Sometimes that goes on my nerves, i do know one guy that is always giving advices. You should do that, you should do that, and i never even ask him for advice.
ignore him if he goes on your nerves, even if he trys to be helpfull, ore you must say 'STOP'!
Sometimes that goes on my nerves, i do know one guy that is always giving advices. You should do that, you should do that, and i never even ask him for advice.
depends, if it comes to person who i dislike, because I know they are tone deaf and i also know they has a different background from me, and I feel that their advice is not quite right, but they keeps giving advice, it's truly annoying. especially if they suddenly gives advice at the wrong moment.
but, I also like advice, if I really need an explanation, answer, or another pov, and it comes to person i like or i respect.
Most of the time, I think they're kind, since they're supposed to be helpful... But I wonder if they realize that most advice is like a square pig in the round hole of our problems. I think the best alternative to giving advice is a sort of Socratic Maieutics. Which is to reason with the other person to help them find a solution that, however, comes from them. However, I too sometimes get unsolicited advice but I only notice it too late! Oops
Although an advice is distilled form of experiences, I find such people as lighthouses working in daylight. Light is appreciated in dark, stormy moments only.
I think people who give advices are usually caring people they want you to not to fall in same mistake they did fall into , anyway you are not forced to take the advice or do as people tell you cause most of the time the advice is asked not given Free
