Definition of Tolerance:
the ability or willingness to tolerate the existence of opinions or behaviour that one dislikes or disagrees with:
OR
the capacity to endure continued subjection to something such as a drug or environmental conditions without adverse reaction
Please read that carefully. Does it say "the requirement to love, like, or absolutely accept something based on what is politically correct?"
No, it does not.
I have to hear people and see things everyday that I don't like, or even offend me. But that's whole point of freedom of speech. What's worse? The people who should know better, the people who spent years marching in the streets... who spent years being the victims of intolerance and bullshit laws that prevented them from living their lives or just being themselves, are the same people cheering on laws that silence people they don't agree with. The media is full of scare stories about the resurgence of the far right. This is to be expected when you silence people when speak out, which what a healthy democracy should encourage. The UK is prime example of what happens when we try to silence people based solely on the things they say.
LGBTQ? Fine... Fuck limits in your life and be free. Want me to call you Charlene instead of Charles? Fine. But I'm sorry (not really), chromosomes don't lie... If you were to read my mind, I'll still see you as a man. Is that hate? Or me simply disagreeing with someone's worldview? You make that decision.
As far toxic goes? If you see someone disagreeing with you on something as "toxic," then you are in for miserable existence. I'm not staying quiet about something I disagree with, I'll present it nicely, I'll make my point and that's it. Ban me if you want... get my account deleted if you must. Melting down because someone simply says "I don't agree" says the following about you....
"I have high opinions about things I don't fully understand and cannot defend rationally, so I will scream and carry on because the volume of my voice and emotions will prove that I'm right,"
And before anyone gets butthurt... Left, right or center... if you can't accept rational disagreements without having a hissy fit. You need therapy.
Now excuse me... I have an irritable mom-to-be to take the doctors this morning....