🥰 FIRST love ❤️

Helloooo everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I really wanted to make this forum before the vacation next week and read what others think abt the topic. 🙄🙄 Thank u very much everybody who wants to answer these questions or just write and post what u want and think. 🙏🙏❤️🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

I am really curious what ppl say and think and hope that ppl answer even if u did NOTTT have a first relationship just what u think abt some of the things above or if u had like a LOTTTT of relationships. Thank u very much for posting what u think and i really want to read every post. 🙏🙏⭐🌸

❣️ Hugggsss and thanks from Yue ❣️

Helloooo everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I really wanted to make this forum before the vacation next week and read what others think abt the topic. 🙄🙄 Thank u very much everybody who wants to answer these questions or just write and post what u want and think. 🙏🙏❤️🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

I am really curious what ppl say and think and hope that ppl answer even if u did NOTTT have a first relationship just what u think abt some of the things above or if u had like a LOTTTT of relationships. Thank u very much for posting what u think and i really want to read every post. 🙏🙏⭐🌸

❣️ Hugggsss and thanks from Yue ❣️

Helloooo this is Anette btw but on a new acc heh, but imma get straight onto the questions lmao

1. My first relationship was so buns, I dated this guy I really liked, but then he broke up with me the next day because he liked my friend more 😭 ✋

2. NO, I don't anymore, and I am glad I don't talk to him anymore 😼

3. I told him I liked him and he did too so we started dating, but we never went out on dates or anything lmao

4. Well, I didn't really knew but he gave out signs like talking to me more often and he was really sweet and energetic guy

5. uhh idk really lol

6. i kinda did but it was pretty swag and special

7. nothing at all left, threw away notes we both had.

8. we never kissed or anything but we did hug, and we never talked about our feelings

9. 1 day :sob: lmao

10. Yes very much different

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

I was all in back at the time, but I was young and stupid and didn't realise what all was wrong. I was heartbroken when I got dumped, but looking back on it, it was a good thing it did end. Probably should have never started in the first place.

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

No, haven't seen or heard since.

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

We went to the same high school together and were friends before. It was a sort of a slippery slope from being just friends to being a couple.

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

I can't recall specifics, but it was eventually talked out.

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

My first relationship was such a mess I'm not sure it was every more than a crush. I was more serious about being together, but the relationship was so brief it never had the chance to turn into deeper feelings. According to brain chemistry, every relationship that lasts less than 3 years is just a crush and I tend to agree. Deeper feelings only come with time.

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

If I could choose again, I don't think I would get into it second time.

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

A few small bits and bobs somewhere. It was a relationship anyways and even if it wasn't such a good one, there were good moments. Plus, I learned a lot about myself and about relationships because of that.

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

Back in the day it was really hard for me to talk about just about anything, I had so much trauma package, but we tried. I was nervous all the time. There was kissing and more.

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

around two years, we lived together for a bit too in rented student housing.

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

A lot of things. More communication, more planning. But also taking care that I also keep my own limits and don't agree to do things that harm me on some foolhardy notion that one is supposed to, if one loves someone. A bad lesson I learned from home, sadly, and it took some time to unlearn that.

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

Don't rush with love. The first infatuation phase can be magical, it can feel absolutely bewitching and like your feet don't ever touch the ground. Enjoy that magic, but don't tie yourself down during that phase. If you want to live together, make sure there's an easy exit, a way to just pack up and go, if things don't work out. No communal property, at least not the kind you can't afford to lose. No legal bonds that are costly to dissolve like marriage and absolutely no kids, because those will tie you together for decades, even if it turns out your partner was just playing you. Just getting to know each other, in bad days and in good days, particularly the bad days. To see if your companion is capable of communication, willing to work on their shortcomings (everyone has those). Also be willing to work on your own shortcomings to become better. The infatuation/crush phase lasts up to 5 years, wait until that's over until you start to build a future together. You'll know it's over when the other person starts to really annoy you :-D If you still want to stay together, despite the annoyances, then you might have something.

Watching out for red flags obviously.

But also, make yourself relationship-ready. Learn to talk about anything. If you blush at the mention of talking about what kind of sex you like, you are not ready for a relationship. If you can't talk about your most painful childhood memory and how it has made certain things hard for you in life, you are not ready for a relationship. If you can't see when another person is in pain and put your own aside for that moment to comfort them, you are not ready for a relationship. If you can't show your own pain and don't know how to receive comfort, you aren't really ready either, but depending on your level of difficulty, this might be possible to work on during a relationship. In any case, you will need to work on it, to make your relationship work. If you can't understand that in a relationship, you will carry not only your own problems but also those of your partner, you are not ready for a relationship. Work on yourself first, because if you don't have relationship skills, you will never have a good relationship, not even with the perfect partner.

@miloo and @AN3TT3 thank u very much for answering the questions!!! Alsooo @Azryffel thank u very much for answering!!🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰 I really wanna reply but it is now super late and must go to sleep now. But will comment tomorrow too bc i really want to know thoughts abt this!!! 🙄🙄 Thnxxx very much you both and everybody who replies!!! ⭐🌈🏆

Hey my Name is Daniel, 33 from Germany. Let's get started with this. Those are all very interesting and deep questions. I'll do my best to answer as simple as it's possible.

1. The first love in my Opinion is always something special and defines how you feel and think about love in the future. It was very special

2. I don't have contact with her anymore. We got together when She was 14 and I was 16.

3 and 4. We had a crush on each other for one year but noone noticed it until both our best friends talked to each other and told both of us. Then we committed ourself to eachother.

5. We were really good friends until we became partners. I was very blind to her signs and her aswell. Later in our relationship we told each other that we didn't want to ruin our friendship so we never spoke honestly about our feelings until well....we did. We flirted with each other but both uf us were blind to those signs haha

6. If everything would gone the same way I wouldn't want to repeat it. To keep it short: She was pregnant 3 years into our relationship but she was too young So her parents pushed her to abortion. That basically ruined our relationship although we stayed together for 3 more years and we wanted to marry to. But the pain was to much for me. I couldn't bear the loss and the fact that someone else "killed" my child. It was a huge drama with her parents although I always respected their decision. Their daughter was in their full interest but again. I couldn't live with it and it kept coming back and backstabbed not only my feelings for her but also my relationship with her whole family.

7. I still have the engagement ring and some letters in my basement somewhere.

8. I had almost every "first time" in that relationship. From kiss to vacation, argument, Tears and at the end Heartbreak and Hardship. I was extremely nervous to open up my feelings to her because her friendship meant alot to me and I saw friends become partners and it ended with beeing no friends at all anymore. But growing up I can tell you there's no greater Pain than the Pain of regret. The pain of things you didn't do or didnt say. If you think you'll regret not opening up. Just do it. That's something very personal and people can tell you what to do. At the end it's your decision and your regret as well.

9. The relationship Lasted 6 years until I opened up about my pain and my loss. Soon as I opened the door wasn't only open. It felt like I kicked the door out of the angle. I saw Loss and Pain everywhere and couldn't recover from that. I broke up after a big fight with her family and her aswell. I never turned back and I don't regret. It had to happen for me to be lucky again and to be able to go on again.

10. Now I really sit down and talk facts with my partners before I commit. I don't want to feel this kind of pain again anymore so I have to be careful and honest about that.

My Tip: Well according to your profile you're only 14 so I won't bother you with tips I learned from growing up. That's all up to you and it's very personal so be curious and be honest. Not just with others but especially with yourself. If you want to do something then do it. But don't complain later that you didn't think it through. Every decision has it's consequences whether they are positive or negative. It's your decision of course how you respond to life and it's never to late to change something or change the whole course.

That's all for now. I'm happy if there's anything in my Answers that helped you. Keep going and I wish you the best.

Greetings from Germany

Helloooo everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I really wanted to make this forum before the vacation next week and read what others think abt the topic. 🙄🙄 Thank u very much everybody who wants to answer these questions or just write and post what u want and think. 🙏🙏❤️🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

I am really curious what ppl say and think and hope that ppl answer even if u did NOTTT have a first relationship just what u think abt some of the things above or if u had like a LOTTTT of relationships. Thank u very much for posting what u think and i really want to read every post. 🙏🙏⭐🌸

❣️ Hugggsss and thanks from Yue ❣️

1. My first relationship was not my first real love. First relationship, a long time ago, was all discovery of feelings, contacts, awakening of something in me. But it was not meant to last. It was also first experiment with being left aside and feeling the pain of loosing the magical things in the relation. First love came later, unconditional, a sun opening in me each time my eyes met her eyes. It never went beyond exchanging eyesight, speaking, walking side by side. The differences between us was a bridge that could not be crossed by the then 21 yo me, or by her for that matter.

2. No, none of the 2

3. For the first relationship, she did the first step. For the first love, it was strange. I was then often working on a project with a fellow female student. Her parents weren't too found of that so asked the older sister to keep an eye on us. And sure she kept an eye on me, and I soon had an eye on her .

4-5. First relationship : Did she have a real crush or was she just trying to find some perfect thing I was not ? First love : it was like suddenly I had sailed in a calm place, as if the structure of the air had changed, and as if a new light was embracing me. Her voice, her eyes changed, and so probably did mine.

6 No and No . For the first relationship, I would be very suspicious from the start and probably build a wall immediately. For the first love, would that happen again to me , I would say things , show things, make steps not to let her slip away, and be done with these questions of cultural differences that create clusters in which we are supposed to stay.

7 No

8 First relationship : yes, and she was very talkative First love : no and we were both terribly shy

9: First relation ship : Started on Christmas, ended the first day of the summer exam session. First love : never started but we were in contact for 3 years

10: Of course. I'm now in a moment of questioning. Age, divorce etc. Until November I even had come to consider my sentimental life was a thing of the past. But then for some reason I discovered something still alive in me. Actually very similar to what I was so long ago, but built on so many things learnt and unlearnt. Can't do much with it though, but it was a positive surprise to find a part pf me would still welcome that other very special person and one never knows whether that empty space will forever stay empty.

Tip : say things as they are, with you heart, with your soul. Write them. Don't exaggerate them, don't inflate them but don't build yourself the chains that limit you. If a person can't hear your feelings and cuts contact with you, then it's not the right person, it's not even a friend. A friend can hear you feel love for them and can tell you it's just friendship without hurting you, because your love is nevertheless precious to them, just it is a friend, not as a lover. But don't be ashamed of having welcomed another in your heart.

First of all, i really wanted to thank Annette @miloo, @Azryffel, @DanielJ92 and @-Phil- for posting answers and what they think!!!!! ❤️😊😊🤗 For me it is really special bc the topic is really important for me to read abt what others think and it does not happen often that ppl really take so much time to write very nice answers. And im really thankful for that a LOTTT!!!! I read everything now and want to respond but i will do that one after each other bc i want to take time for that too and also bc i have to do one thing in the morning first now!!! 😛 😛

BUTTT for Annette i have a question: u said that if u have a relationship now that u would do some things really different. Can i maybe ask what u mean like what wud u do differently? Is it only bc it was super short? I think that he made a mistake bc if it is for a day he is not serious and i think u deserve a LOTTT more bc i know how u are from here and i think that u deserve someone that KNOWS that too and treats u nicely and not only for a day. And abt that u didnt talk abt feelings: it is one of the things that i think is most scary bc u really have NOOO idea how he wud react and thinks of it. Bc if u talk abt feelings u also show it in a way that he can know how u are weak and it makes me feel really unsure for if u have a relationship. So i understand what u said and meant with it.

Sorryyy Azruffel, Daniel and Phil i really want to reply to u too but not in super hasty way so i will do that later today when im not disturbed!! 🌸✨🌈✨

Hi everyone, that’s Nik from Italy

1) Really great and happy… till the break down, u know 😂😂

2) Absolutely not but sometimes happens that i see her or someone talk to me about her. And i’m glad that i don’t talk to her anymore!

3) I asked first, cuz she was dating another guy before me but luckily I become more important for her 😂. We had multiple dates and, after a while, I asked to her (during a walk in the trees)

4) Maybe the way she was looking at me and also the topics of our talks… it’s more a feeling, so it’s difficult to explain

5) By my side, the desire to pass more time with her and also do more things

6) NO, if i’d choose i’ll never do that again with her. We broke up cuz I discovered some things about her and from that moment i kinda disperect her

7) Yeah, i’ve one photo and a mail… she sended me somes and I still have one. Sometimes i think if it’s good to have these gifts and idk…. Maybe i’ll trash it

8) Yeah we kissed, and talked about a lot of deep things but… i learned to be more careful. Firstly it was difficult, then easier

9) 1 year and some days… yeah, we broke up after the happiest day

10) Yeah, ofc. U can learn a lot of things about ur relationships and, in my opinion, u can improve ur self in some ways. Obv, u can also be worse 🙂🙂

TIPS) before ur relation with someone, be sure of the things that he/she saying. If u have to trust someone for a while, he/she must be the right one

Enjoy ur life friends!!!

Thnxxx very much for what u wrote @Azryffel!!! 🙏🙏😊😊 I had to think abt some things that u wrote bc u are i think right abt that u must be able to talk abt a LOTTTT of things or it is difficult in a relationship. BUTTTT it is also really difficult to talk abt those things bc u dont want to make mistakes or that they think in a wrong way abt u or think that u are super weak. Or if u dont know each other really well that maybe he can gossip abt u with his friends if u tell ur feelings to him. 😬🙄

And i think maybe for guys often they have less feelings but that they sometimes want to have a relationship so they can just brag with friends abt it or that they only want some things but not really care for u REALLY. But if u are not ready for things that they can also be super pushyy and i think that in that way they have maybe less feelings and u cant tell that or dont know what they think exactly. So it is also really scary to do that or how to start to talk abt really important things.

And abt what u said after 3 years and ur brain i thought that in the beginning it is the strongest and maybe the biggest love u feel and that sometimes it gets less after that and ppl break up or it stays strong or sometimes it DOEESSS get less but also u still really ❤️ each other.

Thank u for writing and really also taking time for it @DanielJ92!!! I was super shocked abt what u told abt the pregnancy bc i did not expect it when i was reading what u wrote. And also the abortion that is terrible!!!!! I reallyyy dont want things like that now but if u ARE pregnant i dont think i could do that bc i would blame myself for whole my life and i just could not do that. It would not happen now of course but i just couldnt do that if somehow that was the case now. 🥺🥺 But it can also be other way around that u cant do it but that ur bf or maybe ur parents and others push it. That would also be very horrible bc still i would blame myself for that always i think. 🙄

I do have a lot of friends IRL but they are from different groups like school and from my sport and also where i live. But i dont really have friends IRL who are guys bc it would make me feel also unsure. I know that is really stupid and that others have friends who are guys or other way around. But it is just different i think and it is MUCHHH more difficult to know why they want to be friends with u like that and if they mean it. So if u share super personal things u dont really know what they REALLY think abt it. And also if they even really care or not. And at least in our class but also in our school guys just talk really different and abt other stuff so it is LOTTT more difficult to talk abt things that u both like.

Btw i think it is really beautiful what u said abt the biggest pain is regret and not if u do things and that it does not go well. BUTTTT i think also that if u feel pain from regret it is WORSE if u dont do it bc u are too nervous or scared of it. Bc that way u feel EXTRA bad abt urself and that u feel weak too. So i think what u said is right but it is also difficult.

@-Phil- and @Niko_Formi i will write later also back to u and im really thankful that u wrote and took the time for it!!! So thank u very much!!!! 🙏🙏❤️

Questions:

1️⃣ Despite that I fell in love but I have never had a relationship. I can’t say that’s good or bad but that’s the fact

2️⃣ We aren’t in contact and I believe that’s the best thing which can be in this situation.

3️⃣ We were spending time together at university. But the time when we go out i think should not happen and I still regret about it.

4️⃣ I think it was more in the gazes which we have. I still remember how he looked at me.

5️⃣ Maybe when we started to spend time together more and more. It was so silent but at the same time I was overwhelmed. Almost at the end he confessed that he was such in love with me that he couldn’t fall asleep. I dint know was that true or no, but at least somehow init sounds sweet. Maybe that is only good part in this story.

6️⃣ I would not do it again. But maybe I am grateful for all good feelings which I experience.

7️⃣ I have some screens

8️⃣ We have never kissed. But we talk about our feelings.

9️⃣ The story was around 5 month, but everything was developing so slowly. We first just met each other, after we had moments when we accidentally met each other. More time was passing we started to spend time together. In one moment I started to feel that there is something wring with it. And these doubts were making me to feel worse and worse; because I saw the he was interested in me and we were spending time together, he accompanied me home etc etc. And in one day he finally confessed me in love but also said the he has a fiancée… I was completely destroyed.

🔟 I wish not to develop all these feelings. Because if I knew I wouldn’t continue to communicate with this person.

➡️ I don’t know can I give a tip or anything but somehow I am sharing a part of my story. It started so nice somehow, when you meet someone in real life and step by step you start to communicate and you both like each other. This is a fantastic feeling. First I thought he hates me and I was hating him hahahah and do it again rn but between it was something nice. However the amount of this «nice» can’t cover all the pain which I had after because of him. He never mentioned the he had a girlfriend/fiancée and was continuing to communicate with me and become closer..

Recently I saw him again and all of this pain rises again..

Helloooo everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I really wanted to make this forum before the vacation next week and read what others think abt the topic. 🙄🙄 Thank u very much everybody who wants to answer these questions or just write and post what u want and think. 🙏🙏❤️🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

I am really curious what ppl say and think and hope that ppl answer even if u did NOTTT have a first relationship just what u think abt some of the things above or if u had like a LOTTTT of relationships. Thank u very much for posting what u think and i really want to read every post. 🙏🙏⭐🌸

❣️ Hugggsss and thanks from Yue ❣️

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

I would say my first only relationship was happy and maybe a little rushed. It felt really special in a lot of ways but at the same time I kind of knew that it wouldn't last. To be honest I'm not even sure my feelings ever developed into love or if they stayed in the crush/liking stage.

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

No I don't. We still share some friends though so I do know that he's doing good and may even have gotten a new girlfriend so I'm very happy for him.

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

He was the one who asked me. We went to this youth club together and had been getting pretty close over a few months. It all started when he got a book I had recommended for Christmas and we started texting about it. It soon developed to us texting every day. After a few months he asked @Vixie if he should confess to me (I didn't know he did this) to which she of course said yes. So one evening at the youth club we were playing table tennis when he told me he liked me. It was so bad cause I actually didn't hear what he said the first time so he had to repeat himself (poor boy😅). But anyway I ended up answering that I felt the same and that was about it.

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

Well I was completely blind to it as so many others but now that I look back there were a lot of signs like him texting me good morning and goodnight everyday, helping me every time I asked or always sitting next to me if possible.

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

To be honest I'm still not sure what my feelings really were but I like do believe that they were bigger than a crush. But what do I know, I had never even had a crush before him so even my experience with that was limited🙈

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

I would never regret it as it was great for the most part. I don't think I would have any problem with doing it again but I think I would try to be better at expressing myself.

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

I do still have and use the jewelry box, earrings and the necklace that he gave me as all of those were something that really fit me or are very useful. I also don't like the idea of the things he used money on just collecting dust even though we're not together.

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

I did have my first kiss with him (again if I can call him my first love) but we didn't really talk a lot about feelings as that is something I can often struggle with even though I'm getting better. I think one of the reasons we didn't really talk about our feelings was because he were vocal about loving me and I said it back even when I was unsure of what I was feeling. So he thought we were completely on the same page, and though I do think we were on the same page at some points I should definitely have been more open about my uncertainty.

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

It lasted almost exactly one year which I honestly think is pretty impressive considering I was only 14 when we got together.

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

I would take it more slowly and maybe go on more dates as I kind of missed doing stuff together and not just laying and talking or watching movies even though it was fun.

1️⃣ Se te penset a la prima relaziun a luungh termin, dirìa che l’è stada una relaziun de cressita

2️⃣ No son minga en cuntatt

3️⃣ Erum di cullegh, l’eri apena rivà de un mes, g’ho capì subit che l’era interesà a mi

4️⃣ Quand una tüsa cerca püsee volt un cuntatt fisich, significa che l’è atirada

5️⃣ L’è minga passà tant ànn, me regordi minga el mument indue me son curgiü che l’era minga una schisciada

6️⃣ G’ho no di pentiment ma g’ho certament capì che un òmm g’ha de seguir i sò istint

7️⃣ Fin a dü ànn fa g’ho avü una billetta de 10€ cun el sò basin fatt cunt el rusett e dopu g’ho scambià chela billetta a l’Avana

8️⃣ Vœut dì prima amor, o qui tipi de schiscià che g’he quand set anca mò piscinin? Quand l’eri piscinin, g’ho avü una schiera (da piscinin, i tüsan se incuntraven sultant a l’oratorio e a scöla)

9️⃣ La mia prima relaziun seria l’è durada 4 an

🔟 Seguo püsee i me istint

1️⃣ Se te penset a la prima relaziun a luungh termin, dirìa che l’è stada una relaziun de cressita

2️⃣ No son minga en cuntatt

3️⃣ Erum di cullegh, l’eri apena rivà de un mes, g’ho capì subit che l’era interesà a mi

4️⃣ Quand una tüsa cerca püsee volt un cuntatt fisich, significa che l’è atirada

5️⃣ L’è minga passà tant ànn, me regordi minga el mument indue me son curgiü che l’era minga una schisciada

6️⃣ G’ho no di pentiment ma g’ho certament capì che un òmm g’ha de seguir i sò istint

7️⃣ Fin a dü ànn fa g’ho avü una billetta de 10€ cun el sò basin fatt cunt el rusett e dopu g’ho scambià chela billetta a l’Avana

8️⃣ Vœut dì prima amor, o qui tipi de schiscià che g’he quand set anca mò piscinin? Quand l’eri piscinin, g’ho avü una schiera (da piscinin, i tüsan se incuntraven sultant a l’oratorio e a scöla)

9️⃣ La mia prima relaziun seria l’è durada 4 an

🔟 Seguo püsee i me istint

I LOVE this! 😍

I LOVE this! 😍

I actually want to react to what @Chantal- said bc i made a LOTTTT of forums (sorryyyy for making maybe too manyyy 😛 😛) BUTTTT this is already one of my most favourite forums. That is bc both friends of me and also ppl i didnt chat with yet or know post and really take time for it to write what they say. And i think it is bc is a really important topic and everybody has maybe had a crush or really also first relationship and love. So it does not matter who u are or how old or where or ANYTHING bc it is a topic of everybody.

Im sorry bc i promised to react to everybody and i really want that and i will but im just too tired now and it is super late already. I really want to thank also @Olenaaaa, Mr. Gandalf @Lir_Elhan, Vibe @Vibxen, @lucasar92 and @Chantal- for posting. The topic was in my head for some time and i prefer not to tell why yet bc i want find one thing out first. And what i read from others sometimes was really shocking some things like abt the abortion and also abt what @Olenaaaa wrote abt him having even a fiancee!!! That is all super hurtful and when i read some tips i also feel maybe bit dumb bc some things i know but also others i did not even THINK abt that at all.

I wanna read some things tomorrow again even although i did that already more than once. I am really really thankful for everybody who took time and helped!!!! 🙏⭐🏆🥰

My first muse of adoration was “conquered” when I was 6 years old. Unaware of proper norms of chivalrous behaviour, I swapped panini stickers with her at a 1-1 rate rather than using a heavily discounted 20-1 ratio to favour my captivating date. This lack of social awareness was tolerated – as applied to my porcupine alike haircut which was in vogue at the time.

Helloooo everybody!! 🙋‍♀️ I really wanted to make this forum before the vacation next week and read what others think abt the topic. 🙄🙄 Thank u very much everybody who wants to answer these questions or just write and post what u want and think. 🙏🙏❤️🥰

Questions:

1️⃣ If u had a first love: how was it to have a first relationship?

2️⃣ Do you still have contact with that person? And if yes: do u still speak often?

3️⃣ Who asked the other and what happened? Like did u go on a date first maybe or maybe hang or eat ice cream or go to the cinema?

4️⃣ How did u know that the person was having a crush on u?

5️⃣ How do u know that it is not only a crush that u had but that u had much bigger feelings? Im really curious what ppl think abt this!

6️⃣ Did u regret your first relationship or would you do that again if you could choose?

7️⃣ Do u still have things from ur first relationship like maybe a gift or photos or things like cinema ticket or smt else like sweet notes?

8️⃣ Did u kiss with ur first love and talk also abt ur feelings with that person of each other? Was it difficult to talk or were u not nervous but just super relaxed?

9️⃣ How long did ur first relationship last?

🔟 Are there things u do now very differently than with ur first love?

➡️ Do you maybe have a nice tip or smt else to say or a question that i must add to the list?

I am really curious what ppl say and think and hope that ppl answer even if u did NOTTT have a first relationship just what u think abt some of the things above or if u had like a LOTTTT of relationships. Thank u very much for posting what u think and i really want to read every post. 🙏🙏⭐🌸

❣️ Hugggsss and thanks from Yue ❣️

haiii i had a first love they both broke up with me and got with my friends

I actually want to react to what @Chantal- said bc i made a LOTTTT of forums (sorryyyy for making maybe too manyyy 😛 😛) BUTTTT this is already one of my most favourite forums. That is bc both friends of me and also ppl i didnt chat with yet or know post and really take time for it to write what they say. And i think it is bc is a really important topic and everybody has maybe had a crush or really also first relationship and love. So it does not matter who u are or how old or where or ANYTHING bc it is a topic of everybody.

Im sorry bc i promised to react to everybody and i really want that and i will but im just too tired now and it is super late already. I really want to thank also @Olenaaaa, Mr. Gandalf @Lir_Elhan, Vibe @Vibxen, @lucasar92 and @Chantal- for posting. The topic was in my head for some time and i prefer not to tell why yet bc i want find one thing out first. And what i read from others sometimes was really shocking some things like abt the abortion and also abt what @Olenaaaa wrote abt him having even a fiancee!!! That is all super hurtful and when i read some tips i also feel maybe bit dumb bc some things i know but also others i did not even THINK abt that at all.

I wanna read some things tomorrow again even although i did that already more than once. I am really really thankful for everybody who took time and helped!!!! 🙏⭐🏆🥰

I still believe that I can meet someone where I’ll have only a good story. But talking about this situation, I had some good memories, I’ve discovered other side of me. If this never happened I wouldn’t meet other people and also wouldn’t go to Paris to do an internship there (the lore is - I wanted to escape the city where I used to live). Let’s see what happens next