❤️🥰 Valentine's Day Forum 😍🌹

I don't celebrate Valentine's day, so I can't answer some of the questions...

1️⃣ What are do's and what are don'ts for cards, gifts and dates? What would YOU like and what NOT?

You just need to keep in mind the interests of the person you want to give a gift to. For example, don't give a book to someone who doesn't read. For me, food is always a good gift (except if I don't like it or can't eat it). I already have too many belongings, my room will explode if I add more things, so it would be nice to have something I won't keep around for too long.

2️⃣ You are with a date in a restaurant and it is FULL. Your date grabs a microphone and sings a romantic song when everybody looks!! What do you do (listen, laugh, smile, hide, run or something else)?

I won't get a date. But if my date does that we might break up after💀

3️⃣ Do you only write a message for your crush or also for your closest friends?

Nobody because I don't celebrate Valentine's day.

4️⃣ What would you do if YOU get a Valentine's Day card from your best friend in school, colleague or your neighbour (the first one that comes in your head)?

I would think it's sweet and put it with all my birthday and holidays cards, then forget about it and never look at it again.

5️⃣ You get a super large teddy bear at school or work (but no idea from who). Do you take it home on your bike or in a bus or walking or car?

I have too many plushies already... And I already have a teddy bear that's half my size so I don't need another one.

Thank you very much @Annika2007, @Miss_Penpal and @Pennarossa2024!! I will read everything this evening and reply of course at that time!! 🙂 Sorry i was not online yesterday evening so i have to read a lotttt!! But this evening i have more time! 😛

Hello everybody! 🙋‍♀️

In a little bit more than two weeks is Valentine's Day!! ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰 To help everybody with super nice tips and advice we have this forum. What are your answers about these questions:

1️⃣ What are do's and what are don'ts for cards, gifts and dates? What would YOU like and what NOT?

2️⃣ You are with a date in a restaurant and it is FULL. Your date grabs a microphone and sings a romantic song when everybody looks!! What do you do (listen, laugh, smile, hide, run or something else)?

3️⃣ Do you only write a message for your crush or also for your closest friends?

4️⃣ What would you do if YOU get a Valentine's Day card from your best friend in school, colleague or your neighbour (the first one that comes in your head)?

5️⃣ You get a super large teddy bear at school or work (but no idea from who). Do you take it home on your bike or in a bus or walking or car?

If you want to say anything else what you think about Valentine's Day or if you have a nice or funny story about you or somebody else, you can share it below!! 😊😊

PS: I only tag people who gave permission (if you want to be on the list too for future forums, you can message me 🥰 ) 🙏🙏: @Pennarossa2024, @Fleurke, @NILU1234, @Etienne, @Simone724, @mayuuram, @Sarahsalah27, @Esma-Nur, @Annika2007, @Emmiiii_17_11, @Miss_Penpal, @Sabri_KC, @allstarcheer, @martutuni ⬅️ ❤️💚🩵💙💜🤗🤗

I like valentine's day a lot - just for its fun and a day to show more love than usual
1. I love cards... though i haven't received any. However i do love giving one every year to my hubby. I don't like store bought cards.... i like to create something... even if it is a scribble

2. I wish that really happens.... I will be listening with a huge grin on my face.

3. I write message to my friends only

4. I will smile and say thanks....

5. I will be super proud to get one - I will be walking home with the teddy.

I like valentine's day a lot - just for its fun and a day to show more love than usual
1. I love cards... though i haven't received any. However i do love giving one every year to my hubby. I don't like store bought cards.... i like to create something... even if it is a scribble

2. I wish that really happens.... I will be listening with a huge grin on my face.

3. I write message to my friends only

4. I will smile and say thanks....

5. I will be super proud to get one - I will be walking home with the teddy.

hii @bluerocky! thank you for posting your comment and nice to meet you on the forum!! 😊 maybe it is a very good idea that your husband reads this forum post because he can prepare a nice song to sing in the restaurant and already make a card himself!! 😛 i hope you have a super nice day on Valentines day!! 🌺❤️

hey people, i have question for u!

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner?

hey people, i have question for u!

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner?

I had to think but i guess that these are my answers @mayuuram

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

I never had a partner yet and i think it is important that he likes you. So it also depends on how many people like you. But i think the most important is that you feel comfortable and safe. I dont mean safe that he doesnt hurt you but safe that you feel comfortable to talk and how you feel. And it is important for me that he does not judge you. And looks i dont know. For me it is more important how you feel. But it also depends on when you are ready for a relationship but i am not sure when you should really be ready for it because i dont want other people to gossip about it.

2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner?

I think if you really have a date that the guy will ask for the date and determine it. Or i would think what he likes to do (for example hobbies or things that he really likes).

What about your answers @mayuuram? 😊😊🤗🤗

do you have valentine for cows?

I had to think but i guess that these are my answers @mayuuram

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

I never had a partner yet and i think it is important that he likes you. So it also depends on how many people like you. But i think the most important is that you feel comfortable and safe. I dont mean safe that he doesnt hurt you but safe that you feel comfortable to talk and how you feel. And it is important for me that he does not judge you. And looks i dont know. For me it is more important how you feel. But it also depends on when you are ready for a relationship but i am not sure when you should really be ready for it because i dont want other people to gossip about it.

2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner?

I think if you really have a date that the guy will ask for the date and determine it. Or i would think what he likes to do (for example hobbies or things that he really likes).

What about your answers @mayuuram? 😊😊🤗🤗

This is my answer:

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

as a sapiosexual, I tend to choose a partner who is not only academically smart, but also smart in making/creating connection & friendship, managing emotions, attitude, finances, and also smart in planning for the future.
Because in my opinion intelligent people tend to think more critically and can see in great detail, and even if they make mistakes and i told them this and that, their logic immediately works and they will not be stubborn, because they know that in the end it's all for their goodness.
Apart from being smart, he must look cute, because I'm quite realistic, taste is very subjective and depends on who sees it, so I don't think it's a problem if you find someone physically cute. It doesn't mean that other people are ugly, but it's just a matter of taste. In the end, it's all about compatibility, right? I just don't want to lie to myself tho
Besides that.. the aspect that I took into consideration is his family. because I believe, marriage does not only connect two individuals, but two families. Imagine if the family is problematic, say they like to take advantage people, like to gamble, use drugs, are cheaters, etc. In the end, if they are in a critical/lowest period, and need help, they will be looking for us. I mean, they are the one who make mistakes, but we must also clean their mess, nah, I don't want that.
2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner? well since it's about valentine's day, it depends on him. but lately he really like to stay at my house, he like to cook together and having intimate romantic dinner that we decorate, and after that he serenade me. I think he's imagining what it'll be like when we get married someday 😂

do you have valentine for cows?

Of course!! 🐮🐮❤️❤️❤️ The can eat romantic grass together!! 🥰🥰

but cow wouldn't have the fancy dinner one, or they will be cannibals 😏

but cow wouldn't have the fancy dinner one, or they will be cannibals 😏

😲😲 omgggg 🙄😬🙄😲

but cow wouldn't have the fancy dinner one, or they will be cannibals 😏

how much brains do you think cows have?

hey people, i have question for u!

1. in choosing partner, which quality, aspect, personality & look would you choose in someone? and why

2. if you had valentine, Where do you want to take your partner?

1. Most importantly is you can talk about EVERYTHING to each other. No need to have the same opinions, a little judging for fun doesn't hurt either (like me and my friends judge each other for fun a little) but that you feel comfortable to talk about everything to each other, in general that you're just comfortable with them. I have not yet met a person that I would talk to about everything, neither my family nor my friends, I can talk about nearly everything, but there's a border somewhere (atleast in my head). Humour is also super important.

For looks I ofc have to attracted to them. I know people always say personality over looks etc, but lets be real, if they're not my type from looks its not going to work out. They don't have to be the hottest supermodel or whatever, that's just unrealistic (would probably be annoying at some point too, lmao, imagine everyone wants to steal your partner from you), but I have to find them hot/cute. Just to say it, I wouldn't go on a date with someone if they're not my type from looks. Of course personality is just as important, but not more important in my opinion. If someone is like a best friend, you love their personality and so on, but they're just not your type at all, not saying you think they're ugly, but you don't feel any attractions toward them whatsoever, its not gonna work out forever. Also, not everyone has the same type. Saying "looks matter" doesn't mean some people won't get a partner ever, because they don't fit the "standard".

(hoping my explanation on the second part somewhat made sense. I realized not only do I talk too much in real life, I also tend to write way too much lol, I would've probably broken the word-limit on the forums thousands of times if I wouldn't have deleted half of my text everytime I write something)

2. I don't know, I'd take them somewhere I'd think they'd like to be. If they'd take me somewhere, I'd want something like a picnic, short trip, restaurant. Not too many people around, calm, thoughtful, conversations & stuff. Idk tbh

1. Most importantly is you can talk about EVERYTHING to each other. No need to have the same opinions, a little judging for fun doesn't hurt either (like me and my friends judge each other for fun a little) but that you feel comfortable to talk about everything to each other, in general that you're just comfortable with them. I have not yet met a person that I would talk to about everything, neither my family nor my friends, I can talk about nearly everything, but there's a border somewhere (atleast in my head). Humour is also super important.

For looks I ofc have to attracted to them. I know people always say personality over looks etc, but lets be real, if they're not my type from looks its not going to work out. They don't have to be the hottest supermodel or whatever, that's just unrealistic (would probably be annoying at some point too, lmao, imagine everyone wants to steal your partner from you), but I have to find them hot/cute. Just to say it, I wouldn't go on a date with someone if they're not my type from looks. Of course personality is just as important, but not more important in my opinion. If someone is like a best friend, you love their personality and so on, but they're just not your type at all, not saying you think they're ugly, but you don't feel any attractions toward them whatsoever, its not gonna work out forever. Also, not everyone has the same type. Saying "looks matter" doesn't mean some people won't get a partner ever, because they don't fit the "standard".

(hoping my explanation on the second part somewhat made sense. I realized not only do I talk too much in real life, I also tend to write way too much lol, I would've probably broken the word-limit on the forums thousands of times if I wouldn't have deleted half of my text everytime I write something)

2. I don't know, I'd take them somewhere I'd think they'd like to be. If they'd take me somewhere, I'd want something like a picnic, short trip, restaurant. Not too many people around, calm, thoughtful, conversations & stuff. Idk tbh

I ❤️❤️ what you wrote @Annika2007 because you really took the time to give nice answers and that makes it much nicer to read and know what you really think!!! Do you think that a person who you described is at your boarding school or maybe somebody else you know?

And i also think that for restaurants it does not have to be a SUPERR expensive restaurant because we cant pay that at all!!!!! But maybe you can drink bubble tea together or eat super nice mini cakes together at like a romantic place like in a park or maybe where he asked if you want to have a relationship!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I think that is maybe the nicest even!!! 🙂

I ❤️❤️ what you wrote @Annika2007 because you really took the time to give nice answers and that makes it much nicer to read and know what you really think!!! Do you think that a person who you described is at your boarding school or maybe somebody else you know?

And i also think that for restaurants it does not have to be a SUPERR expensive restaurant because we cant pay that at all!!!!! But maybe you can drink bubble tea together or eat super nice mini cakes together at like a romantic place like in a park or maybe where he asked if you want to have a relationship!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I think that is maybe the nicest even!!! 🙂

Thank you!!! No, I don't think I've met the right person for me. I haven't had a crush since like first grade or so haha. But hopefully someday I'll meet the right person! I think I've still got lotssss of time. + I maybe want to organize my life more and know more about my future before I start dating, so maybe wait a few years...... Like get a drivers licensce, a job and maybe a place to live alone first. Something like that

Hello everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I know that a lot of people dont like or maybe dont care about Valentine's Day. And that is ok of course!! 🤗🤗 Now i only wanted to say that i hope everybody has a nice day tomorrow and maybe it is for Valentine's Day or maybe it is a normal friday but i hope it will be nice and maybe super romantic perhaps!! ❤️❤️🌸🌼🌈🥰🌈🌻🌹❤️❤️

Hello everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I know that a lot of people dont like or maybe dont care about Valentine's Day. And that is ok of course!! 🤗🤗 Now i only wanted to say that i hope everybody has a nice day tomorrow and maybe it is for Valentine's Day or maybe it is a normal friday but i hope it will be nice and maybe super romantic perhaps!! ❤️❤️🌸🌼🌈🥰🌈🌻🌹❤️❤️

Happy Valentine's day to you @Yue_