsenia!!!! But can i ask a question bc you said that it is easier for you with girls and that you like more to date in that case. BUTTT i think that if i would date a guy than i would be really nervous and if you want also to date anyone else than it is ALWAYS smt nervous bc you dont know how that person thinks. I would always be nervous no matter who you date the first time and it is super difficult NOT to have that feeling. But for you it is less in that case? If that is the case than it is super handy bc i HATE the feeling of being super stressed abt it. I dont even know who i will date in future and ALREADY feel stressed a bit to think abt it and i dont even know who. And is not really nice feeling i think.

It is nice that you also wrote your answers Arsenia!!!! But can i ask a question bc you said that it is easier for you with girls and that you like more to date in that case. BUTTT i think that if i would date a guy than i would be really nervous and if you want also to date anyone else than it is ALWAYS smt nervous bc you dont know how that person thinks. I would always be nervous no matter who you date the first time and it is super difficult NOT to have that feeling. But for you it is less in that case? If that is the case than it is super handy bc i HATE the feeling of being super stressed abt it. I dont even know who i will date in future and ALREADY feel stressed a bit to think abt it and i dont even know who. And is not really nice feeling i think.


Yeah ๐Ÿ‘. No, it's even more difficult to be nervous with girls, because everyone assumes that "a girl โž• a guy" and it will be very difficult for you to find out what a girl thinks about you, and plus there are not so many lesbians... and if you still have the courage to offer to meet, it can ruin the friendship. And not with the guy because everyone thinks it's normal ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

It's easier with girls in the sense that you already know that she likes you and you're already dating. Well, plus, I'm more attracted to girls ๐Ÿ˜ณโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน


Heh, sorry if my answers were uncomplicated ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ


Yeah ๐Ÿ‘. No, it's even more difficult to be nervous with girls, because everyone assumes that "a girl โž• a guy" and it will be very difficult for you to find out what a girl thinks about you, and plus there are not so many lesbians... and if you still have the courage to offer to meet, it can ruin the friendship. And not with the guy because everyone thinks it's normal ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

It's easier with girls in the sense that you already know that she likes you and you're already dating. Well, plus, I'm more attracted to girls ๐Ÿ˜ณโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน


Heh, sorry if my answers were uncomplicated ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ

Hiii Arsenia!!! Sorry that i reply super late but i really did not feel good the last two days. And i understand what you say and how that is difficult for you. For me it would just not matter but if you have a date with person that you like that you just always panic a bit!!! That is what i think for myself. But it is different maybe for everybody how they think abt it. I know some from my friends at school who are super relaxed and they think that it is not smt big AT ALL!!!! But they are also different in how they think abt some things and maybe for them other things are more difficult even if they dont say it. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy ๐Ÿ˜ญ

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy ๐Ÿ˜ญ

That is a LOTTT 2-4 months so maybe it is good to go to a doctor to ask abt it. And one thing also to check is if maybe if you also have certain other problems bc they can be about the same thing. And also to check is if you are underweight bc that can also affect hormones and your diet too. I hope everything goes well!!!!!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Hiii Arsenia!!! Sorry that i reply super late but i really did not feel good the last two days. And i understand what you say and how that is difficult for you. For me it would just not matter but if you have a date with person that you like that you just always panic a bit!!! That is what i think for myself. But it is different maybe for everybody how they think abt it. I know some from my friends at school who are super relaxed and they think that it is not smt big AT ALL!!!! But they are also different in how they think abt some things and maybe for them other things are more difficult even if they dont say it. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„


Haha, yes. The first few dates I think you're really very nervous ๐Ÿค” and then you can get used to it and behave more than relaxed (I'm talking to the example of my only friend, I was very nervous at first but now I can tell him a lot and he will support ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜) and yes, it was difficult to write. What's wrong with your stomach? ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Hi, @ANT3TT! ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿป๐Ÿฅฐ

First of all, I'm glad you joined the conversation, we're all very happy to see you here. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒทโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน๐Ÿ˜œ

So, as for the cycle, I looked, it could be if your period started recently and the cycle has not yet been consolidated, it's called menarche. If you have more than 1-2 years since your first period, then we exclude this option. If there is a lot of stress, the cycle can get losed, or with sudden changes in weight. These are the most frequent and not dangerous reasons! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ BUT my advice does NOT replace a doctor, so I advise you to go to the gynaecologist

I hope it helped at least a little ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

If you have more questions or want to chat, we're glad to see you ๐Ÿ˜


That is a LOTTT 2-4 months so maybe it is good to go to a doctor to ask abt it. And one thing also to check is if maybe if you also have certain other problems bc they can be about the same thing. And also to check is if you are underweight bc that can also affect hormones and your diet too. I hope everything goes well!!!!!! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™


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Hi everyone! First of all, I wanted to say I'm grateful to the most active participants, and to everyone in general, for creating such a trusting, peaceful atmosphere here. I'm truly very grateful to you ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅน๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

And secondly... please โ€ผ๏ธdon't judge.โ€ผ๏ธI started writing a book. Well, almost finished, actually... I'd like to show it to someone and get some honest criticism. The only thing is, I write in Russian, so if I translate it, the intonation and some expressions will be incorrectโ€ฆ So if anyone's interested... of course, this is complete rubbish, but....

I can post individual chapters... Thanks in advance to everyone, I'm very glad to be among such people โœจโœจ

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