Pen pale or dating ?? Tout et rien

pen pal site but if you send to most of them they don't send back. or is that a dating site? I am confused . I like to write with everyone, it doesn't matter whether someone is old or thin or poor or lives on another continent. do people look at photos before they want to write with iemabd? I read what is written in their information and then I write to them. what is your opinion about that.

I think a number of people use it as a dating Platform, but not like Tinder or Parship, more for Imagination dating.

I think a number of people use it as a dating Platform, but not like Tinder or Parship, more for Imagination dating.

Thanks for your answer 😊

In fact, this phenomenon does not only occur on this PPG application/website, but also on platforms that are actually exist for making friends (like bottles, purp, etc). I have tried many types of similar applications, and at least only PPG which is not as bad as other platforms. on other platforms it is even worse, and more daring in its violations (its including harassing & harming people)

the essence is increasingly being eroded by people who don't want to spend a little of their money to subscribe a dating apps.

i understand, friendship can potentially lead to a romantic level, but everything needs stages, steps, with a gentle & consent-filled approach. even though I am still part of generation Z, but I realize that more and more people are lacking patience in every process of life and so expect everything to be practical. and the result is like the individuals who use Penpals as their covert dating app.

In fact, enjoy the moment is fun yet peaceful, i mean, what's the rush? Why are people in such a hurry to get a partner? Logically, we cannot use a partner as an escape from the loneliness and emptiness that we experiencing. it will only end up making the relationship toxic

Day by day, it is indeed getting harder to find truly sincere people. its like 1:1.000.000.000

I think people just have a strategie like usually in call centers:
If you contact enough people one will agree and forget the others immediately.
I think thats why some people are like they are

This logic can be applied if it is in the right place & portions, otherwise it will only create uncomfortable issues and ruin the fun.

Humans are indeed given free will, but humans also have to consider, think and look at their surroundings.

I had a finnish penpal for almost 20 years, but I think this will never come back. Why?
Because the first half of the time was pre social media time. People told everything via mail each other and it was nice, because there wasnt this fast alternative instant messaging. The people were more patient.
And I think the romantic imagination of these times are past. People wont become more patient anymore.

I had a finnish penpal for almost 20 years, but I think this will never come back. Why?
Because the first half of the time was pre social media time. People told everything via mail each other and it was nice, because there wasnt this fast alternative instant messaging. The people were more patient.
And I think the romantic imagination of these times are past. People wont become more patient anymore.

yes, that's why its so sad. they mix it up for almost on everything

In fact, this phenomenon does not only occur on this PPG application/website, but also on platforms that are actually exist for making friends (like bottles, purp, etc). I have tried many types of similar applications, and at least only PPG which is not as bad as other platforms. on other platforms it is even worse, and more daring in its violations (its including harassing & harming people)

the essence is increasingly being eroded by people who don't want to spend a little of their money to subscribe a dating apps.

i understand, friendship can potentially lead to a romantic level, but everything needs stages, steps, with a gentle & consent-filled approach. even though I am still part of generation Z, but I realize that more and more people are lacking patience in every process of life and so expect everything to be practical. and the result is like the individuals who use Penpals as their covert dating app.

In fact, enjoy the moment is fun yet peaceful, i mean, what's the rush? Why are people in such a hurry to get a partner? Logically, we cannot use a partner as an escape from the loneliness and emptiness that we experiencing. it will only end up making the relationship toxic

Day by day, it is indeed getting harder to find truly sincere people. its like 1:1.000.000.000

I completely agree with you here, on this pen right, @Ettienne is keeping everything in the right direction. as well as your point of view, perhaps more can come of it through conversations, but as you say in steps, I had been talking to someone for a few days and suddenly I received an email saying you are online or you are certainly talking to others. then I feel like I am no one's property and then the contact is over for me

I really miss the early 2000s

I completely agree with you here, on this pen right, @Ettienne is keeping everything in the right direction. as well as your point of view, perhaps more can come of it through conversations, but as you say in steps, I had been talking to someone for a few days and suddenly I received an email saying you are online or you are certainly talking to others. then I feel like I am no one's property and then the contact is over for me

yes, i agree. that's why also in other forum, i said this PPG has a very large and great potential in creating a safe space for anyone without exception, as long as the filter and features is further emphasized.

I miss those times too. people can still talk to each other without ulterior motives and there was more empathy. Now most of them are busy with themselves

yes, i agree. that's why also in other forum, i said this PPG has a very large and great potential in creating a safe space for anyone without exception, as long as the filter and features is further emphasized.

If you want to talk you can always send, thank you for your advice on this, have a nice day

What is your motivation in penpaling?

What is your motivation in penpaling?

I am here because I am currently home from work due to a knee operation and I wanted to improve my English writing and I like to talk to people and know their interests

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There are a lot of people who do use this website as a dating site.
I think it’s a little frustrating when I try to make new penpals because they usually never answer or write anything in their page, so you check their friends list and they only have the opposite gender as their "friends", so they exclusively want to date and not chat with anyone. I mean I’m trying to have friends, not dating !!! But yeah there are also people that I may know here that are dating but they do answer to other people, and that’s pretty nice. But yeah anyway I’m not about to do anything, people do whatever they wish on this website.

There are a lot of people who do use this website as a dating site.
I think it’s a little frustrating when I try to make new penpals because they usually never answer or write anything in their page, so you check their friends list and they only have the opposite gender as their "friends", so they exclusively want to date and not chat with anyone. I mean I’m trying to have friends, not dating !!! But yeah there are also people that I may know here that are dating but they do answer to other people, and that’s pretty nice. But yeah anyway I’m not about to do anything, people do whatever they wish on this website.

thank for your opinion nice talking with you