This app's getting so toxic omd

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You just described the definition of no freedom of speech 😃

Your freedom ends where another person's freedom begins. And hatred is precisely a violation of another person's freedom.



That's sad. I stopped being friends with such people, and I can say it was much easier. They are not bad bad people, but after i started notice their hatred

Your freedom ends where another person's freedom begins. And hatred is precisely a violation of another person's freedom.

This is the mainstream definition but it's mostly bs for a very simple reason: if an individual/group complains loudly enough that they're victims of hatred and/or feel offended by something/someone, they automatically receive more "rights" than those who don't. It's a vicious cycle in which certain groups are protected while others aren't.

For example, whether in France or the UK, you can't voice general criticism of immigration without being accused of racism or xenophobia. There have been countless cases of actual hate speech or even physical assaults against native European populations that were completely dismissed because these people are deemed incapable of being victims. Freedom of speech exists only for some, and justice system routinely applies double standards.

You (we) don't live in the democracy that we think we have. The fact that a large portion of the population (although not necessarily the majority) still believes this is bordering on dystopian.

I got a problem with someone that eventually got toxic over a situation we had yesterday. I thought the situation to be resolved, but she would always come back to it over and over again, so I said to myself "enough is enough", especially after a bad night. I deemed the person toxic, blocked her, reported her and deleted the conversation. @Etienne will probably read my report eventually.

I got a problem with someone that eventually got toxic over a situation we had yesterday. I thought the situation to be resolved, but she would always come back to it over and over again, so I said to myself "enough is enough", especially after a bad night. I deemed the person toxic, blocked her, reported her and deleted the conversation. @Etienne will probably read my report eventually.

Dude, if you think that homophobes must be tolerated, then you're the problem. And @Etienne, you can't disagree with my lines, thats a fact with no exception

@PinkiePie Sorry, but I was not even talking about this.

@PinkiePie Sorry, but I was not even talking about this.

I write here mainly only about this. What else could irritate you? So you can't get away from it.

Dude, if you think that homophobes must be tolerated, then you're the problem. And @Etienne, you can't disagree with my lines, thats a fact with no exception

I don't think he was referring to the latest messages. He jumped in based on the topic title.


You're missing my point, which wasn't about me agreeing or disagreeing with your premise. I'm just stressing that this theoretically sound concept is in fact very subjective.

I'll give you another example, based on homophobia, since you put the subject on the table. You said:

Your freedom ends where another person's freedom begins. And hatred is precisely a violation of another person's freedom.

Certain religions consider homophobia to be a sin. Based on their sacred books, followers of said religions have a right (if not an obligation) to oppose homosexuality. If you oppose this commandment, you're therefore rejecting their religion, which also happens to be a fundamental right in all Western countries. Thus you must either take a side or keep pretending everything's fine until one day it isn't.

Again, this isn't about my personal opinion on the matter, just stating that this virtuous tolerance game is rigged and only works in elementary school books.

My God, teens these days!! I was talking about a personal situation that occurred between another user and me, and it got toxic because the theme of this conversation is how toxic this app has become. I was not even talking about homophobia or anything you've been discussing with the others.


I am not going to argue with you all day, young lady, but this situation is comical and sad at the same time if you spend your days spitting anger at people like this - especially on a site where you're supposed to create bonds with others.


And for your information, I respect transgender people; they respect me, I respect them.

I don't think he was referring to the latest messages. He jumped in based on the topic title.


You're missing my point, which wasn't about me agreeing or disagreeing with your premise. I'm just stressing that this theoretically sound concept is in fact very subjective.

I'll give you another example, based on homophobia, since you put the subject on the table. You said:

Certain religions consider homophobia to be a sin. Based on their sacred books, followers of said religions have a right (if not an obligation) to oppose homosexuality. If you oppose this commandment, you're therefore rejecting their religion, which also happens to be a fundamental right in all Western countries. Thus you must either take a side or keep pretending everything's fine until one day it isn't.

Again, this isn't about my personal opinion on the matter, just stating that this virtuous tolerance game is rigged and only works in elementary school books.

What does religion have to do with this? Why are you changing the subject to religion? You can beat women in religions, too, if you interpret the text in a certain way.



Dude, teens have just gotten good at putting rude people in their place, and it's driving you crazy. Even online, you have to be accountable for your hateful words toward people who haven't done anything personally wrong to you.

No you're not driving me crazy. Angry teens are far from impressing me.


Anyway, have a good night!

No you're not driving me crazy. Angry teens are far from impressing me.


Anyway, have a good night!

So you, a 38-year-old man, are jumping into a conversation between two people asking to block me and still replying to my messages? I don't think you're indifferent.

It's so amusing and ridiculous to read that people from relatively normal and safe countries (compared to the whole world) complain about homophobia. What exactly do you want except ranting about the thing which is almost non-existent in the West? Where in Europe do you see the state-fueled homophobia? In Europe you can be gay, lesbian or any 'pronoun' you want and nobody would kill you or fire you from your job or anything else because of that. You even harrass us with your gay prides which creates blokades in the cities and unuseful spend tax money for securing your carnival. I agree there are indivudals and groups who are homophobes, but we have to be fair and say that currently the much bigger problem is the heterophobia. When you say that you disagree with lgbt ideology you are immediately labeled as backward, close minded and hater. It's funny because if we want to 'accept the differences' then we must accept that people disagree with lgbt ideology without excluding them. That has already happened to a person here, when he said he disagrees with lgbt ideology, some 'open minded fighters for freedom' attacked him which showed a huge level of hipocricy.


I feel something else should be clarified: I heavily oppose lgbt ideology. Does that mean I want to kill all non-heterosexuals? Does that means I think they aren't equally valued as us? Of course not. In fact, if I see that somebody harrass those people, I will probably interfere. One of the main reasons why normal heterosexuals feel iritated is because lgbt people often base their whole identity on that thing and that becomes the only topic of their conversations.

It's so amusing and ridiculous to read that people from relatively normal and safe countries (compared to the whole world) complain about homophobia. What exactly do you want except ranting about the thing which is almost non-existent in the West? Where in Europe do you see the state-fueled homophobia? In Europe you can be gay, lesbian or any 'pronoun' you want and nobody would kill you or fire you from your job or anything else because of that. You even harrass us with your gay prides which creates blokades in the cities and unuseful spend tax money for securing your carnival. I agree there are indivudals and groups who are homophobes, but we have to be fair and say that currently the much bigger problem is the heterophobia. When you say that you disagree with lgbt ideology you are immediately labeled as backward, close minded and hater. It's funny because if we want to 'accept the differences' then we must accept that people disagree with lgbt ideology without excluding them. That has already happened to a person here, when he said he disagrees with lgbt ideology, some 'open minded fighters for freedom' attacked him which showed a huge level of hipocricy.


I feel something else should be clarified: I heavily oppose lgbt ideology. Does that mean I want to kill all non-heterosexuals? Does that means I think they aren't equally valued as us? Of course not. In fact, if I see that somebody harrass those people, I will probably interfere. One of the main reasons why normal heterosexuals feel iritated is because lgbt people often base their whole identity on that thing and that becomes the only topic of their conversations.

I oppose all forms of homophobia and sexual discrimination. I support full freedom regarding relationships and sexuality. However, I do not subscribe to LGBT theories and ideologies. Such theories are in total conflict with my concept of freedom. These ideologies impose labels on people. I detest labels. Do I have the right to express my opinions, or must I be killed because I do not align with the LGBT world?

I oppose all forms of homophobia and sexual discrimination. I support full freedom regarding relationships and sexuality. However, I do not subscribe to LGBT theories and ideologies. Such theories are in total conflict with my concept of freedom. These ideologies impose labels on people. I detest labels. Do I have the right to express my opinions, or must I be killed because I do not align with the LGBT world?

Just out of interest: What exactly do you mean with "LGBT theories and ideologies"?

Do I have the right to express my opinions, or must I be killed because I do not align with the LGBT world?

Cureently you have the right, although I won't be surprised if they start prosecuting us in the future because we refuse to agree with them.


@PinkiePie, please don't get my messages as a personal attack on you, I wish you all the best, I just wanted to offer a different perspective.

Just out of interest: What exactly do you mean with "LGBT theories and ideologies"?

LGBT theory: an ideology that compels every person to sign up to a category. Gay, lesbian, trans, and hundreds of other categories. I recognize only human beings who are free to love whomever they wish and to have sex with whomever they wish. Free to change their minds, their names, and their sex. Without any need to belong to a category or to pin a label on their clothes. Free from all conformity and every cage.

LGBT theory: an ideology that compels every person to sign up to a category. Gay, lesbian, trans, and hundreds of other categories. I recognize only human beings who are free to love whomever they wish and to have sex with whomever they wish. Free to change their minds, their names, and their sex. Without any need to belong to a category or to pin a label on their clothes. Free from all conformity and every cage.

I think I understand your point. However, I’m not sure I would consider this an LGBT theory or ideology. For example, when someone says “I am heterosexual”, isn’t that also a category or a label, just like when someone says they are gay, lesbian, or trans? To me, it can simply be a way of expressing one’s experiences or who someone is attracted to

Also, labels exist in many other areas of life, not only within the LGBT community. People use words to describe their personality, interests, professions, beliefs or many other aspects of themselves

For me it is really simple because i think ANYYY hate or phobic about people is weird if it is because how people are unless they are hateful, racist or discriminate. So maybe there is freedom of speech what @Etienne said BUTTT we can choose what we THINK if people say things that maybe are allowed but are super hateful. So in that case i choose that im NOTTT with them. If people cant be open and accept how people are then im not open for them back. And i think that is allowed bc they choose their way BUTTT i can choose my way. I think u should always accept people how they are. They dont bother anybody with how they are and it is their choice like for everybody else they can make their choices.


And about labels: i dont mind them if people use them for themselves or EVEN for others. But only if they mean it in a good way. So if for example somebody says that she is a lesbian or that he is a Christian or that she is a vegetarian. That is not wrong and it just says some things that they maybe mean with it. BUTTTT the labels dont mean that u cant be yourself. So for example im Buddhist BUTTTT what we believe of Buddhism can be different than other people. But still im Buddhist and that is allowed i think even if there are differences. I think that is what mariee @Txya also means but im not sure. In any case it is what i believe.