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The word love is the most relevant word, I think. People call many different emotions and experiemced "love". But there is no blame, as everybody goes their own path with their own experiences and own definitions of love.
A few humans are worthy of being immersed in True Divine Love. Most of us are selected to be played by human_to_human love to reach something or somewhere on our path in this life.
When we love someone, WE "need" them. They DO NOT need us. Especially when there is a divine purpose in our love.
So, we'd better use the suffering for good.
When we suffer from missing our divine_guided beloved ones, from being far from them, from knowing that we may never meet them in this world, from feeling that we do not "deserve" them, from watching other people spending time with them which will be our wish for ever, from knowing that this much of emotions in our love is a one way road, from sensing that we are tolerating it all alone, ... it is better to use all of these for "that divine porpuse".
We should be grateful for having our beloved's energy in our life, they care about us, thay help us, they guide us in out difficult time... if we know this caring is the True definition of Love, we wouldn't think we are on a one_way road.
We should appreciate their care and be always in joy by keeping that in mind. No matter what emotion life brings to us, we should remember they and their energies are supporting us and be blissful and hopeful because of that.
In fact, this is how it works to take us from an earthly pure love to the divine love. This is exactly how God treats us, as our love(r)...


