Pen pale or dating ??

Wanna hear the twist? Its actually for easy cheating. The far the easier. Only desperate people who willing, that's why the cheater see it as opportunity to manipulate the whole damn story

You are wright the biggest reason for my divorce was that my ex partner cheated on me online and physically

Im so sorry to hear that 😭😭😭 i didn't meant to make u remember that

Im so sorry to hear that 😭😭😭 i didn't meant to make u remember that

Its not a problem at all i moved on but i will never return with somebody

Yes, and i wish you the best! 😇✨

People should know the environment of different social media. There may be people here who have come to make friends, but in my opinion everything should have its place and everything should not be mixed up. For example, when we go on a dating app, we shouldn share or we shouldn't hide things from ourselves because it's an environment to get to know people and develop emotional relationships with people, but the thing about Penpal is that it's an app or site. It's not dating, maybe this happens sometimes, but not often, for example here... People talk and comment with others without wanting to get to know the other person very deeply or send each other photos. , they talk to each other and participate in forums, I think it's better to have everything in its place...!

My intention is to get to know other persons very deeply.
They don`t have to tell me everything but I want to improve my emotional intelligence (E.I.).
Even though this was not my focus in the past, it (E.I.) develops wherever I am.

My intention is to get to know other persons very deeply.
They don`t have to tell me everything but I want to improve my emotional intelligence (E.I.).
Even though this was not my focus in the past, it (E.I.) develops wherever I am.

Yea it’s annoying,many times during the 4 years I’ve been here sometimes I receive some messages like “do you want to be my girlfriend?” TOTALLY RANDOMLY from people without a pfp often

I think everybody should do what they want but also that they respect what the others want each time. So if some persons date and both want that it is ok of course. Because some persons like @martutuni DID find a relationship here and @Etienne said in the interview it happened before several times. That is of course very nice. 🥰❤️ I think it is just what both persons want and that you are treating everybody nice and respectfully. 🙂

For me I dont want to date. Because if you talk to them on a date they talk back 😵‍💫😵‍💫 and i dont want a relationship now. 😬😬 I like the forums the most and there you can write things and everybody is just nice always. It is DIFFERENT from real life and at school everybody always judges and they think everything is weak. 🙁 So here you can write things and make friends and everybody is nice about it. I like that a lot. 😊😊

I think everybody should do what they want but also that they respect what the others want each time. So if some persons date and both want that it is ok of course. Because some persons like @martutuni DID find a relationship here and @Etienne said in the interview it happened before several times. That is of course very nice. 🥰❤️ I think it is just what both persons want and that you are treating everybody nice and respectfully. 🙂

For me I dont want to date. Because if you talk to them on a date they talk back 😵‍💫😵‍💫 and i dont want a relationship now. 😬😬 I like the forums the most and there you can write things and everybody is just nice always. It is DIFFERENT from real life and at school everybody always judges and they think everything is weak. 🙁 So here you can write things and make friends and everybody is nice about it. I like that a lot. 😊😊

Oh thanks for bringing it up! I think the difference lies in wether you look fo rit or not. So like, your first intention. When my boyfriend and i first met, it was super friendly and not at all flirty, with time we became closer and finally fell for each other because we realised we had a really nice conection. But there has also been people in my DMs trying to flirt or saying nasty stuff up-front and that is really disgusting! Like, this is not a dating app so what makes one think im looking for a relationship here?
Maybe people need to realise that most of us would eventually fall in love or take another kind of liking in each other if they weren't forcing flirty interactions in the people theyre interested in ahaha

Wow really ??? That’s disturbing… Like they don’t even introduce themselves and they just announce it like that ??? That’s insane…

Oh thanks for bringing it up! I think the difference lies in wether you look fo rit or not. So like, your first intention. When my boyfriend and i first met, it was super friendly and not at all flirty, with time we became closer and finally fell for each other because we realised we had a really nice conection. But there has also been people in my DMs trying to flirt or saying nasty stuff up-front and that is really disgusting! Like, this is not a dating app so what makes one think im looking for a relationship here?
Maybe people need to realise that most of us would eventually fall in love or take another kind of liking in each other if they weren't forcing flirty interactions in the people theyre interested in ahaha

yes i agree, that's what i intentionally said earlier and we concern about. remembering that it's originally a penpals, to write or interaction to friends. but if you want more, make sure you both want it, use the right approaches, ask for consent and no forcing or act like it's originally made for dating only. just like what you guys did it, with steps and right approaches ☺️

i have no skeptical or negative thought about digital or long distance relationship that exist cause of this apps/web, cause actually the concern not about it.

Oh thanks for bringing it up! I think the difference lies in wether you look fo rit or not. So like, your first intention. When my boyfriend and i first met, it was super friendly and not at all flirty, with time we became closer and finally fell for each other because we realised we had a really nice conection. But there has also been people in my DMs trying to flirt or saying nasty stuff up-front and that is really disgusting! Like, this is not a dating app so what makes one think im looking for a relationship here?
Maybe people need to realise that most of us would eventually fall in love or take another kind of liking in each other if they weren't forcing flirty interactions in the people theyre interested in ahaha

Oh sorry i tried to support it not attack it!! Because i think it is nice and that is what i tried to say. 🙁 And you mentioned it on another forum so i thought you were ok with it that people know that there are also times that something nice comes out of it. That is all.

Oh sorry i tried to support it not attack it!! Because i think it is nice and that is what i tried to say. 🙁 And you mentioned it on another forum so i thought you were ok with it that people know that there are also times that something nice comes out of it. That is all.

Dont worry!! i dont think you attacked it, im totally fine with you bringing it up! 🥰💗 its a nice example of when things are done the correct way ahah

Oh ok i thought you were maybe angry! 😛 I think that people can do anything here as long as it is nice and respectfully. And that you always first know what the other person wants. And if both want a relationship, that is very nice! And if other things like friendship, that is also cool. Just what both want and that way there is never something wrong. I just believe that. 🙂

Maybe a different point of view: Be happy that somebody is interested in you..

Maybe a different point of view: Be happy that somebody is interested in you..

unwanted interest is equal to nothing and sometimes even worse

Maybe a different point of view: Be happy that somebody is interested in you..

yes it is actually sweet to have someone crushing on us. but not untill they start bothering or even harassing, stalking, do harmful thing ☺️ sometimes being assertive keeps us away from something more serious