Thank u very much @Paulinahvk and Marie @Txya!!! 🙏🥰🙏 I think from what u write both that u also really love Mexx for Paulina and for Marie the dog of your grandparents in a way that it can break ur heart if they die. 💔 I think it can be the same as like a human person dies how much it hurts because it depends if u love the pet with ur heart like Marie said and also what he or she meant for u.
We have our cat when she died cremated. And we have in our living room an altar and we put pictures of people who died and are family on the altar. And u can put small bowls for foods that they like or drinks and we burn sometimes incense or a candle. That is really important for us. But we also have for our cat Milou a place because we think that she ALSO deserves that even if she is not a human person and my parents also think that way. 🙂
➡️ Do you think that you can miss a pet AS MUCH as a real human person?
I guess it depends on the bond you build with your pet; but I believe it can be missed more than some humans. I think of the animals I grew up with basically everyday.
I guess it depends on the bond you build with your pet; but I believe it can be missed more than some humans. I think of the animals I grew up with basically everyday.
I really think that too @Lianshen!!! Because it depends how close you are and if you have a really close bond that is also possible in the same way with animals. 😊❤️😊
Hiii everybody!! 🙋♀️ Today i just wanted to ask one short question for anybody who maybe wants to answer it and it is because of another forum i saw just a moment ago:
➡️ Do you think that you can miss a pet AS MUCH as a real human person?
For me it is YES but maybe other people think it is exaggerating. And if people think also yes: did that also happen with u? Or if you think no: do u think animals are less important than humans?
Thank u very much for anybody who reads this forum or also posts a comment what they think. 🙏❤️🙏
Yes, and maybe I miss him more than a human being. He was my first pet ever and I loved him more than I loved myself, it's so sad he's gone. His name was Jack and he was a Doberman, he died of oxygen lack and I still can't let go. I probably never will.
Nidhii @Nishu and @Luu_i3 maybe what is nice is if u make in your room a MINI altar with a nice photo that u can put in a frame and perhaps a bowl where u can offer foods or water that he liked. That way he STILL has a place in your room EVERY day and that way everybody knows what he means to u. 😊🥰 One of my friends also made a hanger and there is a mini tube and she put two hairs in it of her pet that died and she carries that sometimes or leaves it hanging in her room at special place. So that can also be a nice idea!!!!! ✨❤️🕯️
Nidhii @Nishu and @Luu_i3 maybe what is nice is if u make in your room a MINI altar with a nice photo that u can put in a frame and perhaps a bowl where u can offer foods or water that he liked. That way he STILL has a place in your room EVERY day and that way everybody knows what he means to u. 😊🥰 One of my friends also made a hanger and there is a mini tube and she put two hairs in it of her pet that died and she carries that sometimes or leaves it hanging in her room at special place. So that can also be a nice idea!!!!! ✨❤️🕯️
That is really good that u thought of that!!!!! 😊❤️😊 IFFF u still have hairs then u can maybe also make the hanger but i would not really wear it outside because u can loose it and maybe then u cant replace. But u can for example leave it next of the altar perhaps or in a drawer with special things for urself that it cant crush or break!!!
Some people really have a deep bond with their animal(s), especially if this animal shows love as we expect, like dogs, cats, parrots, etc… These animals share a special place in their owner’s heart, and when the bond is severed or ended, the heart feels empty. It can feel very sorrowful to lose a pet.
Yes. This is me and my Lil Duke on our last night together after 17 years. I lost him a year ago after my mom dropped him and he was injured. I have been no contact with her since. Some days I still feel like I can't breathe because it hurts so much so deeply not having him here anymore. I didn't get out of bed for almost two months. Hung blackout curtains in entire house and sincerely thought I was going to die from broken heart syndrome. I love him so much and I miss him more than anything in the world.
I am really sorryy to read that @wzahnd1977!! 🥺🥺😢 It is terrible that the accident happen and that you lost Lil Duke. I had a cat and her name was Milou and she also died. What i wrote above what we did with the altar is maybe also something that is good for u and that u in that way STILL take care of Lil Duke. So maybe he had favourite foods and u can put some in a mini bowl for his photo and that u send prayer and leave the foods for him. 🙏✨💞❤️ I saw in the photo that u are super hurt when u hold him and i wish that maybe it would be possible to take the hurt and get it super far away. But i dont know how but if i or ANYBODYY here can do something for u or maybe burn candle or incense for Lil Duke then u can just tell it and we do that. LOTTTTTSSS of heart and nice wishes for u and of course for Lil Duke 🐾⭐🕯️❤️🐾
Thank you I appreciate your kindness and wish you many blessings. I am also sorry about your pet. I wish mine had been an accident, but my mother was my first bully in life and it wasn't an accident. I was there and she was being malicious and thought it would be funny to tease my Duke and he didn't want her touching him and she basically tossed him and he fell upside down in diving position on his neck and though I spent 6 months feeding him pain medication from the vet he deteriorated quickly and I had to put him to sleep. He was 17 years old and couldn't recover from the injuries. She laughed and said oh Im sorry, but she wasn't. She's a hateful spiteful being and Im glad she's out of my life, I just wish I hadn't had Duke with me when I saw her that day. I'll never get the yelp he let out when he hit the ground that day out of my head. Sorry, I don't mean to unload. To answer your question though other than my two children that are grown and my new fur baby Scooter there's no one or nothing I love more than Duke. And I do have a memorial shelf with a slideshow photo frame, his ashes and the vet made a clay paw print for me and saved some of his fur in a glass miniature jar and it does help having the memorial shelf.
Thank you I appreciate your kindness and wish you many blessings. I am also sorry about your pet. I wish mine had been an accident, but my mother was my first bully in life and it wasn't an accident. I was there and she was being malicious and thought it would be funny to tease my Duke and he didn't want her touching him and she basically tossed him and he fell upside down in diving position on his neck and though I spent 6 months feeding him pain medication from the vet he deteriorated quickly and I had to put him to sleep. He was 17 years old and couldn't recover from the injuries. She laughed and said oh Im sorry, but she wasn't. She's a hateful spiteful being and Im glad she's out of my life, I just wish I hadn't had Duke with me when I saw her that day. I'll never get the yelp he let out when he hit the ground that day out of my head. Sorry, I don't mean to unload. To answer your question though other than my two children that are grown and my new fur baby Scooter there's no one or nothing I love more than Duke. And I do have a memorial shelf with a slideshow photo frame, his ashes and the vet made a clay paw print for me and saved some of his fur in a glass miniature jar and it does help having the memorial shelf.
Sincerely,
Wendy
Hii wendy!!! That is really terrible what happened and i think cruel if she does that without accident. And i think if u knew that u had to put him in a sleep then the last night u really KNOWW that it is the last night and i would not be able to sleep and ONLY hold him super close all the time. 💔💔❤️🩹 I dont really know what i can write that maybe u feel less pain BUTTT i do have a nice idea. And that is because what you wrote yourself!! I really like what u said about the photo frame and ashes and the print. But u said that u also have some fur in the glass. Maybe u can take 1 hair out and u put it in a super small mini bottle with a necklace and u can wear it so EVEN if u go outside then he is always still with u!!!!! 🌈🌞 Perhaps that is nice to do if maybe a jewelry shop can make it for u? I hope that maybe it is a nice idea!! 🙏🙏🥰
About 7 months ago I lost Cleo, my first ever cat. She was really affectionate and a small round corron ball. She had a really strong anemia, but our veterinarian refused to test her because he thought It wasnt necessary. To this day I still regret not changing veterinarias, perhaps she would be alive today and with me.
About 7 months ago I lost Cleo, my first ever cat. She was really affectionate and a small round corron ball. She had a really strong anemia, but our veterinarian refused to test her because he thought It wasnt necessary. To this day I still regret not changing veterinarias, perhaps she would be alive today and with me.
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Sorryy if it is a stupid question but what is anemia?? And im really sorryy that u lost Cleo. I think that the photo is really nice like it is a birthday hat!! 🥳🥳 BUTTTT now Cleo is also in this forum forever and so it is nice to remember her in a nice way. 🙏❤️🙏
Sorryy if it is a stupid question but what is anemia?? And im really sorryy that u lost Cleo. I think that the photo is really nice like it is a birthday hat!! 🥳🥳 BUTTTT now Cleo is also in this forum forever and so it is nice to remember her in a nice way. 🙏❤️🙏
Its a blood disease, she had lower red cells count in her blood, so she had troubles oxigenating her system. Basically she died from asphyxia, more or less
Hii wendy!!! That is really terrible what happened and i think cruel if she does that without accident. And i think if u knew that u had to put him in a sleep then the last night u really KNOWW that it is the last night and i would not be able to sleep and ONLY hold him super close all the time. 💔💔❤️🩹 I dont really know what i can write that maybe u feel less pain BUTTT i do have a nice idea. And that is because what you wrote yourself!! I really like what u said about the photo frame and ashes and the print. But u said that u also have some fur in the glass. Maybe u can take 1 hair out and u put it in a super small mini bottle with a necklace and u can wear it so EVEN if u go outside then he is always still with u!!!!! 🌈🌞 Perhaps that is nice to do if maybe a jewelry shop can make it for u? I hope that maybe it is a nice idea!! 🙏🙏🥰
Yes, she is cruel. I love the idea of a necklace, I'll definitely see if I can find one for his fur on Etsy. And yes because I knew it was his last night I got him his favorite nuggets from McDonald's and after I held him and didn't sleep the entire night. I turned on the music and sang to him held him close and danced gently around the room and whispered to him how much he meant to me and how much i loved him and told him thank you for everything he did to be such a loyal loving best friend. And that he was such a handsome Lil Man and that momma was going to miss him so much. It breaks me inside.
