Yes, I had a friend Who uszd to gossip a lot, and I wasn't confortable with it. I always tried not to take part in this, but after a time I just stopped hanging with that friend because I don't enjoy to be mean to others.
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Maybe it is nice to talk about what you do if other people gossip about you or if you dont know what they say but it is probably about you. What do you do about it? And also: did you have have friends wanting to gossip with you about others but you feel not comfortable about it at all.
Sorry if it is not a good topic to talk about.
I donβt know what to say about it. Itβs so annoying. You just need to ignore everything and move on
I understand what @AgDel said but sometimes it is also difficult i think. For example if a really good friend talks about others and it is not so harmful but it changes to really gossip. I cant gossip along but i also cant say super angry about it to her or walk away. I normally just keep silent and they know from it that i feel not comfortable and maybe talk with others instead of me about it. I know that is maybe weaker but i dont feel right to do different than that.
And i know some persons can gossip about me but if they do that i just pretend i dont know anything and hear antyhing and maybe it stops.
I understand what @AgDel said but sometimes it is also difficult i think. For example if a really good friend talks about others and it is not so harmful but it changes to really gossip. I cant gossip along but i also cant say super angry about it to her or walk away. I normally just keep silent and they know from it that i feel not comfortable and maybe talk with others instead of me about it. I know that is maybe weaker but i dont feel right to do different than that.
And i know some persons can gossip about me but if they do that i just pretend i dont know anything and hear antyhing and maybe it stops.
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I have one question and i hope that maybe somebody can tell what they think but IGNORE it if the question is stupid. I will understand that.
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
I am REALLYY curious about this! But right now i am NOTTT having a date (if anybody thinks that)!!!! I am just curious about what you think and if this has happened to you too. Thank you very much if you tell what you think about it. πππ
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
If it's not explicitly a date, it probably isn't. I think it's normal to want to spend time with your friends. But if it's someone I don't know or don't know well, wether it's a date or not doesn't matter because I won't go. If it's someone I don't know, it's either for a date or it's a dare from their friends, and I don't want to waste my time with either.
I have one question and i hope that maybe somebody can tell what they think but IGNORE it if the question is stupid. I will understand that.
β‘οΈ If a guy you dont know really from school asks if you want to do things together like going to the city centre for a drink or the cinema but he does NOTTT talk about it being a date. Do you think it can be just for friendship only and to just know each other. Or do you think that he secretly means it as a date?
I am REALLYY curious about this! But right now i am NOTTT having a date (if anybody thinks that)!!!! I am just curious about what you think and if this has happened to you too. Thank you very much if you tell what you think about it. πππ
I depends on the guy... Sometimes, it's really just friendship and it's normal to ask someone if you can spend time with them if you like being with them. But sometimes, there's something behind it, like he wants to "set the stage" (I'm sorry if I didn't use this expression correctly). I think if it happened to me, I would be curious and go.
Sorry, Yue, but actually I don't have a real answer π€·ββοΈπ
Thank you very much @Miss_Penpal and @AgDel. I didnt think yet at all about that it can also be a dare @Miss_Penpal. But you are right. I just didnt think about that yet. But i think if it is just like a joke or challenge i think that is not nice. But he is quieter than most persons but he is not even in my class and i dont know him very well. Just only for example when you see each other in the hall or if you get your bike. So that is why i dont know what he wants really, but i think that he is not person for making dares or jokes about it. But i am not 100% sure or if he wants even a REAL date. But for friendship only that can be nice perhaps but i dont even know what he talks about and what he likes. ππ
Thank you very much @Miss_Penpal and @AgDel. I didnt think yet at all about that it can also be a dare @Miss_Penpal. But you are right. I just didnt think about that yet. But i think if it is just like a joke or challenge i think that is not nice. But he is quieter than most persons but he is not even in my class and i dont know him very well. Just only for example when you see each other in the hall or if you get your bike. So that is why i dont know what he wants really, but i think that he is not person for making dares or jokes about it. But i am not 100% sure or if he wants even a REAL date. But for friendship only that can be nice perhaps but i dont even know what he talks about and what he likes. ππ
I don't know, I think maybe he wants to get to know you better for now, and attract your attention with the help of movies π I don't know if it will turn into a romantic relationship later or remain a friendship... maybe you won't get along at all and after the first such trip you will go, that you are not interesting to each other π€π€·π»ββοΈβ€οΈπ₯²
Wellβ¦
Hello girls! π€
Everyone here is 12 or more, so I don't think it's scary that I'm writing this in a public place π
There's nothing to embarrass in my period (which I propose to talk about). It's a natural process ππ€
How do you feel about them? Personally, they haven't started for me yet... I think it's very interesting π
And what do you think about this, and what do you advise me when they start?
We can also talk about other teenage topics. π©ΈπΈπWrite, who is interested π
This forum is only for girls who are 12-16 years old π
Hey! I've got them last year, at the end of the summer π« Right before we went to a festival! I cried on the floor, bc I saw my mom having them before, and she hated it too. Now, I'm pretty ok. Some people have them really bad, but I'm pretty ok with it. A tip: use the app 'Flo'! It might help, and when you use it for the first time u might think u have to pay for it, but you don't have to! You just have to update your period and that's it πΈ
For the girlies who don't know it yet: there are PERIOD PANTIES! They work so food istg. I use them alot! And another tip: you might get irritated and getting mad really fast, so let your friends and parents (and siblings if u want to) that you're on your period, so they know that if you get mad or irritated really fast, that you can't help it!
Well, that was my advise! I hope that this is enough, if you need some tricks or tips about other teenage topics, I might be the one who can help! Tysm for reading, cyu next time! πβ¨π
Hey! I've got them last year, at the end of the summer π« Right before we went to a festival! I cried on the floor, bc I saw my mom having them before, and she hated it too. Now, I'm pretty ok. Some people have them really bad, but I'm pretty ok with it. A tip: use the app 'Flo'! It might help, and when you use it for the first time u might think u have to pay for it, but you don't have to! You just have to update your period and that's it πΈ
For the girlies who don't know it yet: there are PERIOD PANTIES! They work so food istg. I use them alot! And another tip: you might get irritated and getting mad really fast, so let your friends and parents (and siblings if u want to) that you're on your period, so they know that if you get mad or irritated really fast, that you can't help it!
Well, that was my advise! I hope that this is enough, if you need some tricks or tips about other teenage topics, I might be the one who can help! Tysm for reading, cyu next time! πβ¨π
Why did you cry?( π yeah... what kind of panties? Hmm... and, by the way, I'm very glad to see you on this uniform π
Personally, I find these tips very useful π€ thank you very much) yes, and also: advice is always needed ππ
Can i ask everybody: do you sometimes also feel dizzy? I have that sometimes EVENNN if you eat and drink normally. But one time i had it that you feel like your arms and hand tintle en your head weighs like 100 kilos at least it feels like that. What i do now is eat fruits bc they have sugar in it and it gives you healthy energy but when i ask my friends they dont have a lot of dizziness. But if anybody from you has the same i think that it is important to look what you eat and what your diet is. ππ
Can i ask everybody: do you sometimes also feel dizzy? I have that sometimes EVENNN if you eat and drink normally. But one time i had it that you feel like your arms and hand tintle en your head weighs like 100 kilos at least it feels like that. What i do now is eat fruits bc they have sugar in it and it gives you healthy energy but when i ask my friends they dont have a lot of dizziness. But if anybody from you has the same i think that it is important to look what you eat and what your diet is. ππ
I don't know, my period hasn't come yet, but if I don't eat for a long time, I start to get dizzy and have a headache and I have to quickly eat something like candy or chocolates, and then eat normal food.. π₯²
Can i ask everybody: do you sometimes also feel dizzy? I have that sometimes EVENNN if you eat and drink normally. But one time i had it that you feel like your arms and hand tintle en your head weighs like 100 kilos at least it feels like that. What i do now is eat fruits bc they have sugar in it and it gives you healthy energy but when i ask my friends they dont have a lot of dizziness. But if anybody from you has the same i think that it is important to look what you eat and what your diet is. ππ
Sometimes, right before, during and right after my period, I feel really dizzy when I stand up. I think it's really annoying, because I always feel like the world is spinning around me. I hope y'all don't get the same when ur on ur period β¨
Sometimes, right before, during and right after my period, I feel really dizzy when I stand up. I think it's really annoying, because I always feel like the world is spinning around me. I hope y'all don't get the same when ur on ur period β¨
Yeah, it doesn't sound very nice, but I think it's worth it π
Sometimes, right before, during and right after my period, I feel really dizzy when I stand up. I think it's really annoying, because I always feel like the world is spinning around me. I hope y'all don't get the same when ur on ur period β¨
Thank you for telling that and you too @Kotyaka2023. Most of my friends DONT have it really that they feel dizzy. So it is also good to read it is not weird. And i think the tip i said can maybe help you. So fruits give fast sugar in a healthy way. And it can help against feeling dizzy. BUTTTT if it happens too much than you need to go to a doctor.
Thank you for telling that and you too @Kotyaka2023. Most of my friends DONT have it really that they feel dizzy. So it is also good to read it is not weird. And i think the tip i said can maybe help you. So fruits give fast sugar in a healthy way. And it can help against feeling dizzy. BUTTTT if it happens too much than you need to go to a doctor.
Of course, I know. But it was one time dizziness, and once a headache for the whole year... π