🥰🪄 Attractiveness 🫶❣️

Thankssss Maori Linnn!!! 😊😊🥰 Before i want to tell my answers i really want to tell what happened today AFTER school because i talked with two other friends about it and i dont mean MAFS but the study of the faces!!! 😛 😛 And they said DUhhhh so i asked why and they said as joke are u stupid??

So they asked from our class of each person the face if from all who are prettier guys or girls. And i said girls BUTTT i think it does NOT count because some are your friends. And they said: ok what about random so we did that too from others in school and still i think now they are right because mostly it was girls and they thought that TOO. But that does not mean u want a relationship with another girl so i dont mean that but just generally i thought the faces were prettier and they thought that also. 🙄🙄 So maybe the study is right but it can also be that we are more used to say for example to a friend if she looks pretty it is not a problem to say that. But it would be SUPER WEIRD if u say that to a guy just like that. And she also asked of one guy to rate from face but i did not want to do that and i think @mayuuram understands why. But mostly i think from girls faces that the study is maybe true now.

Sorryyy for the long post but i wanted to share it and im curious if maybe u also think that if u are honest about it like for example of your friends or people u know. 🙂

Ok these are my answers to the questions (ALSOO the new ones) 😛 😛

1️⃣ What do you think is attractive of LOOKS of a person that u like? For example long or short hair or bold, height, skin colour, older looking or younger or having baird or moustache, tattoos, piercings, jewelry, make up style, type of clothing or ANYTHING that u think is pretty.

I think @Korisnik is right about that looks are ALSO important but i think also that it does not mean that u must have a type. So for example if i watch a series i can think like somebody is nice but than that person can look really different than another person that looks special to u. But still some things are that it is nicer if the guy is taller than me but that is not really difficult. 😬😬🙄🙄🙄 I think it is nice if a person can make u calm and feel secure and i know that is mostly about character but i also think it is about how he looks. So u feel from only the look already that he respects u and that u can feel ok. Im not sure if others understand what i mean but already from a look u can tell that a bit. 🤭🫣🫣 Im not a big fan if a guy is super flashyyy with a LOTTT of jewelry or has clothes with super big brand logos or only wears things that are expensive and that he looks down if u just wear from H&M for example or other more normal clothes. And also it is nice if he has good hygene and u see he takes good care of himself. Sorryy if is super long list!!! 😵‍💫🤐

2️⃣ What do you think is attractive of CHARACTER and how that person is from feelings and as person? So for example: super confident or shy or caring or like leader, being very smart or social or other things?

I think the most important for me is that u feel safe and calm with him. And i dont only mean safe like he does not hurt u in any way but also that for example he does not joke or gossip about u or that if u maybe suggest something that he only turns it down and thinks it is stupid. So that he respects u and that u can also be urself and it is ok. 🙂 I think those are the most important things. And of course that he can be trusted and faithful so if u give ur ❤️ to him that he does not break it when he can and does not care at all.

3️⃣ What do u think is most important: looks or character? And is it enough for relationship that u have ONLY attractiveness of looks or character or only both?

I think character is the MOST important and i know maybe it is super weird but i think that also u can see little bit from that in the look. Because if u are with a person u also have a feeling how he is as person EVENNN if it is only from the look still u have that strong feeling if u know how he is.

4️⃣ Are u surprised about the study above of the men and women faces and of MAFS that lot of women turned the guys down because of the looks but not the other way??

No not anymore of the men and women faces but i wrote that already above this post but at first YESSS but now no not anymore!! And about MAFS still yes because i expected it more from men that they would turn down their bride ONLY because of the look but it is mostly the other way around. But maybe it is also because the men were too much liking the bride so that they wanted to keep the relationship and the brides doubted it more.

➡️ Have you ever gone out of your way or liked someone who is not even your typee??? (question from @Nishu)

If u mean really relationship then NOO!!!!!! I feel not ready for that now even if others think it is stupid and u should already have at least one relationship now or maybe more but i just feel that way now. And if u mean like mini crush from series or other things than maybe yes but that is different that u would really have a relationship because that would be weird because of some things. So YES and also NO!!!!!! Also curious what ur answer is Nidhi!!!

➡️ How would you tell someone that they are attractive, would you tell them right on the spot or keep to for yourself? (question from @Whatsername_)

Keep for myself!!!!!!!! Or maybe tell only my best friend and she must swear she keeps mouth shut or i die immediate because of it!!!!!!!!!! ☠️🆘❌🙅‍♀️

Abbyy @Whatsername_ what about u??

➡️ What does it mean for you to consider someone attractive? Is that different from having an objective crush? Or not? (Question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch)

Im not sure if i understand the question. So maybe if i see somebody i can say like ow she is pretty as compliment but i mean it. But if it is a guy that i think is handsome i prefer keep it to myself and keeping inside and NOTTT telling it to anybody. And if u have a crush than i think it is more than just saying somebody is attractive because in that case u have more romantic feeling about that person. Im not sure if u mean that?? Maybe @Colin_Der_Backfisch that u can explain it because im not sure what u mean.

Ok these are my answers to the questions (ALSOO the new ones) 😛 😛

1️⃣ What do you think is attractive of LOOKS of a person that u like? For example long or short hair or bold, height, skin colour, older looking or younger or having baird or moustache, tattoos, piercings, jewelry, make up style, type of clothing or ANYTHING that u think is pretty.

I think @Korisnik is right about that looks are ALSO important but i think also that it does not mean that u must have a type. So for example if i watch a series i can think like somebody is nice but than that person can look really different than another person that looks special to u. But still some things are that it is nicer if the guy is taller than me but that is not really difficult. 😬😬🙄🙄🙄 I think it is nice if a person can make u calm and feel secure and i know that is mostly about character but i also think it is about how he looks. So u feel from only the look already that he respects u and that u can feel ok. Im not sure if others understand what i mean but already from a look u can tell that a bit. 🤭🫣🫣 Im not a big fan if a guy is super flashyyy with a LOTTT of jewelry or has clothes with super big brand logos or only wears things that are expensive and that he looks down if u just wear from H&M for example or other more normal clothes. And also it is nice if he has good hygene and u see he takes good care of himself. Sorryy if is super long list!!! 😵‍💫🤐

2️⃣ What do you think is attractive of CHARACTER and how that person is from feelings and as person? So for example: super confident or shy or caring or like leader, being very smart or social or other things?

I think the most important for me is that u feel safe and calm with him. And i dont only mean safe like he does not hurt u in any way but also that for example he does not joke or gossip about u or that if u maybe suggest something that he only turns it down and thinks it is stupid. So that he respects u and that u can also be urself and it is ok. 🙂 I think those are the most important things. And of course that he can be trusted and faithful so if u give ur ❤️ to him that he does not break it when he can and does not care at all.

3️⃣ What do u think is most important: looks or character? And is it enough for relationship that u have ONLY attractiveness of looks or character or only both?

I think character is the MOST important and i know maybe it is super weird but i think that also u can see little bit from that in the look. Because if u are with a person u also have a feeling how he is as person EVENNN if it is only from the look still u have that strong feeling if u know how he is.

4️⃣ Are u surprised about the study above of the men and women faces and of MAFS that lot of women turned the guys down because of the looks but not the other way??

No not anymore of the men and women faces but i wrote that already above this post but at first YESSS but now no not anymore!! And about MAFS still yes because i expected it more from men that they would turn down their bride ONLY because of the look but it is mostly the other way around. But maybe it is also because the men were too much liking the bride so that they wanted to keep the relationship and the brides doubted it more.

➡️ Have you ever gone out of your way or liked someone who is not even your typee??? (question from @Nishu)

If u mean really relationship then NOO!!!!!! I feel not ready for that now even if others think it is stupid and u should already have at least one relationship now or maybe more but i just feel that way now. And if u mean like mini crush from series or other things than maybe yes but that is different that u would really have a relationship because that would be weird because of some things. So YES and also NO!!!!!! Also curious what ur answer is Nidhi!!!

➡️ How would you tell someone that they are attractive, would you tell them right on the spot or keep to for yourself? (question from @Whatsername_)

Keep for myself!!!!!!!! Or maybe tell only my best friend and she must swear she keeps mouth shut or i die immediate because of it!!!!!!!!!! ☠️🆘❌🙅‍♀️

Abbyy @Whatsername_ what about u??

➡️ What does it mean for you to consider someone attractive? Is that different from having an objective crush? Or not? (Question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch)

Im not sure if i understand the question. So maybe if i see somebody i can say like ow she is pretty as compliment but i mean it. But if it is a guy that i think is handsome i prefer keep it to myself and keeping inside and NOTTT telling it to anybody. And if u have a crush than i think it is more than just saying somebody is attractive because in that case u have more romantic feeling about that person. Im not sure if u mean that?? Maybe @Colin_Der_Backfisch that u can explain it because im not sure what u mean.

That's exactly what I meant! 🙂

Ok these are my answers to the questions (ALSOO the new ones) 😛 😛

1️⃣ What do you think is attractive of LOOKS of a person that u like? For example long or short hair or bold, height, skin colour, older looking or younger or having baird or moustache, tattoos, piercings, jewelry, make up style, type of clothing or ANYTHING that u think is pretty.

I think @Korisnik is right about that looks are ALSO important but i think also that it does not mean that u must have a type. So for example if i watch a series i can think like somebody is nice but than that person can look really different than another person that looks special to u. But still some things are that it is nicer if the guy is taller than me but that is not really difficult. 😬😬🙄🙄🙄 I think it is nice if a person can make u calm and feel secure and i know that is mostly about character but i also think it is about how he looks. So u feel from only the look already that he respects u and that u can feel ok. Im not sure if others understand what i mean but already from a look u can tell that a bit. 🤭🫣🫣 Im not a big fan if a guy is super flashyyy with a LOTTT of jewelry or has clothes with super big brand logos or only wears things that are expensive and that he looks down if u just wear from H&M for example or other more normal clothes. And also it is nice if he has good hygene and u see he takes good care of himself. Sorryy if is super long list!!! 😵‍💫🤐

2️⃣ What do you think is attractive of CHARACTER and how that person is from feelings and as person? So for example: super confident or shy or caring or like leader, being very smart or social or other things?

I think the most important for me is that u feel safe and calm with him. And i dont only mean safe like he does not hurt u in any way but also that for example he does not joke or gossip about u or that if u maybe suggest something that he only turns it down and thinks it is stupid. So that he respects u and that u can also be urself and it is ok. 🙂 I think those are the most important things. And of course that he can be trusted and faithful so if u give ur ❤️ to him that he does not break it when he can and does not care at all.

3️⃣ What do u think is most important: looks or character? And is it enough for relationship that u have ONLY attractiveness of looks or character or only both?

I think character is the MOST important and i know maybe it is super weird but i think that also u can see little bit from that in the look. Because if u are with a person u also have a feeling how he is as person EVENNN if it is only from the look still u have that strong feeling if u know how he is.

4️⃣ Are u surprised about the study above of the men and women faces and of MAFS that lot of women turned the guys down because of the looks but not the other way??

No not anymore of the men and women faces but i wrote that already above this post but at first YESSS but now no not anymore!! And about MAFS still yes because i expected it more from men that they would turn down their bride ONLY because of the look but it is mostly the other way around. But maybe it is also because the men were too much liking the bride so that they wanted to keep the relationship and the brides doubted it more.

➡️ Have you ever gone out of your way or liked someone who is not even your typee??? (question from @Nishu)

If u mean really relationship then NOO!!!!!! I feel not ready for that now even if others think it is stupid and u should already have at least one relationship now or maybe more but i just feel that way now. And if u mean like mini crush from series or other things than maybe yes but that is different that u would really have a relationship because that would be weird because of some things. So YES and also NO!!!!!! Also curious what ur answer is Nidhi!!!

➡️ How would you tell someone that they are attractive, would you tell them right on the spot or keep to for yourself? (question from @Whatsername_)

Keep for myself!!!!!!!! Or maybe tell only my best friend and she must swear she keeps mouth shut or i die immediate because of it!!!!!!!!!! ☠️🆘❌🙅‍♀️

Abbyy @Whatsername_ what about u??

➡️ What does it mean for you to consider someone attractive? Is that different from having an objective crush? Or not? (Question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch)

Yes.. I should say ...yes. I see women I'm attracted to or find attractive almost everyday. But I never go any further than finding them attractive.

Im not sure if i understand the question. So maybe if i see somebody i can say like ow she is pretty as compliment but i mean it. But if it is a guy that i think is handsome i prefer keep it to myself and keeping inside and NOTTT telling it to anybody. And if u have a crush than i think it is more than just saying somebody is attractive because in that case u have more romantic feeling about that person. Im not sure if u mean that?? Maybe @Colin_Der_Backfisch that u can explain it because im not sure what u meame

yeah. It went something like this

Me: what it is?

Her: oh, I'm fine, how are you?

Me: not as fine as you.

That was a good month for me. I got two numbers with call backs using that line.

➡️ Have you ever gone out of your way or liked someone who is not even your typee??? (question from @Nishu

Yeah. When i was like, 14, and I quickly learned...

1) never punch above your weight

2) crushing on someone who is unattainable or unavailable is a waste of time and effort

3) stay in your comfort zone when it comes to romance and dating, unless you're committed to major changes in your life.

That's exactly what I meant! 🙂

Owww hahah good to know that!!! 😛 😛 I was a bit confused but i thought that is what i would maybe mean so just replied about that!! 🙂

yeah. It went something like this

Me: what it is?

Her: oh, I'm fine, how are you?

Me: not as fine as you.

That was a good month for me. I got two numbers with call backs using that line.

I know lot of people do that but i have NO IDEA how u can say that without dying in the floor right that moment from fear what they say and do!!! 😵‍💫😵‍💫🤐☠️ I think it is really brave but i cant do that and ALSO be still alive no way!!! 🙅‍♀️

Yeah. When i was like, 14, and I quickly learned...

1) never punch above your weight

2) crushing on someone who is unattainable or unavailable is a waste of time and effort

3) stay in your comfort zone when it comes to romance and dating, unless you're committed to major changes in your life.

Can u maybe tell what happened or is maybe super private? Sorryyy if i ask too privately now!!! 🫢🫣🤐🤐

Owww hahah good to know that!!! 😛 😛 I was a bit confused but i thought that is what i would maybe mean so just replied about that!! 🙂

I know lot of people do that but i have NO IDEA how u can say that without dying in the floor right that moment from fear what they say and do!!! 😵‍💫😵‍💫🤐☠️ I think it is really brave but i cant do that and ALSO be still alive no way!!! 🙅‍♀️

Can u maybe tell what happened or is maybe super private? Sorryyy if i ask too privately now!!! 🫢🫣🤐

Haha ok.. it's not private.

1) I guess you could call this particular girl a scene queen. I thought that the geeky nice guy persona would win her heart.

It didn't. Years from now, people will write sagas about how bad I crashed and burned and how they couldn't identify the remains.

2) part of this is the Jessie's Girl phenomenon.

Also, if someone isn't into you, then they are unlikely going to change their minds, so why waste your time? Unless you're a stalker or simp.

3) As I said, I have a type, and I've found that relationships with ladies that have similar intrests tend to make more successful partnerships. Trying to date someone different usually doesn't work for me.

Example. I cannot tell you how many times i get this..

*you'll really like my mom, aunt, etc. (Uhmmm weird and I probably won't)

*My sister is coming to visit for a couple weeks. Stop by and I'll introduce you. (Last sister had three kids, was divorced twice and on public assistance.. she also weighed 136 kg. No.)

*(friend's wives usually say this one). Remember Katie at Bob's party? She thinks you're cute! (No, I don't remember Katie.... also, why didn't she approach me at the party? I wasn't with anyone. I graduated HS in 1993, I guess some of us never left).

Mad Rizz...

To be fair, I was acquainted enough with the ladies in question to know they would at least find it funny.

I mean what's the worst that will happen? People laugh at you? Leaning to laugh at yourself is part of my MCE.

Never punch above your weight is terrible advise

Never punch above your weight is terrible advise

It's not advice. It's simply my own mantra. If you can hit heavy.. go for it.

And honestly....if she just isn't in your league and has no interest in you, what's the point of the pursuit? Plenty of other fish...right?

In my opinion 'leagues' are immature. But I get your point, people tend to be afraid of approaching someone. To know if she is interested or no, you have to try. If she rejects, then activate plenty of fish mindset but not forcing it just to have a girlfriend.

Mad Rizz...

To be fair, I was acquainted enough with the ladies in question to know they would at least find it funny.

I mean what's the worst that will happen? People laugh at you? Leaning to laugh at yourself is part of my MCE.

In my opinion 'leagues' are immature. But I get your point, people tend to be afraid of approaching someone. To know if she is interested or no, you have to try. If she rejects, then activate plenty of fish mindset but not forcing it just to have a girlfriend.

I know what u both say because others also say that but i just feel that way. 🙄🙄🤐 And i know that normally the guy asks if u want be on a date but then u get the SAMEEE feeling if that happens suddenly and sometimes u are not even sure if is really that he asks u on a date or just to for example chill somewhere. For example a guy from school but NOTTT from my class asked if i wanted to go the city with him alone and spend time if that is nice but he didnt say it was a date but i talked with others and they said that ISSS a date because u go alone and that is what he thinks even if he does not say it. And if they ask it suddenly and u dont expect that u can also feel like frozen or like u are a zombieee!!! 😬😬I also have the same feeling if u give a presentation in our class or for group of people because u have the same feeling like u feel shaky in ur legs and belly and not comfortable at all. But i think MOREE people have that even if they dont say it!!

@Colin_Der_Backfisch can i maybe ask u do u NOW have a crush or gf and wbu Abbyy @Whatsername_? Btw i really like what u wrote in 2 Abby that is true but u know already if they make those jokes with friends for example. 🙄🙄

Again, just like looks, each person's personality can shine through in their own way. Some people seem attractive with their shyness, like a cute one, while others have a very strong aura, a leadership spirit, an alpha personality, and a cool way of thinking that i respect.

Everyone has their own personality traits that are attractive, as long as they have confidence.

And honestly, as I interact with and make friend with many people, I've been able to adapt and accept people with different personalities and vibes. As long as they aren't hurtful or toxic (including toxic positivity), I can still see their attractive side.

I really like what u wrote here and also if people are both strong or shy than BOTHH can be attractive and not only one. 🙂

And @chiikawaattack Maorii Linnn i really like ur now profile photo!!! Really awesome!!! 😊😊🤗

1️⃣ What do you think is attractive of LOOKS of a person that u like? For example long or short hair or bold, height, skin colour, older looking or younger or having baird or moustache, tattoos, piercings, jewelry, make up style, type of clothing or ANYTHING that u think is pretty.

I'm actually not very picky on appearance, I just don't like when people go overboard and don't look natural at all. So I'm not a big fan of tattoos and piercings, even if it can be fine when there's not too many. I don't know why, but I really like short sleeved shirts over long sleeved shirts. I just think it's pretty. I don't care about height, age, skin colour, facial hair or makeup when it comes to finding people pretty, but I do have preferences for dating.

2️⃣ What do you think is attractive of CHARACTER and how that person is from feelings and as person? So for example: super confident or shy or caring or like leader, being very smart or social or other things?

How people act doesn't matter to me as long as they are kind and have good morals. I like shy people because they understand me and we don't have to always be talking to be comfortable with each other and I like more outgoing people because they don't mind doing all the talking. Caring is nice because everyone needs comfort sometimes, vulnerable is nice because I like comforting people. And it's always like that, I like both of everything as long as it stays a positive characteristic.

3️⃣ What do u think is most important: looks or character? And is it enough for relationship that u have ONLY attractiveness of looks or character or only both?

Character is definitely more important. If you have only attractiveness, it's fine if you try to improve yourself, but personally I don't want someone pretty but rotten to the core near me. Improve yourself first, then come talk to me. I don't judge much on appearance, because to me my body is just a vessel for my soul and I think it's the same for others, even if they don't believe it too. What's important is to have a good soul, not a pretty vessel, even if it's nice when people are attractive AND good people.

4️⃣ Are u surprised about the study above of the men and women faces and of MAFS that lot of women turned the guys down because of the looks but not the other way??

No, it's getting pretty common nowadays, even if I don't understand why people would prefer dating a person pretty on the outside rather than on the inside. In my opinion it's easier to change your appearance than your personality.

➡️ Have you ever gone out of your way or liked someone who is not even your typee??? (question from @Nishu)

I've never dated someone so not really, but since my type is more about personality than appearance, I don't think I ever will. If you really mean if I'd be willing to go out with someone I don't find pretty, well then I definitely would.

➡️ How would you tell someone that they are attractive, would you tell them right on the spot or keep to for yourself? (question from @Whatsername_)

It depends on if I know the person or not... I wouldn't go up to a stranger and tell them I find them attractive, but for example if I've been friends with someone for a long time and I trust them, I don't see why I wouldn't tell them. Everyone needs a confidence boost sometimes, especially men since they get much less compliments than women, and it's important to feel good about yourself.

➡️ What does it mean for you to consider someone attractive? Is that different from having an objective crush? Or not? (Question from @Colin_Der_Backfisch)

For me it just means I find someone beautiful or handsome. That doesn't mean I want to date the person, it just means I like how they look.

It is very interesting what u wrote @Miss_Penpal!! Maybe a stupid and dumb question: but do guys NEVER give compliments to other guys?? For us is super normal to give compliments to other girls and people will not judge like u have a crush on that person or whatever but they just think it is nice for the compliment but maybe it is not the same for guys to other guys and also not for girls to most guys because maybe people joke about it or that they WOULD say that u have a crush on that guy or u wouldnt give a compliment!! If that is true than i think u are right @Miss_Penpal of what u wrote about the question of Abbyyy @Whatsername_ 🙄🙄🙄

Lianshen: That is a significantly more serious reaction than I intended to provoke. Nevertheless, gratitude for the due consideration of some playful stings. Time permitting I will respond in kind - albeit with the clear warning of not being “confined” by any relevant expertise in the contested area. In the meantime, I can picture the African savanna with female pride members gossiping about the extravagant looks of the resident male coalition of lions. The admiration is a pale comparison with the collective worship of a single female in a large scale ant colony.

It is very interesting what u wrote @Miss_Penpal!! Maybe a stupid and dumb question: but do guys NEVER give compliments to other guys?? For us is super normal to give compliments to other girls and people will not judge like u have a crush on that person or whatever but they just think it is nice for the compliment but maybe it is not the same for guys to other guys and also not for girls to most guys because maybe people joke about it or that they WOULD say that u have a crush on that guy or u wouldnt give a compliment!! If that is true than i think u are right @Miss_Penpal of what u wrote about the question of Abbyyy @Whatsername_ 🙄🙄🙄

I'm not sure because I'm not a guy, but from what I've seen they often joke with each other and call each other ugly. I don't think I've ever heard a guy being complimented, maybe it's because people don't think about it or think it's less meaningful than complimenting a girl. Personally I think that's a bit weird, since everyone can feel bad about themselves and need someone to help them feel better. I don't really mind if people think I have a crush on someone or not, as long as the concerned person knows the truth and it doesn't become awkward.

I'm not sure because I'm not a guy, but from what I've seen they often joke with each other and call each other ugly. I don't think I've ever heard a guy being complimented, maybe it's because people don't think about it or think it's less meaningful than complimenting a girl. Personally I think that's a bit weird, since everyone can feel bad about themselves and need someone to help them feel better. I don't really mind if people think I have a crush on someone or not, as long as the concerned person knows the truth and it doesn't become awkward.

That is true but i think it is also what people expect because if my mom says for example to my aunt that she has very beautiful make up or wearing nice outfit that is normal, but if my dad says for example to my uncle that he looks super pretty it would be also super weird i think!!! 🙄🙄😳