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Hey! For some reason, everyone is in this forum 😰 well, I haven't written for a long time because of some personal problems BUT now I'll be online πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Does anyone have any questions, suggestions? 🌹🌹🌹

I would ask a couple of questions. ‼️Everyone only responds to what they want‼️

🌸How do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?

🌸Is it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?

🌸what to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? πŸ₯ΊπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

Really nice that you made new things to talk abt Arsenia @Kotyaka2023!!! πŸ™‚ I will think abt the questions and also answer the questions soon!!! ANDDD i am curious also what you think about what you asked!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

Hello girls! πŸ€—

Everyone here is 12 or more, so I don't think it's scary that I'm writing this in a public place 😝

There's nothing to embarrass in my period (which I propose to talk about). It's a natural process 😚🀭

How do you feel about them? Personally, they haven't started for me yet... I think it's very interesting 😝

And what do you think about this, and what do you advise me when they start?

We can also talk about other teenage topics. 🩸🌸😚Write, who is interested πŸ’–

This forum is only for girls who are 12-16 years old πŸ˜†

Personally they don't really bother me, I don't have cramps and it don't hurt. The only problem is MY HORRIBLE BLOOD FLOW.... Even if I wear two pads and protective underwear, my flow is so heavy that it leaks right through... it's horrible, it's like Niagara Falls or something bahahha πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ₯€πŸ’€πŸ’€

Really nice that you made new things to talk abt Arsenia @Kotyaka2023!!! πŸ™‚ I will think abt the questions and also answer the questions soon!!! ANDDD i am curious also what you think about what you asked!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜›


Oh, deal! πŸ«±πŸ½β€πŸ«²πŸΏ


Personally they don't really bother me, I don't have cramps and it don't hurt. The only problem is MY HORRIBLE BLOOD FLOW.... Even if I wear two pads and protective underwear, my flow is so heavy that it leaks right through... it's horrible, it's like Niagara Falls or something bahahha πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ’”πŸ₯€πŸ’€πŸ’€


Wow 😨. Maybe we should consult a gynaecologist? Or if everything is fine, try 5 drops of pads? Or menstrual cups? They are allowed at the age of 13


Oh, deal! πŸ«±πŸ½β€πŸ«²πŸΏ



Wow 😨. Maybe we should consult a gynaecologist? Or if everything is fine, try 5 drops of pads? Or menstrual cups? They are allowed at the age of 13


Ohh yeah I never thinked about it !! Tyyy


Ohh yeah I never thinked about it !! Tyyy


Wow, heh... I'm glad you helped! πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯ΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

Arseniaaa @Kotyaka2023 i promised to answer the questions!!!! So here are my answers:


🌸How do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?


Do you mean romantically or different? If it is really like date or romantic i think for me only if you really ❀️ that person or have like super crush. So for me it is not that i would date for an experiment if you mean that but more that you have super big feelings for that person.


🌸Is it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?


I know some in my class and friends group who did that but i think that EVEN if now maybe it is more normal i would not do first but that the guy does that. Bc if he says no i would DIEEEE bc it is super embarrassing and i dont know what to do if that happens bc it is SUPER AWKWARDDD!!!!!!!!! So i think a guy would ask the date or gives the kiss first.


🌸what to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? πŸ₯ΊπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”


For me that would not happen bc he would not ask to date if he already has another gf. BUTTTT if you find out that he is dating YOU and ALSO another gf that he has than i would not date him bc he is NOTTT serious bc he is dating two persons at the same time. And it also means that he has not big feelings for you or he would not do that.



I am curious if maybe others also answer and i hope also you Arseania bc it is interesting to read them!!!! πŸ™‚

Arseniaaa @Kotyaka2023 i promised to answer the questions!!!! So here are my answers:


🌸How do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?


Do you mean romantically or different? If it is really like date or romantic i think for me only if you really ❀️ that person or have like super crush. So for me it is not that i would date for an experiment if you mean that but more that you have super big feelings for that person.


🌸Is it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?


I know some in my class and friends group who did that but i think that EVEN if now maybe it is more normal i would not do first but that the guy does that. Bc if he says no i would DIEEEE bc it is super embarrassing and i dont know what to do if that happens bc it is SUPER AWKWARDDD!!!!!!!!! So i think a guy would ask the date or gives the kiss first.


🌸what to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? πŸ₯ΊπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”


For me that would not happen bc he would not ask to date if he already has another gf. BUTTTT if you find out that he is dating YOU and ALSO another gf that he has than i would not date him bc he is NOTTT serious bc he is dating two persons at the same time. And it also means that he has not big feelings for you or he would not do that.



I am curious if maybe others also answer and i hope also you Arseania bc it is interesting to read them!!!! πŸ™‚


Oh, okay! Yes, it's super embarrassing, yes... but in the last question it's not about the fact that he was dating two at the same time, but he refused you because he already has a girlfriend.......


I'll answer too, of course! ☺️☺️☺️☺️ but a little later πŸ˜ƒπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸŒΈπŸŒΈ


Oh, okay! Yes, it's super embarrassing, yes... but in the last question it's not about the fact that he was dating two at the same time, but he refused you because he already has a girlfriend.......


I'll answer too, of course! ☺️☺️☺️☺️ but a little later πŸ˜ƒπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸŒΈπŸŒΈ


Oww ok i understand what you mean now!!! BUTTT i would not have that problem bc if you dont ask it first you dont get refused i think. Bc i would not ask a guy that first. ANDDD if he has a gf i would not be interested bc if he is not faithful than he is also like that with you. And it is not fair for his gf too so i would not even think abt that at all and he would not ask it anyway. πŸ™„πŸ™„


Oww ok i understand what you mean now!!! BUTTT i would not have that problem bc if you dont ask it first you dont get refused i think. Bc i would not ask a guy that first. ANDDD if he has a gf i would not be interested bc if he is not faithful than he is also like that with you. And it is not fair for his gf too so i would not even think abt that at all and he would not ask it anyway. πŸ™„πŸ™„


Ahhh. I'm probably having trouble with the translation because that's not what I meant....


Ahhh. I'm probably having trouble with the translation because that's not what I meant....

Oh okk sorry!! πŸ˜› But i will just wait what others write abt the questions bc are nice topics to chat abt!!!! 😊😊

Oh okk sorry!! πŸ˜› But i will just wait what others write abt the questions bc are nice topics to chat abt!!!! 😊😊


Super! Yes. Here are my answers πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯ΉπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸŒΈ


🌸How do you feel about the fact that a person can meet people of their own or another sex in adolescence for the sake of interest or experiment?

Well... that's fine. But it shouldn't be the inconvenience or pain of the person you're dating πŸ«ΆπŸ»πŸ§ΆπŸ“–


🌸Is it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?

In principle, I think it's all right! πŸ’– but if the guy refuses, it will be super embarrassing... well, it's easier for me with girls (personally) and I would be more willing to date a girl πŸ‘‰πŸ»πŸ‘ˆπŸ»


🌸what to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? πŸ₯ΊπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

Well... I think it will be very awkward πŸ™ˆ



Also, who wants can offer ANY topics for communication, we can support, help or just talk β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ήβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ήβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

‼️And once again, just in case, please ❗️DO NOT❗️ hate, ❗️DO NOT❗️discuss this with a person in private messages if he does not want to and ❗️DO NOT❗️ take the information outside the forum. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’– I'm trying to create a trusting atmosphere, and the above actions can destroy it πŸ˜žβ€ΌοΈ


Super! Yes. Here are my answers πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯ΉπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸŒΈπŸŒΈπŸŒΈ

Well... that's fine. But it shouldn't be the inconvenience or pain of the person you're dating πŸ«ΆπŸ»πŸ§ΆπŸ“–


🌸Is it normal if a girl kisses a guy first or asks him to date?

In principle, I think it's all right! πŸ’– but if the guy refuses, it will be super embarrassing... well, it's easier for me with girls (personally) and I would be more willing to date a girl πŸ‘‰πŸ»πŸ‘ˆπŸ»


🌸what to do if you thought you liked a guy, offered to date and he already has a girlfriend? πŸ₯ΊπŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”

Well... I think it will be very awkward πŸ™ˆ



Also, who wants can offer ANY topics for communication, we can support, help or just talk β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ήβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ήβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

‼️And once again, just in case, please ❗️DO NOT❗️ hate, ❗️DO NOT❗️discuss this with a person in private messages if he does not want to and ❗️DO NOT❗️ take the information outside the forum. πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ’– I'm trying to create a trusting atmosphere, and the above actions can destroy it πŸ˜žβ€ΌοΈ

It is nice that you also wrote your answers Arsenia!!!! But can i ask a question bc you said that it is easier for you with girls and that you like more to date in that case. BUTTT i think that if i would date a guy than i would be really nervous and if you want also to date anyone else than it is ALWAYS smt nervous bc you dont know how that person thinks. I would always be nervous no matter who you date the first time and it is super difficult NOT to have that feeling. But for you it is less in that case? If that is the case than it is super handy bc i HATE the feeling of being super stressed abt it. I dont even know who i will date in future and ALREADY feel stressed a bit to think abt it and i dont even know who. And is not really nice feeling i think.

It is nice that you also wrote your answers Arsenia!!!! But can i ask a question bc you said that it is easier for you with girls and that you like more to date in that case. BUTTT i think that if i would date a guy than i would be really nervous and if you want also to date anyone else than it is ALWAYS smt nervous bc you dont know how that person thinks. I would always be nervous no matter who you date the first time and it is super difficult NOT to have that feeling. But for you it is less in that case? If that is the case than it is super handy bc i HATE the feeling of being super stressed abt it. I dont even know who i will date in future and ALREADY feel stressed a bit to think abt it and i dont even know who. And is not really nice feeling i think.


Yeah πŸ‘. No, it's even more difficult to be nervous with girls, because everyone assumes that "a girl βž• a guy" and it will be very difficult for you to find out what a girl thinks about you, and plus there are not so many lesbians... and if you still have the courage to offer to meet, it can ruin the friendship. And not with the guy because everyone thinks it's normal πŸ˜₯

It's easier with girls in the sense that you already know that she likes you and you're already dating. Well, plus, I'm more attracted to girls πŸ˜³β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή


Heh, sorry if my answers were uncomplicated 😰😰😰


Yeah πŸ‘. No, it's even more difficult to be nervous with girls, because everyone assumes that "a girl βž• a guy" and it will be very difficult for you to find out what a girl thinks about you, and plus there are not so many lesbians... and if you still have the courage to offer to meet, it can ruin the friendship. And not with the guy because everyone thinks it's normal πŸ˜₯

It's easier with girls in the sense that you already know that she likes you and you're already dating. Well, plus, I'm more attracted to girls πŸ˜³β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή


Heh, sorry if my answers were uncomplicated 😰😰😰

Hiii Arsenia!!! Sorry that i reply super late but i really did not feel good the last two days. And i understand what you say and how that is difficult for you. For me it would just not matter but if you have a date with person that you like that you just always panic a bit!!! That is what i think for myself. But it is different maybe for everybody how they think abt it. I know some from my friends at school who are super relaxed and they think that it is not smt big AT ALL!!!! But they are also different in how they think abt some things and maybe for them other things are more difficult even if they dont say it. πŸ™„πŸ™„

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy 😭

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy 😭

That is a LOTTT 2-4 months so maybe it is good to go to a doctor to ask abt it. And one thing also to check is if maybe if you also have certain other problems bc they can be about the same thing. And also to check is if you are underweight bc that can also affect hormones and your diet too. I hope everything goes well!!!!!! πŸ™πŸ™

Hiii Arsenia!!! Sorry that i reply super late but i really did not feel good the last two days. And i understand what you say and how that is difficult for you. For me it would just not matter but if you have a date with person that you like that you just always panic a bit!!! That is what i think for myself. But it is different maybe for everybody how they think abt it. I know some from my friends at school who are super relaxed and they think that it is not smt big AT ALL!!!! But they are also different in how they think abt some things and maybe for them other things are more difficult even if they dont say it. πŸ™„πŸ™„


Haha, yes. The first few dates I think you're really very nervous πŸ€” and then you can get used to it and behave more than relaxed (I'm talking to the example of my only friend, I was very nervous at first but now I can tell him a lot and he will support πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ˜πŸ˜) and yes, it was difficult to write. What's wrong with your stomach? 😰😰

heh what up guys, so I need to know what's going on with my period and idk if its normal or not, but I don't get mine every month I usually get it every 2-4 months and google is not helping me at all neither my mommy 😭

Hi, @ANT3TT! πŸ‘‹πŸ»πŸ‘‹πŸ»πŸ₯°

First of all, I'm glad you joined the conversation, we're all very happy to see you here. πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸŒ·πŸŒ·β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ήβ€οΈβ€πŸ©ΉπŸ˜œ

So, as for the cycle, I looked, it could be if your period started recently and the cycle has not yet been consolidated, it's called menarche. If you have more than 1-2 years since your first period, then we exclude this option. If there is a lot of stress, the cycle can get losed, or with sudden changes in weight. These are the most frequent and not dangerous reasons! πŸ˜ƒ BUT my advice does NOT replace a doctor, so I advise you to go to the gynaecologist

I hope it helped at least a little πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

If you have more questions or want to chat, we're glad to see you 😁


That is a LOTTT 2-4 months so maybe it is good to go to a doctor to ask abt it. And one thing also to check is if maybe if you also have certain other problems bc they can be about the same thing. And also to check is if you are underweight bc that can also affect hormones and your diet too. I hope everything goes well!!!!!! πŸ™πŸ™


Edited by Kotyaka2023 .

Hi everyone! First of all, I wanted to say I'm grateful to the most active participants, and to everyone in general, for creating such a trusting, peaceful atmosphere here. I'm truly very grateful to you πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯ΉπŸŒ±πŸŒ±πŸŒΉπŸŒΉπŸŒΉ

And secondly... please ‼️don't judge.‼️I started writing a book. Well, almost finished, actually... I'd like to show it to someone and get some honest criticism. The only thing is, I write in Russian, so if I translate it, the intonation and some expressions will be incorrect… So if anyone's interested... of course, this is complete rubbish, but....

I can post individual chapters... Thanks in advance to everyone, I'm very glad to be among such people ✨✨

thanks in advance 🌱