did you?

well @-Kiki- that is what everybody keeps telling me. And it seems logical, but ive tryd to forget her and it didnt work. And for the one orean other reason i got the feeling i will never find someone who fits. Especially cuz i got trouble trusting peoples health these days.........

when i got a seccond account and had access to her profile again, i decided to send 1 of her friends a message, but saidly that person never replyd.

an @TierM38 this is not a topic to start bullshitting, so shut your mouth ore talk nicely!

It was a serious advise, not bullshitting!

People, dont make the mistake to get too deep into social media or such websites. You know its Like reading a book: When you read the text or story you develop your own imagination about it, but this is different in everybodys mind.

Thats the reason why people on e.g. Elitepartner are advised to meet pretty fast to avoid those situations. And thats also the reason why people are in many cases disappointed after first dates when meeting after online contacting.

So always keep in mind to have a constructive distance.

It was a serious advise, not bullshitting!

People, dont make the mistake to get too deep into social media or such websites. You know its Like reading a book: When you read the text or story you develop your own imagination about it, but this is different in everybodys mind.

Thats the reason why people on e.g. Elitepartner are advised to meet pretty fast to avoid those situations. And thats also the reason why people are in many cases disappointed after first dates when meeting after online contacting.

So always keep in mind to have a constructive distance.

yes, very well, but would you say the same if you were the guy finding a girl on a penpal site with whom you derectly fall in love, in such a way that your not using your brain while contacting her? i didnt tell her my feelings about her for as far as i can remmber (hard to tell; it happen 2 years ago), i only told her she was the most beautyfull girl ive ever seen. Inough reason for her to block me it seems so.

I experienced that too and thats why I advise prove your emotional distance. You fell in love in written texts Not in the person thats part of imagination. The very most people would not act in real life than they write.

Easy example: When you write with a Person via Email and have a phone call the first time you will exactly know what I mean: The Sound of voice, speaking style... its usually different from imagination. Keep in mind that.

I experienced that too and thats why I advise prove your emotional distance. You fell in love in written texts Not in the person thats part of imagination. The very most people would not act in real life than they write.

Easy example: When you write with a Person via Email and have a phone call the first time you will exactly know what I mean: The Sound of voice, speaking style... its usually different from imagination. Keep in mind that.

at one sidei understand what you mean, but at the other hand i dont. Is there a way you can explain it in an other way? maybe i would understand it then. And thank to be helpfull this time, i appriciate it 🙂

Which part dont you understand in the explanation?

I guess that your opponent had the same intention like I have and thats the reason she blocked you.

Attention: A blocking by a girl is beyond the Last clear statement "No!"

Never ever try to ask or contact again a person who did this step. This is something that girls and women really hate, that boys/men dont understand the message.

at one sidei understand what you mean, but at the other hand i dont. Is there a way you can explain it in an other way? maybe i would understand it then. And thank to be helpfull this time, i appriciate it 🙂

Most of online exchanges are different from in face-to-face exchanges. You get less information online than in a face to face exchange. Through text for example:

- You cannot hear the voice and how it changes with mood, interest...

- You cannot see the expression of the person; their face, eyes, but also body language (hand gesture...)

- You don't know what is their behaviour in a daily life

Because of that, you might fall inlove with what you imagine that person to be like. If you have seen a beautiful picture, you might just imagine a very different person than she is in real life. What if that girl speak in a voice that you really can't stand? Or act in a mannered way? What if she doesn't like to talk at all in real life, but just by text?

@TierM38 is very right about online/distant relationship. You should be careful to many things, and it's generally very difficult to handle at least for one of the partner (often both). There are too many possible misunderstanding and disappointments that could come out of it.

Now, you said that the girl blocked you after you called her the most beautiful girl. She might have received that message many times online and just blocked you because she thought that you saying that means that you are romantically interested and she doesn't want any relationship or is already taken?
Anyway, you can't do anything about that but to respect their choice, even if it hurts to be blocked for something like that; they might have good reason not to want to do a case by case analysis and just block everyone sending romantic messages.

that last thing you say is a possibility yes. I was actually thinking shesaw me as a robot/scammer/spammer ore maybe even a pedophile with a fake ageon the profile. I do understand why she blocked me, i can find a lot of reasonsfor that.

That doesnt take away my stupidity of my first message, and how i was acting. I found her when i was lookingon my fathers phone while we were driving back home late in the evening from the city Lugo. Im not sure if we were driving in our Peugeot J5 ore in the small Renault Master campervan at the time. I dont know. It still hert, but im just tryingto stay optimistic and sarcastic.

back in my teenage, i used to crush a lot but never show it, instead, i always pretend not to and deny everything hhhhhhhh

well, probably i'm way too prideful and way too embarrassed cause we are from the same school, I can't imagine how bad my friends tease me.

and i'm sure if i didn't deny, it would work out (cause we love art, we have that common who can connect us) but yea fool me i lied to him that i don't have feeling to him 🤣

but yea it is what it is, for me it's only a funny story of why we shouldn't be prideful, and when i stop doing it, gratefully i met my current bf who really amazing , a gentleman, soft-spoken, lovable, care a lot, talented, smart, great at saving money, and ofcourse, a cutie. i kinda wish he's my last.

back in my teenage, i used to crush a lot but never show it, instead, i always pretend not to and deny everything hhhhhhhh

well, probably i'm way too prideful and way too embarrassed cause we are from the same school, I can't imagine how bad my friends tease me.

and i'm sure if i didn't deny, it would work out (cause we love art, we have that common who can connect us) but yea fool me i lied to him that i don't have feeling to him 🤣

but yea it is what it is, for me it's only a funny story of why we shouldn't be prideful, and when i stop doing it, gratefully i met my current bf who really amazing , a gentleman, soft-spoken, lovable, care a lot, talented, smart, great at saving money, and ofcourse, a cutie. i kinda wish he's my last.

sounds like a weird story. I dont understand it really. Neither do i allways understand how i did it. The only thing i do understand is that i made a big mistake. And it feels more like ive beenmaking getting rid of her, then let her stay, not what i ment to do. But to make sure im not toally falling apart, im staying optimistic, sarcastic, bad jokes making (even about long lost loves), and dreaming about what i like to dream of the last days; everything crazy i can do while oof-roading with a 4x4 Land Rover Discovery 2, and see how much times i can fall over my head with that vehicle, and then keep on driving. I dont think the car will get true any car inspection at that moment 😉

My advice is,don’t fall in love with someone 828282km away from you that you can’t meet. You will miss all the beautiful experiences. If you have the possibility to go and meet that person it’s alright (i did it once,we met up irl after 7 days of talking) but seriously,don’t fall for someone you can’t have a real life relationship with. Online relationships in my opinion sucks and they never last.

My experience with love is,personally it destroyed me because I met very bad and abusive people. So i am very scared of it and I don’t want anything to do with it. I am focusing on good friends,not love. I had not serious things like one time things and more serious things. I had experiences with very abusive and narcissistic boys. It was horrible,I don’t wanna talk about it but i had to be put in therapy,i still have nightmares.

So mare,love makes you suffer a lot but it’s a beautiful thing,love is like a drug. Just do your experiences without being scared and have fun,life is one!

My advice is,don’t fall in love with someone 828282km away from you that you can’t meet. You will miss all the beautiful experiences. If you have the possibility to go and meet that person it’s alright (i did it once,we met up irl after 7 days of talking) but seriously,don’t fall for someone you can’t have a real life relationship with. Online relationships in my opinion sucks and they never last.

My experience with love is,personally it destroyed me because I met very bad and abusive people. So i am very scared of it and I don’t want anything to do with it. I am focusing on good friends,not love. I had not serious things like one time things and more serious things. I had experiences with very abusive and narcissistic boys. It was horrible,I don’t wanna talk about it but i had to be put in therapy,i still have nightmares.

So mare,love makes you suffer a lot but it’s a beautiful thing,love is like a drug. Just do your experiences without being scared and have fun,life is one!

yes, but i dont think i could ever do that. Its very very hard. If she was 828282km away from me, then she wouldnt be in spain but in the farest end of Russia. If she lives in Barcelona, then shes probably only 800 ore 900km away from here.

yes, but i dont think i could ever do that. Its very very hard. If she was 828282km away from me, then she wouldnt be in spain but in the farest end of Russia. If she lives in Barcelona, then shes probably only 800 ore 900km away from here.

Well if you meet a beautiful girl and you have the possibility to go and see her,do it! I used dating apps

Well if you meet a beautiful girl and you have the possibility to go and see her,do it! I used dating apps

you use dating apps??????? those things normally only acceptpeople 18+. I never used it cuz im scared for robots etc. I dont have the possibility to see her, cuz im probably atleast till im 20 with my familly.

and i dont feel free to do such things.

and eeehhhhh................ i dont use apps, i only use webs, if a site wants me to download the app, then i refuse the site.

you use dating apps??????? those things normally only acceptpeople 18+. I never used it cuz im scared for robots etc. I dont have the possibility to see her, cuz im probably atleast till im 20 with my familly.

and i dont feel free to do such things.

and eeehhhhh................ i dont use apps, i only use webs, if a site wants me to download the app, then i refuse the site.

Not all of them! I used some for teenagers. And i met 3 guys. With one i had a relationship,with the other two we remained friends.

Not all of them! I used some for teenagers. And i met 3 guys. With one i had a relationship,with the other two we remained friends.

iam on 1 of such sites where they accept teenagers too, but i dont know how the hellthat site works, and the only person ive met yet there is a guy. I send him a friend request, but its nothing romantic (i am not gay). And i wonder how much im gonna be active on that site.

iam on 1 of such sites where they accept teenagers too, but i dont know how the hellthat site works, and the only person ive met yet there is a guy. I send him a friend request, but its nothing romantic (i am not gay). And i wonder how much im gonna be active on that site.

Mhm but if you can’t meet those girls maybe you should try to meet girls irl when you will have more social life? Like you should just try and talk to them? I don’t know if you are more interested in a serious relationship or in something else,but give it a try even if it will maybe be not something serious if you feel like it

Mhm but if you can’t meet those girls maybe you should try to meet girls irl when you will have more social life? Like you should just try and talk to them? I don’t know if you are more interested in a serious relationship or in something else,but give it a try even if it will maybe be not something serious if you feel like it

idk either. But ofc i will have more social contacts when im going my own way. And as i allready said; i think im gonna do a lot of crazy stuff withmy 4x4, probably im also gonna join those things where people are trying out how far they can go, on mrainy muddy days with there 4x4 driving true holes ofmud.

Anyway: we can talk about this, and it really herts me that ive lost contact with her....... but im not evensure if i want my own familly when im adult, ore if i want to stay alone. (Probably im only thinking about one thing when i totally fall in love. One of the maybe even biggest mistakes ive ever made).